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whitecat2:
The lady is scheming for short-gun marriage, thinking she just caught mugu that will not get away, she will do anything to get rid of people who might give a download of her past to the mumu. Watch! More is coming against your sister too.

With "do you have something against a particular tribe" and the airport thing, I'm not trying to make it about tribe but, I'm 100% sure she's ibo while you are Yoruba.

I personally don't have anything against any particular tribe.

ireneony:
@marveangel
Op, i will advise you to Bleep the lady....since she wants it, please give it to her , am just joking. cos at the end of the day friendship is stronger than relationship...

Op, I think your friend is weak and he allowed her lady to manipulate him...
I will advice you to stay clear of their relationship and don't try to suggest for him. He is a man and he will definitely realize his mistake, he will be the one to ask you for forgiveness.

Tell your sister to stay clear from her cos she may steal her fiance one day.

This is the reason why I don't like introducing any close pals of mine to some ladies, cos once they hook up, they will turn you to the black sheep.

Op, nor mind your friend, you know say the t0to still fresh to him(they just started dating)and e de control him..
he is still sampling it for now...
Op, don't you know the power of a woman..

Please take it easy, but try explain things to him later, he is very angry...
If it means asking one of your friends to explain things to him, pls do it.
Is very painful being labeled on what you don't know about...i feel your pain.

Honestly that's the most painful part of it....why would I suddenly wake up one morning and be labelled a deceitful friend when I didn't even make the slightest attempt to do what I'm being accused of.

mcdokwe:
It is simple, divide and rule. She has fathomed you are very close pals with your friend and not all women can tolerate that, she wants to build trust between her and the bf and equally use same opportunity to severe your friendship so she can have him all to herself. I pity her, her method and your Kunle though

Did she have to go to this extent.....

Charles4075:
Op, just let him be and live your life man.. Next time never ever get close to your friend's girl. It's very dangerous and it results to envy.

Once beaten twice shy.....I have learnt my lessons.

akindele91:
OK but why I asked dis questions is dat it all look like a set up to me cuz if ur sister did not tell her friend Mary abt ur personal lifestyle there is no way she could have approach u in d first place not to talk of having lunch 2gether...think abt it bro

But I ended things with my ex months ago even b4 she started dating my friend....I'm confused... I don't even knw what to think...she never seemed like a bad person even up until now its hard to believe she'd make up lies about anyone.

Lifetitudes:
She wanted you, you didn't want her. That was your offence and this is your punishment. Its not just girls, its the devises of a wicked man. Give your friend some time and try and explain afterwards. He'll come around. After all he is a guy and should not be prone to keeping malice!

But why would she want me when she already has someone who loves her...its not like am some money bag or something.

sanchezzz:
The girl is such a YOKO ONO. ... forget about your friend and his girl.. but I blame dat ur friend o. He should at least hear your own side of the story. Is this girl ur friends first girl friend? Maybe the love is shacking him...
Bro relax ur mind.....

He is that kind of guy that just goes crazy for love or whatever they call it...he's craziness is quite normal but the strange thing here is her lying against me....I still can't comprehend why?

tzoracle:
If someone you call your friend can't trust you leave him behind with the matter

Datsall

Exactly!!!!!!!!

akindele91:
OP I think u need to investigate dis ish very carefully let me ask u hope ur sis and ur friend don't have anything 2gether before ur friend met mary ?and did ur sis have any misunderstanding wit ur friend recently?

I don't think they have any issue and No my friend and sister never had anything going.

MizMyColi:
Pele Jarey.

It gets better.

it gets better!!!! *smiles* we both know that's not true....This one is gone....I learnt my lesson nxt time I'll be more careful.

MizMyColi:
Lolz Pasqal09
Lmao @ professional.

***modifeid***

Oma se o

We've seen scenarios like this play out a lot in Hollywood movies.

OP.

Your friend should have given you the benefit of the doubt. I imagine that'd be an attempt in futility though seeing as the girl's clearly eaten into the guy's head.

If I were in your shoes and I'm 80% sure I'm innocent, I'd keep keeping my cool. No need for Bragaddo

Move on with your life.
It's only a matter of time before that babe with whorish attitude and evil intent is exposed for what she really is.

I know it hurts; being seperated from your friend over a baseless accusation.
Posterity will vindicate you.

What can I say.....Its not a good feeling knowing u lost a friend when u did nothing wrong and he is too blind to see....
I'm angry and disappointed.

adanduka:
Send this epistle to your friend and give him time. In a matter of months he'll see if his GF or you is telling the truth.

I doubt he'll even read it...plus I don't plan on doing anything....any sane friend would at least hear my own side of the story b4 conceding am a deceitful enemy...I'm not going to contact him or anyone..let he and his girlfriend live their lives.

MizMyColi:
@Marveangel

How close are you to this friend of yours?

I think he went really low by embarrasing you without gathering his facts.

Whatever happened to giving my best friend the benefit of the doubt.

I don't know about you o

But if perchance I'm accused as such and later proven innocent.


The close ties I have with him will be highly severed.

I think I have a clear definition of what friendship is.
Your guy no just try

When somethings are broken/damaged they can't be fixed again......its my words against hers and from the look of things he chose hers b4 even hearing mine.....I'm not one to cry over spilt milk regardless of how much it hurt...I just learnt my lesson...NEVER get close to a friends GF...its simple.

adanduka:
Send this epistle to your friend and give him time. In a matter of months he'll see if his GF or you is telling the truth.

I doubt he'll even read it.....

MrCork:
...see yor Ghana head like Somali made Umburella.....when u chase her, she was angel.....and cuz she reject u, she now a witch??

....Listen, brother...serrrriously....ama lover nota fighter...Please don't let me swaaar for u (no oofeinse)

did U even read my Post? Please if u're not going to be helpful go to another thread

lalasticlala:
If ur account of the story is 100 % accurate, then u know she's truly evil. She must have desired and made advances at u, but u turned down her lustful desire which is good, now she pays u back by lying against u... Too bad. I assure u, ur friend would soon realize the kind of girl he's really into....

I have never seen him in such mood not in our five years of friendship.....there are some things he said to me that I can't even post on a social media like nairaland

chimerase2:
dis a serious kase
op just pm me de gals number and ur problem wil be history

How will sending her number to U solve the problem

You know how people would say women are evil....I never used to believe it until now......what does one(a girl) profit by causing issues between two friends...this is how this daughter of jezebel came in between friends of several years.

My friend had met this his current girlfriend at my place, she's my sister's friend and course mate and they had both come to see me on a particular sunday....We were just in d sitting room talking about stuff when my friend (Kunle not his real name though) came into the house...I'm not big on formalities so I didn't bother with any introductions plus my friend already knows my sister well and again I was a little distracted, my sister and I were speaking our dialect talking about family issues..

Being the only other persons in the room I figured they just took the time to talk and get to know each other better.....About a month or two after that day my friend told me he was seeing mary(my sister's friend)...I just smiled and was like sharp guy....eventually we became close, that I figured was natural I mean she being my sister's friend and my best friends girlfriend there was no avoiding that....I had her on my BBM chat and we corresponded online every now and them, nothing serious just talk.....everything seemed okay until

Two weeks ago my friend had to leave town for some days, his mum was ill so he travelled to check up on her....Some three days after he travelled, his girlfriend came to my office to see me...I was shocked and afraid, I feared something bad happened to kunle's mom...

When I asked her what occasioned her visit..she simply stated that she had come to register her displeasure at me..she said her boyfriend had been gone for three days and I didn't bother checking up on her...(Was I supposed to do that I asked in my head?) I tried to apologise but she refuse saying she'd only accept my apology if I took her out for lunch...

So I did, we went to a nearby restaurant and ate....while we ate she just kept questioning me about my relationship, she said my sister her told her that I recently broke-up with my girlfriend and that I was sad and heartbroken...I told her I wasn't sad and miserable plus the break-up happened months ago..she asked if I had someone else in my life, I told her no...she kept asking 'why, what attracts you to girl,when do you see yourself settling down, do you have anything against any particular tribe and so on"...I barely ate my lunch....she left after lunch and I went back to my office......I thought that was all.

My friend got back some two days after, I was at the airport to pick him, as we drove back to his place we talk about stuff, good news was his mom was doing much better (I didn't mention the whole lunch with his gf friend, I didn't think twas worth talking abt)..I dropped him at home, said hello to his gf and went back to my place.....and that was the last I heard from my friend.....for over 6 days, even when I tried calling him he didn't take my calls...I was still thinking of how to go check up on him at his place when he came bagging into my office...he just stood didn't even sit.....he was shouting and pointing his finger at me warning me to stay away from his girlfriend...

He said he left town for five days and I was making moves at his girlfriend, he said I took his girlfriend to dinner and force her to kiss me and that a promised to marry her if she didn't tell him.

I was dumbfounded...I didn't even know what to say.....since when did people start having dinner around 1:30 PM....I wanted to call her but I figured she'd just spin more lies, my friend won't even calm down to hear my side of the story...everything is just so messed up right now.....

what I don't understand is WHY.......I mean what would she gain from this chaos she has caused.....Why are women just evil....what did I ever do to her

Redoil:
But APC minions are claiming that these phenomena are exclusivly to on gej

Well @ least any1 who goes through this will know its not only a Nigerian thing...its global and the sooner we as a nation and as a people start thinking rather than blaming the better for us all.

ORIENTNIGERIA:
Quite an interesting question. There is always a bible answer to any bible question.
I hope my explanation would be helpful.
To begin with, the coming of christ has been prophesied long before he came. The story of the children of Israel is a replica of the church's walk with God. In Genesis, after Adam and Eve Fell, what ought to befall them was death because God warned them from beginning that they would die the day they eat the fruit. And true to His word, death was the remedy but because He is a loving father and He a lamb and killed it.
It was the skin that he used to cloth Adam and Eve. Also in the old testament, it would be recalled that God accepted the offering of Abel and rejected Cains own because Abels sacrifice was done by revelation. He knew that redemption/atonement can only come by the blood. Also when the children were about to leave Egypt, blood was required. Through the times in the wilderness, if there was any sin, only blood could atone for them. These were just a shadow of things to come. It would be recalled that animals are lower than humans and as such, those practise were a temporal appeasement method. In creation, man is highest after God and as such, it would require a blood higher than man to atone for him. His fellow human couldn't even do. It have to take God himself to come down and put on a body of flesh to atone for man.
That was why He was born in a manger were animals are kept because He is the lamb to be slain for man kind. The reason why God came in the flesh was to take the place of man and show us the way to him (above). That was why he was always talking about "my father". If he had pointed himself as God, when he was crucified, which God will men point to? Am sure a big man will arise and say He is god. That will be antichrist. Without blood there cant be atonement. Even in traditional religion, they even kill animal just to appease their small gods. Where did they learn that from?...from the head of principality and power. God Himself.

.....Thank You man of God

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GOD is perfect in every way and principled, so on principle He has said that sin can be forgiven, but it must be paid for... "And almost all things are by the law purged with blood; and without shedding of blood is no remission." - Hebrews 9:22
.......Thanks a lot this answers my question of why not forgive the Sin HIMSELF without sending down HIS son to die......God bless

I saw this report in online and thought I should share it with you all here.....apparently the 'problem' of youth unemployment is not only a Nigerian thing, its a global issue one that has got some of the richest men from around the world concerned...Take your time to read the lengthy post..you might find something to help you from it..
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At the ongoing World Economic Forum in Davos,
youth unemployment took center stage. Here is a
brief report of a panel discussion in Davos.

Global business and public sector leaders were in
Davos Swizerland engaged in debate about the
growing youth unemployment which many have said
is growing in an uncomfortable proportion.

The panel
of discussion was made up of Nik Gowing, Omar K.
Alghanim, Dominic Barton, Aliko Dangote, Fatima
Muneer. Taking the lead in the discussion Mr.
Dominic Barton, Global Managing Director, McKinsey
& Company, United Kingdom said “There is a sense
that youth unemployment is more of a cocktail
conversation right now but we need to start seeing this as a pandemic.”

According to him around the world, youth
unemployment is growing in uncomfortable
proportions. In India, which has one of the largest
populations of young people in the world, 75 million
youth are unemployed and more than 1 million
people are added to the workforce each day.

In Saudi
Arabia, some 70 per cent of the population is under
the age of 30 and they are not finding jobs.

In Nigeria, youth unemployment is as high as 50%.
From Abuja to Seattle, the number of jobless youth is a global phenomenon.

The issue might not be
dominating global headlines, but Aliko Dangote,
President and Chief Executive Officer, Dangote
Group, Nigeria, signalled that “our entire society is in
danger of destruction” unless we pay attention to this
huge segment of our young and jobless global
population.

According to Panelist at the Forum “This trend is
occurring at a time when technology is moving ever
faster and transforming the labour market. As
robotics, automation and 3D printing play a larger
role in the economy; future jobs for young people
will invariably take a hit. Looking back to the 1990s,
the big three US motor vehicle companies – Chrysler,
Ford and General Motors – collectively hired 1.2
million employees. Today, the big three companies
in Silicon Valley –Google, Facebook and Apple –
together employ a total 134,000 people.

Traditional ideas about “work”’ are also being turned
upside down. It is perhaps more fitting to consider
employment as participating in the economy.

Companies such as Uber, Airbnb or budding
entrepreneurs in India learning skills from YouTube
and monetizing this knowledge at the local market
are examples of a new way to understand the
participatory economic model.

The McKinsey new problems call for fresh approaches
and at the core of the youth unemployment problem
is a glaring skills gap. Surveys by McKinsey show that
75 per cent of university professors believe they are
adequately preparing their students for the
workforce. Conversely, only 40 per cent of
employers take the same view.


SOURCE: www.vanguardngr.com/2015/01/youth-unemployment-nigeria-50-mckinsey-co/

Guy U sure?

thegoodone2:
Before he came, they are using ram blood and God want that to stop that is why he send his son.

Couldn't HE just do that without HIS son coming down to earth to die....it's not like HE answers to any1 na.

BrightEye:
This and similar questions rush into my mind since when i was little. I think sometime we need a specific, convincing answers.

Bye the way, i ended up believing that Jesus Christ came to bring light into the darkened world only; to bring the word of truth for human redeption.

Meanwhile He was murdered. Not died for anyone's sin!

That would have been a much easier explanation....but HE is the all powerful son of GOD, how would ordinary people manage to kill HIM unless he allowed himself to be killed.

Even as I type there is this evangelist standing in front of my compound preaching....there is this question am itching to ask him but since I am not the one he is directly preaching to I don't want to appear rude or nosey...lemme ask hopefully someone here can throw more light on this issue...Why exactly did Christ come to earth to die for our sins.....I have been taught over the years that God is the creator heaven and earth, he has the power to forgive do all things and FORGIVE sins....If these were True how come GOD could not forgive Adam(man's) sin HIMSELF..why did Jesus have to come and die like a sacrificial animal for man to get redemption....couldn't baba GOD just by himself say 'okay Man, u have been forgiven and free from sin'....afterall he is GOD and whatever HE says is true and law.........

This is not to diss any religion....me just need someone to clarify things for me.

Olodo.....the president is from the South-South....and him loosing votes from the south-east or south-south is not big thing na.....that's the beauty of election..everyman is free to vote whom he sees worthy of his ONE vote....as for me and my home....WE VOTE NOBODY.

Chai!!! U can Lie ooo.....where u for see hand covering bossom na....broke niggas fighting for front page like it's presidency......SMH

More reasons why u should truly know the family u're marrying into b4 u do

biafranqueen:
It is not that serious why all the extra lies for nothing? They had a good turn out. Obviously, they just love to lie about everything!

U won't think its serious until it hits the front page of a national paper...then what

lilbabyak:
people and their lying propaganda. picture of you doing the research or I don't believe it. PDP and their lying e-rats. ... yinmu

picture of Him doing the research.....Seriously...your case is beyond me!!!