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As we celebrate you today Light, celebration will never depart from your life.
More grace and happiness forever to you and your family.



Happy birthday first lady

True happiness comes from inside!!!!!

As a man discover true happiness need to come from your conscience and mind. Never get happiness through others validation in friendship and relationships.

The best investment and sacrifice is on yourself, never neglect yourself sacrificing for love nor friendship.

So a woman can only manipulate a man that gets happiness from her validation .
That is why I tell men to get clarity before chosen a life partner.

True and real happiness comes from inside.

Clarity is life!!!!!!!

It takes clarity to attain mental freedom.

Though I'm a Gemini in real case.

Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, cancel the trad for December.

Her reaction and that of her family will tell you all needed to continue or move on.

Try this and God will open your eyes brother

Solitude and alignment with the universe

Mariangeles:
In GOD.

Anything outside GOD is temporary, inconsistent, and unsustainable.

Heck! There is no true peace outside GOD.

Louder!!!!

It takes God to get that true inner peace of conscience.

It take a spiritual awoken heart of clarity to understand your level of comprehending and communication about life in general.


I know you are a wise person, please don’t ever waist your time trying to make people understand the truth of life. It drains the energy of your reasoning, it takes depth to understand you.

Oolalekan001:
“Good day everyone.
I’m a 30-year-old guy, currently unmarried but finally ready to settle down and build something stable. I recently got into a serious relationship with a woman I truly like and respect. My intention is to make this relationship work.

However, I’ve been facing a problem that’s really bothering me.
The last time I had intimacy with a partner was in 2021. Since then, I haven’t been involved with anyone, although I masturbated a lot during that period. Now that I’m back in a real relationship, I’ve noticed that whenever we try to be intimate, I don’t feel the usual excitement or sensation. It’s like my body isn’t responding the way it should.

My girlfriend has started asking if she’s the problem, and it hurts me because she’s not. I honestly don’t know how to explain what’s happening. I’m not someone who is overly focused on sex, but I’m trying to build a family, and it’s painful knowing I’m not able to perform as expected.

This whole situation makes me feel sad and worried.
Please, I’d appreciate hearing from anyone who has gone through something similar or from people who understand what might be causing this. I’m looking for mature advice—physical, emotional, or medical—that can help me handle this situation before it affects my relationship.”

Stop it forever.

Eat watermelon, blend watermelon smoothies as water and drink water more.

God is the only beginning without no starting point and the ending without an end.



No God, No Guts, No Glory.

Manofsteelx:
I can't stand people suffering, if you even complain of something and you didn't ask for my assistance, as long as I heard you're going through stuff guilt will consume me like I'm the one at fault and I'll try to do something about it no matter how little, and if you ask for assistance I do more than you asked and if I can't help I'll try to solve it using other means like borrowing from others for your sake, I've always been like that.

I've been looking out for my siblings as the eldest since I can remember, parents are not there, and I've been lucky with some measure of financial freedom, everyone respects me then and whatever I say is what they do, conflicts were easy to resolve, I thought they respect me because I was responsible and I behaved matured and stepped up, mind you I was in my 20s fending for four siblings, I stopped schooling because no one was there to pay my fees, and started hustling before financial freedom came, I made sure my siblings goto school so they don't repeat my mistakes, not too long ago I even bought phone for one of them (siblings), borrowed on their behalf even when I don't have.

Fast forward to the past couple of months things took a drastic turn, my source of income dried off, everything stopped working at once, when I'm close to benefiting from anything that thing will crumble, things got so bad and within three months I'm totally broke, could you believe these same siblings I went above and beyond for turned on me, they don't respect me anymore, they now ask what have you done for me, one even starved me for some time when I stayed with her, in summary I'm nothing to them anymore and they even blocked me online because we had a falling out when I asked why are they're suddenly disrespecting me, then it hit me, they didn't respect me because I'm older or how I behave, they respected my money, the money they all drained,

I'll get back on my feet eventually, with a bitter lesson learnt, don't burn for anyone, not even your family, few people remember what you did for them and you're lucky if you have such around you, I'll get back up and when I do I'm cutting everyone off.

Bro with time you heal.
God deliberately allow this situation to open your eyes and mind.

In all you do in life , self love it’s always important and paramount.

justyhere:
Please I need your advice. I am getting married, my fiance asked me to borrow his sister my bone straight and a dress and I refused, is this not a red flag? His sister wanted to wear it for a wedding. He didn’t buy it for me. He’s now really upset and has refused to talk to me for 3 days now. Our wedding is in 4 months and I am contemplating getting out of such a relationship. Please advice

All you need now is clarity of heart.

That is never a good relationship but toxic. Never consider going into marriage the foundation will be built on castle sand.

Let me explain it without emotions

Saying no was not to bring up issues were there is mutual respect and true connection

This is how you will be guilt trip you by simply being yourself forever depriving you of happiness.


In a nutshell, that’s red flag alone is enough to end the relationship not of going ahead with the marriage.
You never enter house them done they fight and hate you for your things his brother never got for you.

Worst your man is acting up. Na slave marriage you they enter like.

Well deserved

dierich:
I've been with my wife for 7 years now. We dated for 3 years and got married 4 years ago
I met her a virgin which made me cherish her and respect her a lot.
We had a son together now and we are living well and I've seen her as been faithful and submissives even supportive a lot
Fast forward to this moment. We relocated almost 2 years ago and she started working. Recently I notice her moves with one of her colleagues at work which I notice they started having some kind feelings which I interrupted and I told her family which we all settle it. She was sobber and said it's the work of d devil. Though no sexual stuff between them, just some kind of colleague been to clinch which it's getting out of hand
I set some rules which one of it is that if she dare chat him or talk to him about anything not related to work or account, I will send her packing which she assure me.
I've been spying which I saw it that they've not even chatting though they don't usually see at work. The man is just doing part time which he comes 6 times a month.
4 days ago, my wife lock her fone, and said she doesn't want me to be spying that whenever I want to check her fone, I should tell her and she'll surely open it immediately for me.
So, yesterday, she's chatting on her fone and I playful collect her fone, check her WhatsApp and saw she message this Same man (Hello sir, good afternoon)
I was so annoyed and my heart broken totally, after several warnings.
Now I want to send her packing just for her to learn that, if she turned out to be a single mother, she'll got tired of men after they must av play her and turn her to trash
I'm confused and now I've packed her bag, waiting for her to come from work and send her away tomorrow morning
Or what advice can you give. What's your view

She isn't like this honestly. I've check her well for several years coz I'm a sensitive guy, until now that I saw some stupid act

Life is all about choice!!!!
Forgive but never accept back a cheating wife .

Life too sweet when you go allow one woman destroy for you.

Stick with your plan, you are a man.

Ardeholar:
This has been going on for a while now and i haven't been able to figure out exactly what to do. The very first time i noticed, i confronted her and the conversation made me know it was the guy that disvirgined her, Though she claimed it has always been chats and nothing more.. She promised to stop talking to him...


Fast forward to last week, caught her again chatting with the guy... A whatsapp call they both made lasted 1h20m( in my mind, what were they talking about for a whole 1 and a half hour?!)

Again, i confronted her and she said she couldn't just stop talking to him simply because he's her ex.

I won't lie, apart from this issue, she's been a good wife... Buh why would you not want to stop talking to your ex?!! The ex that disvirgined you for that matter..

I'm weak and really confused.

All you need now is clarity!!!!

Your wife will never stay in this marriage without talking to her ex even when you report to her parents.

The connection is bad in many ways
She doesn’t respect you as a wife and you are not helping things by being a man of the house.


Just tell her next you see communication with her ex , you taking a final decision best known to you.

Oga that woman nor be your wife o, na time go only take she go they born that guy children for your house.

You are here saying am confused.
Better be assertive with your destiny and your future children.

Never be emotional to accept a cheat, forgive and move.

With your teaching here, I can feel a positive level of clarity. We are blessed to have you here!


More grace and respect

You are experiencing a storm.
In storms there’s challenges, but in the challenge there are lessons to be learned for you to be ready for the next level of life.

All you need this time is sincerely seeking God in prayer and be still in the storm.

Then be preparing for the breakthrough after the lessons but you only remain in this condition when you allowed the situation put you under conditions cos of external validation fear of failing in life.

Be still , pray and have faith. Learn new ideals and do something cos God can only bless what you do.

When you are big , you are big Abegi.

Ororo the Goat

Authoreety:
No matter the temptation, don't ever try to bed a married woman..

Wise man but them nor they hear

After God na God only

Arrrrrrrh

God is wonderful!!!


Indescribable!!!

I swear if you have a mission to archive in life and God is behind it nothing go take you away.

Your clarity sharp man

Amen

Make women stop to they treat other wife children badly.

BlackViper:
President Nayib Bukele has enacted a new law requiring mandatory DNA testing to register a child at birth, aiming to verify biological parentage from the outset.

According to Bukele, the measure “is not a law against women, but against lies,” saying it seeks to prevent cases where men unknowingly raise children who are not biologically theirs.

The Genetic Verification System Law stipulates that all tests must be conducted in certified laboratories, and the state will cover the costs for low-income families.

The law has sparked intense public debate. Supporters see it as a step toward family transparency and paternal rights, while critics argue it represents state intrusion into private life and raises ethical and social concerns.

With this move, El Salvador becomes the first country in Latin America to implement a national, mandatory genetic verification system for civil registration.

https://www.facebook.com/share/1BcCKMGR5R/

Mynd44 Lalasticlala Nlfpmod

Men are getting up to the challenge world wide.


Hmmmm
Make I not talk shall, many marriages go end for hospital after birth.
This Nigeria Genz women go enter street do pass End Sars o.

Your level of understanding comes from spiritual awoken of your heart. You are resonating from the universe wavelength and it takes a clarity.


More grace and blessings.

Diamond098454:
My dad flog really humbled me, as an only child of her parents am always claim and quite any where i found myself because of the way my parents flogged me especially my dad

But now such parents are hardly find

Life is beautiful when you realized your parents were preparing you for greatness in future.

Then, might thought they careless but proud you knew now they loved you more than you can ever imagine.
As an only child!
I respect your parents, thumbs up.

People get time to watch Nigeria match lols

I nor get heart for their matter

Addictions are simple to stop!!!!

Just know you were not born with it, drinking ginger, cloves, turmeric and honey mixture for a week is the solution.

It clears the toxins in yours system.

Most times i wonder why some guys do that!!!!

Me that God saw through life storms and placed me above my enemies will never beg any woman into my life.

You will be the one to beg me that my family want to know you and when I nor send you na game over be that.

As a man take time to know who you are.

wonder233:
You spoke the truth.
The ladies are so used to multiple partners that they can't fathom really committing to one man. Yes, they envisage getting married someday, but how and to who, they've not given that a thought. For now, they just like having all options on the table, and still leaving the table for more potential suitors. Marriage isn't really the ultimate goal for them, they love been discovered by new people, the thrill of going on new dates, a new talking stage, the niceness that comes with the novelty, that faux special feeling.

I saw this firsthand with my ex wife, just a few months into marriage, she was already missing badly the feeling of being ogled over by a new person, nothing I did could substitute, it has to be a new person or nothing. So when I caught her having an affair, I didn't let the fake tears manipulate me, I didn't let the fake anger and blame shifting gaslight me. I stood my ground and simply walked away and never looked back.

Life is all about choice!!!!
Your choice was perfect, forgive but never accept a cheating partner.

God bless your new home man

Only men seeking validation does that.
Me when go tell you say buy ring come before Sonia bring her own o.