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frozen70:
She did well, but how come I have never read where men donates such for their wives to save her life and family

Women unlike men have less common case of damaged kidneys. Men are inherently sacrificial most of the time.

ebukajay184:
https://igberetvnews.com/1428345/2023i-yoruba-boy-vote-igbo-prophet-oladele-supports-tinubu-video/

I thought prophets are wise people. This one follow-come mumu na confirm.

Gasapoto:
My wife went for vacation since first week of August 2022 and just came back over the weekend to resume work today being monday. I tried and hold myself all through her absence despite how uncomfortable I feel by excess "konji" asI vowed I must remain faithful and wait for her for us to eat our food when she is back.

However her attitude as she came back put me on the path of suspecting whether she may have been cheating on me. First as soon as she is back, because of the accumulated "konji" in my body, I was eargely waiting for the night so I can "chop" my food and offload the excess "Konji" as the sex.ual urge was too much on me. Surprisingly, when it was the time and I quickly initiated it, she was not even interested or having the feeling the way I did. I was shocked by her resistance for couples that have missed each other for a month and she was not having the feeling same way I did.I begin to reason does it mean she is enjoying herself and getting services from another man(men) that the urge is not there. It is not that I don't trust her,I did but such act surprised me.Secondly when she reluctantly yielded late night even though her initial act made me not to be interested anymore as such act lowered my sex.ual hormone, on starting the work, surprisingly I noticed that the "thing" is now wider than before that my "thing's is just like a tiny pole placed inside a big hole and not making contact. And that's not how it was before as it is more tighter before and holds my thing with resultant pleasure.

Intact I become confused but did not tell her anything to avoid planting the seed of mistrust in our marriage.Up till now I don't know what to do on whether I should ask her what exactly happened and has she been cheating on me all the while she traveled or is there any other way I should use and find out if she cheated on me for I am not comfortable with the two things I observed as above

Please advise.

Firstly, what manner of a wife goes vacationing without her husband for a whole damn month? Vacation is pleasure so, if you're not with her then it suggests your marriage isn't that solid. You have good reasons to suspect her on that ground.

Secondly, refusing your sexual advances on the night she travelled back home could be as a result of journey fatigue.

Finally, your assertion that her honey pot seemed wider is offensively childish. She most probably got wetter than usual because she was very aroused during the act as a result of having abstained for a while.

[quote author=sokeril post=116384709][/quote]Those friends and family advising your brother to relocate, especially the males among them have no self dignity. I'm afraid your brother's wife is taboo.

Relocating abroad away from your marriage when finance is fairly OK points to greed as the driving factor. First sign of a bad spouse. No self respecting man follows his wife around. It's the other way round. But a situation where he has a life going on for him and the spouse is suggesting he throws it all away and engage in a wild goose chase is devilish.

A wife from hell!

rusher14:
Entering the car is the keyword here.

A police officer would enter a car depending on the scenario.

Towing is an easy thing because they have the equipment and to reduce police exposure.

Nigeria doesn't have the equipment but Laws must be complied with.

I'm sure you still want the police to apprehend a robber despite the inadequacy of his equipment.

@ the bolded.

Entering while the suspect is on the wheel then asking him to drive are the key points here from the original tweet from one of Psqaure.

And any cop who does that has given enough indication of being corrupt/complacent. Its that simple.

rusher14:
I have posted scenarios.

Debunk them if you can.

I see how many of you have avoided that particular post.

I'm afraid, none of your points is valid in the light of the situation in contest. Nigerian police do stop and search which never warrants sitting in the car or asking the suspect to drive. If the officer is serious and convinced that a crime has been committed, he simply have the car towed or he drives it himself to the station, getting in the car or asking (entrusting) the criminal to drive already shows compromise and lack of professionalism on the part of the cop.

Graceunlimitedd:
my friend keep shut.
end sars youth

Intelligently, counter his point. But no, you wouldn't because you can't.

rusher14:
A policeman would get into your car depending on the scenario.

Stop misleading the ignorant.

You're the one misleading people. Accept correction. The police will never enter a suspect's vehicle, no matter the scenario.

Charlatans. Imagine APC and thier guts!

Unzerious:
Then why should Tinubu steal Public Funds, since he's richer than you

Because his record (bullion van bravado) suggests so.

UyaiIncomparabl:
What's this one saying? How do you people even manage to decipher and conjure trash when typing? I don't regret anything I do especially when it comes to relationships. If I need my EX to return to me right now, all I need to do is a phone call and he will be right here with me. Or you think all women are losers? See, I use and dump your gender like papers.

It takes a woman at her basest of decency to type the bolded. Irrespective of who ended the relationship, it is the woman who gets used body wise. Except you're a female with a dìck.

A simple archaeological survey down your nether region would reveal several penile markings and shifting of the cardinal ligaments in and around your pùssy walls. Further excavation down your tunnel also would reveal ridges created by volcanic seminal passage over the past decade, creating a permanent rift in your pelvic diaphragm.

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DenreleDave:
As In how can someone want Oga to sack people anyhow.... Everything wey dey her head na how to sack casual staffs.... Ehnnn

Again, the answer is simple!

1) She's a woman
2) An old unmarried one at that.

Women generally abuse authority when given to them, especially the unmarried or unhappily married ones.

The old cargo knows no joy as she's been on the labour/romantic market for decades with nothing to show for.

Earth ain't got no fury like a woman damned

She's damned and woe unto anyone she sets her acidic gaze on.

The answer is simple; unmarried! That's a big void in her life even time may not fill up. I doubt if she still has any eggs left in her scorched ovaries. She's completely dried out at 40 and a moving mass of frustration.

She's beyond just a sadist, she's a rampaging Feminist who would blame men for all her woes.

But her cure is simple; a marriage proposal even from a male with lesser financial income can transform this bìtch into a happy woman.

Abujaexpress:
By African tradition, once a man and woman are living together and have children and even in most cases done a a little in-house introduction to their parents, they are husband and wife and not until there is a formal wedding between them

Okay

Abujaexpress:
Did I mention that they did any wedding or printed an invitation? Is it every marriage that was done through wedding?

How then did they become husband and wife according to your narrative?

Abujaexpress:
I don't know what really played out, whether coincidence or just normal occurrences.

I have been reading things like this on Nairaland and watched same from movies, but I just experienced it today. My cousin brother(one year my junior) came to my house after a long time of not seeing and he visited me in my house with his wife. Lo and behold, when they came, the wife who already had two kids for him was my very ex girlfriend in the secondary school, with whom we did naughty things together years back.

When she saw me, she just exclaimed and covered her face with two hands and asking "so na your brother", "long time". Infact, this lady became really uncomfortable. When we were sitting in the living room, she was looking at me intermittently and smiling, and always uttering words like "na wao, I did know you guys relate".

Even my cousin became surprised, that he didn't know I knew her wife before. I told him I knew her for a long time and we were friends along with some of her classmates then in the secondary school, I really did not hit the nail straight to tell him that I dated her in the past.

When my cousin excused himself to make use of the rest room, this lady was telling stuff as "you see what you caused? That if I had not abandoned her, that he wouldn't have married my brother".

Infact, before they left, I noticed that my cousin brother was not really in the same mood like he was before and the woman also feeling unsecured.

Do you think it's right for either of us to let him know that we actually dated?

So you didn't attend the wedding or saw their invitation card even if you were in Antarctica at the time?

Nice fable.

femisplash:
DSS should be inviting this man for attempting to incite religious war. Muslims voted a Christian-Christian ticket in the just concluded election in a Muslim dominated state of Osun and no one is crying foul. I wonder why Christians are towing this dangerous path.

Where did you pick the Muslim-christian population figures from?

Wait a minute! You complained about her chatting with a course mate and you probably found that out by going through her phone and she reacted by putting up a password as a form of keeping you out of that part of her life?

That's anti-marriage. That's infidelity. You should worry and watch out.

EmiDon11:
ok let me shock you.,
I don't even want her kpekus.,
Kpekus is not the only thing nigerian girls can offer in a relationship.
Some of them can still offer true love IF u too show them real love,IF u are not stingy, IF u are not cheating on her, IF u protect and guard her well.,
Mind you, girls only cheat when u are stingy.
U can be stingy to ur fellow man but not to a girl.
They are wonderfull made

@the emboldened;

What manner of a wuss are you?

Pathetic wânker!

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The OP unwittingly proved men right for shying away from marital entanglement with richer women by alluding thus; "men need to realise that times are changing a submissive woman is an illusion, particularly one who has money with her senses intact "

Women are by nature rebellious and the only thing that motivates them is greed. Be it what they put in their mouths as food and what they wear as cloths. They're greedy creatures. The earlier men soon found this out and worked harder to win her. For the far greater part of our history and existence, and even to this present day, women in the most part have willingly designated themselves as prize/trophy for the most successful of men. From the most successful hunter, to the bravest warrior, to the richest man, women have for centuries lined up to have a chance to be snapped up by highly successful men. Whether the man is married is a distant irrelevant matter. So who can blame men for prioritising wealth? Only someone like the OP who's basking in self-deceit.

Marrying a richer woman is going too far adrift into tempestuous waters. The truth is, marrying one even with a bigger ambition would surely land you in trouble with her insatiable greed. Humanity wouldn't have sustained itself this far if women had had the money controlled by men. The four corners of the world would have been plaqued by severe depopulation, bringing humanity and civilisation to a screeching halt. A survey rightly points that 4 in 5 women would choose career over giving birth and raising a family.


In yet another self-mocking allusion, the OP made another disgustingly dishonest remark; "you men should up your game and stop attaching your worth to money be something else be kind, respectful, caring, loving, talented, visionary, skillful, have good manners, neat, a team player etc."

Anything other than being rich and power (with his senses intact). In plain words, don't be an alpha male even though you're rich. But according to her, richer women should break free from all chains of submission. The only way women feel secure is when men stoop down to their level. Men are completely forbidden to assert their power and dominance. Its called abusive. But when done by a woman it's given a new name -- emancipation.

Let's take a look at the qualities she highlighted for men to strive for in the paragraph above; the 'hopeless' boy in the church choir, the guy living next street running a makeshift hair saloon, the N-POWER beneficiary, the corper she met during youth service all had those aforementioned qualities but she didn't bring any of them home as suitors. But she'd populate her Facebook and whatsapp status with pictures of a rich and affluent stranger she spent a one night stand with just for show-off.

Truth and women don't see eye to eye hence the make-up/cosmetic business keep thriving.

ijustdey:
Abortion, Adultery, Witchcraft, Suicide: Little Known Actions That Can Land You In Jail In Nigeria



https://tribuneonlineng.com/abortion-adultery-witchcraft-suicide-little-known-actions-that-can-land-
you-in-jail-in-nigeria/

Since you've been quoting relevant sections of the constitution that stipulate penalties for the aforementioned crimes, I'm surprised you didn't state the part of the constitution that gave the efcc the powers to throw a landlord in jail for having rented his house to a yahoo boy?

Please furnish us with that part of the law.

Thanks.