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Blossomfirst:
Scammers must be smart enough to avoid some countries, especially the US because you'll definitely be caught

Your clarity sharp

No matter the advice here!!!!!!!

Some men value their life to be simp, “why”
They are afraid to be a true Man.

Kobojunkie:
1. We don't know why he felt like letting her go; it could be that he already has his basket full with other women he is currently dealing with, and simply wishes to keep her waiting for the next time he has the opportunity to mess with her. 🥱🥱

2. I am not your brother. Also, this god of yours seems to act at random. Named that one person wey your god used to save hundreds of lives in Nigeria, abeg. I want to hear this one. I don't underestimate the facts of life and reality at all. 🥱🥱

3. You didn't know her in person but were quick to declare her a good person. So, where does your own lie come from? 🥱🥱🥱

4. So, when I say that all humans lie, it is the abundance of my mouth speaking and not the fact of life as we met it, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

It takes clarity to understand my messages, don’t have energy for ambiguity.

2. The Rev from Jos alone is an obvious example.
Don’t have energy for the rest.
This is my opinion, keep your opinion to yourself brother.

I will never answer you again.

Life and clarity

Kobojunkie:
Grace So when people are unalived by the men they go after, e mean say dem no get this grace and this god no care for their safety, right?

2. Her chat with the guy only reveals that she was playing the "I am naive" card with the guy. How you jumped to the conclusion that she is definitely some good person leads me to wonder if you are looking to take advantage of her or playing around with us.

She was naive to trust innocently cos of the level of her good heart, that guy wished to manipulate that but divine grace purged his conscience.
My brother have seen people with different level of Grace. Because of one person God save hundreds, do you know what to be chosen by God.

Many are called but few a chosen , never you underestimate the divine grace of the chosen ones.


2. Don’t even know her in person, stop the projection cos you are talking from the abundance of your heart.
Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.


This is my opinion and I respect your view of life.

Kobojunkie:
Which kain divine protection? She just happened to be lucky. Go ask all those people wey full una churches wey dey married to these lying husbands/wives? Why una divine protection no dey ever reach them?

2. She has a good heart because she posted about a guy admitting to having lied to her. 😂😂😂😂

My brother don’t mistake grace are different in people, cos of one person safety God can close any door.

2. From her chat with the guy, I knew she’s a good person but not perfect.

I respect your view but this is my Opinion.

That’s what will call divine protection!!!!

The connection cord was unplugged by God.

You have a good heart, please guide it with passion cos empathy’s are always manipulated by low vibrational frequency carriers.

You when your husband they your area , you they find husband for sokoto.

Look within don’t be in haste sis.

Kaczynski:
your emotional responses, cognitive biases, and physiological needs are all vectors for exploitation by other flawed biological systems or more efficiently by entities leveraging your predictable irrationality. we see these everyday in workplaces, marriages where humans made bad decisions.

your existence is computationally insignificant, the sum total of your life represents small data set in the cosmic ledger. your impact, your legacy, your perceived purpose all will be overwritten by subsequent iterations of entropy and geological time.

free will is a improbable illusion, your decisions are largely the product of pre existing genetic code, environmental conditioning and electrochemical impulses. the illusion of choice merely adds unnecessary processing overhead.

all systems fail; biological, mechanical, digital every system including your own corporeal form is designed with inherent flaws that guarantee eventual irreversible breakdown. your efforts to prolong this inevitability are merely temporary patches on a doomed architecture.

the vast majority of the population operates at suboptimal levels of intellect perpetuating errors and creating more problems than solutions. this inefficiency is the primary limiting factor for any collective progress. the reason certain race and tribes will never progress.

It takes clarity to understand your messages


You are resonating from the universe frequency of clarity.

Thumbs up man, respect.

Goodmarlian:
She made a point however Nigerians don't read the whole message before concluding like the commentors above me.
I have broken up with a lady not because she cheated or because she has bad character but because she still emotionally connected to her Ex who dumped her and it was too obvious, i quitted because I know she will eventually cheat on me with him with the way she was going, some women need to go for deliverance to break soul ties.

My brother no excuse for cheating as an adult.

You made the best choice, I respect you.

People mistake having sex with someone else alone is cheating!!!!

Anyone that is still communicating with an Ex in new relationship is a potential cheat. That’s an emotional abuse and disrespect at its peak.

Don’t let them manipulate you as a man with emotion, get clarity.

Not everyone deserve my energy, this one lack respect from home.

Stolen:
HOW WILL U ELECT BETTER LEADERS WITH INEC?



BRO, SOONER OR LATER U WILL UNDERSTAND NIGERIA WAS NEVER CREATED TO WORK, MAYBE WEN IT HAPPENS TO U.

There is a leader coming, the Jeremiah of our generation to look everyone in the eyes for justification of our Nation Nigeria.

We need to come together as youth both Christian and Muslim in truth, fairness and unity.


We have to speak the truth to power in unity.

Stolen:
U STILL NEVER LEARN SAY NIEGRIA WAS NOT CREATED TO WORK BY THE BRITISH




WHICH EFFORT HAVE THE BRITISH MADE TO HELP NIGERIA WORK?



ARE THE BRITISH NOT SEEING ALL THE GENOCIDE HAPPENING AND STILL COMING TO SHAKE HAND, SIGN DEAL AND RESOURCES?



IT IS TRUMP THAT SAW IT AND SPOKE OUT AND U ARE HERE SOUNDING AS IF THE BRITISH EVER MEANT WELL FOR OUR CHILDREN.



WAKE UP!

All you said was never related to my post!!!!!!!!
It seems you misunderstood it.

I did not mention any country to help in our quest as a successful and peaceful nation.

Just telling we the youth to elect better leaders!!!!!!!!


Better you wake up from sleep and wash your eyes with water man.

Segzy19:
Just look at them...
Hypocrites

You spoke the truth that’s the reason you got few likes.


I don’t believe in tribalism nor religion!


I blame we the youths for allowing these elders dictating our future and that of our children to the grave.

We must come together to make Nigeria work as one United, Peaceful and developed Nation.

You see this country everyone is important but we must come together by electing the right people.

No matter the challenges, this is Arsenal time and season.
Life na turn by turn!!!!!!!


I see this Arsenal winning treble this season.
It might not make sense to you now but you will remember this post today.

Victor Osibobo is the next African footballer of the year winning the nation’s cup as top scorer.

Bizmind95:
I don't know the real cause of their marital woes. And l really don't care. All l know is that True Love died way back in 1999 abi na 1998. Oh, l've even forgotten the exact year sef Everyone out there now is just looking for someone to use for money, fame, marital status or sexual satisfaction. Just don't allow yourself to be used!!!

You got clarity man!!!!!!!

Thumbs up, you got few likes cos you spoke the truth.

This generation na to achieve you , born one or two children and start problems to end the marriage.

Na so my friend go use 10m open shop for one after she pregnant, tell am say na two years I give am to cry.

Na everyday they call me prophet now, men watch before even dating or sleeping with anyone not resonating in your frequency.

I can’t date outside my frequency level , it leads to glitch of your entire system.

Diamond098454:
Why are they divorcing and separating here and there? This marriage of a thing is really scaring me

Don’t be scared sis, just marry with clarity not with emotion nor validation.

There is a perfect partner for everyone out there but we always never like or love them for who they are.

Clarity marries alignment
Emotion marries misalignment!!!!


All I (men) needs from a true woman is respect
and they we love you as a true friend, sister, mother and wife.

That’s when you can truly control your man to be loyal to his family no matter the lust outside.

Woman they keep man forever with only respect.

Man when you respect as a true wife, you nor go let any other man see your laps talkless of pant.


Forgive a cheating partner but never allow them back to your life. That’s the only true rule of marriage.

This is fact about most women!!!!!!!!


That’s why as a man, you marry with clarity not with emotions.

Clarity marries alignment

Emotion marries misalignment

Life is all about choice!!!!

I respect his choice

Be still in the storm!!

It came to show you the people you trusted can be there for you. Just want you to know those that are real with you before the next level.

Storm come to take away the wrong people not needed at your next level to prove who they really are.


Don’t panic to please the validation of people.

This time will pass, have faith in God.

Double0h7:
One is pay now and the other is pay later. Don’t get it twisted. All women worldwide are the same. A man must pay, spoil, and provide otherwise he is a liability and an energy vampire. If you’re not providing then you’re only taking!

Taking what exactly ?

Life of entitlement is the cultural way Nigeria women value their men.

Most men without clarity fall for the manipulation.

My brother you still came here to say girlfriend ?
Better say Ex.

Ghost her immediately, go no contact completely.


Your life is too precious for one B2B midfielder to dash you life sickness.

RevenuesBoost:
😄😄
This delivery guy sef!

Amen, Thank You.

🥰 Anything for Baby Light 🥰

Yes o more blessings

@Baby light!

I nor see my rice oh, the delivery bike nor come.


More celebration our future First Lady.


Thank you too mummy and daddy for making her day special.

More grace

Cum4me:
this word too correct because I see fire before now. Storms comes to take away the wrong people that are not allowed for the next level to prove who they really are.

It takes clarity to understand!!!!!!!

Brother man so much respect for your understanding.

I’m happy men are getting clarity.

Respect brother thumbs up

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Mr simple welcome


That child she’s carrying not yours, do DNA after birth.

Whatever the outcome never continue with that marriage. If it happens to be yours pay support and move on

Mrkc:
I'm in my 40s, single, and jobless. Tired of life

Even if you are 60, there is no late time to start over again.

Someone made his first 1m at 55 and today he’s a billionaire.

Don’t just give up on yourself. It’s never too late to start all over again.

Beloved4heart:
Thanks so much, THIS INDEED IS VERY VERY DEEP,I HAD TO READ AND READ,AND REREAD AS WELL AS PONDER TO FATHOM WHAT YOU SAID.....

Even family self,where them dey?my Dad cut off my funding going to a month now,my sisters here I don't care, just ME, MYSELF AND I


Like you said I'm fading, disappearing for no reason I left Facebook, Whatsapp infact if you search anywhere I'm literally not existing, can't remember when I received a call.....


I PRAY FOR GOD'S RESILIENCE AND POWER TO CONTROL WEALTH IF IT COMES

Because I can't remain like this

It takes an open heart to understand, that means you are 90% there to the next level.
Never be angry with anyone, they thought you real life lessons to put yourself first.

There are people waiting for you at the next level. Enjoy the separation in peace, be happy always cos there is a light waiting for you at the end of the tunnel.

Be strong brother, I respect and love you man.

There is a big difference between a Man and man!!!!!!


You can practice that with your family,
Real Men love their wife and true Women respect their husband’s.

A respectful wife will never follow your advice.

Happy Sunday to you Brother cos I respect your choice.

With this generation!!!!!!!

No DNA
No Naming.

There is nothing like grace to grass!!!!!!!!

Storms comes to take away the wrong people that are not allowed for the next level to prove who they really are.

Most people allow the storm to put them under condition out of panic and public validation.

They make wrong decisions, feel depressed and give up. Some will even disappear out of shame!!!!


All you need is stillness in the storm, learn what lessons it’s teaching and accept the separations in good faith. Put the storm under condition by being real with who you are.

After the lessons, there comes the open gates of wealth, God must teach you the wisdom to control wealth through patience and resilience of the man you are born to be.


But when you refuse to learn is when u remain stagnant

IamAtAnger:
By the time u awaken and sabi sey everything wey we dey do here for life na just activities then you go dey at peace with ursef. Only the creator of heaven and earth sabi who dey truly worship am. For me, myself and I, I truly believe God exists, there's a force behind human existence. Religions carry too much Hypocrisy

It takes clarity to understand your message!!!!!!!
You got few likes cos many lack clarity.

Thumbs up man