₦airaland Forum

pansophist:
it's worse when one doesn't know the value he has (youth) because he has always had it since birth. You usually don't appreciate what you have until you loose it. And where the tragedy lies is that unlike cash, its irrecoverable. Its gone.

Furthermore, all the steps one didn't take earlier on will suddenly come home to roost, slowing him down from transitioning into the next phase of his life. For example If he doesnt have money due to lack of education, it would delay his plans for marriage.

And it compounds. Parents are getting older, and he is no self-sufficient, talk more of subsisting someone else. One of the noble gift everyone owe their parent is the gift of freedom. You must make them free from taking care of you, and even better, to take care of them if need be.

Its a tragedy to watch parents grow old with the fear that they won't live their old age with dignity, to rest, and be released from the hustle and tussle of raising a child because they wasted time and resource raising unproductive child.

Absolute facts sir.
My hope is for we on this self development path to finally make it somedays even as there's been a lotta of constraints due to unfavourable environment we've met ourselves.
Thanks for your contents, I find them really helpful.

Well written sir, it's quite inspiring.
This reminds me of this theory about what happens when people fail to utilize their great ideas and potentials when they were still young and vibrant until they become older on their deathbed and became reminded about those unused potentials, I'm sure they'll die of regrets

I Just made a google search about the country and it was quite impressive, it'll be one of those countries in my bucket list I'll love to visit.

Quite inspiring thread, thanks for sharing

How much are you paying??

I'll suggest you find a solution to an existing everyday problems, that way the idea would come helping and would be a lasting investment.

fk001:
I will rather kill myself than to be in such prison

LikeAking:
Leadership is not the real cause of the problem. It's deeper that that. Look around Africa, no African country is progressing. It's an African problem not a leadership or political problem.

What's wrong with puplic shools? In the dev world only the very rich send their kids to private schools, but in Nigeria it's diff.

Private sch na scam.

You're yet to mention why the problem is an African thing,
Why is private school a scam, so you prefer your kid attending a school bare seating on the floor in a classroom without chairs and furnitures, not to talk about how cultism has spread in those schools.
Your opinion seems achiac man

LikeAking:
We most come in terms with reality. Mordenizatiin has its own consequences. Things will become very expensive.

No govt can stop that.

What is happening in Nigeria has regards the cost of living is almost natural.

Why are we sending our kids to private schools, when we can make the govt schools work and pay less.

The average Nigarian is the architect of his problems. List I forget, we all prefer forign goods to ours.

Mordenizing bla bla, oga the root of Nigerians problems are caused by their leaders, corruption, mismanagement of public fund led us to this situation. Compared to other foreign countries why didn't our leaders manage the situation to be like theirs where there's enough job for whoever is ready to work.

You mean at this age one should enrol their kids to public schools, seems you're not based here.

tensazangetsu20:
Lol trust me the worst is yet to come. A tinubu regime will make the present Buhari regime look like paradise. He has already said he will continue from where Buhari stopped . I tell people not to give birth because no matter how bad things are or things get you can always fend for yourself. If you don't even have food, you can go long periods as an adult without eating. The human body can go for as long as six months to a year on just water. Children will die though if they are subjected to such. If you know how many kids in Nigeria go to bed hungry, you would cry.

That's food o I don't even wanna talk about education. A Nigerian child with regards to education is completely behind his pairs from other parts of the globe. Only the rich in Nigeria can afford quality education now. Look at some of the high ranking schools and see how much they cost.

You even suffer finish train your kids and make them responsible human beings where are they gonna work. A lot of Nigerian graudates have no work. Few people working are severely underpaid. A graduate earning 15k, 20k a month. A Nigerian life isn't worth it. It's a sin for anyone to create more after having lived through it and such people deserve the deepest parts of hell alongside our demonic politicians.

It's obvious the man has nothing to offer and due to his greediness he won't step back, if care is not taken he won't be defeated unless great strategy and joint forces are been involved.

There's no hope for the poor man, my niece school fee just passed 60k, that's the average school standard in my area, if you don't want your child to return home from school speaking curse words, been that her mum is a single mum whose legal husband ran away cause of responsibility. This always make me wonder what will be the situation if the kids are up to three.
The country is doomed already.

tensazangetsu20:
Dude should enter unilag and he will see devs with leetcode counts of 1200+. Japa is on everyone's mouth. Nigerian is completely doomed. Once tinubu wins the next election, complete economic collapse for the next 100 years .

I'm so sad
It's been a while since I've had a genuine smile, this country issues had turned me into an unhappy person.
Each time you talked about how this country can't get better back then and reasons people shouldn't give birth anymore, I'd always felt your words are over hyped until reality starts setting in few months ago. I've given up on this country.

Those wey dey cap say agbo or bitters are the cause of kidney failure, abeg try to dey clarify am
The issue here is not with agbo rather it's with the sellers, have you ever asked how these things are being prepared and what are the stuffs added to make those concoctions.

I've once caught an agbo seller buying hard drugs he intends to add to his agbo, funniest thing is that few minutes after consuming it, you'll start sweating and feeling better not knowing it's the work of the drugs.

Nothing matches making your agbo by yourself.

There's this toxic mindset in each and every Obi's supporters, only lawd knows why it's like that, you'll feel this pressure everywhere like it's some kind of lifeline even on twitter, I just tire. Someone used to say "ma ko girigiri bami" in the case of obi's supporters it's the opposite.

doggedfighter:
It was a big disappointment to everyone across the country and overseas as I wasn't selected to participate at the big brother Nigeria, reasons best known to them, some claim am too popular and already a celeb but in all we give thanks.


The bolded is funny


Who are the everyone overseas and across the country that are disappointed ?



You are too popular, where exactly ?


You hype yourself more than you sing.

STEP ONE
Believe in yourself

spencekat:
Depression no be beans sha.

No jokes man

Omo life no easy

Most Naija guys sees anything white as superior, no mind em it's the slave gene in his blood responding to it's call. Omo eru.

Regex:
Even if I am a Pastor, and my wife denies me sex, I will get me a mistress and will announce it to the church. If she understands that I have no shame she too will sit up. Nothing like grievous sin.

Fax bro
Most of em ladies looses their brain when there's no contender in sight, thanks to religion and society most women could guess rightly what and where their husbands are at.

I hope I never lose the ability to be a mystery to my future wife.

RUBBISH!!

I thank God for my life, leaving drugs can be hard as hell esp this tm
I pray your friend overcomes his addiction somedays

MaxInDHouse:
That's not how Jesus commissioned the work so the man is on his own! Matthew 12:19

And how did he commission it

Your frame be like one stick of spaghetti

benalvino3:
to manipulate doms you need to know how functions and objects work. all programming has similar learning curves and except you understand that concept, you cannot go further. without learning the concept behind Js, you will be wasting your time trying to manipulate doms.
you figured out how to query an id or class name... what do you do with it? you still have to write your methods. to make the Html documents do what you want. this might include arrays, if statements, loops, etc.

You're correct sire
But maybe a short intro about those I mentioned could be made in order to make those learning have an idea and make them understand that to achieve that, they need to learn it's fundamentals first

Op I would have preferred you find out the real reason why some people finds it hard to grasp Js knowledge in a more constructable way and finding solutions to it.

I'm not different from those people too but after going deeper esp learning about how other programming languages works, I realized the problem is from the stage and lessons beginners are being taught.
Someone like me would love the stages be like this:
Learning Html, Css and when it gets to Js I would like to start from Dom manipulation and Functions, cause I believe my knowledge after learning Html and css is how to make my page responsive and interactive instead of starting It's lessons from, arrays and operators.

LagosG:
Nobody dey even ask OP about how he's dealing. That's messed up.

Kpele

Carcholce:
Yes Buddhism is a good place to learn about mind control. But the best tool for mind control is your Bible. Bible is not entirely about God. Bible is about you and I. If you know how to read your Bible and always put yourself in every scenario/events, you’ll master so many secrets hidden in the Bible.

Bible is a mind mastery tool. But it has been reduced to mind slaving tool by the powers that be. Every pages of the book of revelation and it’s events happened in the mind of the writer. They are not real life event but what a pure mind saw as “vision” perceived to come. That is why it is called “Revelation”. So many other books in the Bible too. Emphasis on “Pure mind”, what we have nowadays are corrupt minds that can’t see nor perceive. Don’t read the Bible because you are a Christian, read it as you may a book you find interesting.


African traditional practices isn’t as hard as it is made to believe. The practices and it’s method works hand in hand with your mind. What Christians call faith applies to African traditional practices too. You must put your mind to it.


Please note, I do not engage in any of the practices but I was born and brought up in the setting. I know everything about it to some extent. Over the years I have been able to understand that the mind and words of mouth plays major role in the practice. Words of mouth said with faith and sent out in the ether is not lost, it is still in the air doing the work it is intended. The recipients will always get the message provided it is sent through the right channel


Tell your friend not to try what he doesn’t know without guidance. Everything you do and say has effect. Even the most basic thing as getting your hands dirty and washing your hands with soap also has effect on not just the body but the mind. Know this.

On semen retention, This subject very wide and deep. It is not necessarily about the semen but the drive or desire to have sex. The desire to have sex lies the secret to creative imagination.


Energy flows in every one of us. From your brain to your groin area.

If you study the 7 chakras

The energy starts from

1. Your crown

2. Your third eye

3. Your throat

4. Your heart

5. Your stomach

6. Your sacral chakra (sexual/creative energy)

7. Your root chakra( located at the base of your spine. It provides you with base and foundation for life.



Do you know how powerful it is to be able to first;

1. Desire sex. (When you desire sex, you wake up this energy from the top)

2. Be able to make the sex energy flow from the top, (your brain, can also be called mind) down to your private region. It gives an instant erection. Meaning the energy started from the your brain and passed through all other organs of the body and rested on your penis to give you an erection for ACTION.

There is the secret. You don’t just practice semen retention without being able to know how to move this energy at will.

(I wish I can draw a diagram for better understanding)

It started from your brain with a super fast rush (so fast that no equipment on earth can contend with how fast it is)

You have to know how to be able to move this energy from your penis back to your brain(your creative faculty) or any other areas of your body.

I’ll give a perfect example.

Close your eyes for about 1 to 2 min. Imagine a naked young lady with bare perky buubs sitting on your lap and grinding you slowly. Hold it right there, did you notice a rush of sex energy from your mind where you started the imagination down to your penis that gave you an erection or about to charge you up for an erection? I bet you did not even notice when and how the thought of the young lady transformed into an energy and passed through all other organs of your body down to your penis. If you are able to follow this energy and keep track of it when it starts and flows to your penis to give you an erection, then you have a reason for semen retention.

Why semen retention is important is because. Frequent indulgence in sex wakes up the energy and after ejaculation the energy is lost immediately. We all know what happens after we “cum”

This energy should be tamed and used for greater things. For the mind, body and soul.


I hope you understand my use of language and the way I write. Whenever I write I always feel I didn’t say it the way it is in my head. I suck at putting things in my head on note.

Hmm, you went so really deep.
I really understand your explanations, esp that of the mind I've never seen anyone expantiate in a more broader way since a very long time, you must be a deity lol.
Over the years I used to believe that the mind is one crazy tool though I'm still exploring it, if trained properly you'll feel people's energy without even without speaking with them, you'll learn things in the conscious world and understand it pretty well with the subconscious when you're almost asleep ( the theta). I wish to learn how to build ones mindset financially because what differs the poor and the rich is their mindset.
About how the bible is used to control people, I understand this as well, same way the government uses money to render the masses as slaves. Thanks for the inputs sir.

Brezz is life

Nonexisting:
Some of them in that picture are more evening than sun newspapers of 2010 but I like that they are breastfull though.

I even thought na those gays for here rub powder for face ni

Nonexisting:
Some of them in that picture are more evening than sun newspapers of 2010 but I like that they are breastfull though.

I even thought na those gays for here rub powder for eye ni

Nonexisting:
Some of them in that picture are more evening than sun newspapers of 2010 but I like that they are breastfull though.

You don go loud am

Carcholce:
I understand what you mean perfectly. It’s a gift that not everyone can uncover. That side of you is deep rooted in who you are, your innocence, like when you were a little child, your true self, your other half, the father that sees it all but through the son.

To continue to tap into that side of you, you have to completely go celibate once in a while. Whenever I indulge in careless sex, I lose the ability for sometime till I overcome the effect the sex had on me.

Secondly, try as much as possible to not get involved with anyone that will take a larger part of your mind. Your mind is where everything happens, your conscious and subconscious abilities gets really affected when you foolishly gets involved with someone that triggers your emotions. The mind is your emotion play field.


Don’t let anyone get you angry for any reason. When you are angry with someone, it lowers this ability. Of course you are human, you are prone to get angry, but don’t let it hold you down for long.

Eat light. Don’t eat heavy food, don’t eat late to bed, else you’ll sleep like a dead being and not be able to witness the things of the night.

Try as much as possible to make sure your house/room isn’t dark during the day. Darkness has a negative effect on the mind. You cannot be in the dark at night and as well be in the dark during the day.


On the deeper level, you can as well use this ability to get anything you want in life. Provided you know how to use it effectively.

People have accused me of being a wizard several times but they have no idea I was very fortunate to discover what God instilled in every human but only those that dig deep can find it. I call it treasure, heaven.

And lastly, you must be very confident and be aware that you are a being that is capable of seeing, knowing and achieving, else, none of this is going to work for you.

Your explanations sounds really interesting, I'm curious, does mastering of the mind has anything to do with buddhism, where it's advised to learn how to control the mind, including practices like semen retention to utilize energy. I'm asking this cause I've practiced some of these exercise over the years and I've seen it's effects.
About african traditionalist and their methods of practicing their stuffs, I think it's really hard to trust these practices cause of their lack of stability.
Do you think a common newbie can involve in any of their practices without getting emself burned. A friend told me he recovered his grandpa's account recently, he'll like to know if he can try what he saw without trespassing some channels.