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Since I don't have a baby yet let me tell you my experience when I was in primary school .

I was in primary 1 while my brother was in primary 3. At the end of the term we took our results home, I had 2nd position while he took 1st. When we got home my dad looked at results and told us we did great. He comment on my brother told my brother his result was good and told me mine was great. So I started mocking my brother That daddy said my result is better than his that he need to read more .he was arguing with me that 1st is better than 2nd but I didn't accept. We had to go back to my dad that was when dad told me 1st is better than 2nd. Jesus Christ see cry that day I was crying so much that my mum had to bribe me with head of fish before I stop crying

Linus4get:
I graduated from Uniben for 6years now with no job. I manage to get a good paying and mouth watering job through my sister's friend. The manager employed me in proxy of the CEO, in which the CEO will be back to the firm nextweek. My manager threatens to report negative feedback to the CEO because i refused to sleep with him. Whatever the manager tells the CEO, the CEO effects. I need this job i am fed up and tired of joblessness. I cant leave this job now. Please if you have experience this before advise me on what to do and how you came out of this tragedy.

this type of post irritates me. we are in the 21st century sis wake up. don't you have a recording phone? is the CEO invincible that you can't get to talk to him? record your conversation with him and play it to the CEO when he comes.
there was a case in my office some time ago that everyone believes a man cos he is older and they say "he cannot lie" i just went to him, place my phone on his table, and was asking him the same questions people asked him that he gave diff answers. i went to play it to some of the people just to clear myself though no one can do anything but at least they believe me.

tosyne2much:
With what you can see shey ?

from your story back in your school days. miracles do happen you may have a different story now. just try to upgrade to egg and noodles with juice

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you are a broke nigga sir.

ashmanpolo:
No I'm not.

don't return the gift just call her to appreciate her for the gift and politely tell her your gf does not appreciate the gift when she saw it and you will like if she will stop. Now in this statement you told her you don't need her and gifts and indirectly told her you are not available. Am sure she will understand instead of returning the gifts nd make her feel unwanted.

ashmanpolo:
No I'm not.

do you want my advice as a lady? Let me put myself in the lady shoe?

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

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Lalasticlala
Ishilove

apart from the fact that you don.t date fair ladies what other reason do you have not to date her? are you in a relationship?

akugbemike:
Awww!!

Who is the Governor of Lagos State?
.

Ambode.



God is sending me, hold on i will campaign sooon

rexkexmilan:
WOW!!!
Yvonne is still very much pretty .

b look at the old woman not Yvonne.

hmmmmmm.

tido77:
Thanks for ur comment. I want to make it clear here now that the fact that the school cert lady bends her knee slightly when greeting doesn't sway me to assume that she is respectful, she does that to any body her elder . Many comments here seem to harp on that, I am not basing my judgment on that, I was only trying to paint the way she appears. One the other hand, i am not a dirty man as some comments suggest. I am fund of having kids around me. There are some kids in the neighborhood that do come to play in my house, most times they litter and disorganize things. I am a very busy man coz of the nature of my job, my attention is constantly needed round the clock, I only have some fresh air during the weekends, even at that I work remotely from my laptop at times. So when I have the time I clean up thoroughly. My graduate friend doesn't even wash her dish after eating, but I am attracted to her.

we are saying the same thing. The girl bending her knees to greet elders cos that is the way she is brought up and that has nothing to do with attitude or manner just yoruba normal way of greeting. You still did not say the graduate is disrespectful which means the only issue you have with her is her inability to tidy up the house. You can correct her and hopefully she will listen. But I still think you should go for the graduate not cos she is a graduate but cos you are attracted to her and you can change her cos no lady is perfect. Am sure the school cert. Lady will have her commas and you may be able to live with your graduate untidiness but may not be able to live with the other Lady wahala.

Jimdonnet:
talk to her if she doesn't yield thjavascript:void(0);row her out.shebi she is a "man"

tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

i think you should go for the graduate. in your write-up there is nowhere you said the graduate is rude or uncultured. you only said she visit and gist with you while the school-cert visit and clean and bend her knees to greet you.
your girlfriend not bending to greet you is not a sign that she disrespect you. she is already familiar with you and may not take it to mean anything. and why should you leave your house dirty for a lady to come clean up? she is suppose to be a companion not an househelp. am not saying she shouldn't clean up your house but it shouldn't be a complusory thing like you won't clean your house if you are single. assumming you are married to the graduate and you have an househelp who does the cleaning of the house will you be asking for option to date tha househelp since she cleans the house?
and i believe the other girl coming to clean your house for you and bending to greet you is just doing that as a sign of respect for an area brother but if cos of house cleaning you go for the other girl by the time she start showing her true self, don't come here for advise ooooo

have you tried talking to your girlfriend about the house cleaning? what was her response? though it is womanly to keep things cleans but also it is gentlemanly to keep things clean too not waiting for your girlfriend like she is your househelp. the only issue you have with the graduate is cleaning no other issue so what is your problem? to me you dont have any issue you are just looking for excuses.

yoruba people says 'kneeling is not character' yorubas in the house abeg help with that adage

sorry. RIP

starlingslimnet:
Well i must say This is appalling and disgusting: Yes, it's hideous
and horrendous,despicable and deplorable; I had
say revolting more like awful and egregious.To me
this is flagitious, indecent,ghoulish and nauseous
perfect word is morbid. You wouldn't be wrong if you
say its repulsive and contemptible.

the only thing I understand here is indecent

drnairalov:
can I come to ur house m stranded

my house is filled sorry

drnairalov:
gud

hum, I asked my momma why is dad head bald she said because he his extraordinarily brilliant,..then I said no wonder ur hair is long..then she threw me outta house..please why??

because she just discovered she is not your mother.

holy Spirit forbid...

nuelsilva:
pooh. that hostel is my dad's kitchen .lols

yeah right.

ernesty20:
I no see am o

can i borrow you my glasses. take it

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Sweetyie:
its ppl like me that die b4 their time

hmmmmmm.eeyah

Sweetyie:
so? Whats ur 'F'ing business n dont even think of quoting me again

i quote you. dare you

is that what you call sharing? it looks more like they are showing off and forcing themselves to kiss.

Sweetyie:
Eeeeyah. Happy Birthday to her

what is eeeeyah about the birthday? is eeeyah not used for pity?

chocolateme:
Lol, who is the criminal here now? They look like they are from the same mother, crooks.



FTC
Chocolate cream

NO vex

OP though you shouldn't have started it at all but you are into it already. Most times it is advisable not to date your friends cos friendship last longer than some relationships.

I think the reason why she is still angry with you is cos she loves you. But she had shown it in the past and it was not reciprocated. you won't want her to lose out on the present guy she is dating cos of your unseriousness.are you saying if you truly love her the way she loves you that you won't do it RAW?
If you know you don't love her then stop saying it. Let her move on with her life. Maybe with time she will get over your love and find love elsewhere.
Am sure she will be regretting showing her love towards you and if she truly loves you, she can't heal within months of your separation. Give her time not you coming how many months after to profess love that you never appreciate.

that is what married guys tell ladies to deceive them. he aint divorcing his wife. all what he did for you is a normal thing any guy can do for any girl either there is true love or fake love.
my advice: move on with your life and get your own man. don't break anyone's home cos KARMA is a Bi.tch