Okija_juju:
Sadly my dear, life is not as simple as that. Billions of Dollars have been spent on anti-smoking campaign yet new smokers join every year.. Many children are sexually active at a tender age and unless you knw the circumstances under which they started, it would be unfair to judge.. Step outside your comfort zone and carry ouy a research and you will be stunned the number of teenage pregnancies borne out of ignorance.some girls were even date r"aped.. My point is, let's legalize abortion under a certain guideline and law. How can there be laws that allow healthy feotuses to be aborted because the mothers life is in danger! Who give us the right to choose who lives and who dies? Yet we live in a society that spells almost sudden doom for teenage mothers, yet would not allow them the liberty of abortion. Many girls get disowned by there family because of their pregnancies.. Countless girls die from illegal abortions as well and here we are sitting on our high horse and pointinfingers because we have never had to be in such a mess..

This is not about 'you shouldn't have been fhucking if you couldn't stand the consequences', that's why they are kids.. Kids tend to do stupid things.. However, do you ruin a kids entire life because of one mistake that might not have even been delibrate!? I say NO!

The girls excuse may sound ridiculous, but until you have walked the full distance in her shoes, don't you dare judge her. You must be really mentally 'fhucked up' to carry a pregnancy for 9months, suffer the pains of labour or even a surgery and then kill the child..

I am not her lawyer, but her defence would be post-partum depression, brougth about by an array of things.

i didnt say even word against that girl

yes i can. all my best friends r my ex

albacete:
are u by any means trying to justify her actions? Nowhere was it said that she was r*ped.
Can 2 wrongs make a right? Even if she was r*ped does it mean that the child can never amount to anything in life?
And come to think of it. Can someone who has been r*ped carry a pregnancy to its full term if she didn't want the baby in the first place?

read the post for which i responded "She could not cope with the child but did not know how to keep her legs closed or at least use condom"... nonsense

jhydebaba:
Cuz u gals are more of "olosho"

am asking because its important information if he wants to get meaningful answer

Why u guys cnt get married?

Mrs..Chima:


Wow. Yes...I have seen mixed children that are darker or lighter than their parents. Your mother should accept that your daughter is Black and White. It is nice that you do not prevent your daughter from knowing her other side.

Hopefully your mother will come around.....do you think your mother will accept if she brings home a Black guy?

we had this discussion because of braids my daughter she said "i feel ashamed when i have to go out with her, she looks like medusa."
nd then she told me i take my daugther like if she was african girl while she is TYPICAL white girl... Haha, ppl in the city r asking me if i m nanny of my daughter
i want she know her european nd also african side. i dnt want she run away from me when she get like 15 to find her african family

Boboedom: She could not cope with the child but did not know how to keep her legs closed or at least use condom. She must be a product of failed parenthood too. Silly baggar

what about if somebody r*ped her?

JallowBah:

Lol. We did.

Thats how damn small the world is

nice to meet u again, sista, lol

JallowBah:

Not in my country.
But they do think it means you smoke a lot of weed.

girl, i dnt knw why but i feel like we added each other on d fb some days ago

JallowBah:

Not in my country.
But they do think it means you smoke a lot of weed.

I had dreads so i exactly know what u talk about

u all know nothing about this girl. maybe she had a lactation psychosis or it was her family member who impregnated her, whatever dnt blame her because nobody knows what really happened to this child

Well, u can never change a womanizer. He will cheat on her again, just this time he ll give his wife more attention nd also hide his cheating. The only one who changed in this story is that woman, she stopped to care about it and they r both happy

Mrs..Chima:


That's good that his family is involved with your daughter. Many African families have no knowledge of their kinfolk in other countries simply because the male/female not keeping in contact nor share the information with the family.

It is important for the child to have both families in their life especially if they have two parents.

indeed. i always had a great relations with his family, especially wit uncle nd brothers. unfortunately i cnt say the same with my own family. my mother said she dislike the way i try to connect my daughter with africans, "because she is WHITE nd her face is typical european". i dnt know how to explain to her that her face may look like european because her father is fulani nd facial features of fulani ppl r different from another africans nd the color of her skin? damn, she is twice darker than my nigerian bf

Mrs..Chima:


No...I am not. And yes..my husband is Black.

oh.. that is nice good luck

Mrs..Chima:


I can believe that.

crap... i can see it on the playground when i come there with my mixed baby. Kids never care about the colour of the skin. they start to react after notice of their parents

Mrs..Chima:


Mamadiollo...do this bush gorilla remind you of your ex husband?

sigh.. double sigh

Samsantos9: Believe it or not all white are born racist

nd what about black ppl with their " u say/do this because i m black?" isnt it also racism?vice versa

PAGAN 9JA:


no one called me that. you are delusional yourself. itis aparent from your behaviour here.


and what are you dumba$$ whites doing on NAiraland gtfo of here. you are just wannabes. you can never be Nigerian.

so NL is only for naijas? i wonder why my nigerian friends invited me here

Mrs..Chima:


Black dick lover...

mrs chima so r u white or black?

Mrs..Chima:


Yes it was racist. I see that you left him seeing that he is your ex...how does it feel to be away from him?

i m sad that i fulfilled the prophecy of white racists "mixed marriage never last long" (just kidding)
its hard. we have a baby, we r from different culture, we have different religion. i try to be in the contact with him nd not cut the connections btw my daughter nd her father nd african family. its really hard but thank God his family is helpin me too much

Mrs..Chima:


You just confirmed what I said...even people in mixed relationships can be racist. I understand that you took it as racist by calling you a White biatch but the world "biatch" isn't racist. He didn't use a slur and you are White right? He degraded you by calling you a biatch especially when you are his wife.

the word "b*tch" is not racist but the part about hands nd feet nd *ss IS racist it touched me really badly nd i was seriously speechless

Mrs..Chima:


You just confirmed what I said...even people in mixed relationships can be racist. I understand that you took it as racist by calling you a White biatch but the world "biatch" isn't racist. He didn't use a slur and you are White right? He degraded you by calling you a biatch especially when you are his wife.

The question is what is a racism. I cant say he is real racist otherwise he ll never be able to have a s*x with me, i guess But i think the racism is, somehow, deep inside brains of everyone and maybe it has something to do with territorial behavior
well, i have to admit that when i had some problem with africans, nd i was really mad, i had on my mind something like "kiss my *ss u black *diot." even i m sure i love black ppl more than whites
but my ex husband usually told me such insultes after some accident with white racist, mostly with ukraine or russian ppl

ur 28yrs old sweet heart is p*dophile, sorry to say that
go nd tell him that u r pregnant. if he is that matured to abuse 15yrs old child then he has to be also matured to take responsibility

this can happen only in africa

Akhenaten: Younger Horse Rider

ooohhh ohhhhhh nice

PAGAN 9JA:


i dont.

pffffffff

PAGAN 9JA:


yes i hate akatas also.

i hate everyone and everything

PAGAN 9JA:


almost same here.

I dont like lebanese, pakis, some Arabs (except the tribal Bedouin Arab of the peninsula and ofcourse I HATE WHITES, for messing up my country and for past attrociteies, slavery, rascism etc.)

I hate whites because we r UGLY, smelling, dirty (except of me )with wicked culture.
I hate also blacks who blame recent generation of whites for slavery, because its... a nonsense!

Okija_juju: 13 Mistakes Women make with men.. By OKIJA JUJU

1. Using her p`ussy as a negotiation tool:

2. Taking Advice on men from women:

3. Trying to change a Man

4. Letting herself go because she think shes got him.

5. Thinking he is a mugu

6. Alawys asking him for money and never giving him back any money in return.

7. Relying on her physical beauty alone

8. Trusting us too much

9. Using pregnancy to trap us

10. Using Church and 'being born-again' to decieve us

11. Thinking her 'virginity' will impress him

12. Not knowing how to price Garri in the Market (not economical)

13. Taking my advice or the OP's advice seriously

jackbauersballs: I dont like Lebanese people.

And Arabs.

And Pakis.

And Fulani.

I hate them.

I dont like Lebanese people.

And Arabs.

And Pakis.
... nd ppl who hate fulani