It's a cultural thing. A lot of people from that particular region worship money and they use it to oppress each other. Billions of people worldwide are exposed to lavish lifestyles on social media. The people from the region of Skull Miners are not the first set of people exposed to lavish lifestyles online.

worriedhubby:
I have been married to my wife for 10years now. My 1st child (7 years) has some health challenge. My daughter's challenge was diagnosed at age 3. Same year, I came back from work to see my child having crisis. I asked my wife why she didn't take my DD to the hospital. She responded, "no more hospital in this house". I tried calling a friend to drive me an my girl to the hospital, she got the phone from me and ended the call. Her words were , " if you are aware what is causing your child's illness, you better let me know ". I kept focused. Got my girl the needed medical help. Next day when I got home, I asked her, she refused answering. I later told the priest that wedded us, who later spoke with her.

In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere","don't pray certain prayer points ", she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God.

Just few weeks ago, I picked a paper under our bed where my wife wrote to someone how her brother had a dream in December and was told that I am my wizard causing my child's illness. In that write up, my wife also claimed she had her own revelation that I am in some occultic powers. When I showed her the paper, she tried to cause a scene, but I left her. I only asked, "are all these true?" "Why are you bent on labeling me what I am not?"
Later that day, she came up with lies, that the paper was just some prayer points she was putting down.

Just yesterday, someone called to inform me that he was with a certain owner of prayerhouse when my wife called to tell the woman why she believes I am occultic.

I have tried to ignore her, but I am gradually getting worried. What is she really up to? She doesn't believe in the medical diagnosis for my DD, hence, she won't give the child the necessary medication if I am not home.

How does someone believes that the hubby is occultic, and wants to harm her, yet still tries to initiate s3x with the said husband? When she had a surgery last year, I was the person cooking for her till she could get back on her feet. Why did she not refuse the foods? Finally, who knowingly get married to someone she believes is occultic, then start running to prayer houses for deliverance?

Could it be my wife is mentally sick? Or she is projecting who she is on me?

Better receive sense and file for divorce and sole custody of your child. Before she kills you both.

All na mind game format. Na the same over-confidence make Nigeria lose to Tunisia. Oga Ghana park well abeg.

Johnames:
Am an introvert, so my girlfriend came around, am not the gisting type, I wish I was, so there is this guy that stays with me, the guy is cool, I have no problem with the guy, so the problem now is that, he is always gisting with my babe and whenever they are gisting, the 2 of them will laugh so hard, the thing come dey make me feel somehow, I will be outside, I go they hear the 2 of them dey laugh for inside house, I don't know how to handle this situation, what will be the best thing to do here.

Like your chick does not see it as disrespectful to be over-familiar with your room-mate in your presence. No respect for you as her man, at all. Discharge her and give your friend a 2 weeks to 1 month ultimatum to find a place to move to, that is if he is not paying part rent currently. No woman is worth the headache. Only my mother can make me go out of my way to do things for a woman I don't normally do. And she is not an unreasonable woman unlike most girls of today's younger generation.

Office romance is a big fat NO!

folks4luv:
She snatched someone's husband, sha married her ex-husband's friend or acquaintance, bla bla bla.
Till you know at least half of the story, you don't the right to judge or slut-shame anyone.

hoes of the same feather flock together

Look I understand the issue here but for anyone to treat my father and mother like rubbish is a big fat NO. I Don't understand why you are getting married on 55k per month. Even me that is earning far more per month after tax, I am not willing to settle down with a Nigerian women. How old is your mum? Does she have other kids? You all should contribute something so she can start a business. Can your mum be moved to the family house at least temporary? If you wife is unsatisfied with your efforts, send her back to her father's house and you must provide monthly for your triplets upkeep. I sympathize with your situation. Being a married man in Nigeria is not easy, especially in Buhari's economy. If there is a way your story can be verified, I am willing to donate something to you. Either way, best of luck.

Kai! Oil don destroy Niger Delta ooo!!! See environment!!!

freshkpomo:



Men don attack for this comment, now na women turn...... Him sure me say you be Delta girl, they way you talk and your photo...

Omóte mavor?

Nothing good ever comes out from the 3 major tribes. No wonder Nigeria has gone to the dogs and we the minority tribes suffer the most.

So co-wives are kidnapping and selling stepchildren in the North??!!!

AlhajiBitcoin:
The whole of Enugu town is sitting on top of a Hill with COAL underneath.

Oil go they that Enugu deep in the earth well well.

Exactly. Where there's coal (carbon), there most likely exists oil (carbon). So much wealth and intelligence in Ibo land, if only they would harness all that power internally. Even Northern cabal can't frustrate you when you get to a certain level.

The North reaps what the North sows.

They can only try this rubbish in the North and Yorubaland. Make dem com try am for Niger Delta or East make dem receive sense. At the end of the day, you sow what you reap.

A region where wealthy people are worshipped and they oppress each other with money, what do you expect?

As Future rightly said, she belongs to the ........

CaptainAyub:
Won't vote any of them but for the records GEJ will be far better than the brown teeth,90yr old drug lord whose real name is Yekini Amoda abi wetin,who nobody knows d real father or mother.

Modified.
For those saying Thiefnuubu laid d foundation for Lagos bla bla,it's always easy for anybody governing Lagos to shine due to the huge IGR and federal allocation.
And Lagos doesn't have public running water,no intra-city railway,no stable public transportation.
Maybe they're talking about the MC Oluomo/owo mi da foundation

The foundation of Lagos was laid by people like Jakande and Burba Marwa.

pocohantas:
If you keep picking wrong men, then you are a problem. While it might be convenient for you to blame men, you need to enter your quiet place and ask “WHY ALWAYS ME?”

She is heavily pregnant and it would make it the fourth child for a different man. I mean, this lady has four kids for four different men. Two crackheads in America, 1 for Ubi and she is carrying the fourth for Steve.

What would kill a lot of the new generation WIVES is trying to prove to the public that their husbands are modern and tolerant of every bullshit. It is the same demon that is making Janemena keep twerking to prove a point. When she should have retired long ago or at worst, after the Kpokpogarri saga.

You don't test the ego of a man.
Not a Nigerian man at that.
Except you have where you tied him. In the absence of that, you don’t subject your marriage to constant pressure and ridicule.

You found a man that took you with your three kids and rather than put your head down, your concern is peppering Ubi. Ubi said no man will ever marry you, so you have to rub it in his face every day. Zukwanuike, no way!

Everyday you are fighting with Ubi ONLINE. Any woman (or man) that drags their EX and father of their kids in public is a cantankerous one. One that should be avoided. Some couples separate and tell you IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCE. You think they are stupid? Some things are better left unsaid for the honour of both parties. Not forgetting the kids that would grow to read this nonsense.

The exact problem with lots of single mothers and divorcees - No introspection. No upgrade. No repentance. Just a thirst to prove to their EX that they have been able to clinch another man.

If she has sense, she should try to fix this one. If not, she can stay there and join Tonto in KINGSHIP. Wisdom is profitable to direct…

Best comment I've read on Nairaland in a very long time.

What you need are universities and technical colleges of engineering and science manufacturing.

I am 38 years old and this is the worst Nigerian president I have experienced in my lifetime. Thank God say I go soon dey emigrate comot this trash country. Unfortunate that the South is still shackled to a cancer called Northern Nigeria or else the South would have been developed and progressive on its own decades ago.

Deborah98:
See them ndi redpillers buh they'll end up licking the girl's feet... Park one side joor we know Dem.....see how they're shouting rubbish and nonsense upandan

No Alpha male licks any woman's feet in 2022. Any girl when wan misbehave can go, too many fishes in the sea. So please STFU!!! How many virtuous women exist today in the younger generation of 9ja women? How many actually add value to their man's life? Una own na to take take take. Sit down please!

Entprys:
Easterners no dey get patience.
Ok how many aboki dem go kill to cover the dead kalaba man ? Dey for just leave them.
I like my pipu o cos we know dat 2 wrongs do not make a right. Thy dont need such primitive retaliation.

Akwa Ibom and Niger Delta people are not Easterners. No amount of propaganda or hogwash from your mouth will make it happen.

Anyone know an easy and cheaper way to transfer ETH to OpenSea? The transaction fees on Binance is ridiculous.

MMXX:
You'll Dumbos should stop with the simp simp simp shit already, it's irritating! Even when it's not needed.

The op is just too nice and gentle of a person, she's taking your gentleness for a ride, typical of an average Nigerian girl,a good percentage of them are leeches and out for only what you got to offer, after they're tired they start to misbehave.

See finish has greatly entered your case and the relationship is dead.As for your shop, it's your decision,do what you won't regret shalom

The OP is a simp and a weakling. STFU please and stop validating weak behaviour.

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

It's like dey use juju on you or something, cos I don't understand this rubbish I just read.

Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.

But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.

As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.

To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.

Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?

E be like say dem jazz u.

Why is ticketing not automated and put online? So people can purchase through web app or the internet? Everything na racket for this country.

Hintona:
Come and force us na

As if any sensible Nigerian man cares in 2021. You girls are more trouble and stress than you're worth. Only beta males GAF. Alphas dont.

Tomilola360:
Not Hausa
Not Yoruba
Not Muslim

Fucking Paedophile

So this is all you took from this report? You are a foolish human being. If people like yourself didn't exist in this country, 9ja go finally better. Mu-Mu

PetroDolla2020:
Stop spreading fake news. Some Nigerians living in Ghaba are always complaining about the way Ghanians treat them. The question I want to ask them is simple. Why don’t you go back to your country if you don’t like the way Ghana and Ghanaians treat you in their country?

I once lived in Nigeria, I didn’t like the way they treated Ghanians so I returned to Ghana. And I’m very happy I did so.

So, my advice to you nigerians is that you go back to your country if you are not happy in Ghana, and stop disturbing our ears. It is by force to stay in Ghana?

Ghanaians are not treated poorly in Nigeria. In fact, most Nigerians don't know Ghanaians exist in Nigeria, and frankly speaking, we don't care. Because we see every black person in Nigeria as one of us, as a fellow Nigerian. So stop posting trash. You lot just suffer from a very bad case of perpetual inferiority complex where Nigerians are concerned.

Even if there are a few Nigerians who are involved in nefarious activities in Ghana, they are a very small minority of Nigerians in Ghana. It is literally impossible for every single Nigerian living in Ghana to be a criminal. It irks a lot of you Ghanaians that Nigerians, even with our countless issues in Nigeria are over-achievers within Nigeria and outside wherever we are.

I don't understand why any Nigerian would want to remain in Ghana, because your country does not have a whole lot to offer to be honest. Nigerians are uber-successful in the West, Singapore, etc. The entire Texas state medical system for example is dominated by Nigerian doctors and nurses who constantly amaze even the Americans themselves and they got their university medical degree in Nigeria before emigrating. My sis is a doc and a US citizen so I know this firsthand. Nigerian-Americans are the most successful and educated ethnic group in
the US. Feel free to Google up this information and verify yourself.

Let our Nigerian brothers and sisters come home. It is not like Nigeria is in a terrible or warlike state. Why stay in a society where you are hated and envied, simply because of who you are?

Mgada1ne:
Hello guys,

I have a girlfriend who is abit Temperate,she gets mad at small things easily.

I missed her call yesterday because i slept up,waking up this morning i called back but i discover i did not have enough airtime so i got no option than ask her to call me back if she has airtime, she could not greet what i heard was “the one you recharged for me"? She then hissed and hanged up.

I was so upset at the statement to the extent i almost asked for breakup but had to control myself.

Please guys ,do you think such relationship will lead to something decent?

Better run for your life. I don't understand why you Beta males love coming to Nairaland to open trash threads like this. The last place you should be seeking validation from is Nairaland or online for that matter. A real man knows what to do.