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A woman can only inspire me to marry her, not telling me to do that. That’s red flag!!!!!!!


Never be in haste into settling down as a man!
Rather wait for the connection from her inspiration of your energy.

No DNA
No Name


After the storms of life God saw me through and placed me above my enemies will never fail to do that.

After birth na DNA,
Although still waiting for the woman that can inspire me for marriage.

The ones when they disturb me nor they resonate in my frequency level.

No time for glitches

So guys with this kind mental principles still they exist.
Hmmmmmmmmmm
Make I not talk.


Go borrow money for lapo pay for her head and open shop for her.
That girl will build a better home.

franchasng:
Was there any need to fight with your bride or wife at all? You just walk away quietly and end it if you don't like her actions already. Men must learn to act with class na. Classy men don't fight with women nor raise hands on people, there are plenty ways to show dissatisfaction as a man of class


The number one quality you should look out for in a lady before you marry her is RESPECT & HUMILITY. Do not marry any lady or girl that does not respect and obey you. Marrying a lady that does not respect you, your words and instructions is like marrying thunder, it will definitely strike one day and you may not live to tell the story when it strikes. Respect and humility makes a woman lovable. It makes a woman to become loyal to your leadership as a man. Don't joke with those qualities; respect, humility and obidience.



Me fight ke, the only fight I would fight is to kick that man out of Aso Rock

Men you got clarity!!!!!!

My hands are up,
You got few likes cos you spoke the truth.

I can’t imagine loving a woman that has no respect for me.

Much respect

[quote author=Diamond098454 post=137817249]Her husband knew the man already as his wife lover and that was why he was furious on seeing the man .

The lady should have been smart enough If I where her , I would have pretend as if i didn't see the man and his gift

The groom should have turned a blind eye
Men should learn how to talk with their eyes it helps a lot in a relationship. Imagine how a man is exchanging words with his wife in the public. [/quote





Yes you right about that, there are situations silence is the best approach. A day and place like this should be one of silent solution for the respect of both families and guest.

Anyway your comment made me feel you think it right for the bride to invite the ex but to pretend when presenting a gift to them.

Marriage is too sacred to God for games of any kind!!!!!!!

I always tell people never force a woman to love you but inspire her to see the man you are.

All this pretending and force marriage na make divorce plenty pass stable home.

The guy force her to marry him that’s why she was bold to receive the gift and disrespect both families and guest.

Me rather remain single and adopt kids than to force , beg or forget my clarity of life as a man.

I just want to cherish and respect my family and the family of my wife and generation.

No respect from the bride!!!!!!!

How can a man marry a woman that has no respect for you, herself and her family.


Men they marry o, make I just they single than to marry a girl like this.

In everything give God the glory for seeing today

My day every body go eat as much you can.
Take some home for more enjoyable time alone.

Marriage is celebration everyone should be happy, food is very important for the guest celebrating with you and your family.

KingDashx:
Back up


My own she tell me say she no love me that was 5 years ago, now she's back.. she said let's get married, na she dey ask for marriage from me oh, imagine.

Omo but I must chop this December 23rd ajeh... She no fit escape.

No marry that girl, you were never her choice.
She just want use you change status, there's no true happiness in it.

Know who you are by engaging yourself in solitude, then build on the knowledge of who you are.


The only true happiness comes from inside you, your mind is the theater of your destiny.
Be the gate keeper to your mind by selecting what gets to your mental health. Never take criticism and mockery to heart but as motivation never to give up on yourself.

No one is coming to save you except God and your resilience to keep going when the going gets tough.

Abeg make I drink water

SpencerForbes:
I wish you Goodluck 😊

Same here brother

SpencerForbes:
Damn🤦‍♂️ too much Cinderella and Barbie caused this. You still believe in that ‘fantasyland romance marriage’? Even those you see on TikTok are not enjoying what you’re wishing for. I wish you Goodluck 😊

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Los men I'm a man and that's mine choice.
Life is all about choice!!!!!!!

Your mind is the theater of your dreams, whatever you believe in works for you.

My experience in life alone will make me desire a peaceful and loving home like that of my parents.

Men your Cinderella and Barbie experience shouldn't define my choice.

Enjoy the rest of your day

Eccl 3:16

Says in place of righteousness there is iniquity and in the place of judgment there is injustice.


I love God but not a fool to religion hypocrite .

As for me , family , Household and generation we will serve the lord God forever.

I respect your opinion!!!!!!!

For me marriage is important, not because of sex but the endless happiness and peace i will share with my wife (queen) and kids is infinity.

Everyone has a reason for marriage, some for kids, money and societal validation.

Me for one United happy family forever.

In life there is a special gift in your rightful partner from God to be your helper by your side.

So all women have special In built gift from God, just that so many are following the wrong part of lust and enjoyment in the world.

Woman is very important in a man’s life, Man is more important in a woman’s life.

There is nothing in this world compare to freedom!!!!!!!

I can never kill anyone for cheating, rather forgive and walk away.

This girl future done bend cos of unworthy love.
The guy future done end cos of few minutes enjoyment.

I always tell people never play with true emotions, some persons can control the outcome. It is either they harm you or themselves.

At my age na only relationship to marriage I they available for and you must resonate in my frequency level of clarity.


Never waste peoples time and trust

In life always remember not to mingle below your frequency.

dollytino4real:
It is the new way of life around dis PH especially this student area,is beta to divorce than to sleep with another man and still come back to my house with my husband. My concise n my children death go finish me as an urhobo Woman

Thank God for your conscience and love for your family.
Most women think about this and go ahead, better leave than destroying your family.

No gain in revenge in life.


The only true rule of marriage
Forgive a cheating partner but never accept them back to your life.

Never judge a book from the cover, no man truly knows his life history.

There is no excuse for cheating as a person both man and woman!!!!!!!

It is always better to quit than to cheat, that’s dignity for you and your family name forever.

Cheating always comes when there is no purpose of alignment for the relationship.

I don’t date outside my frequency level, rather stay single than to cheat cos of the glitch of accepting someone below my energy level.


Clarity marries alignment
Emotion marries misalignment


I ready stay single and wait for that connection resonating in my frequency level.

My solitude and peace are so important to my future, kids and family.

Life is short, but life is no life without knowledge!!!!!!!

You learnt some good life lessons.

As someone said above, solitude gives clarity and clarity is freedom. Freedom gives happiness and only true happiness is life.


As a man your happiness comes from inside, not from external validation.

In everything you do as an empathy, use discernment of your intuition with firm boundaries.

Any attempt na red card, direct the kindness to a stranger you don’t even know.

In life and everything you do as a man. Always remember you came with nothing and going back empty.


Life is short, painful,sweet and beautiful but life is no life without knowledge of vanity.

Happy thanksgiving and celebration to your family.

Diamond098454:
hi and happy weekend too you.

Hello and enjoy the rest of your weekend.

pansophist:
In real life I am very very gentle.

You can see me eating at a roadside restaurant with pure water in my mouth, I really no too send like that.

If you think I am broke, that’s your problem. I have iPhone 16 pro max I only take out for events due to its camera, but prefer to use techno because the battery is good and it has dual sim.

I dress casually , sometimes even second hand cloths. A good day for me is when I woke up very late because my body has all the sleep it want, and always try to help people genuinely.

My intuition is as sharp as sunlight. By the question a person ask, their interest, how they dress, behaviour, I already know what they are up to and treat them accordingly.

Most of what I have written here are experiences all through the decades, and brother, I have seen and experienced a lot. With what I know now, peace and structure are things I protect. I hate chaos, and keep distance from unrefined people.

My trust is the most difficult thing to get. I doubt if up to five people on this planet have it. I see humans for what they are, and protect myself 100%. When chaotic people meet me at first, they just assume I can be taken advantage of.

The longer they stay to execute their plans, it becomes clearer that my gentle nature is actually a result of decades of real life experiences forged in pain, which leaves no loophole to actualise their plans, then they get frustrated.

Peace is my biggest currency. Without it, life becomes boring. So yes, I agree with you.

All you got is clarity!!!!


Clarity is freedom
Freedom bring true happiness from within without the noise and chaos of the world.

Diamond098454:
2025, no mistake because I was extremely careful about guys and there sweet mouth and that particular look ( sexy eye or bad eye) they normally give a girl that caught their energy

I shot down my social media and i stayed away from social gathering ,especially house party.

You got clarity!!!!!!!

You read energies (AURA) .

You will always mingle when you are with the connection resonating in your frequency.

Running from the pain before clarity!!!!!!!


Always face your fears in life, they will mock ,disrespect and belittle your resilience but never give up on yourself.

Be a lone wolf, fearless, emotionless and just let silence speak your AURA.

CLARITY IS FREEDOM
FREEDOM IS HAPPINESS
HAPPINESS IS LIFE.

Dpsychologist:
Let’s strip relationships down to their core. No filters. No fluff.

Imagine this:
Remove sex from a relationship and suddenly, many men discover that the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual value they hoped for… isn’t there.

Remove money from a relationship and many women begin to question the purpose of staying.

This isn’t a jab. It’s a wake-up call.

We’ve built a culture where transactional intimacy has replaced transformational connection. Where physical access and financial support are mistaken for love, loyalty, and legacy.

But here’s the truth:
✅ If sex is the glue, the bond will break.
✅ If money is the magnet, the attraction will fade.
✅ If purpose, growth, and shared values aren’t present then what’s left?

Relationships must evolve beyond survival economics and sensual convenience.
They must become partnerships of purpose, alliances of ambition, and safe spaces for soul-level growth.

The future belongs to couples who:
- Build empires, not just memories
- Exchange wisdom, not just pleasure
- Invest in each other’s evolution, not just each other’s comfort

This is the era of conscious coupling.
Where love is not a transaction but a transformation.

Let’s stop asking “What do you bring to the table?” and start asking:
“Can we build a new table together?”

If this post made you pause, reflect, or rethink drop a comment. Let’s elevate the conversation.

RelationshipIntell #EmotionalMaturity

Everything you said is fact about life.

This generation is programmed to believe relationships is a cultural entitlement of any woman to achieve a man.

We need to start changing that illusion right from our children.

Life

Clarity

Clarity

Clarity

Mercy = No shame

tellsblinks:
we were once very close and chart almost all the time, calls each other too frequently.

of recent our chart is now one sided, i am always the one igniting conversation, even forcing conversation to flow. most times she would be online and still ignore my messages.

one time we were chatting something important, in the middle of the hot gist she stopped replying (am the kind that ignores messages just to chart with this one girl).


I tried WhatsApp calling her and was told it was busy, waited for like 40minutes before she replied sorry that she was on a vid call, I asked if it was a male and she told me yes, I didn't stress it. oya na let's continue our charts and she has gone offline only to reply 9hrs later.

honestly I feel very disturbed because I really love this girl, she hardly chart, she hardly call, I'm always the one igniting conversations, I'm always the one calling...

when i told her about it, she cried (abi fake cry) on voice record to tell me she is sorry with no reason attached. I didn't stress it


please guys, how do I know if she has stopped loving me?? I love this girl ooh,


hard guy! hard guy! I don't know how I use fall like this

My guy behave like a man, walk away with your dignity intact.

Never force anyone make you beg for their attention.