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gregyboy:
I as a guy have rejected so many pretty girls because i was distracted by other ladies...who liked me less than this other ladies.....
After my eye i try to reconnect but it becomes a game over for me....

I have made up my mind is not whom i go for is who go after me i will cherish

Riele:
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Your generalization is annoying .

Most men also view relationship as a way of extracting sex from females .

The way you men act like saints is sickening.

Dimples0303:
Bruv... You answer this question for us... Please! Why

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ubunja:
it's a discussion. You don't have to be in attack mode.

Most women lose their virginity to broke players. That will show you that money and women is not as straightforward an issue as one would think.

So unfortunate. Some are like that.

OladimejiRufai:
Indeed, character is like smoke and it will find a way to show or come out if she's trying to hide it.

So engage with her frequently and observe the conversation carefully.

Then you don't stop there. I don't know the distance between you both. But if the distance is not very much and you can afford it, try visiting her and spending some time with her.

This is the time when you apply more measures to study her.

When you got to her home, how does it look like? Is there anything that puts you Off?

Who are the people who came to knock on her door to see her and how did their interaction go?

Who are her friends? And does she have any male friends? If she has male friends, has she told you about them just like she tells you about her female friends? And how close are they (she and her male friends)

how are the neighbours relating with her and how does she relate with them?

Let her take you on a walk around the whole street to observe how people are relating with her and how she's relating with people (but don't tell her that's your aim oo). At least If she bribed her friends or even close neighbours, she cannot bribe the whole neighbourhood now.

Also observe if she's quick or if she freely introduces you to whoever cares to listen as her lover or even "husband". If she does that to her friends, neighbours (especially when they ask). If she can do that, then she seems to be having nothing to hide.

Then while you are together, observe how much she's into you. is she happy the whole time that you are here? Does she play with you and love to play with you until you get tired? Watch out for how much affection she's showing you.

DON'T FVCK HER. I REPEAT DON'T Bleep HER. You have not paid her dowry (That's my personal principle by the way and I believe it's right for everyone)

Then out of all those neighbours and people on her street that relate with her, watch out for the ones that seem to be closest to her and try to study who those people are and what constitutes their interaction. THOSE ARE HER ADVISERS AND INFLUENCERS. And remember BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER. So watch out for such people.

You can then leave and visit again. This time you may not tell her you are coming on the condition that you are sure that she will be ready to receive you if you come. That is, if she's not going to be away from home.

But please, I want to advise you something. While you are doing all these studies, make sure you don't let her notice so she would not get hurt that you don't trust her especially if she's the good girl. So whatever you think may cause her to be suspicious in the above measures, try to avoid it and do it only at the right time when it will be fine or don't do it at all if it is not necessary.

So after visiting again, try to observe. During all these studies, always pray for guidance. very important. for God sees what we do not see.

So after all your studies, if you are satisfied about her and you are very positive about her, your mind is so convinced she's the one, then FVCK IT, FVCKING TELL HER YOUR MIND

Let her be in the her room with you and while you are there, tell her there's something you want to tell her.

"Baby, I don't want to stress this any further lest I lose such a precious gem such as you to another man. Baby, I wanna spend the rest of my life with you. Will you marry me?" (of course, you should use your own words; that's just an example)

Then at that stage, watch out for her reaction. If she's very much happy (and even crying self) that you said that and she tells you yes with all happiness, congratulations man, you've got yourself a girl.

But still... DON'T FVCK HER. I REPEAT DON'T FVCK HER!!!! You haven't still paid her dowry. Besides, you not rushing to have sex with her will go a long way to convince her that you genuinely love her and want to marry her and not just to eat from her cake.

So after that, you may start discussing how you will marry at the right time when you are both ready. But before then, take her home and let her take you home. Observe her family and their interaction with her. And at your own home, let your parents observe and examine her.

If they are fine with her and you are fine with what you observed at her parent's house, start preparing for marriage with her and wed her when you are both ready.

So that's my advice for you man. @loshybab

ubunja:
if money attracts ladies why are ladies not millionaires/billionaires already? Why are the majority of ladies still poor?

IamPlato:
Bro You Might Die Of Insecurity if You Keep Thinking That All Ladies Fake Things

Jewessgratitude:
Make una leave Babcock alone oooo

Like seriously you guys should drop this matter already!!!
Babcock has done what they deem right. Anyone who's not cool with it should open thier own university and enroll the girl and others who are into such acts. So we'll know where to send your children if you want them to become pornstars and where to send those who will become leaders of tomorrow.
Now I see why our ancestors have refused to leave leadership to up coming generation.

I tot our elders used to say it not only parents that train children but the whole community. So whether she did it in school or outside school, the school has the right to mete out discipline to them cos after the home is school and then the church. Together we shall join hands to rid our society of immorality.

All this people bashing the school will still go back and draw their childrens ears to warn them against such acts ooo. So who's the real hypocrite here?

NaijaRoyalty:
And at the end of the day, Your Pussy will be the one to suffer it .

ubunja:
if money attracts ladies why are ladies not millionaires/billionaires already? Why are the majority of ladies still poor?

wisdomukwuru:
Ubunja pls i need ur advice..��
I have made mistakes regarding to women, but i need ur advice on this particular matter.
They was this girl that left me last year because she thinks am a playboy and knows many girls..
Recently we have been talking and things seems to be going fine between us..
I happen to visit her in her place of work last week friday due to her demand for my product(pink lip balm)..
She was just saying that am annoying and i made her not to trust me.
Now what i don't understand is why would tell me that people seeing us together will think am her boyfriend because no boy has ever visited her and that she needs a very simple guy.

What kind of work does she do. Why do you she sees you as a player. She might be trying to fake green light for you. How d player got played. Red pill

That tall, bearded, pink lips guys don't really freak her just a simple guy..
Pls why is she telling me all this

Duggedised12:
So let me get this straight,you have a lady you met a virgin ,she has a daughter for you ,love you effortlesssly and even kneels down to serve you ,yet she is still your babymama? Wow you see why i said humans are insatiable? You just like every ingrate out there are the reason many women have had to borrow themselves sense and built up a defense mechanism so wicked men like you will not take advantage of them.

A man says he doesn't want a ho yet he cant wife a decent one who respects him, can you tell my why i should not call you a hypocrite ? Men like you are the ones who treat women anyhow because in their minds "she is not going anywhere,she will be waiting for me when i am done having fun with these hoes out here".

I must say you got yourself a perfect prey who isn't leaving your net any time soon ,so enjoy.

ubunja:
yar but girls are out here getting pregnant for broke players.

IHate9jerianss:
Nigerian men in Nigeria generally have no game/swag and don't know how to attract women without money.So they use money as a major factor for enticing women.This has made Nigerian women to be expectant of financial rewards from Nigerian men for their company/sex because that seems to be Nigerian mens' only redeeming quality when it concerns women...having money.

biddostandard:
youve gone too far calling him futureless are you this stupid?

ubunja:
If that was true there would not be so much poverty in the world.

Pettyprincess:
I quickly had to go check instagram to confirm if this is really true nd behold it is!!!
The world has really turned upside down,by the look of those boys including the victim are definitely below twenty years old nd they already started behaving like a criminal!!!
Oh poor girl!!! Ladies have to be extremely careful especially when visiting a guy's house,always take your pepper spray along incase of necessity!!! Prevention is better than cure!!!Like me nw i dnt even visit a guy's house especially the one i don chop him money b4

Officialgarri:
Reminds me of one female Nairalander who thought she could spice her relationship up by making her BF get jealous always while she was actually faithful.


Well, dude dumped her.

AwkaetitiBabe:
That was what you wrote naw. You gotta taste some dose of d medicine youve been dishing out naw.

AwkaetitiBabe:
When d player gets played. Karmic vibes.

condemn:
She will bring her pussy for you in 2 years time. Make sure you reject it