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Dominate: to have control of or power over (someone or something)

Do you want to have control and power over your husband or husband to be?

jashar:
remember, it was a curse.and Christ has redeemed us from the curse

Please take your time to go over the tread.

hakeem4:
During the exam the person that didn't prepare will just be calculating how many units he'd do next year

Upon all, dem go still dash dem points. Glorified secondary school. Dem go soon start to dey wear school uniform.

Eketem:
Boring, is your mother not a woman? Why are you vexing now? Go and dominante her abi are you not a man? Go and dominante ya mama and stop throwing tantrums on Internet women jor

No be everybody wey go school be literate.

I'm sorry to say but what if you inherited this arrogant ego from your own mother? My father lovingly dominated my mother, and she respectfully submitted herself to him.its a happy home with well trained children. Girls married before 25 and are happily married. These old people of mine are role models. Grandpa/ma. I will dominate my wife, its my responsibility but I pray for your type and if by mistake a man marries you, God be with him.

Eketem:
Meanwhile it is not anybodys fault that after Christ's redemption you choose to live in a cave.

Abeg what sweat does Bill Gates sweat before he eats? Technology has wiped out sweating and toiling get with it?

Pain in childbirth, have you heard of epidural? Pain is now optional Mr Man.


Climb out of your rock or go and dominante ya mama

You too? Are you married?

I've asked numerous of ur type and they never come back. So, if you violently refuse to answer the question or disappear, I will understand.

zeb04:
so why don't you just accept and be redeemed instead .

people give birth in pains but some still give birth without pains. and people still work in favour. divine jobs, divine promotion and all that so what you talking about.

When you're done deceiving yourself, let us know.

zeb04:
maximus so you would quote some part of the bible because it pleases your ego and forget the rest because you can't accept it.

Christ has redeemed us from any cuss(me and you) so why do you still want to be cussed.

I think you just don't have self esteem, your problem is beyond man and woman affairs. just work on your confidence.

Christ didn't redeem you from nothing. All he did was give you a chance to be Redeemed. It's left to you to grab the chance. All the pronouncements of God is still intact. Women still giving birth in pains, men still sweat to eat, we still get sick, death is still there. So tell me what I don't know. Jesus is not stupid, if his death means an automatic redemption, people will still go back to sin, his death would have been a joke.

Eketem:
So the writer of Galatians is now a thief calling himself a pastor Lmao.


Please read Galatians 3:13 abegiiii it is clear for who really wantd to read it said "All " curses " Every" curse it wasn't selective. But I am sure to convince yourself of " dominance " you can abuse the Bible writers that don't support your crude logic. As I said go and dominante your mother oga case closed

My mother? Her husband is well educated, same as her and they both understand what it means to dominate and submit. Shame on you for mentioning my mother. It shows how much you respect your own mother and how people will respect you if by the grace of God you ever become a worthy mother.

Tell us, are you married? If yes! How happy is your home?

Another

5minsmadness:
A man is built innately for war. He is physical, aggressive, adventurous and a natural provider.

A woman is built innately for comfort. She is emotional, a nurturer, a supporter, a homemaker.

A man is built naturally to dominate his woman. This isn't a bad thing as feminists would have us believe. It simply means the woman is under the man's care. He is to love and protect her. He is to make decisions that will better her ad improve on her life. He is her guardian, her keeper, her right arm, her strength.
This is dominion.
This is a man's love.
This is a man's natural tendency.
A normal, level headed woman would naturally submit to this.

They will attack you.

Eketem:
Ehnnn poster, it seems you have never read Galatians 3.13 if you had then your whole curse/ dominance theory would have been bullshit.


Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:

By Christ dying he took away every single curse of humanity including the curse of the garden of Eden. Even though I don't do religion abeg don't mislead your fellow Christians. There is no curse you peeps have been redeemed.

Poster stupid argument.

If you have any shitty low esteem chauvinistic theory to turn out abeg write it on a paper and give your mother and sisters

I'm so moved to flush you the same way but I won't. You just need to be educated. What you said is according to these thieves calling themselves pastors. Telling you the sweet things so that you will continue giving them part of your salary every monthend.

Now, let's go back to all the curses on man in the garden of Eden and let's see the ones you said the death of Jesus has removed.

Genesis 3:16-19
To the woman he said,
“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you.”
17 To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat from it,’

“Cursed is the ground because of you;
through painful toil you will eat food from it
all the days of your life.
18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and you will eat the plants of the field.
19 By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food
until you return to the ground,
since from it you were taken;
for dust you are
and to dust you will return.”

Madam, please in the name of God, how many of these curses has ceased since the death of Christ. If you can't answer, just give your pastor a quick call.

The death of Christ has given us JUST A CHANCE AND HOPE OF SALVATION. IT IS NOT AUTHOMATIC.

I'd love to hear from you soon.



Shallom

coolzeal:
Cultures and traditions differs and ours has shown that, same sex relationship is an abomination though, few people will disagree with that. Now the topic is about respect, ego's and superiority between men and women in a relationship. Notions of superiority and egos are morbid, in men or women. And, notions of putting people "on track" are morbid, too. Let people be whatever they want to be. Don't be afraid of differences in human visions. There is no good in the imposition of one vision onto all others. That is fascism and intolerance. Just seek the company of those you admire and stay out of other people's business. Protect people's right to pursue happiness in their own way rather than struggle and waste your life with some miserable notion that you cannot be happy unless everyone lives and believes as you do..

@bolded well said. You've made your point. Now, go in peace. It's my choice if I want to waste my life on this notion that is miserable to you.

Just one male supported the normal female view. So, I got what I expected when starting this thread.

All the same, thanks for your wise contribution and choice of words.

duchess25:
bros no come and spoil my french kiss with coolzeal nah.lol. abeg in coolzeal's voice *respect is reciprocal* so forget dis african guy's mentality and do d right thing cos wen u treat a woman with respect i swear the lady will treat u like a king buh bro if u treat her anyhow hehehe she go treat u like sh.t esp the ones who gat some self respect not d begi begi ones

True African guy's mentality will always be African. Western mentality will teach you gay and lesbian mentality. Where a child can arrest his parents cos they spanked him.

Pidggin:
OP, all what you typed in your post is your own personal view, I personally think it is complete nonsense. FYI do not mention my post because I have no intention of replying small minded people like you.

You call my view nonsense and you want to go scot-free? You so wish.

But on a second thought, I'd apologise if my post offends you. We just want to reach a compromise. Women should know and understand our wiring while we man will also do all our best to know and understand you guys so that there can be peace.

But, it's a man's world and there are facts that must be accepted even if it's not comfortable. That's how we can continue to live in peace together.

As bad as it sounds, it is a man's world. Nothing can change that. That's how we are made. But good men know that they can do nothing without a good woman. Now, what makes her good? She's supportive and will never try compete with him in anyway or make decisions without consulting him. And when she couldn't reach him and takes a decision, she explains respectfully.

When a man asks for your opinion, it's out of respect, love and recognition. But when a woman asks for her husband's opinion, she's obligated to do so, it's out of respect for the man as the head.

Some times, we men think so stupidly and a good wife wouldn't point out his stupidity with sarcasm or showing she's wiser. She politely and respectfully give her own opinion and if the man wouldn't listen, a good wife will follow him anyways. And when they hit a wall, she wouldn't say "see? I told you this won't work" instead a good wife will kindly, ask him what's next and ask if they could give her own Idea a try. You don't force it on him, he'd feel condemned.

A woman that can't do these, is not even ready to find a good man not to talk of marriage.

coolzeal:
That ur French kiss go over sweet ooh infact make i quickly go brush Lol.. Thanks for the wishes my dear.. They say he that found a wife has found a good thing but we still dey pray and as u take bless me God go bless u too.. Amen.

Naija na wah. This French kiss na hm dey make you gbagaun like this?

SAMBARRY:
typical Nigerian man

Always looking for someone to dominate to feel good

It's not our fault ooo and we are never always wanting to dominate but once we want to, you shouldn't bring your own ego to the fore.

duchess25:
bros mi abeg chop kiss infact nah french kiss oo.no mind dem boys wey wan make women worship them more than God yet they wunt hav any iota of respect for d woman.infact bros mi i wish u a very very homely and respectful wife cos u deserve am.AMEN

Am I surprised? Hell No.
Now get it. We aren't saying women should worship us. All we are saying is that a woman needs to kill her ego if ever she wants to get a good man and marriage. If you want to do things the way you want - disregarding the man's stand, you are on your own and may God help you. No matter how patient the man is, a day will come, I mean a bad day will come that he wouldn't be the mumu you've known him to be. If unar don marry, na that day you go pack your load.

This thing will always be there. It's in us and your girls, ladies and women must accept it. Then you can have us under your whatever.

SAMBARRY:
for choosing how she wants to be adressed?

Typical Nigerian, if you want to hide an information from them, write it down, they won't read.

bastien:
A good friend of mine will be spending another year at home because of federal university otuoke (fuotuoke). She scored 238 in jamb and 307 in pume yet they didn't consider her for admission, some one that scored 182 in jamb and 172 in pume was given admission on merit list..... Abi to score high na crime again?


Is there any way she can sue the school? Or any ministry responsible for such case?

She is dying, heart broken..... She needs your help guys.

Thanks

That's naija for you. No be by wetin you know, na by who you know.

kazolad:
Hello nairalanders, I am a graduate but I am yet to be mobilized for service. In order not to be idle, I took up a teaching job in one of the private secondary schools in my area.

There is a girl in my class who has being acting somehow since my first day in the school. I found out that she always gives me lustful facial expression in the class. Sometimes, she will come to my office and asked me to teach her some topics in physics which i will explain to her. This continued until last week when i received a call from her ( i don't know how she got my number) and told me she is in love with me. I was shocked because i didn't expect to hear that from her. I told her from that point that it can never be possible but since then, she has being disturbing me with calls and messages. Should i report her to the management or quit the job?

Guy, with your church mind..... U really wan report? Oya show us the girl pisshure make we see. Then we go fit advice you. How old is she? I'm sure she's in SS 3.

obum88:
Simple, give her the cucumber

Baaaaaaad guy

oatzeal:
Controversial South African pastor who makes his congregation eat snakes, beaten, his church burnt down

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Controversial South African pastor, Penuel Mnguni, of the End Time Disciples Ministries was beaten up by some angry South African youths in Mmakaunyane Village in the North Western part of South Africa last week Sunday November 15th. During the attack, the youths burnt down his church and tied him and a member of his church up with rope.

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Penuel, who is known for engaging in strange practices such as asking his congregation to eat grass, strip naked and swallow live snakes, had been lying low for sometime after a mob led by South African vigilante group, the Economic Freedom Fighters, burnt his church at Soshanguve in Tshwane. He had tried setting up his church again inside a bush in Mmakaunyane community but was caught.

The tent of his church was burnt down by the angry youths while he and some of his church members were beaten and tied up. Police officers fortunately came to their rescue.

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Resident Johanna Baloyi said the pastor and his congregation were not allowed in their area. “How can a person eat a rat and claim it tastes like chocolate? That’s evil!” A church member who was protecting her pastor said they have the right to attend any church they wanted. She said the rats have healed and saved them from suffering.

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SOURCE: http://www.nairanaijanews.com/2015/11/see-photos-controversial-sa-pastor-who.html

This happened like a month ago as I read on Nairaland

MrsPhyno:
Lol truth ke? Na nonsense I dey read for here o. @bolded, Speak for urself or at least say some. There's nothing said about women amassing wealth in the Bible and those are my rules to live by not some NLers misguided viewpoints, no offense.

Make sure you marry as poor a woman as possible okay so she will not be any where close to competition for u.

And if I may ask, what of those women that didn't make their own money per se, like they have their family money that they are inheriting or they're from an extremely wealthy background. What happens to them?

What we are preaching is that ladies should swallow their prides, be humble and move on from there. Bitter as it is, men can't stand it. It's not their making, it's Eve's fault. In the garden, Adam wasn't dominating Eve before they ate the fruit, I mean before Eve fed him the forbidden fruit. If Adam was dominating, he would have questioned even why she should go pick the fruit without communicating with him.

bukatyne:
@Bold:
1. Is a woman earning more than her husband = to her competing with him?
2. Do you know the ratio of women who earn more than their husbands?

The man can't cope, he'd feel lesser and that's not how he's wired.

To the second question, I agree and that's why we have soo many over 30s still unmarried.

IndianaJay:
@Op....Try not to take offence but I have a few questions.

Why in God's name would any normal human being want to dominate another person??

What do people do with this domination they seek??

Can marriage not work without dominance?

Does it make you feel better about yourself? Does it feel your ego? Does it make you feel more like a man??

Every human being is on earth for a reason, a woman is not property to be dominated, the same way your mother and father invested in you, trained you as a human being is the same way her parents did too, why then do you think the best way to be happy as a man with a woman is by dominating her??

Look....marriages that work out and last as long are marriages where the man is a friend to his wife, he cares for her like a father and a brother and she respects him as such.

Mutual respect, understanding, true friendship, love, thoughtfulness, are some of the keys to long lasting healthy relationships, not by dominating your woman and not allowing her be her own person.

Sit there and be looking for who to dominate, afterall women don't have people too, they were plucked from orange trees, so they can't want to be their own person, someone must always dominate a woman for her to be useful to society.

A dominated/oppressed woman is a woman who will grow to resent you as time goes by.

No offence, but you've not read the post.
No matter how you see it. It is the fact. It's one of the punishments for disobedience in the garden of Eden. No one says it's normal but God has spoken and who can question or go against him? Please read Genesis 3:16. No be me write am.

SAMBARRY:
So tell me why y'all hate chimanda

Chimamanda Adichie Warns Not To be Called 'Mrs' But 'Miss'
Y'all should read this interview, this woman disregarded our culture and values. She wants to do what she wants and is telling other women the same.https://www.naij.com/60868.html

MsBliss:
Humility is a rare gift.

You find more humble men than women. I lie?

Targaryen:
that is not what he meant, what he is saying that its a man's world and women should learn to be submissive to their husbands irrespective of the wealth she may have obtain.

Guy, God go surely grant you 5000000GB mental capacity

MrsPhyno:
Wait so are u saying women shouldn't be rich or amass wealth? Una's mentality sickens me at times like I actually feel like vomiting

You amass wealth even more than King Solomon. But can you submit to a lesser man in terms of wealth? They won't even come to you. No man wants to marry a competition.

Now you can start vomiting all you want.

The truth they say is not only bitter but also irritating.

Griffon:
Does it mean that God's curse was wrongly allocated?

What happened to the dominance of those men who does the whole laundry at home, cook, and run errands for their wives?

Did they encounter a default-mode-dysfunction?

Those are the normal dream husband of these high-class ladies.

But me, I jump am pass. Olorun ma je. Tufiiakwa

Teespice:
old gist.

tell us something new.

Hey beautiful, are you married? If you're not, quit this attitude asap.
Its for your own good