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My dear, suicide is a big NO for whatever reason you may have or whatever you are going through. Killing oneself is a great offence.
There are some set of people who are willing to listen to you and help you - seek professional help please.
Above all, remember that Jesus loves you. Go to Him in prayers and pour your heart to him. It is well.

@Op, if you like yourself flee. That guy is obsessed with the lady and can do anything including getting rid of perceived obstacle along his way.
It's him that attempted suicide now, the next will be him murdering you.
God forbid anyway but to be forewarn is to be foreharm. A word is enough for the wise.

greggng:
That family you married from is not a good family . Moving forward, you have to end that marriage. You 've no excuse for breeding ss children now that you 've gotten the knowledge. Don't believe in any form of deception like blackmailing you that God will perfect it. Move on with your life but always Take care of that mistake both of you have made. That marriage is doomed ...,that child won't forgive both of you.

That unforgiven aspect is touching.
The child will question the parents on why they brought him to the world to suffer. The parents will always feel sad to see the agony the child passes through during his crisis. Pathetic indeed.

I really feel for this op. The deception is too costly and came with a big price to pay - SS child for a start.
How could you have believed that blood changes easily like that when you were even lucky to know it before marriage? Some pple arent that lucky.
I dont blame you anyway.
Way fwd?.......Hhmmm, think you need to see the professionals.

Mizwisdom:
Cost of living in Lagos varies between Island and mainland. Mainland, close to the border and close to entrances is very affordable. Don't ever live far from your work place. It's like living in one LGA and working in another even in any other state, it won't be easy. Lagos is a commercial state.

Many good coys with good pay are on the Island,. Now, how many people can afford to live close to their workplace here? To live in Ikoyi, VI and all those areas no be moin moin my dear.

hamzeiy:
and they are mostly cowards.
i came all d way from kaduna to lagos for an interview invite at lekki phase one, considering i wasnt a lagosian it wasnt funny getting help for directions.
every one i approached male or female, young or old seem to be scared of responding to me or even pay attention to my request for help and direction . though i know it has alot to do with previous experience but common have some balls lagos, have some balls..
...the experience was as irritating as it was annoying ..

I dont think they are cowards. Just know that Lagos is equally full of vices and those get rich quick guys and gals who uses charms by devising various means to achieving this.
Honestly, Lagos is overrated. I particularly hate the noise and rest-less lifestyle of the state.

calliope:
Go to their head office. Ask for lacasera. Buy some recharge card for him, and you'd be amongst the first 10 persons that would be attended to. You can thank me later.

This got me lmao.

Honestly, I've not even given it a trial because of the nasty experience my colleague narrated when he was at their center in Gwarimpa to register. I've been discouraged since then.
I sincerely hope to get mine but........geezzz

His time of reign has passed. There's the need to continue keeping body and soul together.

Hhmmmm, it is well.
See as those in the swimming pool were looking at that pregnant woman in the pic.
In this part of the world, I think its always good to keep some things to oneself.

This topic is old but I just came across it.

It is very possible for period to be seen twice a month depending on a lady's cycle.

There are some ladies with short cycle of say 25 days and can thus have 2 periods in a particular month in the course of rotation ........ and yes, its normal and healthy.

The one that will be forming accent is hilarious.

nnamdiokere45:
my bro, go and treat again. I treated typhoid so tey d doc no need do test again bfor treatment. I became a regular customer. Thank God i have nt had typhoid this year

LOL.

Acidosis:
You're certainly going to regret this union.

Better don't allow the poor-man-mentality comments on this thread confuse you. Being a reserved and conservative person has nothing to do with wealth.

His actions are a result of his personality (not his money). Take away that wealth today, he'll still borrow to impress people, na so extroverted money miss road people dey do.

Don't force it, no one should force you to do what you wouldn't do on your own discretion. Love with your head and be calculative. Love should not make you go to the extreme. Listen to the comments on this thread at your own peril.

A very good advice. @op, dont ignore it!!!

Deadlywoman:
Some people will make you feel guilty for not wanting what most girls dream of so don't listen to them. Do what makes you happy and be with like minded people. If these things and this lifestyle makes you unhappy then speak up! Speak your mind and don't be a follower. He sounds like a catch but if he's not your catch then let him go. To pretend, to change or adapt to something you're not comfortable with is just selling yourself out. You'll hate yourself in the end so follow your heart.

One good advice to follow.
@op, dont under-estimate those differences between the two of you, it can cause future problems if your man refused to reason along with you after you must have had indepth discussions about your person together.
For those mentioning poverty, being modest in dressing has got nothing to do with wealth or poverty at all.
I wouldn't say more than that. You have more than enough convictions already.

ikorodureporta:
**FRAUD ALERT!
THEY JST WITHDREW N1000 & N50 From my bank for card renewal. Is it not suppozd to be end of the month? I guess its for Ekiti election...

You dont want to hurt their feelings? You better do before you hurt yourself.

Gspotlicker:
if i stay out if sun is just like telling me to stay away from food

Uhhmmm, it is well.
There's no way a light skinned person will be staying under the sun continuously and the skin wouldn't be affected.
Just keep looking out for other opportunities that could end your staying under the sun for longer period.

Did you do a test before you commenced treatment of the malaria?
If it's self medication, then I'll advice you go for a test and make sure you did typhoid test too. such are its symptoms.