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Ishilove:
Receiving. We are women and we both know the kind of activities that go on down there. I think it's unclean for anyone to stick his mouth down there and lap up things

That is why it's advisable to always keep that place clean. It's better to receive head immediately after bathing. Giving head has health benefits to the giver too.

mhisbliss:
Lmao the thought of butts having sockets is so hilarious, Na joint?

The thought just came to my head when I saw the picture.

DrinkLimca:
Very correct,, ladies that receives steady heads,, are the healthiest..

We're always happy.

Cc Twoclans.

Twoclans:
cc makydebbie

Drinklimca understands, a head a day keeps the doctor away.

adetoroamos:
you too like head gan, I guess if ur bf isn't good at it you will dump his ass i swaer

Lol, yea.

Twoclans:
Abeg dont mind dj khalid.

Just like you said i better mind my business this beautifull morning .

Exactly babe, this is not our business/problem.

A beautiful breathtakingly and heart-stopping head fall on you this beautiful morning.

NLevents:

Lol

Ishilove:
I think it's awkward

You're talking about giving or receiving?
I think it's the most beautiful thing about fore.play.

Ishilove:
Let there be no head. It's disgusting

Different strokes. It's important to me.

Dj Khalid, do you know two heads are better than one round?

Different strokes for different folks I guess. Imagine expecting head from your woman and you won't give her head. Let me mind my business abeg.

Hmm..
Interesting question, funny answers.

Women feel that way for many reasons. Though, I'm not justifying it, just answering your questions.

Firstly, the behavior of sex starved men. Have you seen a man whose dick has taken the place of his brain? Where a guy will go to just to have you in bed, if he puts such enthusiasm and hard work into his hustle, he'll make it. I don't need to say more.

Secondly, it seems guys are just the ones enjoying this sex thing, when most guys underrate fore.play. Because, once a guy cums, that's the end of the round. And if the woman hasn't cum that's the end of her sex session or hopes for the big O. So when the sex is one sided, the woman will definitely feel she's doing you a favor after all you're the one cumming and having fun. So being a selfish guy in bed is a contributing factor because they're doing it to keep you happy.

Most men have prioritize sex that a woman would think they can't do without it. Hence, them blackmailing or twisting situations to their favor because they have your mumu button after all.


Lastly, if sex is taken as a big deal in a relationship and that's why she may think that's needed to keep the relationship going especially when this sex is one sided like I said, that is; the man enjoying it alone. She may think that's the only way she can please her man.

mhisbliss:
Why is he grabbing her butt like the way hungry lagos touts grab fresh agege bread

He wants to remove it out of its socket.

dominique:

Thought I was the only one o even here on Nairaland. If I see a post ridden with abbreviations, I just jump and pass.

Me too even here. Imagine someone quoting me using shorthand, I'll just like and share so you'll know I noticed you, because I cannot come and kill myself.

Uyiii:
my only problem right now is the name tagged to the prophet.
which one is eagle prophet again, then his wife will be super falcons or golden eaglet abii

Ghanaians still get their own problem sha.
makydebbie, abeg con carry your people comot here.

Make I take them go naija abi?

I don't understand some people.

You've twenty six letters of the alphabet on your keyboard, yet you can't type in full? What is your excuse? Are you mad?

I can't chat with people who type this way. Because I can't fry my brain for every sentence you type. Mtcheew.

When you finish cumming, you'll know.

Following...

To the oldies, good evening Sirs and Mas.

Can you explain the "everything" you've done?

XhosaNostra:
Yes!

Some people will never get it, because like you said, we're products of different upbringing. Unless told otherwise, you cannot just put up your feet & relax in someone's house without lending a helping hand in some way. Don't you feel uncomfortable watching someone else run around trying to cater to you? The least you can do is clean up afterwards! Simple.
To each their own, I guess. Shrugs.

Exactly. Till today, if my mum and I go to visit her friend, she doesn't need to tell me to wash our plates before I do it. That's how she trained us. To each their own jare.
Have a lovely day.

XhosaNostra:
End of story. It's called earning your keep or pitching in. You can't expect to be waited on hand & foot. Show gratitude for someone else's hospitality by doing the least you can do under the circumstances. It's not much.

Exactly. I don't how hard it is to understand.
Especially if it's the first time, how do you want me to invite you over to come and make a mess you'll not clean? Am I santa-claus or something? Na wa oh.
People don't understand little things like this matter, it's a subtle way of saying thanks for having me.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
So that's how all your visitors do. They mess up your house when they come? I dint think any normal visitor so mess up a clean house. And I don't think any host would allow his visitor to go into their kitchen and was the plate they at in. We are talking about a first time visitor Who has never come to your house. I don't think I would allow a visitor to do that in my house. So eating in your house means messing up the place. You washed the plates cos you wanted to. And the person in quest aas your in law.

Definitely, I'll cook for my visitor. It depends on our level of friendship if we'll cook together and I'll just cook for you. Courtesy demands you'll clean up your mess. I don't know for others but that's how I was brought up.

@ allowing your first visitor to your kitchen. My dear, it depends on the vibe after all. If we've been chatting for months and we eventually meet, what do we need protocol for? I don't allow people I'm not comfortable with to my house. Most of my female friends, once they come, we're cooking together.

Gangster1ms:
U get sense.. i like you too now

Gangster1ms:
I like you times two now

Hahahaha

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Theres nothing wrong in cleaning a place if you messed it up if if you are a first time visitor. And there's also nothing wrong if you tell your visitor to just relax while you clean up the plates you used in serving him or her food. I can't allow my friend even a female who just visited for the first time to wash plates just because she ate from them not to talk of a guy washing plates unused to serve him food. Now if it was take away food that they got from a restaurant that will be more easy because there will be no outs to wash. Just to trash the take easy pack and wash off the glasses. Is that what you can't do for your visitor.
She didn't sleep over and might have been a shy person being her first time. I would have blamed the girl if she slept over or had been his girlfriend for sometime.
Some girls will offer to even do your laundry and now at your feeta at their first visit. While some like me won't even eat your food.
Stop making giving girls more power, they already have enough. That she didn't was plates doesn't mean she's showing power or being a feminist. It doesn't make her worse than the ones that will worship you.
I don't have a problem with a girl doing dishes in a guys house. My problem is whether she's doing it for duties sake or she's doing it to end something.
Some people just like eye service.

Courtesy and decency shows that, you shouldn't leave a mess behind even if your host didn't say anything about it. It's even a way of saying thanks for having me. You seem to be digressing so I'll leave this argument here because I didn't mention feminism.
Nobody can be like you, different strokes for some people. Yours is to do what's right. How can you visit someone, make a mess and leave it that way because wetin happen?
Last year when I traveled to Nigeria, my brother, I and his wife went to see my sister in laws aunty. She prepared something nice for us all. After everything, I went to clean up the mess. Yes! Because we messed up her plates and cutleries. Courtesy demands that.

The only problem here is if the lady met the plates messy and had nothing to do with it.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't think this is about feminism. I girl visiting for the first time is not expected to do about do house chores.
The guy is even a pig to keep his kitchen looking that bad when he's expecting a firstime visitor. The girl might have seen that the whole place was disorganized and left thanking her God that she saw it early enough not after she has entered deep into the relationship.
If I visit a guy for the first and finds out that he's a pig, nothing will ever carry my legs to his house again. For God's sake he lives alone and should be responsible for his house chores. He either should do it himself of employ a house keeper.
I've seen neat guys and no neat guy will even allow a girl visiting for the first time enter his kitchen, cook for him or wash his dishes even if they are the food together.
You guys on nairaland should stop this feminism of a thing. It has taken your sense of reason when it comes to matters concerning women. You guys don't even wait to read and understand anything that relates to women but rush into including that it's feminism.
Keep yourselves and your surroundings clean and you won't notice that someone left dishes in your sink because there won't be dirty dishes there.

True, that's when you know the illiterates among us. When your view doesn't go well with them, you're a feminist.

Then secondly, when a normal guy is having a lady for the first time, trust me he makes sure everywhere is neat even if he's world's dirtiest. I've a brother lol, trust me on this. They're even faster and more dedicated when doing chores.


Now I've looked at the kitchen critically. We've more than two glasses, an empty pizza box, a nylon, some plates.
I'm of the opinion that, this guy went to buy some food and he and the lady messed up the kitchen that way. Not that the guy left it like that knowing he had a visitor. He and the lady made the kitchen that way probably when they were eating and all.


Now, if this was me, I'm naturally a neat person. I can't stand dirt. I'll clean it up. Not because I'm trying to impress but because I CONTRIBUTED TO THE MESS, and I generally can't stand dirt especially the one that I caused. What I'll not take is the guy feeling entitled that I should be washing his dishes all the time. That's when there'll be issues.

This thing is nothing, it doesn't take a thing of you. All these girl power and I don't take shiit nonsense should stop. How can I go to somebody's house, I'll mess the place up and I won't clean it? That's me being dirty. Even when I go visiting a friend for the first time (female) I'll clean if we got the place dirty. What's the big deal? You'll soon understand there's more to life.

Okoyeebos:
See girls coming online to castigate the guy for expecting such from his girlfriend but offline, most of them do much more for their boyfriends.

True.

Preshy561:
and the ones that have been washing and cleaning nko?where did you keep them?
aren't they now call exes?
stupid lazy old fool, see how dirty and shabby his kitchen looks,tomorrow this one go open mouth deh curse girls with smelly pussy.



idiotic fool.
wife material kill you there.

Na wa oh.

Common sense will tell us that it was the lady and the guy that messed up the kitchen, that's why he expected her to clean it. Obviously he won't solely be the cause of the kitchen being that way. The lady contributed to it.

pointblank247:
this girl, you don spoil but na me go finish the bottom pot, thank God you are an igbo girl. �

Lol, I'm not an igbo girl.

Admin401:
Yeah, I noticed it too. For one, it's a very awkward group photo. Tonto Dike seems as though she was forced to be there from her body language, dunno how to explain it but it's like she's put herself in an odd position just to avoid getting too coozy to Ceec, might just be me being autistic.

Yea, it's as if Tonto Dike and Halima don't want to have anything to do this Cee-c and the rest.

kingreign:
I hope to be such a dad to my kids

Awwn it's very cool. You'll be one of the world's coolest dad.

This dad is so cool!

There is something off about that group picture.

pocohantas:
LOL. It's well o.
Of all the memes, you settled for that one

On a serious note, this lady's case applies to so many ladies. It takes a young man quite sometime to stand on his feet. If such lovers wanna marry, it takes years.

Seriously. I've not gotten to that point in my life but I know it's not easy.

What she should be bothered about if she wants to go for option B is, if it'll be worth the wait. But mehn, I can't tell her to go for option A, imagine marrying someone you don't love, the sex will be

I'm here like..
This early morning.