European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UCL Semi-final: Barcelona(0) Vs Chelsea(0) On Tuesday 28th April by mayrho(m): 11:28am On Apr 28, 2009 |
dem go fall dem go fall yaka yaka ta All BLUE HATERS GO FALL U WATCH |
Nairaland General › Re: Nairaland Home Page: What Do You Think About This Prototype? by mayrho(m): 4:23pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
I really feel the simplicity of nairaland is what makes people attracted. Not the noisy feel from oda imitations Also if u notice the Facebook change, plenty people could not adjust and subsequent changes made people uncomfortable with navigation and general use of the site So if u do change it keep it simple and easy. Na you now we believe in you Easy does it |
Forum Games › Re: Change Just One Word In The Sentence by mayrho(m): 3:52pm On Apr 23, 2009 |
to them u are soft and u do the job in bed |
Forum Games › Re: Comment On D User Id Of D Person Above U! by mayrho(m): 3:47pm On Apr 23, 2009 |
which kain guy dey yan about his ass are you gay |
Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by mayrho(m): 3:27pm On Apr 23, 2009 |
The part am not in aw big is your woman's ass |
Forum Games › Re: The Game Starts With The Last Letter by mayrho(m): 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2009 |
chaos |
Forum Games › Re: Never Ending Story - Just Two Words by mayrho(m): 10:58am On Apr 23, 2009 |
with your |
Forum Games › Re: Last Person To Post In This Thread Wins by mayrho(m): 10:37am On Apr 23, 2009 |
last is first am here @ last I won |
Family › Re: Would You Work For Your Father In-law? by mayrho(m): 4:55pm On Apr 22, 2009 |
ima1 i concur major HELL NO |
Nairaland General › Re: Seun Pls Disable The Reply Notification For Me by mayrho(m): 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2009 |
And all of us went 2 school??!! |
Career › Re: AIT/Raypower: Owes Staff 6 Months Salaries by mayrho(m): 10:08am On Apr 22, 2009 |
 Why would he pay when he has spent money on expatriates and equipment for naija 2009 PRIORITIES DIFFER in 1-MAN business Pity those guys working for him |
Music/Radio › Re: Artist And Platinum Sales In Nigeria: How Are These Figures Collected by mayrho(m): 4:42pm On Apr 21, 2009 |
been wondering too?!!!! |
Politics › Re: Pipeline Explosion In Lagos: 40 Feared Killed (pic) by mayrho(m): 4:33pm On Apr 21, 2009 |
where are we headed i don tire oh |
Politics › Re: Yar'adua Cuts Salary Of Ministers, Himself, Etc By 20% by mayrho(m): 4:32pm On Apr 21, 2009 |
hahahaha i laugh in igbo language bunch of jokers |
Romance › Re: Why Do Lecturers Victimize Innocent Poor Students So Much!?! by mayrho(m): 11:30am On Apr 21, 2009 |
phew!!!  oh boy! am I glad am a guy!!  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: FA Cup Semi-final: Arsenal(1) Vs Chelsea(2) On Saturday 18th April by mayrho(m): 9:56am On Apr 21, 2009 |
@Dotman01 u know e no easy from belle till now O J O 4 life |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Champions League: Can Barca Prevent Another All-English Final? by mayrho(m): 5:27pm On Apr 20, 2009 |
@tobaina was in your class live on your street wear glasses like you don't mention names pls but who ever tot we could get past Liverpool and Arsenal |
Travel › Re: Live Pictures Of Lagos by mayrho(m): 5:05pm On Apr 20, 2009 |
This is really cool we need A Fashola in Aso Rock come 2011 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Champions League: Can Barca Prevent Another All-English Final? by mayrho(m): 4:33pm On Apr 20, 2009 |
@tobaina why d beef all thru skl u beef till now u still dey beef why accept defeat Chelsea rules |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda's New Book: 'The Thing Around Your Neck' by mayrho(m): 1:36pm On Apr 20, 2009 |
The Thing Around Your Neck by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie The Times review by Bernardine Evaristo Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
This stunning collection of short stories confirms Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's position as one of Africa's brightest new literary stars. She is the author of two important novels about the Igbo people of Nigeria - Purple Hibiscus and the Orange prize-winning Half of a Yellow Sun - yet her writing is even more poignant when applied to the short story: crisp, succinct, vigorous and loaded.
Adichie was born and raised in Nigeria and now lives in America. These slice-of-life stories straddle both countries and dissect the imbalance of power and moral corruption in a wide range of relationships and settings. The first story, Cell One, shows a descent into lawlessness and police brutality that we've come to expect depicted in Nigerian literature. Yet in Adichie's hands it is seen afresh. The writer's cool, intelligent, observant, female antennae are sensitive to the subtleties of how people behave, and why, in this story about the interplay of motherhood and teenage waywardness. Set on a university campus, its young men belong to gangs who steal, fight and kill: “, eighteen-year-olds who had mastered the swagger of American rap videos were undergoing secret and strange initiations that sometimes left one or two of them dead on Odim Hill”. The female narrator's teenage brother, Nnamabia, is arrested by the police after one such gang has run riot, shooting students and escaping in a professor's car. As his mother's spoilt only son, it's unclear whether he is guilty of the shooting but he is imprisoned without charge and left to the mercy of corrupt policemen. It is to Adichie's credit that her writing is so understated that at the end of the story the reader is left to imagine what happens rather than being force-fed the gory details. Her endings are always unpredictable and suspenseful.
In A Private Experience two women take refuge in a shack in the middle of a riot carried out by Hausa Muslims against Igbo Christians in northern Nigeria a few years ago. One is an Igbo medical student, the other a Hausa market-trader, and their brief interaction affirms the power of humanity to resist and survive tribal warfare. All Adichie's stories are suffused with evocative atmospheric detail. The riot-torn streets outside the shack “smell like the kind of sky-coloured smoke that wafts around during Christmas when people throw goat carcasses into fires to burn the hair off the skin”. And there is plenty of quirky detail too. What do these two refugees from the riot talk about? Well, the Hausa woman thrusts her naked breasts at the medical student with the plea, “My nipple is burning like pepper”.
In her stories about immigration to the US, Adichie highlights the adjustments required when you arrive in the world's most powerful and pervasive country. She invites us to ask whether it is really worth it. In Imitation, a bored Igbo housewife, Nkem, has been deposited in a smart American suburb by her businessman husband while he lives in Nigeria. Despite being part of the “Rich Nigerian Men Who Send Their Wives to America to Have Babies” league, she is still a powerless “Bush Girl” who gets her English tenses mixed up. But finding that her husband has installed a mistress in their Nigerian home galvanises her inner warrior and she takes control of the situation, rendering him mute and compliant. Related Links
* The Thing Around Your Neck by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
* The Sunday Times Oxford Literary Festival
* Diary: the the joys of water for a non-swimmer
Patriarchal attitudes are kicked in the groin in several of these stories. The Arrangers of Marriage shows a new wife arriving in Brooklyn to be treated by her dictatorial husband as something merely to use and abuse. She plans to leave him. In The Thing Around Your Neck an “uncle” who has enabled a young woman to live in the US expects sexual services in return. She refuses. Edward, the organiser of a workshop and prize for African writers in Jumping Monkey Hill, is pompous, lecherous and patronising. He also considers himself the arbiter of what is authentic in African fiction - despite being white, English and clueless. He gets his come-uppance.
Adiche pokes fun at US middle-class parental angst in On Monday of Last Week. Kamara, the nanny of the son of a neurotic father, describes the contents of their fridge: “The shop shelf was stacked with plastic bottles of juiced organic spinach. Cans of herbal tea had filled that space two weeks ago, when Neil was reading Herbal Drinks for Children, and before that it was soy beverages, and before that protein shakes for growing bones.” Yet the story also touches on lesbian desire. When the mother of the boy finally appears, Kamara falls prey to the power of the woman's ambiguous, flirtatious sexuality. A closet gay Nigerian man makes an appearance in The Shivering. Such sightings are rare in African fiction.
While there is a sense of anger at the injustices that Nigerians have to endure in their home country, these stories also question whether life in the US is any better. Many of the immigrants' stories are driven by loneliness and alienation and some do decide to return home - for better or worse. Adichie offers insights into both worlds and, like all fine storytellers, leaves us wanting more. This lady is making continuous waves she dey rep Naija |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: FA Cup Semi-final: Arsenal(1) Vs Chelsea(2) On Saturday 18th April by mayrho(m): 10:06am On Apr 20, 2009 |
Ta lo ga ju logba awa ga ju logba ta lo kuru ju logba ARSENAL kuru ju logba UP BLUES WE RULE |
Music/Radio › Re: Nigerian Immigration Service Deports Dan Foster, Top Radio Presenter by mayrho(m): 9:28am On Apr 20, 2009 |
what comes around goes around if this is cool's idea of getting @ him they'll get their's and of course he is getting his' too o ma se ooo |
Politics › Re: Do You Cherish Nigeria ? by mayrho(m): 4:32pm On Apr 16, 2009 |
[size=16pt]NIG[/size][size=16pt]E[/size][size=16pt]RIA[/size] 4 EVER |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Bank Marketing Job (128k) Or Engineering Job (100k)? by mayrho(m): 4:45pm On Apr 14, 2009 |
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Fashion › Re: Who Inspires or Influences You Fashion Wise? by mayrho(m): 2:00pm On Apr 03, 2009 |
As long as the person doesn't dress like Denrele |
Culture › Re: How Many Languages Do You Know? by mayrho(m): 1:51pm On Apr 03, 2009 |
English Yoruba Edo Hausa (Learning) Spanish (Learning) Igbo is very hard but I intend to learn it too Plus I fit yan I love u in all Nigeria major Language and some foreign ones too |
Romance › Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Wear Boxers To Go To Bed? by mayrho(m): 10:28am On Apr 03, 2009 |
i feel its comfortable to sleep light remember when gabrywyl visited last she was stark naked it made the job easier you know what i mean  she no like obstruction |
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Education › Re: Where Can I Learn French? by mayrho(m): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2009 |
if u can bring ur empty cd or flash i'd give some learn french files yourself its very good am on the island hit my yahoo mail 4 details or buzz me on +234 803 396 7555 |
Health › Re: How Many Times Do You Take Your Bath/shower Daily? by mayrho(m): 10:28am On Apr 02, 2009 |
atleast u take ur bath once. . . . not all men shower Angry Angry dirty assholes na wa for you u just generally insult every  every time am home and feel sticky adds to the normal 2times aday |
Romance › Re: Pop-corn Begging Ladies At The Silverbird Cinemas by mayrho(m): 10:03am On Apr 02, 2009 |
Begging for popcorn when they can rifle through the bins for leftovers?!
Na wa oo! You harsh oo abi na wetin u dey do be dt  |
Computers › Is This Wireless Broadband? by mayrho(op): 10:04am On Mar 26, 2009 |
Please I need to be educated here my idea of wireless broadband is high speed access sorry break-neck speed surfing that enables download, upload, video streaming, internet Telephony, e.t.c. I do not honestly think it involves dial-up technology, so if my definition is right what are these operators & telcos doing short-changing us & giving us loads of rubbish in the name of broadband. Please if am wrong someone educate me please |