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wonder233:
You spoke the truth.
The ladies are so used to multiple partners that they can't fathom really committing to one man. Yes, they envisage getting married someday, but how and to who, they've not given that a thought. For now, they just like having all options on the table, and still leaving the table for more potential suitors. Marriage isn't really the ultimate goal for them, they love been discovered by new people, the thrill of going on new dates, a new talking stage, the niceness that comes with the novelty, that faux special feeling.

I saw this firsthand with my ex wife, just a few months into marriage, she was already missing badly the feeling of being ogled over by a new person, nothing I did could substitute, it has to be a new person or nothing. So when I caught her having an affair, I didn't let the fake tears manipulate me, I didn't let the fake anger and blame shifting gaslight me. I stood my ground and simply walked away and never looked back.

Life is all about choice!!!!
Your choice was perfect, forgive but never accept a cheating partner.

God bless your new home man

Only men seeking validation does that.
Me when go tell you say buy ring come before Sonia bring her own o.

[quote author=pussyphilia post=137322925]Ladies, has your "man" refused to eat you out and make you enjoy that leg-shaking 0rgasm The reason is not far fetched. He simply is "managing" you and does not really dig you. If man marries or dating a lady he loves madly, giving her head would be like an involuntary action. Anytime you get down with him on bed, your sweetness to him will cause him to spread everything a bury his face and lips down there without you asking for it. Even if you would not reciprocate, he won't mind. He'll be doing everything possible to please you.
I have heard many ladies complain of their guys not going down on them and the reason is simply because they fell for guys who are barely managing them. His only business with you is satisfying himself and getting you pregnant. Your sexual satisfaction is not his concern.
You'll be surprised that that same husband of yours who would rather die than give you head, has a side chick outside he's constantly giving his damn head to. Reason being that he is hugely into the girl. Such girls enjoy the best of your men while you're there at home killing yourself for a man who no too gbadun you.
So, if you know that you enjoy the feeling of getting a head and being sexually satisfied, I shouldn't be the one telling you to go for a guy who is hugely into you. Stop forcing yourself on a man who is "just managing you" and then come back to tell us you're not getting sexual satisfaction from him. I kum in piss[/quote




I pity the man when go marry you, even your children will never be proud of you as a mother.

If was to be her husband, tomorrow all my kids go for DNA test.

Only a fool accept that. If I want to raise other children that is not mine , I go donate to the fatherless and motherless homes.


Men never allow manipulation from this gender of our generation.

Only unwise people judge a book from the cover.


Life is all about choice

budaatum:
That, sir, is your choice. And why should I tell you to do otherwise when you are not marrying me?

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!
Thank you for your understanding it's mine and I respect yours too.
Life goes on, what matters is our priority for happiness in our prospective ways of marriage.

May God protect and give you happiness with your decision forever madam.

You might be the most faithful and loyal person on earth when it comes to relationship but with men like me, DNA is a goal 365 days of the year.

After all the storms God saw me through, can never allow another man pikin run my generation race.

Love is beautiful with the right person in God's time.

budaatum:
You should definitely not marry me if you think I am manipulating you.

Yes that's fact.
Can never date nor marry a woman against DNA testing.

The truth is bitter, tell him to divorce her.
Forgive a cheating partner but never accept her back to your life.

I see no reason of negativity of me knowing the status of a child to have my name and inheritance forever.

You fit leave the marriage after I confirm say na my son or daughter say I nor trust you.


Life is all about choice

budaatum:
Just know that you are telling me you don't trust me once you ask for a DNA test, and you not trusting me has consequences I hope you are prepared to live with.

This trust manipulative time done pass. Talk another one

This is Arsenal's time and season. Life na turn by turn

Jcan:
I no c my picture and my name. So therefore the list no complete

My brother nor reason am , your name fit show next year.

Remember say this nor be Biya election o

Two from Africa, Africa Unity.

The day you start to trust any woman,except your mother is the connection to your death.

Love your wife but never trust her with your life.
That's why i usually eats when my girlfriends too are ready for us to eat together.

Na one life I get gat enough to live for.

The fact is clear.
If you got married from the year 2000 up till date, please do DNA test get why.

Better know the status of the children you call your kids.

Marijuana nor get enemy, nor they make person mad.
Na only person when they smoke am get enemy.
Even you they take MJ from the medicine you take.

Fact of life.

You must look fooling to the world to understand the true logic of the world.

Life is all about choice

Mindlog:
She didn't scatter the man's home, the man did.

Your wisdom na follow come from God.

Take responsibility for every action or choice in life. Integrity is priceless to man and the society.

Experience they say is the best teacher, no matter advice you get here is of no use to you.
You only want validation to go ahead with it. Life will teach you only your mother, blood sister and any other random stranger deserve your money.

Not the fake manipulator’s that you call girlfriend or woman.

Wisdom

Solofresh2:
I have only one around me lately and I have decided to let her be but she keeps coming around
I don't know what to do

The only way is to be more assertive in decision making by cutting off all communication.


It's simple as that cos any narcissistic woman leads you to destruction.

essentialone1:
You made good points. Most guys get stuck to Troublesome ladies, because she got pregnant for them. And they see no way out again.

Is it in Nigeria law to marry any girl that gets pregnant?

Life is all about choice, that is why I don't advice people after regretting their choices.
Rather let them face the pain and heal.

BarrElChapo:
I see comments about the fight between oba and the governor. Without involving deities and idols, the governor will dethrone the oba and nothing will happen. People don’t seem to understand the kind of power a governor wields.

That’s can never happen in BINI kingdom, the oba wields more power on the Edo people than the governor practicality in authority.

The said iyaloja don’t exist even when the governor went ahead.

You can only force the horses to the river but to drink water it’s left to them.

Edo people get respect for Oba pass governor. So him nor go try am.

God bless the Oba
God bless the Governor
God bless the people of BINI
God bless Nigeria

Port443:
Living your life upon approval of strangers is definitely a dangerous life to live. Usually void of stability and certainly, peace

It takes a spiritual awoken heart of clarity to understand.

You are a wise man

natedroid:
She can be stubborn especially when she doesn't have her way, physically aggressive when angry, great hustle spirit (I give her that ) .

She kept male friends before I met her , had to compel her to cut them off, some of them caused issues between us . She too like to keep male acquaintances,both male neighbours o, some would even even visit her apartment when I'm not there, for months I'd park my car at her compound

whenever I get in late from work, past midnight mostly and this prompted my staying over at her place couple of days every week(she's a fashion designer and has her workspace at her flat).
I have made it clear to her that every guy around her wants to Bleep her (she's petite but curvy). that's why I don't trust any man around my woman but she still believes that all men are not like that especially her male acquaintances .

Recently she's started with stories of joining choir, no more fornication etc , that I should go do the right thing .well, we're still intimate specifically on the days she's Hot(ovulating) and wants to copulate . brethren it's been a roller coaster, I have doubts, some days I feel I can wife her, some days I just want to walk away.

She's 2 years away from mid 30's

My brother as a man you never marry with emotional feelings but with spiritual awakening and clarity of your heart.

You said it has been on and off that’s red flag.
In life any person or shoe that cause you pain is not your size! Those off times was because of disrespect and pain.
She already manipulating you by joining choir,

When you decide to marry as a man, Pray to God about it and will reveal if the girl is your wife through revelations. Not once but thrice!!


Note God nor fit carry OS give you marry.

Comfortableme:
As old as I am, to be very honest and sincere. Have not been to the cinema to see a movie, have not travel outside Nigeria before, have not disvirgin a woman before, have not been to my home town before, not enter a ship before, have not entered cell before, have not gone to babalwawo place before... Etc.

What about you.

Life is all about choice and your happiness is always priority.

Most times can’t really figure out why some people still live a life of validation.



It takes a spiritual awoken heart of clarity to know solitude and privacy is never loneliness nor weakness but power.