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shilenji:
It the woman that dodged the bullet here though.

The man who can't treat his in-laws same way he treats his parents isn't worth marrying. Bleep the man. He isn't man enough. Kudos to the girl.

Nope! I disagree. It's not the prospective in-law's obligation to get the woman's family to the wedding venue.

If the girl was raised with a sense of dignity and self-worth, she should know this.

She's either an attention seeking narcissist or a diído strap-wearing, hormonally compromised idiot who's lost track of what being a woman is.

PDPGuy:
Why do most (if not all) Nigerian women refer to the house where she and her husband live in as "my husband's house"?

Shouldn't it be referred to instead as "our house"? I thought both husband and wife become one when they tie the knot.

Even if it was the man who bought the house 100% with his own funds before getting married, there should be no fuss in referring to the couple's home as "our house".

Firstly,from the old custom (and rightly so) where being married connotes respect and prestige. So she would want to let just about anyone who cares to know that she's married. Also from a relatively modern culture where couples co-habit but not married. "My husband's house" simply implies I'm not a girlfriend or sidechick but legally married and this is my place. Sometimes it even carries more weight than "our house."

Says daddy freeze, the decomposing living corpse who lacked the decency to wait for a married woman to be divorced before fvcking her.

Fvcking attention seeking mulatto.

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Saintmary:
So, I should hold on to destruction because I deserve it?


You have twisted yourself so tightly, you don't even recognize yourself and your arguments anymore.


Logic in the mud.

You never made sense from the get go. You kept shifting the post each time you got cornered.

You got worked up when I called a cûnt that accepts assortments of semen by different men a cesspit. In your inferior and poorly implemented logic you tried to spin it negatively against men. It only further underscored how your emotions always overwhelm your ability to separate reality from wishful thinking.

Moreover, I believe my submission struck home. There's no other plausible conclusion than to believe you once played the generous cûm dump.

Saintmary:
You see?




You got it wrong, that is why you and I can't flow.


I belong to the order of the last Adam, Eve and I have nothing in common.



But you do not have the tools to perceive this information, because you are still in the old man.




Sorry ehn, just go and sleep.

Belonging to the last Adam didn't negate the fact that the earth was given to Adam. It didn't change that aspect.

But like a typical woman, it is your nature to be drawn to the better side of things regardless of if you deserve it or not.

Saintmary:
I know my place, I know my God, and His exploits in me and through me are intimidating you.


No one can use Bible verses to trick me.



Oobii

I thought you were going to contest the scripture. That was the only honourable and honest path to any reply you could make. But you sidestepped it.

Like your mother, Eve, you didn't encounter the snake first without imbibing her qualities -- cunning and insincere.

Saintmary:
Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.




Your shallow knowledge is your undoing.



They didn't teach you that the 'man' referred to there is humanity.

Long before your gender was created the scripture read thus:

The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. (Gen 2:15)

It will do you and your fellow "like" donators some good to know your place and dwell therein accordingly.

Saintmary:
Hahahahahahahahhahahaha

"The Earth is the Lord's, and the fullness thereof, the world and THEY that dwelleth therein"




Continue running in circles after the wind.



You will learn either early or late.





Life na your mate?

Oh, Saintmary, thou art like thy sister Martha, for foolishly thou hast sought to please thy LORD in the abundance of thy ignorance.

For the earth was given to man (to whom thou must be subservient) to tender until the return of his LORD.

Saintmary:
What you don't understand is that:





You can not find THE ONE.





only one that looks like it.




Why am I telling you sef? Something you should learn from elders if you actually have wise ones around you.

Not all women are like you and the feminist patrons that run amok around this forum.

The ONES are everywhere. Some were born that way others were conditioned that way by the hard realities around their circumstances when they finally realised that it is a man's world.

Saintmary:
See this guy o, my reality right now is moin moin, jollof rice and beef.



Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.



Continue arguing with your ears when you're done with your nose.

Hahahahahahahahhahahaha.






Buhahahahahahahahhahahaha.

Yeah! Moi moi jollof rice and beef.

That was the bait on your first date. And it all ended between rumpled sheets and heavy breath.

Saintmary:
See?


You just confirmed my point.


There is a forever vacant spot for a woman in man's life.



A vacuum, you must fill, else you'll be restless.


If you like, change women everyday, but you are unfulfilled without a woman.




Go ahead and argue with your nose.

The changing actually stops when the right one is found. Humble, wise, loyal and yielding femininely to the endearing masculinity of her man. Until that special one is found, the rest of you constitute the tried/used and put aside for being unfit for perpetual cohabitation.

Saintmary:
I maintain my point, only sewage goes through cesspits.





You shot your argument in the foot.




Admit that.

Only within the confines of your cognitive circumference.

I wonder what's as straight forward as my submission. Only that they directly interfered with your reality.

cococandy:
If a married couple are not in a relationship then I wonder what counts as one.

I suggest you try harder at logic . Right now it’s giving illogical

We seem to have lost the context midway. If your "relationship" meant a couple in marriage, then it says a lot. Using a term more formal and recognized would have helped.

But in your context, a married woman smiling at another man is shown the way out.

Saintmary:
You just find it difficult to admit, you men are useless without women, either wife, baby mama, girlfriend, hookup, anything to have a woman!

You just don't get it.

We do the picking and selection. Can the plant tell the Gardner he is useless and can't do without its produce?

It gets cut down and another planted in its place.





With millenia of evidence backing this up.

Saintmary:
Well, only sewage goes through cesspits.



Argue with your teeth.

It only becomes a cesspit when it accommodates different assortments of sperms.

Maybe we struggling with these definitions in the light of our own personal tragedy.

Perhaps you've been quite generous in acceptance of these liquified intruders.

Eh?

cococandy:
oh so it’s not a big deal but it’s big deal enough to ruin the relationship? I don’t expect you to realize your illogical contradictions though

"Ruin" , "Relationship". Two big words we have here.

But who said it was a relationship?

That a guy must bury his shaft into somewhere warm and moist doesn't automatically translate into a relationship.

Now spare me those feminine lovey dovey, mushy and clingy entitlement expectations.

cococandy:
She doesn’t even need to go as far as getting a second husband. Just her smiling at another man will have him in shambles. His world will turn upside down. That’s when we will hear people like you crying about how the end of the world is about to happen because women of these days don’t know how to reserve their vaginass for you and you alone.

No bid deal indeed

She needs to. Except the equality Train has derailed and suffered a major setback. A 2nd husband she must get. She must stand toe to toe with her husband.

The future is female

And oh, the smiling at another man; that's exactly where she gets replaced. Somewhere there's always a rounder and firmer pair of gravity-defying oranges, a warmer and narrower pot to fill the vacuum.

cococandy:
Stop projecting.
If anyone had limited cognitive abilities, it’s you and those like you who can’t apply common sense to issues like this.

The worst part is that you believe your own lies that somehow if you’re sleeping around you’re better than a woman who’s doing the same.
Your almighty logic should tell you that for every man who’s moving from woman to woman, there’s a woman who’s accepting men after men. Unless you guys are sleeping with yourselves.

Once in a while, apply that small logic you claim to possess. Dump the testosterone laden hemotional thinking

Spare me the unwelcome obligation to state the age-long knowledge that a man who sleeps around is better than his female counterpart who engages in similar behaviour.

Unfortunately you have embraced an ideology of fanatical idealists who have sown discord between you and nature, between you and common sense and you definitely believe the only difference between a man and a woman is the bearded face.

But I wouldn't be caught dead engaging in casual sex if I got a hole in-between my thighs like you. Let alone a hole playing host to a concoction of sperms from different sources.

GloriousGbola:
You are a real ignoramus sha

Two or more sperms?

Do you know how many thousands of sperm there are in a healthy ejaculate?

I'll give you the honour of a polite response. The original piece said " sperm from two or more source".

The two or more sperms in the 2nd quote was just an offhanded reference.

cococandy:

I love when the mention of a woman having two men makes y’all wax spiritual and emotional

For most men, it's no biggie. She ends up a plaything, a means to and end.

But we'd like to see you feminists and equality crusaders make a move on polyandry as a countermeasure to polygamy. Please advise the victim to reciprocate and get herself a 2nd husband.

Saintmary:
So, by calling a vagina receiving different semen cesspit, then you agree that your semen is 'sewage', shit, poop, some disgusting, smelly, viscous, byproduct coming from the dredges of humanity?




Just asking for someone

Wisdom is simple when access to emotional interference to our cognitive functionality is denied.

Read again, this time put your emotions on hibernation. "Two or more sperms glide through her tube." The key word there is two or more

Phweeew! And they want equality with all this cognitive limitations.

Mstick:
Of course! What do we do? We leave them. Opportunities will be created for those who want better.

No matter how deep the pockets of your paymasters are, your adventure will end up a failed project like the thousands of others that have come and gone before you.

Be it loneliness-driven or vendetta-inspired, it was born to fail.

See you at the conquered side of the queue when you finally take the mercy Aigbe route.

cococandy:
May you be blessed with first husband title too. Amen

Cursed is the vagina that swells in reception of two shafts serially visiting her harbour. It becomes a contaminated cesepit when sperms from two or more sources glide through her tube, interacting with the 'source code" of her spirituality and being. It is self destruction.

This is beyond Man Vs woman. This is where the pretence at equality takes a bow out.

Mstick:
[s]We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.
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Nonsense!

Like he divorced her. She's still his wife. In fact now the title 'First Lady' is now fully earned. She's still entitled to all her privileges as his wife.

Any woman foolish enough to follow your emotion laden advice is more likely to end up in real mess.

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to Trust and Obey the teachings(and commandments) of Jesus Christ, God's very own Truth and Standard, and He will give you His Understanding of the Kingdom of God as opposed to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) which you spew back at me thinking yourself accomplished by it.

When you're out-fact the lunacy in you suffers stuttering which manifest in repetition of your stupidity.

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to Trust and Obey the teachings(and commandments) of Jesus Christ, God's very own Truth and Standard, and He will give you His Understanding of the Kingdom of God as opposed to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) which you spew back at me thinking yourself accomplished by it.

Your behaviour suggests you're a victim of incomplete exorcism.

Pathetic Sociopath!

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to Trust and Obey the teachings(and commandments) of Jesus Christ, God's very own Truth and Standard, and He will give you His Understanding of the Kingdom of God as opposed to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) which you spew back at me thinking yourself accomplished by it.

It takes a special kind of depression to bring you to this state: A closeted lunatic, castaway from mainstream Christianity and a pseudointellectual poseur who stinks of stupidity in his attempt to create a sub-religion.

Your ambition is bigger than your intellectual capacity hence you'll always sound stupid in every attempt you make at driving your point.

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to Trust and Obey the teachings(and commandments) of Jesus Christ, God's very own Truth and Standard, and He will give you His Understanding of the Kingdom of God as opposed to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) which you spew back at me thinking yourself accomplished by it.

Only a special breed of lunacy harbours the hope that being heard or getting across hinges on repetition of the same words over and over again.

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to Trust and Obey the teachings(and commandments) of Jesus Christ, God's very own Truth and Standard, and He will give you His Understanding of the Kingdom of God as opposed to the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches) which you spew back at me thinking yourself accomplished by it.

You sail along in your sea of delusion. And I can guess how you get here; most likely the after effects of substance abuse.