bro,gudmawin,saw dis gurl,i aproached ha,nd i tink m lucky wit dis gurl,cos hv aproachd whch ended no whr,dats my sticking point tho.we hv hanged out 3tym,nd laughd,joke togeda,do touch ha,nd she told me she s romantic buh nt EMOTIONAL,she kind of a godly girl aldo she mature.now we cum to conclusn dat she wud come my side.buh since den she do complan how busy she was,aldo whch ibelv.how can i bost ha morale to cum nd wen she cum hw shud itk tins to d next level wit ha cosidring how chuchy nd not emotnal she claim to be

hey bro,u too much..m feeling u and u r on point...hv got huge prob...atleast m comfortable approaching girls Aldo I still get litle approach anxiety,aldo i heard almost all de gurus feel dsame..hv bin approaching girls and its lyk i find it difficult to tk it to d next level..d tym to cal nd or how to chat dem up on how we can meet up na whala..dey flakes a lot...bro I need ur guide,d road seems DISCOURAGING,,buh wen I found dis trend i was hapi dier z someone wu z on d peak of game...

iLegend:


I like your type. I'll be your guide whenever I have free time. Experiences shape your mindset. Mindset without experience is just an affirmation.

tnkz for compliment bro,hmmm EXPERIENCE SHAPE MINDSET...hv really come a long way in on dis pua tinz...and evertyn seem giving up,buh I knw its possible to become a monster lyk u guys,WANA B DAT GUY WU CATCH FISH ANTYM,ANYWHR..atleast hv do ova hundreds daygames which hv build ma confidence a little,buh m still giving a little Bleep,i even read it dat all d pua master still hv dis fucking little approach anxiety.Aldo I knw many pua theory for ma head..hv work hard on dis dating issue Dan to give up...i tink dat guide z d best option..how about contact exchange.

iLegend:


I have a lot of insecurities but I see them as strength. It's mindset.

People are scared of soldiers not because they're stronger than all civilians, but because they have a uniform and a reputation. I have a uniform (which is my mind), and a reputation (which is the behavior).

I'm 5'7 and not that good looking, except when I shave. Yeah, muscular, but l don't really see it as anything. I just love to hit the gym and sing in the studio. Nothing special, but a mindset!

Lemme upload a half pix on ma profile! But I'll take it down soon.

m realy loving u bro....u guys xtedy,djboot and bro,do talk much about MINDSET,u never contradict eachoda.DAT mins d game work dsame..aldo m nt gud looking too, slim,very shy guy,partially broke..lolz,c confession,buh if go out now in ma fully dress,and walk wit confidence as usual,ppl always ask me do u owns a bank..Aldo I actualy knw some mindset lyk going out never give A DARM Bleep,DO WAT U GAT TO DO COS DOS WU MATTER NEVER MIND ND DOS WU MIND DOSNT MATTER..buh I realise if i go i still gv little Bleep despite d fact DAT I knw des mindset r real...sir,hw did u guys develop such a massive mindset wen any anxiety want to grip u or wot r ur motivational talk u mind z used wit...i knw ma wala too much,reach wia u guys r hv bin ma long tym dream,DAT I tink of everyday...ready to learn from d master's feet

iLegend:


The game is different for different folks. Women respond to commands and control as long as you do it with a pinch of humor.

Most men don't command and they don't control. If they do, they don't add a pinch of humor - which is scary to some women and intriguing/repulsive to others.

The psychology is: People with a sense of humor are seen as harmless.

Question: If Akpos invites you to his house and Charlie Boy invites you too, which will you honor?

Women see most men as Charlie Boy, so they ain't comfortable coming to your house without knowing you properly. Which means you need to go on a date, so you can create the connection/rapport. I'm not Charlie Boy, so my case is different like Akpos.

They responds to coming to my house better than anything. Maybe it's because they don't see any harm in me. When you use women's game on women they respond like a lesb!an wooing a lesb!an. I always tell them 'no touching' else I'll call the police for rape allegations.

I'm very naughty with women. I can't talk to a woman for 10 minutes without insinuating naughty and dirty talk. Even the Churchy girls love it. I just know when to bring it. It seems I have a comfort gauging engine in me.

Women are just so comfortable with me when we chat, so they don't see the need to go anywhere else other than my house.

When I use my system Female Sextapes to chat or interact with women EVERYTHING IS SETTLED. It'll look as if we've know each other from time immemorial.

When chatting/conversing with women use this system the FemaleSextapes and she won't resist coming to your house.

F=Family
E=Entertainment
M=Marriage
A=Ambition
L=Language
E=Experiences/Events

S=Sex-life
E=Education
X=Xercise
T=Travel
A=Ask-Me
P=Problems
E=Environmental Observations
S=Scariest Encounter Ever (SEE)

It'll SHOCK you to know how I use this system with psychology+humor to make them addicted. They wait for my replies online which I don't reply easily even if I'm online.

Each key word above a like a Chapter in a woman's life.

Let's take Entertainment. In Entertainment there is a sub-acronym called (films) which means I'll discuss some crazy things with her about Fashion, Icons, Live-comedy, Music/Movies and Sports.

Lots of humorous, naughty and crazy questions to ask here. Let's pick music just to check how naughty she is by asking: Tell me a sexually explicit song you can't get off your head by a Nigerian musician and also by a foreign artist? When I'm done with Entertainment I pick another Key like Language.

I ask her to teach me 4 things in her language which are always naughty things.

They always feel comfortable after chatting with me that they CAN NEVER turn me down. They CAN'T.

I psychologically and humorously block all loop holes so the rabbit won't run.

If you master FEMALESEXTAPES you've mastered how to talk/chat with women or any living thing and they'll fall in love the you. They can't help it!

The thing is you talk 30% of the time and listen 70% of the time; while she talks 70% of the time and listens 30% of the time. It's crazy.

Female Sextapes contain every fun things we humans love to talk about. The good news is this acronym FEMALESEXTAPES can NEVER be removed in your permanent memory just by reading this post. Naughty things/words are hard to erase on our memory.

The problem is, when some guys learn this system they'll be TOO MUCH in their head searching for the next topic to talk about instead of enjoying the present topic. Forget Female Sextapes when you've already picked a topic and enjoy the conversation until it starts to get dry or boring before you check your brain for a new and fun topic or you call it day.

I have written an article on FEMALESEXTAPES and how it works. Every guy needs this.

I don't know when I'll post it. Maybe next year.

OH GOD,HOW DID U GUYS REACH DIS LEVEL IN DIS GAME,MAYBE U GUY ARE NOT BORN WIT MUCH INSECURITIES M FIGHTING...Ilegend,ur nick name never lie about u...u jex too much bro..oh I don't even hv to tel u DAT,its very obvious. hv got some nice point hv jot down DAT m gona tk ACTION WIT,COS DATS D KOKO...FEMALESEX,DATS GREAT...CNT WAIT FOR THE ARTICLE ON IT BRO...

iLegend:


I have only been on a date once. I don't go on dates. I only hang-out with them after they've submitted sex. C'mon I'm only after sex. I don't have feelings for now. I have sold my feelings long time ago when a girl I sent a love letter to in secondary school gave the letter to my dad and he mercilessly redesigned my future with a koboko. Damn! That letter is still in his files. Just wish I could read it again.

THIS IS THE KEY: Do everything women do to men back to them. Women shouldn't flake on you, flake on them.

This is how you do it: Whenever you're broke book a date. (You know there's no money, so you can't go out.)

You: Hey! Queen Elizabeth. On Friday we'll hang-out. Look fly as usual. What's your schedule?

(Be a man. Don't beg or ask for a date BOOK A DATE.)

Now, she'll find a day that suits her and when that day comes don't explain sh!ts to her switch off your main line and use your Etisalat line.

Later SMS or Whatsapp her and lie like Liar Muhammed. (Don't call because she won't pick. She's already angry.)

If you do this she'll be thinking of you because no guy has done this to her. It makes you different.

Though, she's not happy with you, but don't worry! She's a woman, so she definitely has a fish brain even if she denies it. It's women's nature.

After coming up with a lie to suit the situation don't talk to her for a day or two. She'd either call or sms you.

While you're giving her time pick another victim and repeat the process. Don't be scared of losing any woman. They're everywhere and the competition among them is real. WE MEN are the judge, so don't see yourself as a participant. You're the boss.

Right now, on my Facebook I have booked 5 dates with 5 different women, but I'll cancel it at the end. I book; I cancel. I book again; I cancel again. I do to them what they do to my fellow boys/men!

Now, they'll be longing for it, but it'll never happen. It'll only happen in my room.

(When you're good in bed you can do anything with women and you'll go free. I treat them like sh!ts in the bedroom and they treat me like a king outside the bedroom.)

I intensionally make women angry almost everyday. And we always reconcile. It's just a matter of time.

(If you have a sense of humor and confidence, then you should also learn how to offend women by not agreeing to their ways most times.)

Take their insults as compliments.
Woman: You're stup!d!
You: Wow! Thanks for the compliment.
Woman: You're too ugly or short!
You: You're amazing! Thanks for the compliment. When is your birthday? Oh! Forget it I already know. (This messes with their brain — a bad guy who doesn't react to negative remakes is super-attractive.)

If you truly want to go on a date with her by all means it means you're a little desperate and anxious. No worries. Disappoint her first, then later promise to make up for it by taking her out.

Escalate subtly as early as possible.

For me the first day I meet a woman is the day I escalate. It's natural. When I go see my mum I touch her ears, nose and I hug her. I do the same with my siblings and everyone I like. It's just natural and harmless. The earlier the better. Remove the space between the two of you. It's called rapport and connection! You need it.

Something just happened while typing this. I was outside with a gorgeous brat. I went inside and abandoned her there. She came to my door and knocked for almost 5 minutes and I refused to open. She went back and sat down thinking I'll open, but I didn't. Now, she's gone inside the compound with anger. Tomorrow I'll definitely cure her madness.

Don't allow women flake on you, flake on them.

Or

Another ways you could do this is to bring the word 'flaking and disappointment' in a conversation and try to probe her to tell you how she feels when somebody flakes or disappoints her.

After she's done blabbing how much she hates it, then catch her off guard by booking a date.

After booking it you say, 'I know you hate disappointment, and so do I.'

nice write up bro..I love d part of bringing it up in d 1st meeting...buh 1st part z a little bit contradicting to d game,about flaking on dem on date,and having sex bfr hanging out wit dem...den after u aporoach nd talk lyk 5mins,and hvbha numba bcus she hv to go ha way.bro,when u kip flaking dem up on date which z d part of building rappot ,where z now d part to build emotional connection with dem which z mostly done on date or hanging out,which comes bfr sex...bro,more enlighten on dis will b welcum.

i stil always wonder how u guys,xtedy,josh nd ilegend, became such a monster lyk dis.tinking of how u guys wud hv challenge ur self on indifferent occasion..Aldo hv bin a year pua,reading diff world bst pua books, going out doing day game,challenging ma comfort zone..I can tel its not a joke...Aldo its really fun when u hv d ability talk to any fucking girl,doing wot most guys r afraid to do..I love it

buh here z deal,m really comfortable approaching mostly walking girls,which x d most diff and having some cool number,buh get little prob z how to mk gud use of d number,asking for date without flaking.
xo legend n d house,how got true dis stage

iamnlia:
Let's go.....

I think I am finding it difficult communicating with people (have always been a nerd since time immemorial) ,most times I see this person I want to converse with,but I just don't get the feel. Thing is I always prefer talking in my head than to real humans. So the main problem is that If I see someone I would like to meet,even if I know the words or how to control the conversation, I don't feel obliged to approach whatsoever.......... But later on,I get to feel sore and somewhat depressed...... U need to know if someone is or has experienced something similar, and how did you combat it . Thanks

man,dats wot we called approach anxiety,Aldo m stil learner,and hv been in ur shoes bfr,infact almost every badass HV been dier.,do u want to knw how to conquer it its really a bitter truth..and d truth z FEEL THE FEAR AND FACE IT....no other way,take action,dat anxiety z crazy monster talk n ur head telling u many reason not to approach...jex DO IT ANYHOW PLS,dats how u can learn,build ur confidence muscle and move forward.nd u will learn dat its noting big...Aldo HV made a lot of approaches especially street or day approach,and HV learnt dat not approaching can only cause TWO tin..which are FEW MOMENT OF COMFORT AND EVERLASTING PAIN,while facing d fear can cause many tin,which are 30SECS OF DISCOMFORT,BUILDING UR CONFIDENCE, FRENDSHIP,DATES,LOVE AND SEX...OH READ DAT LINE AGAIN !!!!den y r u giving a damn Bleep?...dats my secret.once I weigh d two difference togeda,noting go stop me..most of ma friends do pray mk dem get dat courage...buh dey can never get it unless go thru wot I went thru.hope it helps...go out and never listen to wot ur brain tel u.its all illusions.

kudos to d badass n d hause...HV bin using some tips here,about acting as a bf potential,HV been usn it for a particular girl NW,I gv ha nickname,calling ha babe and xo on,buh e be lyk say she no vibe wit it..buh am Tinkin maybe am it showing too much of d bf potential.... and Na here I learnt say giving too much concentration z not d rules...a beg Hw can I step tinz up nw....moreova we meeting wen we finish our exam...how can I can I step am on d date....possess help ooooo

xxxtedyxxx:
thankS for stopping by bro.

Yea dats d logic. Lots of girls wana run things with u, but when you do sth that triggers the bf-question, her auto responses gets de-activated. That thrilling feeling she was once experiencing with u dwindles with the thought of her wondering abt her bf. Its better not to ask. This method keeps u away from d friendzone. If u ask, and she gives the ultimate reply " sorry, i av a bf".....she just opened the dreaded door of "friendzone" for u to go through. But if u dont ask, and u show potential, not normal friend potentials, she will pick up on it. Its an attraction signal. Some girls dont like "jjc/newbie" kind of question. Its better to asumme than ask outrightly smtimes. She will feel the attraction, den if she has a bf, she will bring it up herself. Not by u asking, and wen she does, u can simply wave it aside with " oh, dts cool, am just jealous dearie..switch convo to sth else and continue ur normal game". She wont feel guilty for her actions. In most cases, she wont even bring d bf issue up if ur acting like a bf-soji kind of guy already. Not like jjc nice friendly guy.

U grab bro.

tnkx for d reply,no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Huging her and kissn hervwen I c her..I swear dis

xxxtedyxxx:
thankS for stopping by bro.

Yea dats d logic. Lots of girls wana run things with u, but when you do sth that triggers the bf-question, her auto responses gets de-activated. That thrilling feeling she was once experiencing with u dwindles with the thought of her wondering abt her bf. Its better not to ask. This method keeps u away from d friendzone. If u ask, and she gives the ultimate reply " sorry, i av a bf".....she just opened the dreaded door of "friendzone" for u to go through. But if u dont ask, and u show potential, not normal friend potentials, she will pick up on it. Its an attraction signal. Some girls dont like "jjc/newbie" kind of question. Its better to asumme than ask outrightly smtimes. She will feel the attraction, den if she has a bf, she will bring it up herself. Not by u asking, and wen she does, u can simply wave it aside with " oh, dts cool, am just jealous dearie..switch convo to sth else and continue ur normal game". She wont feel guilty for her actions. In most cases, she wont even bring d bf issue up if ur acting like a bf-soji kind of guy already. Not like jjc nice friendly guy.

U grab bro.

tnkx for d reply,i no say ma own too much for here,wnt get tired of learning...cos i must fix dis issue n ma lyf...no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Hug her and kiss her wen I c her,holding ha hand,lolz...Somone wu CNT even go out on a date wit me,lolz...I swear she go tink say I don high...baba expanciate more pls.

djboosting...u smoking hot gan..u and Xtedy b monster in dis game...love u guys..
as per d asking girls out...don experience it wit 4 diff girls,e no work atallllll..na all of dem get boifrend,I wonda if we still get single ladies self,lolz,, na acting boifrend potential on point....

xxxtedyxxx:
dont try approaching in group if ur not confident enuf, or if u cant hold convo. Forget that " excuse me guys, can i talk to ur friend for a minute". Lol

Trying engaging her and locking eye contact with her. Smile @ her, or even blow her a kiss from afar. She will make her self evailable pretty soon. Just dont stalk her.


My 2cents.

kiss her from afar,DAT require pretty confidence baba..locking eye contact no easy self..

xxxtedyxxx:
how long rapport lasts will depend on how often you guys communicate. It could last for 5mins or even 2days. Just gauge the frequency of ur convo. Dont stay in d rapport stage for too long, u risk falling into the friend zone if u do.

5mins,u r talkn of d approaching one

Djboosting:


I really love the reply given to you by teddy to "free" the babe. She ain't worth it.

But I have another different view and approach to that...

Well, I like one thing about the girl in question, she's BLUNT (at least for her to block and stop the conversation with you, shows that either she's not enjoying the conversation or "chats" with her, OR your rapport with her is also like every other 43 guys texting her everyday), unlike most girls who gives guys false hope, that won't block you, read your text, but will never reply, and even if they do, might be just once or twice a month.

I just don't like her "rude" attitude of approaching the blocking.

You see, the thing is, it is not their fault. Most guys caused all this. Relax let me give you this illustration:

Imagine you are a girl.....

In a day, 4 guys approached you, you exchanged numbers with two. Just in a day. Good.

Now you are logging in your Facebook account, another 5 - 7 guys least, are chyking you, trying to get in your pants. Are you feeling me?

Again, you logged on your BBM, you have about 4 - 8 guys texting, chatting and trying their "manifesto" skill on you so they can get you in bed with them.
Are you following?

(Let's just forget the Nairaland, twitter, baddo, Instagram guys following you parole, etc)

Finally you opened your WhatsApp and you have different kinds of guys about 8 - 12, texting and showing their skills just to get you in bed, DOING the same sh¡t, over and over and over again every.....fvcking.....day.

Won't you be comparing those messages together? Who you want to reply and who you don't want.
Figuratively, haven't you turned into a queen to be worshiped by those guys?

Now you meet another guy(which is you Ayoola) "thinking" he's going to be different from every....other...guys you've been talking to, you guys exchanged numbers, BUT he (Ayoola) again move to WhatsApp to join the remaining 32 "texting and chatting" guys following thesame line of chyking you.

Bro, do you see where I'm going now?

Now tell me, How will you feel if you are the girl?

Guess you have seen the reason why she blocked you now.

Even if she did not block you, she might not even reply your messages anymore.

Why?

Because your "execution" is not different from that of the guys she's ignoring on the phone and social accounts.

That might be a couple of reason why she blocked you.

Now I'm not saying you should go and confront her or beg her now on why she blocked you. Because if you do that, what kind of guy are you? A slave?

Good since you're not a slave that shows that there are some part of you that needed working on.

Martoz, hope you reading this?

Ayoola, forget any rejection feeling you are having right now. You don't need it. You are a man.
And right from creation you are created completely to be full on your own without needing a woman.
A woman is just there for that sexual company. So you are not going to beg any girl or feel down because of any girl.

And also you might want to remove this line of
"I'm good looking and have a high charisma in school."

Being good looking is not what attract females. It is just a tip BONUS.

And if you have "High Charisma", you won't have any problem attracting any female.
(It depends on your own definition of "Charisma" anyway.)

Forget any self-ego so for you to learn fully, and to allow what you're learning penetrate deeply into you.

The truth about you right now is:

You need to work on yourself. Meaning work on your attraction skills first.

Learn it. Don't fall into the "if I have money, girls would do so so with me" category.

Find someone who knows game to coach you, it is a skills not a gift.

You learn it, and you start using it. Then it becomes a part of you.


I'm sure with this few description, you learnt another new lesson..

You might want to PM me, if you have any issue on your dating part...

Like I always tell my clients,

"Life is all about learning and experiences."


I'm out.
Peace..

JD.

lolz...martoz dey listen o..hmm...bro I dey feel u..its a skill not a gift...#noted#

diggy4real:
How can I succeed in this?......How can I get Cozy with Six girls I collected dia numbers today successfully?.... Any advice will be appreciated.

thumb up man,6 numbers...u tried o...mk u game dem all,number doesn't equate to success many time...if all of dem flake, me e no surprise u..na stage by stage as oga tedy said,stage 1 na attract,and stage two na rapport building and gain their trust,and last na cozy cozy . wen u left one stage,it wnt work...remove d tot DAT u wana cosy for now...man build report and trust...wish u success.

Djboosting:


@Bolded... That's only a fallacy.. It is not true.

Let me describe it this way..

When a student has just been given admission into a University, imagine how your first day for receiving lecture is going to feel like... You will so want to feel like your heart is gonna burst any moment, your heartbeat will be very fast that you'll feel like every eyes are on you alone.

BUT as time goes on, you make friends, you laugh freely, you can even sit on the table and let everyone feel your swag, you finally become de-sensitized.
You will reach that freedom stage that you can enter ANY lecture theatre to receive lecture and talk to anyone like you own the whole campus.

That description up there is exactly what approach anxiety looks like.. As you keep up with your approaching women, forgetting the "outcome" you desire. You are just there having a conversation for you, just for your own fun.

You won't even give a fvck what the environment is doing. Because approaching has become what I call your DEFAULT SETTING at that point, you can approach anyone and you become UNSTOPPABLE.

All you have to do is to keep practicing your approach every time with anybody, either the girl you like or not, or the girl who is selling goods to you or that elder woman in that shop. Joke with them, laugh with them, ask them questions.

You don't have to wait till you see a girl you are interested in before making approach. Because you have been doing it everyday..

Hope that helps, martoz?


I'm out.
Peace beast.

JD

yes bro.tnks alot, it helps...cos i don dey try for approach babes DAT my friend do jealouse say mk dem get dis knd gut...buh smal hesitate do cum which I tot its normal until now... I do use some pua adage,like u hv to say what u wana say,cos dos wu matter never mind,and dos wu mind doesn't matter....,when u hesitate to approach u masturbate...and never gv a Bleep about anybody cos nobody Gona feel DAT awkward lonely time of urs...working towards Dis mindset which I DONT WANA GIVE A DAMN Bleep...ME 1ST.

xxxtedyxxx:
remove ur focus from the outcome and try to enjoy the process. Forget about being a guru..just enjoy the little success u r getting. Keep ur focus on the process, not the outcome.

Xtedy baba...u don dey around... enjoying d process tinz....I no give a damn Bleep again....buh bro z it true we can never get past approach anxiety DAT we can only reduce it....cos a time I still feel d hesitation or little fear,,expecialy always tinkn all eyes on me,Aldo I don dey comfortable....days ma fuckkkn prob wen it cum to approachn.

Djboosting:


Bruv, you look cool in that head warmer by the way...
I just had to tell you that.

You see, approaching a group of girl is one of the easiest game, and also one of the hardest game...

Why?

Easiest in a part that, if you create the attraction momentum with them right from the start, especially the one who seem to be the leader, you have literally won the game over the whole group.

Hardest in part that, if you make a little mistake and you get a negative response from one of them inside that group, you have collectively ruined the huge chances of hooking up with them.

A lot of "PUA" as to what you refer to them as, most of them literally don't approach group. Why?
Not because they are not good. But they don't want a negative reaction, response or feedback that will dent their ego. So they'll rather give you ways how to do it.. But they themselves won't.

But right now, out of few different techniques I use in approaching a group of girls, I'll share just one with you. Note; this is one of the easiest...

Why?

Because you are doing two things at a time, which is :
You are giving at the same time receiving.

Now this is how you do it.

You need a wingman, BUT your wingman is not a guy, your wingman is a girl.

Because if you use a guy, most time the guy might even spoil the parole because he himself doesn't know game. So he might start saying things to please them. And automatically, both girls will ignore you two.

But if your wingman is a girl, we all know she can't go there to toast a girl of same sex, so you are safe.
She can't fvck up like a guy.


Listen closely....

When I'm approaching a group of girls, I always bring with me a girl, in fact sometimes she use to be more beautiful and more sophisticated than any girl in the group, but she's in MY FRIENDZONE.

I might fvck her once a while, maybe, but we're not dating and she knows that...

So I'm going to explain what I want to do to her and the girl that I want to approach from the group. So she'll know her job is to be my wingman.

So when we approach the group (let's assume a group of two girls), she'll be the one to say 'Hi'.

Let's assume the name of the girls are X and Y. Her friend is X and my target is Y and my wingman Z

Immediately those girls respond back, I'll project into the introduction mode.. I'll say something along the line of..

"You know what X and Y, my friend Z here has been talking about you, X, with me over there. I don't know, it seems she loves your fashion sense and she's been disturbing me to bring her here."

I'll even joke that she is my world best fashion designer.
"So Z, whatever you want to talk about with X, you better start now, you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes"

So as if on cue, my wingman Z will start chatting with friend X, while I'm open to my target Y.

Immediately too, I'll engage my target Y in conversation, a little compliment about a bracelet she wore will give us the conversation momentum.


So guys, I'm sure you get it now.

I'm not approaching them as a vampire who wants to suck blood from them. But I am bringing value to the table by introducing a new person to them.

Now my own group gets bigger, at the same time their own group become bigger too.

Call it a "Win-win" situation.

Again, we (my wingman and I) are not talking to them like speedo, but we are having a time frame for the conversation ...

"....you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes".

Even mentioning a party we're attending is another +1 on our part, because we have something fun we're doing, and it won't be hard, should we want to invite them over.

After the conversations, we might end up exchanging contacts, provided the grouped we approach is filled with girls with fun and interesting personalities... No one wants to meet boring personalities.



So I'm sure with this few description, you learnt another new lesson..

You might want to PM me, if you have any issue on your dating part...

Life is all about learning and experiences.


I'm out.
Peace..

JD.

I hail baba,buh wot if I knw get wingman...cos dats has been ma prob,no trend DAT share same motive as mine...no one to compare and do sarging of game wit,which can mk it intrestn...

Addict000:

dude i think you are over thinking dis stuff. My advice is not to take it dat seriously, jst see d process as fun and getting to knw more pple. Dat would build ur rapport skills, u shuldnt think abt dating or sex nw jst think about d process of meeting sm1 new nd having pretty gals u can talk to anytym. It wuld build your confidence and increase ur skills even subconciously

hmm,nice write up sha...,buh hv been n d process going to a year,going out facing ma fear,doing cold,direct and street approach,buh yet,it seems lyk mission imposible,to bcum guru no b JOKE...if dis tin b course,ppl for carry am wela..wel,i no I go bcum guru one day....never say never

wot of if we no get wingman....shud we b looking for wingman bfr approachn group....

jesfrosh:






boss


playing a double game is risky ooooo



you could focus on one ....but put the other one on a long thing... make the other one think she's the one


Bro most of the times this babes that shout boyfriend.... they don't have boyfriends it's just a way of feeling among or telling you to back off



but if you play your game well.... she'll fall for you like a leaf..


trust me.

baba I tot d rule of d game z approach,more girls,chat wit more girl which z wot I start doing...and wots d tip to make ha fall for me lyk a leaf...dats d koko I nid...

i approached 4 ladies today,got two number...I tried rite,no easy o...buh d prob b,d 1st one dey talk about ha bf,I tink she get one,and d second one senior me wit one level,xo gamers n d house...how u tink say I can game both of dem....pls urgent advice plssss...

Addict000:
m nt a don oo....buh i hav had my successes in dis game. One group opener i hav used to great sucess is d opinion opener like d glasses d guy above though i ask 4 opinions on smtin else. Like.. excuses me ladies, m tryna get my mum a gift 4 her birthday buh m lil unsure of wat 2 buy her....( u come of as a guy who cares nd is adoring) or my litle niece is having her birthday or smtin like dat sha. Getting opinions makes u come off in a non-threatening way wich makes things smoother for u. If u hav a wingman make sure u say he is d one buying d stuff 4 his mother or niece.

as in guys dey game wela o,m happy many puA dey around,pls no say ma own to much o ....Aldo hv been in game lyk going to 1year now...at least d game changed me to b little confident and comfortable around girls Dan bfr,cos I now hv gut to approach single ladies confidently,buh m nt encourage by d lack of successes guys here talkn about...,I no get friends wey get same motive lyk me wu we can go out sargn games and winging eachodA.....xo hv got dis common prob,z eider after colectn dier number dey go flakes or don't knw Hw to stir up atractn and comfort and date to c dem again,or c dem d nextday, jex not intrestd n talkn to me again,dey painful gan...jesfrosh,addict,and d puas ur advice z needed pls....cos m already tinkn of giving up o....m not geting cool result.

jesfrosh:




i love using the glasses opener heres an example

Approach Girls – Glasses off (take glasses off)
Glasses on (put glasses on)

What do you guys think looks better?
Girle– (Responses: On!/Off!/What?/Laughing)

me– Glasses off (take off glasses)
Glasses on (put on glasses)
(perform the sequence from 2 to 4 times)


making sure ur not facing the target but hef friends

Girl1 – I like them on!
Girl2– I like them off!
Girl3-(usually doesn't say anything)

(If they both disagree then they usually end up laughing ).
me– My friends tell me I look like Clark Kent when I have the glasses on! (with a broad smile)
Girls – (Responses: Yeah you do! / No)
me– Why do you like it when my glasses are on/off?
Girl1 – (When she likes the glasses on) I think makes you look sexy/it makes you look clever.
HB2 – (When she likes the glasses off) I think you look better with them off, but I like them on too!






from there you start a conversatiouand isolate the target.... but out her from time to time... if she tries to join the conversation

nice one,I fel u baba.Aldo I knw some pua theory buh I dey shy and m lazy to carry dem out...buh I no tink neggin dey work for naija babes....

Impulse80:

You don't try to separate them that's wrong. You become friends with them by opening the group. First you've got to attend to the friend(s) and win her over, if the friend likes you it will rub off on the target. After chatting with the friend for a while switch to the target.

nice one baba,I guess u b pua too...m nt gud at approach groups lyk DAT,it difficult to keep dem all intrestd,widout a wingman...pls tel d best opening for group...and how to keep conversations with dem...

jesfrosh:



okay anywhere i think i can assist i will... thanks

oya make u dey flow naw

tedy baba,there was dis girl n a group...lyk two..and I went over to approach and say sorry to her frnd and tel d target DAT to xcuse me I wana c her for a secs...buh dis kind of senerio z not always comfortable cos dey always for wot for or DAT I can tel dem now while still wit ha frnd,and if I continue,d other one always del jeolous or fel lonely...it's always hard,xo wot's d field testd tips for naija babe who are always n group,and ur target z among...cos u wil hardly c fine girls who is nt in group.

xtedy,u r realy sumtin...monster legend..if u were born n abroad,u wud hv bin competing with pua masters lyk mystry,neil straus,deangelo,savoy,gambler..etc.hv bin tryn dis pua,no b beans o..cos it takes courage....for u to reach dis stage u must hv WORKHARD...even true d dreadful approach anxiety,which still ma little prob...a time I always fel lyk d whole eyes on me...dat has been ma fuckin prob....pls enlighten me from ur experience baba Hw to get pass it...cos u r now ma naija pua master..I beg teach ur student..

I must confess o....na bcus of dis wondafuk guy thread...Xtedy,d guy na guy for dating game

jmaxjohn:


I'll just ignore ur ignorance

I no dey fight u,atleast jex appreciate d little work dis guy z doing,he z trying...wel,its nice seeing many pua dey naija too...my favorite pua z David deangelo,gambler and Neil strauss,we can sarg togeda nw or compare game...give me ur numba.