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Don't mind the typos tho
I've always been a fan of Ubunja miseducation until I started examining all his teachings and practices, I have nothing against him, I'm just trying to clear you guys on some of the things you need to consider before taking into action some of his teachings.

There is this fact that our thinking and our sense of reasoning are quite different so this teaching can't be recommended to every guys out there wanting to grow a beautiful home in the future.

The very first time I read his epistles it was an eye opener for me because it creates this awareness by telling me more about what goes on every women's mind and how complex their thoughts are.

But then I realised following his lessons deep down will only lead you into
Losing your emotion (which is the essence of entering a relationship)
You lose being Compassionate.
You become a player by trying this method on every girls you meet.

Making some research further shows that if you keep following this pyscological tricks you'll never be able to build a healthy relationship.

So i tried digging into this matter after sometimes I realised most of we men out here are weak guys.
Most guys are boys in adult body they lack self confidence.
They don't understand the woman pyscology

Majority of us have been affected by social validation, been needy in every relationship and the lack of self reliance.

What I mean in essence is that most guys haven't gotten the time to study and analyse themselves.
Instead of liking the kind of person we are knowing we are the result of the actions we take and that other people will only advise us based on who we are externally instead of internally we try to please everyone's opinion.

When we lack self reliance we make the woman make most decisions which is what most women hate because no matter their social status they'll always need a man that can lead them.

Aside from that a needy man shows a woman that something is wrong
with him, that he is trying to just “get”
something from her. In short, that he cannot add value to her life,that he can only take value.

You can safely
bet she will avoid any type of intimate relationship with such a man, at all costs.

And most importantly some men don't have any purpose.
When it comes to having purpose in life it means having a reason of living, it creates a pathway towards your future ambition.
And so when a man lacks this and women senses those absent areas they're prone to become uninterested in you.

They've got to see proof that you have the potential to be a responsible man.

So as a man you've got to be yourself, improve your social life by becoming freeman, be authentic, turn on your masculinity then you'll always win the heart of women.

These are my thought guys I stand to be corrected if there's any need for it.

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LillyVal:
Husband: Knocks at the door at midnight.

Wife: You better go back to where you are coming from.

Husband: Open the door or I will throw myself into the swimming pool!!

Wife: Go ahead and kill yourself, do you think I care? so the husband stands near the dark part of the gate and wait for 2 minutes, takes a big stone and throws it into the swimming pool. !!!! puuuummmmm!!!!!!!

Wife hears and opens the door and runs towards the swimming pool. The husband quickly sneaks into the house then locks the door.

Wife: Open the door or I will shout!!!!

Husband: Shout till all the neighbours wake up and come here. And when they come, make sure you tell them where you are coming from by this time of the night with only a pant and a bra.

Lol

psucc:
Your enquiry requires further clarification.
Are you an aspiring Prisoner?

Epic

Happiestman1:
Yea. I live close to them

Lol. Lie no go kee you see ur mouth like 7up bottle

Lol. Badt guy

Jig5aw:
what do you understand by Sowores led revolution? understand that to demand what is constitutionally yours from the government is Your Right. that is the Revolution he is talking about. But Nigerians do not know how to fight for anything...thats why you are saying this...

Don't mind him dat was what he was paid to do, them full here.

No realistic goal.

Lovely! congrats to them hml.

Lol. See reality later them go dey insult ubunja

symbianDON:
he was cabled

Lol

Commentor:
Why would I need Nairaland's assistance when many of you wilfully and willingly showcase your entire life on social media?

I've seen the telephone number of many who have insulted me on this forum.

I've linked it to a name.

I've gone to their Facebook page and found they are kids or poverty stricken at which point I lose the zeal for vengeance.

Lol. You're right at some time I was also guilty of having all my info on social media. The scary part is going through my email and seeing all my browsing activities was really shocked.

Lol

Nairaland is a snitch, we ain't safe anymore I'm sure when consulted they gave the fbi all the dudes info.

Insyd Lyf

Wow! nice environs, keep giving us updates pls.

jimyjames:
So you yourself don't nag abi this white that you claim to be hope you are not albino ?

Lol, Sniper chocolate will do.

It depends have you make any findings, btw the two skills have you find what interest you that'll make you endure even when you're faced with problem.
I think you still have to examine stuffs you don't have to look for lucrative, you can always build an empire with any skills you choose.

ubunja:
thanks maxxim.

You wlc boss

ubunja:
says who

Bros U be rare gem.