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Your talking like your parents are not African parents.
You left home and they called you begging you to come back
Its like you no receive reasonable beating when you were a child.

What's the rush?
Anyway I'm not surprise you're in the wrong company already.

That thing that you're looking for, you will soon get it.

Christian and love for the things of God should not be separated.
Self employed. When you dont have job at hand...Na water diet be that oo?

Noooo I jump and pass.
(Just kidding)
But really may you locate your wife

Kingkali:
then you would have to bribe me yunno.

Or remove your pic.

Just Kidding jawre

Lolzz..

Kingkali:
your nyash is too s---- i would be making a post on that soon.

Thou shall not include me in any naughty post..
I have a reputation to protect

omale88:
a sealed off vag!na or vulva in women.

Oh. I don't know about that.. But since na talk dey bring talk.

How do they urinate?? is there a provision for operation?? Like conjoin abi cojoin twins

omale88:
yet some are totally un aware of what fibroid is you'd be surprised,same goes to ladies with mrkh

Yea...now what is mrkh?

omale88:
First sign of laziness in an individual is the sight of excess fat,fat is unhealthy but then most ladies who happen to have protruding navels maybe working out harder than you think but are not aware that they have fibroid.

Fibroid is not without a sign.

sheanzy:
I have seen a mother of 3 with a slim flat tummy, it's all about fitness and dedication!

So your own is to be looking at peoples' wives tummy abi?

rickleye:
hmm -
1. "One of your girlfriends " Well, you got played, player !!!
2 . "You were manipulated but did not cum" - I doubt you know what you ate last week. There is also something called pre-cum which is not the mother load but contains enough protein to do the damage. Anyhow at this stage irrelevant.
3. If you were not ready to be a father why did you not take precautions before doing the deed ! ( I am venting . This is also irrelevant at this stage)

The lady has made up her mind that she wants to keep the child, this however does not mandate that you marry her but if DNA tests prove you are the father of the child, you are liable to support the child. How much, would really depend on you or if she takes you to court.
So in summary
1. You are not married to her .( Baby Mama)
2. Do not have to undertake any daily marital responsibilities.
3. You are not there for the emotional, educational, moral , physical support of the child.
4. You just give a certain amount monthly to support the child. Will the child bear your name or hers ?
5. You can come to some agreement as to when you would like to visit the child or have the child over for the weekend. ( You have no idea what the child will become in future, I would advise that you maintain a cordial relationship with the baby mama and child)
6. You live with the guilt that you are not there physically to support the child.

I would also suggest that you inform your mum of what has happened. Once the child's paternity has been confirmed and you are firm that you are still not ready to be the father. It would be nice to seek her advice and let her know that she has a grandkid somewhere. I am sure she would like to help out in any little way even though you have decided not to marry the lady.

This one na real 'wahala dey sleep, yanga dey wake am.

sheanzy:
are you one of them

Lolz.. Wait fess lemme check.

Your confusion is confusing me brotherly.

Only you paternity test.
Only you she loves you a lot and worships you .
Only you, rejecting the love to an extent of showing off other gals

No worry I trust women if you do anyhow now, you see anyhow in the future.

Modified:
no one is manipulating you, you should know what you want and work by it.

If you know you didn't want to wife her, you should have been matured enough to let her go.
Its not like you were dating her at gunpoint

Wahala for ladies wey no get flat tummy .

KinglouisXIII:
Okay… I’ve tryna do that but it’s not uploading. I don’t know why. But I’ll try it again now tho

This your hand bag na girl own sha.. Now if I say dash me.
Some people will take it as begging instead of appreciation

toujurs:
i like your honesty, the love of your life will locate you this year. For sure

As you're sounding like perfect gentleman. You no like am

Ihatebuhariwith:
abi.. shey he no fit use dat his friends phone for just a month and get money to New phone via the so called forex... Beg directly if u really need help... If I need help on ds platform i deh beg directly.. nothing to hide

Gbam!!

KinglouisXIII:
Well,asking is different from extorting. If you ask politely and I will give wholeheartedly. Not to find a way sketchy way to get money from people. I don’t support extortion. And yeah,I have been making enough for a long time now really. So,giving doesn’t bother me,I just need a trustworthy and supportive woman that’s all.
Is it too much to ask? All they do now just extort you and move to the next flower to suck it’s juice? Damn!

Ok. I understand

I pray you find the right one

If you can use someone else's phone to get a good phone within a month..

What happened to the money you've been making with your lost phone that you've being using ever since.

(Just thinking aloud)

KinglouisXIII:
Awwwn,I miss being with a good woman too. Cos I’m so fucking tired of them girls tryna extort me. Then I decided to calm down for a while but now I think I am ready for the next phase of my life with a woman. I just I find my missing rip ASAP.

Does that mean you've made enough money to give a lady now?

Cuz a simple 'plz send me #100 card' from her.
And you'll be like...'Damn!!! Not again'

toujurs:
Na wa o, why sound like this. Is it a crime for a lady to be older, why is it that you ladies don't like hearing the truth, look she is looks older. Weather, she wants to hear the truth or not, she is not even in any relationship for crying out loud, and she is online looking for a date, that's craziness. Seeking for a relationship openly on a faceless forum. This period, that alot of guys are looking for ladies head to use for ritual, so they can bam bam like obi cubana. I pity her. She will soon see what she is looking for.

Hunncle ehnnn...

Please ehn
Is like I'm an introvert and we don't talk much..
You can make a point clear without being.... I can't get the right English word for your tune.

toujurs:
So even if she has the money, she should tell him she doesn't have, so he can give her money for transport, you just adviced her like a lady who see's relationship as business and not a union. I see why guys insist on sex.

OK lets assume my advise was wrong or selfish. (Which I never thought of it from that side)
How will you have advise her. Don't forget she doesn't have t.p.

Lemme learn from you

toujurs:
But wait o Aunty, Are you the one on that dp . Hmmm walaihi to be honest. You dn old oh, you are meant to be married by now, and you are still talking about getting into a relationship. You are not even in any relationship not to talk of a serious relationship. Or either about to wed, hmmm wahala o!. Its like alot of ladies on this forum are single, no wonder most are bitter, how can an introvert be bitter at the same time, you can't speak offline, yet you are rude to the person talking to you, now you are looking for a blind date. Jeez .

Some people talk anyhow because its a faceless forum

Is this suppose to be an advice or what?

You're just tryna put her down deliberately. But this trash you wrote was no way to do that.

Let her be the one to decide if she's old or not. Who are you to tell her that anyway

Why you carry her marriage matter on top your head like gala and pure water!

Proudlyomonna:
Hmm.
But chere kodi,he has a car yet his mother is hawking
Can't he afford to start a small business for the momsy?
Hmm something is not right here,it's no secret that Nigerians will die for a moment of attention
They can do the unimaginable just to seek attention.

How sure are you that the mom is not comfortable with her hawking more than that small business?

Even if he wants to open a business she no gree,
Its only when strength starts to fail her that she will want to stay one place

Men hate disrespect.

Know this and know peace.

What you said may not be the reason but how you said it. You can make things right by apologising.

Amotolongbo:
Cos he has eaten the chicken

Your eyes na scanner?

Lolzz.
And you think I will fall for that..

That space doesnt look like a meat was removed from there.. Check well na.

How comes I can only see kpomo and not chicken in the soup or is it my eyes?

She did the right thing ,you should buy her an appreciation gift for pushing you to learn you favorite dish.

Wish you safe delivery!!!

This mods and snake..I don't know the connection sha

I hate the sight of snake. It gives me goose balls

Blunttruth have a point

I though they got married na.( the first time I saw the post of fb)

Brotherly, No woman is perfect, Know this and know peace.
But I can't tell you to leave or to stay.

Its only in nollywood that after five years
a lady will still be carrying the same hairstyle

You for mention the state at least, if not the local govt.

It will help you get a more appropriate response, now even people who don't know anything about it, like us will put mouth