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RomanceRe: I Don't Feel Love Again Is It Normal? by Medianna(f): 4:32pm On Feb 15, 2022
Love is more of a decision than feeling...

How long will the butterfly feelings last??

Just decide to love and work by it.It goes far more than feelings
Even if the person tears your chest to check your heart he/she cannot see more than blood.

And do yourself a favour. Forgive!!
RomanceRe: Words Of Wisdom And Encouragement For Ladies by Medianna(f): 7:07pm On Feb 14, 2022
Cyntie55:
You made a valid point.

But rendering help to people shouldn't be on age factor. I mean, if the person is young or old and he/she need genuine help. If you're capable I see no reason why you shouldn't help.
Sorry..

It's like you miss the point of the discussion. I even applauded her for her kind gesture too
RomanceRe: My Experience Dating Girls In Their 20s And 30years by Medianna(f): 9:24am On Feb 14, 2022
He he he he
An article coming from the minister of women affairs..
Of course all the women you most have met in the same ministry as you. So how can you see any difference..

Modified:
Body building are different and all this things you mentioned can be affected by genes and I'm sure you've not dated a whole Local govt so how can you conclude for a state talkmore of all the women in the worldhuh
AgricultureRe: Xmas Broiler Broading In Pictures by Medianna(f): 10:28pm On Feb 13, 2022
itunde:
4 weeks 6 days
I have few birds about exactly 4 weeks 6 days.if I say I'll sell each at 1500, I've not break-even.
So 1.5 is a no for me...
Though I donno your location
RomanceRe: Everything Just Seem Boring Right Now by Medianna(f): 10:01pm On Feb 13, 2022
teezzybee:
please
Plz I think you're mistaken me for boredberry or so..haaa
RomanceRe: Everything Just Seem Boring Right Now by Medianna(f): 9:45pm On Feb 13, 2022
teezzybee:
Please assist a brother airtime for data to use for search please. [i][/i]
lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Everything Just Seem Boring Right Now by Medianna(f): 8:18pm On Feb 13, 2022
Just wait for the right one..

Everything have it's own time.. Not necessarily when you expect it.

If you're bored as a single person even when you're no longer single you will still have that feeling with time.

Try not be bored on your own..
RomanceRe: Words Of Wisdom And Encouragement For Ladies by Medianna(f): 1:25pm On Feb 13, 2022
Shortyy:
Even though she wasn't raped, you do know he's still responsible for the pregnancy. Right?
I know.
I'm even not in support of irresponsibility...
But I don't like all this blame game
FamilyRe: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 1:18pm On Feb 13, 2022
Apus:
For your mind, you don drop quote.
I didn't want to reply you as I no too like to argue.

First You said Eve was deceived and not Adam. Now you're saying Adam was with her all the while she was being deceived. Meaning both were deceived at the same time.

"he just did not partake in the talk..." Can you hear yourself? He didn't partake in the talk. Why shouldn't he since he was present? How was he able to swallow the fruit so easily with raising any objection; and remember, using your own word, " he was not deceived" Go read Genesis 3:17

The woman wanted to play smart, assuming the role of the man and deciding what was best for the both of them. It's why Paul enjoins women to remain silent and remain under the authority of the man.


I can see your logical reasoning is low.
Have a nice day.
Since my logical reasoning is low lemme keep quite

But I still have not seen where Adam said 'Eve decieve me' sha
FamilyRe: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 6:02pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:
E be like say your own bible na upside down oo. Not like I was expecting anything different from the daughter of Eve.


Yeah.. Women are necessary evil. Ev(e)il
Thank goodness you use your own mouth talk am.
If I say I'll drag this case with you, guy you don't stand chance...I was even particular about the bible you brought into this that wasn't correct.Not your hated, your love or acceptance for women.
If you like carry signboard and have women are evil written on it
Take a keke and go to heaven and rally with it
That won't change God's mind from giving people girl child.
So take a chill pill with this mentality and cut the drama

An back to my center of interest Adam was with Eve when the devil was having that conversion with her he just did not partake in the talk...(Gen 3:6)
FamilyRe: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 5:27pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:
Didn't Eve eat of the fruit first before passing to Adam without offering any explanation from whence she had gotten it?
God had told Adam not to eat of the forbidden fruit and in turn he also instructed his wife. Why did Eve not explain to Adam that she had taken of the forbidden fruit before passing same to him?
He ate of the fruit without the knowledge of it. How else do you define deception madam? She hid the truth from him haven eaten of the fruit first.

Na the SIMPle Adam I blame Sha.
Lolzz for you mind Adam was not there when the serpent was talking... Is that what your bible told youhuh
Go and read you bible again... I repeat myself and quote me anywhere Eve did not deceive Adam.

If Adam was a SIMP for eve...my beloved brother just choose your eve carefully and SIMP for her cuz you cannot do more than pass you forefathers lolz
FamilyRe: Why Are Nigeria Women So Cold Hearted Towards Men? by Medianna(f): 4:26pm On Feb 11, 2022
Apus:
Women are naturally WICKED, beginning from their mother Eve. A woman that could deceive her husband into eternal doom just cause he loved and put his faith in her.
Always supporting themselves in doing evil but find it hard to uplift one another.
It takes only the grace of God for any woman to break free from such curse.
Go and read your bible well.. Adam never said she deceived him
I don't know where you guys get all these ideas...Eve was the one deceived
RomanceRe: What's The Benefit Of Female Circumcision? by Medianna(f):
I know that it has to do with 'taming' but not to stop promiscuousness perse.. I stand to be corrected

Because it will be like saying all women not circumcized are promiscuous
And well....you know the answer I guess!!!
SportsRe: Checkout 5 Beautiful Footballer's Wives Who Are Older Than Their Husbands by Medianna(f): 8:07pm On Feb 10, 2022
philo04:
I just realized that email isn't functioning kindly drop your contact here poetdavid39@gmail.com or 08061384067 on Whatsapp
I don't WhatsApp but I'll send you an email but not immediately sha..
SportsRe: Checkout 5 Beautiful Footballer's Wives Who Are Older Than Their Husbands by Medianna(f): 7:23pm On Feb 10, 2022
philo04:
kindly check your Mail I left something there
Sure
SportsRe: Checkout 5 Beautiful Footballer's Wives Who Are Older Than Their Husbands by Medianna(f): 7:08pm On Feb 10, 2022
philo04:
billing is not the issue chronic lying is the problem
Lol... That's because of the ladies you met...there are many who don't lie..

Atleast in defence of my gender I know and I'm sure I dont
But I wish you well in your search for peace though just come back and tell us how it goes over there
SportsRe: Checkout 5 Beautiful Footballer's Wives Who Are Older Than Their Husbands by Medianna(f): 6:38pm On Feb 10, 2022
philo04:
the drama alone can kill nah to get babe weh go give you peace
I know say the problem no pass billing or double dating...
Well sorry to say... Its a universal something..
There are only two genders in the world
RomanceRe: Words Of Wisdom And Encouragement For Ladies by Medianna(f): 1:01pm On Feb 10, 2022
Jennyclay:
How many men make their points without degrading ladies?

Am also aware I can't vague for other women. Infact there is a case am handling right now. This girl is just a random girl, I don't know her from Adam.

She's 20 yrs old, she not educated. A guy deceived her and got her pregnant (she's 7months pregnant now), the guy refused to take responsibilities, he absconded away from day one.
.
The girl's mother sent her away (her dad died when she was 6yr old, the girl's mother is married to another man now). And they both refused to allow her into the house. I met her under the sun hopeless very close to my place of work, she explained her predicaments to me. I also spoke with her mother on phone, but all to no avail... Very reckless woman.

To cut the story short. I took her to my house, I explained her predicament to my mom, we both agreed she stays. Thank goodness our security room was free. Now she's staying there, I placed her on 15k allowance, I also linked her to a friend of mine that is into event and interior decoration, atleast when they have job to do she can also assist and get paid too.

For the past 5 months she has been under my care. Men are heartless!!!
So now lemme ask you a very funny question...
Was the girl raped?
20 years is not 13 years madam..
Though I appreciate you kind heart...
The mum that sent her daughter away in that condition is no better than the man who abandoned her...so men are heartless is not a complete statement here
RomanceRe: Words Of Wisdom And Encouragement For Ladies by Medianna(f): 11:24am On Feb 10, 2022
You sound like a female version of red pillers to me, sorry to say
I mean you can make you point without making men look bad

By the way you can only vague for you mum. You wouldn't want to bring the other women into this..
SportsRe: Checkout 5 Beautiful Footballer's Wives Who Are Older Than Their Husbands by Medianna(f): 10:54am On Feb 10, 2022
For your mind, you wan escape...9ja babes don't wanna marry you either tongue
philo04:
I can't marry 9ja babe...thank God I deh japa this year ....
RomanceRe: My Wife BBF Is Changing My Life For Better Recently... I'm Starting To Love Her by Medianna(f): 10:19am On Feb 09, 2022
Joko5560:
Hi Nairalander, before anyone start raining curse or abuse me please try to hear my story and give honest opinion please. I got married some years ago because I'm madly in love with my wife as people do says no one is perfect. I have my own imperfections so is my wife but she is the hot temper type and she does get physical ( assault me even before wedding ) and I was hoping that would change after wedding at some point after wedding she was not conceiving and she started blackmailing me emotionally calling me impotent and other names she even told me about her previous pregnancy just to make things clear that I'm the one having issue.... fortunately nothing was wrong with me. I went for semen analysis she said I con the doctor for giving me a good results...later few weeks she got pregnant and we have our first son and I have been there for her every moment. I prioritize her over everything I established her got her what ever she desires... But she started making my life hell my denying me sex she will be giving different types of excuse just to avoid sex. She always complain about stress from a company she owns while she wasn't even the one cooking at home our maid cook and do majority of the house chores.. she started showing less affection towards me everything is now on her business...then I started seeing girls outside the marriage but it was only temporary fix for me because getting back home and not getting the love I'm giving her back it's hurting and I have no plans on getting another wife. If we had a fight she will be threatening me with moving out of the house or divorcing because she knows I really don't want that because of my son...I endure different types of emotional damage from her and physical assault from her threatening to kill me or herself whenever she is angry...her friend come in to the matter when she started visiting us and will be calming her and advising her to stop all her behaviour then she advised me to speak with her and find out if I did something to her that's making her behave that way towards me.. I did she didn't give me any reasonable reasons for her behaviour that she is stressed from works then as days goes by me and her friend start this friendship which makes everything hurt less for me... We talks about eachother pains then I discovered we even have a lot in common than I realized.... literally we are going through similar dilemma both been unloved by those we choose to love but she already ended her relationship with her partner... certainly most people will think I'm lusting for her but to me she is bringing me joy and happiness by just talking with her alone and I never even though about seeing her naked because she is someone I respected a lot.. we never shakes hands before or hug but whenever she is around I found peace and worry less about every other thing... Since we start talking I stop seeing other girls and she even advice me on been better husband to her friend which I did I started sleeping back in her room still trying to be more romantic and available to her... But to be honest I falling in love with her as days goes by and I have also been emotional and financial supportive of her...but we are still friends as things stand as a matter of fact we are good friends.... and my wife sees me as a possession she owned she can't bare to see me with another person yet she didn't mends her behaviour towards me even people who are close to us are calling her the husband of the house because I'm the type of man that doesn't put anything over my marriage.. family members doesn't like her due to her behaviours... Some already insulted me because of her. In short I have been dealing with all her shenanigans...now I'm getting love from unexpected place but I can't go for it because it's will be like double betrayal to her if anything happens between me and her friend...I love my son and doesn't want to lose custody of him. I love my wife but she is making my life hell and the person making everything better is her bff....now my life is a living hell... I don't know what to do please advise me
Your case is like that of a hungry man...any food given to him will taste Sweet...
Those young girls outside that you normally meet what happened to them?
Why the best friend?
It simple if you want to remarry or something go get one those out there... No complicate the already complicated matter.
RomanceRe: Guys, If You Want To Date Or Marry A Beautiful Lady. Go To Ikotun Or Igando. by Medianna(f): 8:34pm On Feb 07, 2022
Kollins11:
Babe. if you read my write up very well, you would understand what I mean by hustle and bustle.

I be full time hustler but that doesn't stop me from carrying out my research. There's nothing absurd here smiley.

I live in Abule-Egba here in Lagos, I dey drive from Abule-Egba go ikotun just to toast babes. Now I have 4 beautiful babes from ikotun and all of them are my Val this Valentine.

Opor!!!
At this point I rest my case..
RomanceRe: Guys, If You Want To Date Or Marry A Beautiful Lady. Go To Ikotun Or Igando. by Medianna(f): 5:12pm On Feb 07, 2022
Lolzz..Funny enough am not even in contradicting your point or comparing the two
My own is how can a young man with a lot in his plate just sit an start dwelling on things like thishuh
Its absurd

Kollins11:
Baby girl I know you're from Abuja. But make I clear you something..

I haven't been to Abuja but ikotun and Igando girls are more prettier than the FULL Abuja girls.

Infact, igando and ikotun suppose be tourist centers..if you wanna see pure beautiful ladies just go there.
RomanceRe: Guys, If You Want To Date Or Marry A Beautiful Lady. Go To Ikotun Or Igando. by Medianna(f): 9:53am On Feb 07, 2022
Kaaiiii.... See what somebody's child is defining as beauty!!!!

Very soon you will become aquatic resident cuz of mammy water.. You know they are most beautiful and they don't age. to crown it all..
RomanceRe: My Experience With My Jehovah Witness Lover . by Medianna(f):
Count you loses and move on... She's not ready for a relationship. At least not with you..
Take heart OK.. Matters of the heart are complicated.

But don't quit you job because of that...its not worth it

Moreover it has nothing to do with denominations. A church is not a chaste
AgricultureRe: Starting A Poultry Farm (a Blog) by Medianna(f): 4:49pm On Feb 05, 2022
larrypourl:
A 25kg bag of layers mash for almost 10k ?
I guess I didn't see that part..
No its for starter and finisher
AgricultureRe: Starting A Poultry Farm (a Blog) by Medianna(f): 12:44pm On Feb 05, 2022
larrypourl:
Good morning. Please I need current price of the following layers mash feed.
1. Top feed
2. Animal care fees
3. Chikum feed
The last I saw as at Thursday for animal care is #9600 not sure about the others
SportsRe: CAF Approves Abuja Stadium For Nigeria Vs Ghana 2022 World Cup Playoff by Medianna(f): 11:41am On Feb 05, 2022
Kosoco:
bro what's with this hate with your country...... what happening
I no support hate speech oo but frankly speaking it looks like a zoo from the outside
FamilyRe: How Possible Is It For Married Women To Stay Faithful With A Broke Husband? by Medianna(f): 9:51am On Feb 05, 2022
simplepee:
Why will I get married to a broke man at the first place?

Love won't pay the bills, money will. Ya'll stop deceiving yourselves.
Now my own interpretation of broke is not the same as poor but a temporal lack which may end at anytime
Brokenness as a man or woman is not the issue, afterall a broke woman can marry a well to do man.. And the people will tag her 'lucky' but when a broke guy marries a well to do woman people rise eye brow..
My own is look for someone who can compliment you!!
So to your question broke guys are also entitled to marriage after all no condition is permanent
FamilyRe: How Possible Is It For Married Women To Stay Faithful With A Broke Husband? by Medianna(f): 9:59pm On Feb 04, 2022
Orente21:
I don't know how long to remain faithful because I am also facing the same situation.
Life is simple..

If money is the only issue..make your own money na...are you not a human being??
That's why I can't advice a broke guy to marry a broke lady...
Both lives will be just be unnecessarily complicated
CareerRe: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by Medianna(f):
Thank you anyways, but just help us tell them to be consistent abeg..

Sugo1470:
When I give update abt salary you take it serious because my contact na pure. Hope my guys can shark garri today. Bless u all
CareerRe: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by Medianna(f): 9:42pm On Feb 02, 2022
Lolzz Nah. Its actually 33rd

otokx:
They said January has not ended, this is just the 32nd day.

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