Romance › Re: My Fiancee Betrayed Me: Should I Go Ahead With The Marriage Plans? by mascot87(m): 12:22pm On Nov 23, 2019*. Modified: 12:53pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
infonet247: Hello Nairalanders, I am really in disbelief and in shock hence am writing this here for all to advice me on what to do.
I am a man of 35yrs old and have been dating a lady for three years now and told her this December 2019, my people will come for the traditional marriage having gone for introduction earlier.
After two months of introduction, she became worried and started feeling unease. I told her ok to make things easier and for you to believe I will marry you, I transfered 1.5m into her account for the traditional and white wedding, promising to add more wen we finally draw up the full list.
Then the unexpected happen, we plan going to Aba to get the traditional marriage items last Saturday, which we later purchased but to my utmost disbelief she had accepted another guy by Thursday in case am not serious!
Am shock because during the week of us going to Aba, I had sent 100k into her account by Wednesday to hold for the journey only for her to accept or tell another guy to come. Then by Sunday after the items have been bought, she sent the new guy a txt that she doesn't want again.
My question is, should I continue with her since she could act like this? Should I go ahead with the marriage or call it Off? Pls I need advice.
Please Front page Red flag!!! I know I don't have money and I may not eat today again since I didn't yesterday but I think my thinking faculty is still very much intact. Bro, we are almost the same age and it seems you are well to do. Don't enter into a marriage you will end up hating yourself for the rest of your life. Bro, wait a little longer, you will see that one woman that will adore you for life. A woman that will cherish you,love you,pray for you and help you become a better person too. Please just relax a little. That woman have shown you a red flag that must not be ignored. I have to be frank here, she may end your life too to drive her cause in life. It's not worth it bro. Bless you |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Acting Like This, Making Me Sad? [picture To Be Deleted Soon] by mascot87(m): 6:52pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Stop being a puppy. I was that stupid back then just like how stupid u look right now. You are a guy and that you should be. Don't let a girl emotionally control your thinking. Don't let me be angry with you. |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Acting Like This, Making Me Sad? [picture To Be Deleted Soon] by mascot87(m): 6:47pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
NeedAdvice00: Update:
Cc: mascot87, Jasen1, AfroKnight, donjon, ddaammyy, Shugargal, Cuccitini, HARDDON, and other people that assisted me to get back on my feet today.
Is my response good? You better stop disturbing yourself with that girl and focus your energy on something else or you will look back years from now and ask yourself "why am I so dumb" Let her be |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Acting Like This, Making Me Sad? [picture To Be Deleted Soon] by mascot87(m): 8:40am On Nov 21, 2019 |
NeedAdvice00: Thank you very much. Do you think I should ignore her for sometime? Please do. My one cent |
Nairaland General › Re: Finally Given Up, Sorry To Those That Will Be Pained. by mascot87(m): 8:31am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Bro. I have more problem than you do. Check my history, check my post. Let us push a little more. I understand how you feel. Just relax. As I speak, I have nothing on me. I don't even know how I'll get to survive today. I can't involve in evil coa it doesn't pay. Was asking a friend how long will it take to die if you don't eat. But again,I am still hopeful. Bro, your situation isn't the worst trust me. But, don't give up now. Their is light at the end of the tunnel. Keep up the faith. Can we exchange contact so we could encourage each other daily. Stat strong. I know how you feel. Trust me, we will be fine |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Acting Like This, Making Me Sad? [picture To Be Deleted Soon] by mascot87(m): 8:22am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Girls that are unintelligent and lack communication skill hide under being "moody" The problem isn't you but her. Don't bother or kill yourself |
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Car Talk › Re: 7 Signs That Your Car's Engine Performance Might Be Decreasing by mascot87(m): 8:07am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Conceptman: ahaa person wey Don faint join , wetin the guy do you reach dis, make you forgive am na  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Things To Do Before Going For An Interview by mascot87(m): 7:29am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Higgies: Thanks a lot. I have an interview scheduled for tomorrow Nov 21. My Hope is all on God. Can you please tell me about yourself? Tell me a time when someone disagree with you and what was the outcome? What can you say about this role? What are your strength and weakness? Etc.  |
Car Talk › Re: 7 Signs That Your Car's Engine Performance Might Be Decreasing by mascot87(m): 7:05am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Conceptman: if e faint nko? I go tear him faint slap too  |
Car Talk › Re: 7 Signs That Your Car's Engine Performance Might Be Decreasing by mascot87(m): 6:54am On Nov 20, 2019 |
cosby02: Lemme wait here for those who have something to say. Iffa tear you slap |
Crime › Re: Have You Been Pointed A Real Gun Before?? What Came To Your Mind At That Momen? by mascot87(m): 6:32am On Nov 20, 2019*. Modified: 8:29pm On Nov 23, 2019 |
Ujpest: Honestly, it's a very bad experience... |
Health › Re: He Noticed Some Changes In His Body System (pics). by mascot87(m): 9:46pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Bros, I can bet with my life that you hardly take your bath |
Celebrities › Re: Busola Dakolo: Never Stop Voicing Out Against Rape And Sexual Abuse by mascot87(m): 4:47pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Can this Olosho shut the f**k up |
Politics › Re: Natasha Akpoti Loses Polling Unit To Yahaya Bello by mascot87(m): 4:52pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Will Bello be proud of himself at old age? |
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Election: 3 Persons Shot, Angry Women Protest by mascot87(m): 4:44pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
This is 2019 and election in Nigeria is still like this? Spit |
Crime › Re: Kogi Decides: Dino Melaye Caught Sharing Money At Polling Booth. Photos & Video by mascot87(m): 4:06pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Mumu, this isn't a polling boot |
Celebrities › Re: Do2dtun Slams Daddy Freeze Over Comment On Busola Dakolo - Biodun Rape Case by mascot87(m): 9:59pm On Nov 15, 2019 |
Dotun is a foool ass licker |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 6 Simple Tips For A Great Job Interview by mascot87(m): 7:31am On Nov 15, 2019 |
How have experienced kpmg interview before? |
Investment › Re: Nigeria Bonds Rise After Buhari Presidential Election Win by mascot87(m): 5:27am On Nov 15, 2019*. Modified: 1:28pm On Nov 16, 2019 |
Deeldorado: People are liking without knowing this is a bad sign actually. ...... |
Politics › Re: Obaseki, Edo APC Leaders Endorse Oshiomhole’s Suspension by mascot87(m): 6:55pm On Nov 13, 2019 |
I have absolutely nothing to say
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Health › Re: Naija by mascot87(op): 10:41pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
myright: what about your cough, as it stopped? Comes and goes. That's another issue I'm battling with. I have suffered and I'm just wondering what I have done to have suffered this much in life. In the midst of all my troubles, ulcer pain emerged because I hardly eat this days. |
Health › Re: Naija by mascot87(op): 10:17pm On Nov 11, 2019*. Modified: 4:00am On Dec 20, 2019 |
ursullalinda: What is the exact cause of the depression?....so we will know how to help....because all man just they push am this present Naija  |
Health › Re: Naija by mascot87(op): 10:07pm On Nov 11, 2019*. Modified: 4:00am On Dec 20, 2019 |
myright: Bro, what's the problem? is it financial problem?  |
Health › Naija by mascot87(op): 9:51pm On Nov 11, 2019*. Modified: 3:59am On Dec 20, 2019 |
na  |
Celebrities › Re: WASABI2019FEST: Wizkid And Tiwa Savage Step Out On Stage by mascot87(m): 4:27pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
This girl go allow wizkid marry so? Abi them wan marry? |
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Business › Re: 6 Ways To Make Money In Nigeria This Christmas by mascot87(m): 6:40am On Nov 10, 2019 |
How do we get out of debt?
2012 topic but still valid |
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Reasons Gambling/Betting Is Not Good For You As A Christian by mascot87(m): 7:55am On Nov 03, 2019 |
Let me just dey laugh |
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Romance › Re: How Does Sex Feel? by mascot87(m): 2:46am On Nov 02, 2019 |
GreenMist21: How does sex feel. Just wondering.  I don't know too but can we try it? |
Politics › Re: BREAKING!!! Nnamdi Kanu's Father Is Dead by mascot87(m): 2:44am On Nov 02, 2019 |
If this is true, then I say "hard times for Nnamdi Kanu". May he be consoled and may the soul of his mum and dad find rest in the bosom of the Lord |