SmartGeneral: So, why can't they get kidney from any of the people in that picture??
Oh, I forgot, the life of a poor man is worthless in Nigeria.
Nice question from experience is not advisable cos the health issues might be hereditary thus the possibility is high that any of the family members could have issues in the future or may they are not match, which ever....he would have looked for extended family members...or have a clear writing agreement with the boy....
onthehill: Approach Nigerian Elections Like You Did With BBNaija - Reno Omokri Tells Nigerian Youths
Former presidential aide, Reno Omokri has called on Nigerian youths to approach the 2023 elections like they did with Big Brother Naija, IGBERETV reports.
He advised the youths to form teams and spend their money to campaign for their preferred candidates.
He also advised them to ensure they vote on election day, no matter how long it takes to wait in line. He added that rigging is only possible "when there is low voter turn out". He added that "rigging is all but impossible" when there is high voter turn out.
TMSMedia: "We Have A Wedding To Plan": BBNaija's Tochi Proposes To His Girlfriend, Chioma (Photos, Video)
Big Brother Naija star, Tochukwu Okechukwu, popularly known as Tochi has revealed that his plan of getting married as he made a marriage proposal to his lover, Chioma, IGBERETV reports.
Chioma is a professional dancer and entertainer known as ‘Beautifulchii’ on Instagram.
In the video shared on Tochi's Instagram handle, Tochi got down on one knee while a love song by Chike ft Simi played on the background. He brought out an engagement ring, and she accepted as he put the ring on her finger.
CondemnBattery: So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.
My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.
Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.
You can add your own way of playing the family politics.
Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.
May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen
Op I disagree with you �...there is nothing wrong for the wife to report the kids to the father and the father desplining them...that's his role as the figure head and respect accorded to him from the kids is different from the mother... For me the basic thing is the connect with your kids on a deep level.....know in and out wats up with them....I know of a guys that goes to club with there pops just for fun....please don't divide homes with this kind of write ups
safesurfer: In this Buhari regime where things are difficult, it's disturbing that we still have to pay for electricity we didn't use.
It is not enough that the bill itself is crazy as it does not even reflect in improved electricity supply, we now had to pay for it when we didn't use it.
Very painful. Get prepaid Meter dude
Does anyone know when the next metering phase will commence? Because this is getting out of hand.
Newsmic: A Nigerian Pastor, Ekuma Uche Philips, in Benin Republic shared photos of an 'angel' captured on camera in his church during cross over night, IgbereTV reports.
Chiboy2022: PDP ruling Nigeria again, is like going back to Egypt. Both PDP and the ruling party are all in the same level. What Nigeria needs mostly now is total restructuring.
Unfortunately this has to be done by president, which can only come from either of the 2 as no other party has the structure to march them
adamsmith914: Only the South West & North really matter, you people are just spectators been carried along.
North Buhari narrowly win....If Atiku is contesting forget riit....we have a new Northern president...I won't like it but no Southerner Igbo included stand a chance....the north will deliver him.... expect APC fills another northern candidate.....
Paretomaster1: The picture speaks na..... They will vote their Atiku again.... Well, u can't blame PDP sha, their joker is to field a Northerner to counter APC, knowing fully well the APC ticket will go South.
It's left for APC to field a strong Northerner as Vice.....I expect PDP to field a South Easterner as vice, if they want to compensate the SW...
doing the above will however give APC an edge.
Am sorry but you don't know the Northerners 1)The will vote Atiku if APC produces a southern candidate that VP card will never work 2)Easterners are seriously looking for a way to disintegrate Nigeria...voting a northern candidate will stir problem and vooom the country is on fire.... 3) Northerners as they said are born to rule.... population wise they have it...nobody will stand them expect we regionalize or we rotate it among six geo zone and it will be back by the constitution......if not we are all on a long ride....You think they where happy about GEJ...lolzz wake up...
My simple advise is this...if you wanna leave base on your free will fine but as a condition to marry you...I will never do that....but believe from experience If she really love you she will compromise irrespective....don't get me wrong it's not bad for you to follow her to church...but tye decision should come from you....
BigBelleControl: I have a Catholic friend who ended up in Redeem because of his fiancee. His other reason was that he always miss morning mass because the Catholic Church he attended was far from his house.
It's different when you wanna leave base on your free will but as a condition I won't.....she better go...
Decolink: Please I will try to be brief. I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020. We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her. When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her. It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.
About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me. We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before. She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.
I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship. I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it. Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.
Please I will strongly advise you forget about the relationship cos it will never be the same... especially since you wanna marry her. Unless you wanna die of HBP....if she really likes you she should be the one doing this and do everything possible to get your trust again... A friend was told me once your woman f another is over
[quote author=lathrowinger post=97659124]See this sule, and what about people who lied against God. Flexing our tithing, living lavida local... My fellow nairalander, Google and check the list of reachest pastors in the world My Naija pastors occupied 1 to 20... Jerusalem pastors sef dey learn work God is watching indeed [/quote 100 % correct
lathrowinger: See this sule, and what about people who lied against God. Flexing our tithing, living lavida local... My fellow nairalander, Google and check the list of reachest pastors in the world My Naija pastors occupied 1 to 20... Jerusalem pastors sef dey learn work God is watching indeed
I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).
It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.
Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.
Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.
In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.
I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.
She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.
In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...
This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.
This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.
Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.
Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.
In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.
Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.
thanks
My brother thank your maker everything is out like this...my only advice to you is to forget about her and move on....I know is very diffcult to do right not but I have been in your shoes before don't force anything let her be at the right time your soulmate will find you.... NB it won't be easy but let her go immediately and stop all form of financial assistance to her.
Op I wanna ask u a question bf I now advice you on wat to do.....plz tel us during ur school dayz hv u not inflated the price of anytin....? That one aside....see my friend what makes u a head of a family iz to take decision within the house u control.... forum like do help bt I believe this has to be handled in ur family....with the decision coming from you after much consideration......To me iz a normal thing women do....my mama dey do am too...