Iamolukorede:
Hey guys, I will not bore you with any long epistle but will rather give a quick and a sharp pointer to identity a mature man or guy when you see one or notice the traits, I'm about to highlight. And so let's go !

In accordance with premium time revelations, maturity is not measured by age it's an attitude built by vast pool of experience.

HERE ARE 10 TRAITS OF A MATURED HUMAN BEINGS.

1. Comfortable being alone: They are comfortable being on their own and don’t always need friends or people around them.

2. Accept differences: They accept that everyone is different and will have different opinions. They don’t need everyone to think or act as they do.

3. Emotional Independence: They are not dependent financially or emotionally on their parents. They tend to make their own life decisions.

4. Treating others right: They don’t put someone down or make fun of someone because that’s not how they get their self-esteem. They are already confident in themselves.

5. Taking responsibility: They don’t blame others for their failures and try to take responsibility on how to improve the situation rather than complain.

6. Listening more than talking: They have two ears and one mouth and they use them in that proportion.

7. Honesty: They don’t try to deceive or manipulate others for their gains. They lay their desires on the table and it’s okay if other people walk away.

8. Mature conversations: They like to talk about deep meaningful topics about life and nature with a sense of wonder and curiosity.

9. Never clinging: They don’t emotionally cling to people and if someone isn’t the right fit for them they aren’t afraid to let them go.

10. Not chasing: They don't chase money or that new car or someone,they know where true happiness is; in the present.

You can add yours to keep the fun on going and don't don't forget to like and share, it encourages me to write more it is not over until you win ..

11. Many don't spend time seeing television.

12. They are prudent with spending..
13. ...

Iamolukorede:


Oga, if you read through my highlights I said it that Nigeria leaders are all monumental failures, the youth are just contributing factor. However, whoever wants to do the fact or what have you that is left to them, it is my submission with the right frame of mind. Tell them to wake up before it's too late sir ..

I commend your dodgedness, I won't mind, share me some books, have you read " the 7 habit of highly successful people by Steven covey" that the book I'm doing now, I have a goal to read � fourteen books in one year �

Yeah, I spend quality time to read too, to read fourteen book within a year is archiveable, i envy your goals tho. Have you seen the book "48laws of power by Robert Greene" a nice read Iemme tell you.

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I don't allow my kids to watch that show of shame, it won't add to them, when their father don't even spend time seeing television, now I'm not saying they shouldn't watch TV but not bbn, however the adage "like father like son should be a bag too*I prefer them to Read business books that will bring essentials to their growth not bbn ..

uyimove19:
foolish BBN

easy brother, those guys are just doing business..

Iamolukorede:
I seconded and tbh you have said it all.

You know I had the opportunity to live in four different countries, I was expose to different things that enhance productivity. Sheer ignorance is appalling, well accepted in Nigeria and like you said many parades themselves as genius without basis.

However, the sheer ignorance coupled with what Nigeria �� as a nation is facing today still boils down to leadership, if the head is spoilt the rest of the body malfunction without intelligence. That is why this leaders deliberately kept running the country to the floor while keeping her citizens in abject poverty resulting into lacky systems.

Never more, the youth are not encouraging either, they spent their time on frivolous activities and keyboarding yet, speaks big grammar with zero IQ level. I read comments from toddlers who jump on post to write ✍ jargons and to justify their strength, support, love ❤ for the said television show of shame, but Cheif, left to me this generation are not ready, your pointers are valid.

Your wisdom won't go off and your highlights is bam. I don't celebrate mediocrity either, we all know ignorance is not an excuse but then how many people will want to listen to fact. Majority of the said youth are the problem of this country, you said it " the problem of Nigeria are Nigerians " lemme tell you, if not because over 73% of this youth are living in delusion, ignorance, poverty perpetuated by this leaders, do you think they be doing the wrong when not right. They will wake the f ** up and not sleep �

Marriage is good for a man, it is good for the woman too if both parties are ready mentally, physically. Marriage is for two matured personality who understands how to pick their onions � it is not necessarily you spend huge before getting married if you are both reasonable and understanding.

Men literally don't want to get settled because many of the ladies today are not marriageable, left to me I will say 74% out of 100% of the female factor are not ready or have a sound template of what home building is about, don't forget women like it soft, if your baby can't contribute to home development or has a job and can hustle as per Nigeria situation, then you be left hanging. Look, men are becoming more wiser now, they know what they want in a woman and so no lady should cap craps. You have to build it from bottom to the top.

I seconded you, seems as if you knew what I was thinking," Coz I was like what da f**k I'm I Reading here, I literally come here but jus to glance, spent quality time on quora" I mean what real men sit down to masturbate and watch porn, sound babric yet disgusting to the hears.

Left to me me the OP is just caping cap with full chest, I can't remember seeing porn for decades. Many of these Bois are jobless with no mind of their own argrr

NoFucksToGive:
So many weak kpomo ju men on this forum
. Dem go just come online dey cap careless.

Over 120 million men in Nigeria and trust me they all have problems but porn and masturbation isn't on their list . They have bills, family issues ,health issues, career issues, social issues but porn and soapy is not one of their problems .

Paddy your problem is you were born weak, raised weak, indulged to be weak hence why blue film wey you dey watch on phone and soapy became your problem to the extent you came without any shame to post this online. Maybe in your mind you are a motivator to other weak men like you? . Osanobua!!!

This is the problem with Nigeria today. In the old days our fathers were men. They had too much time being men to have feminine problems like soapy and porn.

Kai I dey shame for you OP. See wetin son of a supposed man posted online with pride and full chest

Too many kpomo ju men on this forum no wonder Una dey always get time argue and abuse each other tribe like women !!! I spit In disgust!!
Who dey raise all these weak men abeg?!!
Abeg Were dem from come ?

U go see men dey cap stupidity online with pride , dey abuse each other like women! Now see this one dey announce say him stop soapy and blue film as achievement with pride o?!!! Osanobua!!!

Nor wonder babes just dey misbehave because the men don become more like women while the women don dey man up... It's natural evolution in nature, when there is an absence of the apex predator the weaker animals take its place .. I dey shame for these breed of men!!!!

Osanobua!!!

To wipe the OP USB cord for neck dey hungry me

Iamolukorede:
You sure spoke my mind chief, Nigeria is so sick in the hand of this failures. They kept running him to the floor.

Yeah brother..

Iamolukorede:
The true nature of politicking is what you see in the photo above, I said it at one of my engagement with a popular radio station, here in lagos Nigeria.

No Nigeria citizens should trust any politicians, I'm from the 80s, they are of thesame mind set, I'm not a politician but I have political sense. Look, to these elite jetting out to london for a purpose or the other is not new to many of them, they Don't care either. it is marjorly based on selfish interests. Forget wike and the rest of them, their discussions are about forming new alliance. They return to Nigeria to vibe differently in the political space to deceive the Nigeria citizens.

However, p.o is not new in the political terrain,he plays politics ultimately at any given opportunity, Don't trust him either, you might be surprised if he finally collapsed with is former family which is pdp. And peradventure if he becomes the next Nigerian president, which I don't see him becoming one" don't expect a miracle with his led administration. What significance as he brought in administration for the past 20 years he as been into politics, buhari was noised thesame way in 2015.

To this end, are you Batified, Atikulate, or Obidient don't be fooled by their with the noise, especially the youths, those guys you see above are only playing politics at the detriment of all the Nigerian citizens, don't get yourself too emotional or worked out about them, they are one, and no hate in politics pdp, apc,lp et Al are the major problems of this country, the major problem of Nigeria are Nigerians and no country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

Nice one, so profound..

Nigeria politics is about to take a new turn. with their meetings abroad, let's just wait for new developments and stories coming from their camps, the Nigeria citizens be touting, protesting and yet speaking grammar, bro this one's don't care and they will never care about nation building. From the photo above those guys are enjoying themselves. many Nigeria citizens will never have the opportunity to be where they are throughout their life time.

Politics is meant to be played across spheres and so what Peter had done is to mark register and might lata collapsed with is family "pdp like you mentioned " trust politicians at your own peril, they are rogues with no repentance in their plans..

UrProguy:
It isn't that they don't want this strike to come to an abrupt end, but the shame of being caught in the avoidable Web of protest against the ASUU body for fear of Being tagged hunger induced.
This is an appeal to Lecturers, don't be cowards, say your mind, come off it once and for all, una oga on top no dey feel una pain at all.

What Assu is saying is there is no going back, of course they should stand the ground in making sure FG commits to their said agreement since 2015 if they agree on half remittance of both the revitalisation fund with arrears I'm sure 6month from now,another strike will be up and running.

The truth be told this led administration are innumerable failures, they keep running the country to the floor, no sane leader will watch is educational sectors go to dust, they don't just care about the outcome, their own is to consume and live luxurious life style at the detriment of their citizens. No country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

This is the tactics they use to gaslight their wife at home so as not to know what they do with ladies outside. Yul edochie’s wife was doing exactly all you wrote but she not only got served some hot meal, her husband went ahead to impregnate and marry her side girlfriend. I will never support this, let every married woman actively mark and secure her territory, allowing a man too much freedom escalate the randiness in them. A wise woman will always keep her husband in check in a calmly, firmly and matured way. It is one of the reasons late Maryam Babangida will forever be a role model to people like me, he held her husband down without any public drama and violence, despite her husband’s wealth, fame and affluence. He knows too well not to start spreading his seeds all over the place because he loves and respect her and wouldn’t indulge in things that will break their lovely home.

And that is why marriage � is for adult, who as a sense of freedom but captive in Responsibilities, a woman should know how to play her roles well in her home to avoid stories that touch and same goes to the husband, the manual for marriage spells it correctly, "women be submissive to your husband and men love ❤ your wife" it is as simple as that ..

headbasher96:
there are no women here only scammers with grey hair on their dicks forming women

Lol, you jus carry me reach there ..

Which reasonable government will put his university on the lock for over 5 months, they don't want Education to thrive and that is the logic. Their siblings and family � member aren't schooling there in Nigeria, and so the youth needs to wise up, this led administration and their principal will keep running Nigeria to the floor.

Forget,if it is Apc or pdp,or lp all of them are of the same mind set, trust no politicians. Amidst the mess the same government approved over 1.5billi to nija Republic to fight insecurity lol I laugh in Italian. The insecurity in your own nation is far worse than that of nija Republic

To this end, this led administration are parallel or monumental failures with a deliberate attempt to kill Nigeria at the detriment of Nigeria citizens. No country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt. The problems of Nigeria �� are Nigerians.

headbasher96:
leave women dont even know what NL is

Women, they say una don't know what nairaland is about lol ..

Savedday:
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Those girls � won't like this but not all of them sha, some nice and understanding ones still dey.

Iamolukorede:


I seconded you chief..

Okay boss, you are mouthed ..

Iamolukorede:


We like it when you can think outside the box �

Haha, average percentage of Nigeria ladies this days cannot think outside the box brother, they like comfort and lavish lifestyle.

You can add yours, by keeping the fun � going ..

1. We men do not think about sex every single second.

2. Sometimes, we don't have anything to talk to you about.

3. Guys don't mind if girls make the first move, they actually like it.

4. We're totally cool if you put on a few pounds.

5. Just because we don't answer your text right away doesn't mean we don't love you.

6. We always appreciate a text from you.

7. Lingerie isn't necessary for us to get turned on.

8. If you're not going to try to change things, then stop complaining to us about the same stuff.

9.We love when you kiss our heads and rub our backs.

10. We like it better when you put your head on our shoulders.

Happy Reading!!

~martinmiller

Your sincere reviews are very encouraging and motivate me to write even more.

Oghene1st:
Obasanjo nor well. This man been corruptly put he farm workers under federal government payroll. Workers dey work for am, while federal government dey pay them, then he go collect revenue put for pocket. Corruption at its finest.

He is the present darling of Ndi-igbo because he is supporting Obi while they castigate Tinubu for being corrupt. The Igbo wonder in Nigeria.

Anyways, OBJ and Tinubu are birds of same beak. No matter how OBJ pretends, he can't change the fact that he is corrupt. He is a master of corruption and never appealing to me politically, even if he speaks well of my candidate.

Peter Obi is my candidate and I understand the fact that, when you are in Rome, act like the Romans but PO should never take advice from OBJ because OBJ is a very greedy and selfish old man.

Don't mind him, I talks with two sides of his mouth, when he had the opportunity in 1999 what did he do to cushion the affect � of this present catastrophe or he didn't see it coming.

I trust no politicians, they are of thesame mind-set, whom repentance his not in their plans, they are all monumental failures even obedient " I don't trust him either, buhari said more than him before 2015.

To this end, no country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt, the problem of Nigeria are Nigerians.

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KingRSHD2:
Enough story for the Gods we just need solution to insecurity for naija..

That's all

Absolutely, no need to paddle about, the problems facing Nigerians did not start today, it have been in common since 1960 till date. Nigeria will turn 62 or 63 come October 4th, f**k the country is no longer a toddler but being run by toddler, they keep running it to the floor and that is a sign of a total mess and irresponsibility..

To this end, the solutions facing the Nigerian citizens for decades should be a paramount discussion through which we can lead the country through a progressive path, no country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

The problem of Nigeria �� are Nigerians..

Oops, what a nice read fam �

Toxic pple are everywhere within the environment not only in banks, they are more rampant as in plenty in new generation banks. In so far you have secured a new work, use your experience to inform your future. Happy working

If it is about Atiku and tinubu

I have no f**ks to give, the country is bleeding already and if any of those guys comes in as president of the country Nigeria.

Jus know Nigeria is finished and also ready for sale, this one's don't care anymore.

No country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

wumi2017:
Congratulations,,,mine soonest inshAllah

Her you Muslim ☪️

What can savage Nigeria are the youths, where as over 50% if them are also ready to loot the treasury and ball hard on their haters,like their leaders have done. Look, no country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

With this set of leaders, it can only get worse.

Selah

chatinent:



This is the most reasonable post I have read this month here.

I seconded you, I wonder how the youth of the country thinks because it beats me and perhaps it is not about who becomes the next Nigerian president but the structure.

OtunbaJ:
Mr Aremu, I can see that u are ignorant about how this things works or let me say u have not being in this country so u may speak like a child. How can a VP perform under this kind of Govt or leader. The little time that he was in charge, Nigerians saw d difference and that is what is be punished for till today for doing the right to things

I disagree with your submission. As in don't let anyone fool you, the problems of Nigeria is beyond osinbajo and besides Nigeria problems isn't about who president Nigeria it is far more than that, give osinbajo 2023 to become the president he will continue to fail, and still failing.

The problems of Nigeria are Nigerians.
Selah.

Jollylolly:
So the VP is now Emefiele or is he Zainab Ahmed who is the finance minister?All these yeyebrities with their ignorance.

He even lied because 1AED is N113 as of today.
https://www.exchangerates.org.uk/Dirhams-to-Nigerian-Naira-currency-conversion-page.html

You are right 1AED ==113. 216 I dunno why the guy � came up with such a fat lie. It is understanding when he says Nigeria economy is on the floor, every body even a toddler knows that, but why lie 6500aed isn't up to 1million

The good news is that,henceforth you won't hear anything in regards to this news again.

80billion in this current economy then he should killed and all is property labelled for the Fg. In sanner climes here, I'm sure he will rot in jail for that but in Nigeria anything goes even the effcc will form connivance with him afterwards, (serap) doe's a beta job.

That is why it will be so difficult for Nigeria to move beyond the spot, money meant for generations and for their lively hood. I feel ashamed hearing such news, I pity Nigeria citizens.

No country has ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.

jiggaz:
Just watch the short 2 minutes video below and you will be glad you did... The Rapture our blessed hope!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AQ_BJfIwJj8&t=47s

Many of us as believers can't wait to experience see this happen but only Jehova knows when and how it will happen.

This will bring an end to � money amidst others and I'm particular the overrated best, superb and fantastic event that will ever take place on � earth, forget all this one many of this so called celebrities are doing and the ones you yourself is doing. Rapture will be an amazing event to look out for in history which I look forward to.

However, have you given your life to christ?, or by peradventure you have given your life to christ and something happend on your walk with God. Why not re dedicate your life to christ again by saying ; Dear lord Jesus � I surrender my whole life to you, come and be the Lord over my life, I want you in this life and after be my guide and accept whole heartedly. Amen

And if you have say that prayer, plis kindly attend any local church within your area to know more about your newly found faith in christ ( Jesus christ) to walk in is doctrine and teachings.

However, if rapture comes then you can be save and your name written in the book of life.