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RomanceRe: How Do I Break Up With A 30 Year Old Woman ? by Maxxim: 9:00pm On Aug 06, 2022
Thinkam:
Real relationships 5, that's consensual dating
You should then have known your way out
She didn't tie you down nw, did she?
RomanceRe: How Do I Break Up With A 30 Year Old Woman ? by Maxxim: 7:45pm On Aug 06, 2022
Frankly I don't mind an older woman, I've never dated or had sex with anyone I'm younger than or same age as myself, I like older ladies.
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How many relationship have you had so far, are you sure you ain't suffering from oneitis?


I've always had same thought too when I was at your age, but the truth is your view will change as time goes on, you still got some homorne in their developing stage.
Don't hastly make any decision which might hunt you later on.
EducationRe: Extinct Animals (pictures And Names) by Maxxim: 7:54am On Aug 04, 2022
wiseone28:
As long as it is white man that said it we will believe
You fit hear say dem done age 75 million years ago
ProgrammingRe: . by Maxxim: 2:28am On Aug 02, 2022
Omoh!! You guys at Alx are really trying o, I almost joined too but seeing the 70hrs per week commitment made me draw back. I doubt if I could even make it up to 50hrs per week, I've got activities and bills waiting for me.
Weldone bruv
ProgrammingRe: Online Remote Job Opening (web Developer) by Maxxim: 7:29am On Aug 01, 2022
Ion get grin
RomanceRe: My Thoughts On Being An Alpha Male. by Maxxim(op):
Karleb:
This dogma thing is the only thing I hate about red pill.

I remember when I pointed it out to some fellow here, I got insulted.

Red pill is eye opening but if you read their thread for 3 months you will develop hatred for women for what they did not do to you. It also stops people from introspection. I mean, a lot of guys are the reason women treat them the way they do. The movement literally absorbed men of their faults and puts every blame on women.

If this feels like deja vu, then it is because it sounds exactly like feminism.

They annoying part is, if you don't agree then you are a simp.

It's the same issue I have with the introverts thread, many of them are too lazy to work on their social life and blame extroverts for the reason why introverts cannot open up to people.

I have bombarded the introvert thread twice to make them realize this, I got insulted and that's fine but I don't think I have the strength for that red pill thread.

Besides, why must red pill be about women almost all the time. Kelvin Samuel don't even talk about women all days. He doesn't berate women unless they ask for it. He talks more on self development for men.

These people, red pill, feminists, introverts, are recruiting young minds that will spend their young adult life doing the wrong thing. Do you know how scary that is?
I completely agree with you, most of these people running behind these movements sometimes does so to cover their low self lifestyle and their inability to get more good from life.
There's a lot to enjoy in life than getting stuck thereby the only option left is to start bashing other genders.
I wish them healing tho.
ProgrammingRe: How Are These Websites made? by Maxxim(op): 6:49am On Jul 30, 2022
pansophist:
Can such websites be designed using WordPress and elementor?
No sir, It can't be made with Elementor, Elementor is just a page builder.
But I think one could create something similar with threepress, but one has to have the knowledge of php which is used for wordpress backend cos there'll be need to embed some code in it from threepress.
I hope bosses here could give more answers cause I'm still learning php.
RomanceRe: My Thoughts On Being An Alpha Male. by Maxxim(op): 6:19am On Jul 30, 2022
cayorday89:
Boss, you are so much on point.. I guess it goes with the same principle of too much of everything is bad coupled with the uniqueness of every individual and the situations surrounding their lives, some things are not needed but need to be known and should only be applied when situation calls for it, but some people will swallow it hook and line then apply all that on issues that only need communication and sorting out with your partner.

Also saying a simple 'NO' when someone tries to leech on you goes a long way in giving one peace of mind rather than seeing all females as potential leech and hating on them all.

The red pill and the feminist ideologies are eye openers, they both came up to address and protect their respective genders but all they speak about is not for one person to practice, it will only be a burden at the end as no one is expected to suffer all the lapses they preach against but to pick the ones that affects one directly.
Fax, I agree with you bro
RomanceRe: My Thoughts On Being An Alpha Male. by Maxxim(op): 12:05am On Jul 30, 2022
MayorOfDelta:
True, I don't really apply all the teachings in all scenario. You ought to know when and where to apply all these redpills kind of stuff because everyone is not the same. We have the Good and the Bad. You have to apply wisdom in order not to lose the good ones.

Let me give you guys a perfect and real life "illustration" of what I am trying to say.

There is this guy in our hostel, I noticed he is a redpiller and I hardly see him talk with women or have anything to do with them, only on rare occasions. There is this new girl that just came into our hostel, initially this guy and the girl were talking and greeting each other until one day, I was just sitting around the corner. The girl came in and greeted everybody except the guy, at first I thought I didn't noticed when she greeted him but from the guy countenance, all is not well.

So later, I found out that he and the girl do not talk to each other again, I couldn't get the reason but I have talked and had sometimes with this girl, she is not bad, she is quite churchy and also nice but I don't know why the guy is having issue with her.

Recently, I discovered from some people around that the guy is always negative towards women and that is why we don't see women or girls with him.

And I am wondering how such a person will see a good woman or even get married?
Your friend might be stuck in a phase in redpill, which could be the anger phase, his relationship with her only comes to prove to em the Awalt concept. He'll get over it somedays, it may take years tho, until his anger subsidize
RomanceRe: My Thoughts On Being An Alpha Male. by Maxxim(op): 11:58pm On Jul 29, 2022
Persephone1:
Few months back, I would argue all redpills topic, try to bring out the danger in not filtering through, following blindly what is taught. Question the fact that redpill especially Nl redpills only focus on getting into a woman's thighs etc.

One day I realize, sooner or later these guys will get tired and realize life is deeper than a woman's body. It's nice that is happening. You will be okay.
Lol funny enough I wrote and created this thread 4years ago, which was the first time learning about the Redpill, till now my views are not kind of diff from this. My kind of personality likes to analyze things I'm getting involved in and since I realized another matrix exist in redpill, I literally took what I needed and apply em when necessary, I hate being dogmatic.
RomanceRe: Nairaland Men Stop Disturbing Me Please(photo) by Maxxim: 10:58pm On Jul 29, 2022
Starzo:
Even if she fine pass Shakira, no man should simp for any woman no matter what.
Aswear bro
RomanceRe: Nairaland Men Stop Disturbing Me Please(photo) by Maxxim: 10:31pm On Jul 29, 2022
Wahala be like Nl men, most of em are dogs in human form, imagine mods sef dey simp.
As if the girl sef fine like that
ProgrammingRe: Tell Everyone About The Websites You Have Made by Maxxim: 9:47pm On Jul 29, 2022
codesngr:
Eemmm , was actually working on it when u opened the page , fixed now grin grin
The man actually loves vawulence grin
CrimeRe: Chioma Eunice Igweike: Ogun Corper Found Dead With Body Parts Missing (Photos) by Maxxim: 8:34pm On Jul 29, 2022
heendrix:
Ogun state ritualist should rather start going after Fulanis, not only will you be making whatever stupid money you intend to get, but you'll also be keeping ur land safe. that to me is killing two stones with one bird shocked
It's actually happening
TravelRe: My Poland Japa Experience (honest View) by Maxxim: 8:01pm On Jul 29, 2022
BritishNaija:
Thank you. I have literally Travelled all the Schengen Zones, It would have been Austria or Germany, But I decided slovenia is the best to stay put more.
That's great to hear, enjoy your day boss!!
FamilyRe: Crazy Ghost Experience by Maxxim: 7:59pm On Jul 29, 2022
I went to visit my hometown that year almost 7years ago in some remote areas in Ogun state, I'm actually at school then in abk so it was easy for me to take some couple of buses to my place.
So on this faithful day the family member I went to visit asked his children to goan fetch some food from the farm and it was getting dark, the older one took their bike with his younger brother and rode almost 45min to the farm, the older one said as they were preparing to pack the yams and firewood, they saw a being who is at the height almost a storey building walking in direction to where they are he said that being was with a lantern that made everywhere became really bright like it was in the afternoon, at the sight of the being the younger one fainted complaining of cold, the older dude due to the experience he'd heard from older men said he took one of the firewood and start hitting emself shouting telling that being to walk in different direction, he brought his brother back home and he the lil brother seems almost paralysed but due to herbs and different medicine from the old men in the village he was okay on the third day. I was just grateful I never followed them cause I almost did.
TravelRe: My Poland Japa Experience (honest View) by Maxxim: 7:31pm On Jul 29, 2022
BritishNaija:
Thank you.

I'm currently suspending the code i'm writing now, I'm about to hit the PuB and wast a lot there, Naija passport have made mess of me a lot. 2011while holidaying in Dubai, One study bouncer in a Club around Deira refused me entry because of I'm a Nigerian.
Congrats boss!!
ProgrammingRe: Programmer by Maxxim: 7:30pm On Jul 29, 2022
Ikechukwu183:
Not bad... It's based on video tutorials, expensive but effective.
Very effective, I don't find them expensive as long as I'm getting the right lessons from them
ProgrammingRe: Programmer by Maxxim: 6:34pm On Jul 29, 2022
Bobbytech001:
Please I need a good material to start with as a programming beginners, please healp
If you're interested in web development, check out Scrimba
TravelRe: My Poland Japa Experience (honest View) by Maxxim: 3:54pm On Jul 29, 2022
You're a good illustrator, op come finish wetin you start, enjoying this big time.
ProgrammingRe: I Am Paying For A Rare Fintech Idea by Maxxim: 12:44pm On Jul 29, 2022
airsaylongcome:
@Tyradfr

TBH I’m kind of wary about you. Not like I have a hare-brained fintech idea or something. But insisting on Telegram for something as major as this is a big red herring for me. Why would I want to put out a “big” money making idea to a Telegram handle? I understand your need for anonymity but there’s absolutely NO WAY I’m discussing business with an anonymous forum user on an anonymous Telegram account.

Just to toss it out there. Think around a HR/Payroll solution with fintech baked in. It could be a double edged money maker. Charge the business per employee payslip processed. Charge the employee per transaction when they transfer their salary from your fintech app to their orthodox Bank account
❤️
RomanceRe: Every Man Must Read This! :o by Maxxim: 12:23pm On Jul 29, 2022
kennethfranc:
That's too harsh man. When it comes to relationship, breakfast is inevitable. As long as it involves two adults, there must be clash of views at some point.
grin grin
Forget about it
RomanceRe: Every Man Must Read This! :o by Maxxim:
You're right, most women makes lot of sacrifices for we men which cost them alot sometimes their life, not to talk of the responsibility they have to shoulder cos of their unconditional love for men.

I'll propose they sign it into law death penalty by hanging whoever breaks any woman's heart
PoliticsRe: Don’t Judge Tinubu With Buhari’s Failure, Mr Jollof Urges Celebs by Maxxim: 10:22am On Jul 29, 2022
Awon eeyan portable grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Reason Why I Am Happy For The Dollar Increase In Nigeria by Maxxim: 10:34pm On Jul 28, 2022
Op sef dey try huzzle grin
CareerRe: If You Are In Your Early 20's, You Need To READ This. by Maxxim: 3:09pm On Jul 28, 2022
pansophist:
This is sad for me to say, and the political elites knows this well, but I'll say it anyways.

The realities of most African countries right now is not an happenstance, but something that have been carefully engineered centuries ago by the west. We exist in the world they created for us, and we are exactly where they want us to be.

In this imposed world they created, our best time would be in the past, not the future. The best time of your country will be in the memories of your parents, and if you think that you're having a bad time, then the upcoming generation will have it worse.

Africa as a whole never got independence in the truest sense of the word, what we called "independence" is nothing but the transition of a dying method of exploitation (colonialism), to a more sophisticated, effective, self-sustaining method of subjugation (imperialism). Nothing more.

You can't call yourself independent when your official language, political system, monetary policy, culture, educational system has been heavily designed and photocopied from people that destroyed you in the first place. You're not independent when your strength comes from others/outside, not inside, from you.

The day any African country can survive just like Russia and China who has been sanctioned to death by the west who seems themselves as earthly god, on that very day, we have achieved independence. The day we can lock our borders and not get anything from west through importation (autarky) and still stands, just like Russia, is when we have achieved true independence.

Most country except maybe six globally grew outside the western hegemonic order, hence no matter what the west does to them, they simply cannot go down, and they are hated for that.

Your politicians knows this very dark fact, I also assume they are hopeless in it, and just choose to embezzle instead. Foreign powers way stronger than regional and national powers pull the strings from a global level. Africa has never had a leader in the league of Stalin or Mao, all we have are rulers. Foolish rulers that don't know what leadership and true independence is.

Sorry for being the carrier of bad news, but unless a slave knows that he is a slave, he will never plot his freedom. Africa must undergo another series of true independence and flush off cesspit democracy once and for all, because no third world country will ever grow under such system. It was not designed to.

Right now, the youth that should fight the system and rescue themselves from this imposed slavery their parents couldn't destroy are all on social media trying to gain followers lol, addicted to porn and gambling, chronic womanisers, alcoholic and ashawos lol. But still, I recognised the system stacked against them, making them survive in such a humiliating way. Na person wey chop belleful de fight for freedom.

If you want to truly swallow the redpill, then this is it. In a nutshell, you're surviving (not thriving) in a system created for you by the west. Like a zoo lion, you're merely a sentient for exploitation, and you do not control the realities of your existence.
You've just written the saddest reality.
What's more mental draining is realizing one is rendered unproductive even after putting a lotta of effort and there's nothing to show as a result, It's such a hopeless situation.
You talked about revolution, I never believe that would happen anytime soon and whatever reason would it take place, that I get myself involve, that'll never happen.

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