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If you were to ask me,I think there's is nothing wrong with gf/bf asking money in times of needs.But,not always it's some sorth of abusive techniques remember you are still in a bf/ gf relationships.I for one,I haven't come to the point of asking my fiance some money,Thank God for giving me a nice job and I am doing fine with that.When situation comes to worst,He is the only person closest to me and what I am going through he must know,so if I need his help financially,I certainly ask him.And if he needs my help as well whatever it may take,I will try all I could to help him out.We are one ,so together we stand in good times and in bad times

Sorry but I am just confused.What's the difference between ASHAAWO and IYAWO?

Maple:
I tried that once and paid a high price for it. You may trust your partner, but the future would always remain a mystery.

What priZE did you get my dear? is it POSITIVE or NEGATIVE EFFECT?

medoski:
I  am  a  network/computer  security  advisor  and  we  dont  advise  people  to share  password  with  their  spouse.

Here are some password formation rules:
1. Always use a passworded screen saver.
2. Avoid giving your password away. If unavoidable. once the purpose has been served,
change it immediately.
3. As a system administrator you are expected to send a monthly or quarterly broadcast to
all users to change their passwords
4. As a system admin create a strict policy to only accept strong passwords
5. Users are not allowed to share passwords
6. When typing your password don’t be shy to tell the people around you to look the
other way, including people you have given your heart to( you can give him/her your
heart but not you password)
7. Never make hard copies of your passwords
8. At the friendly or unfriendly termination of the job of the system administrator or any
member of the helpdesk in your organization, all users are expected to change there
passwords
9. Never use your login name as your password
10. Never capitalize or double your user name as your password
11. Never use your first or middle name as your password
12. Never use your boy friend/girl friend name as a password
13. Never use your plate number, date of birth or telephone number
14. Never use a password of all digit or letters
15. Never use passwords shorter than six letters
16. Mix capital, small letters and punctuations example 2b%ornot2b? is a good password, or
take two lines of a song you like and take the first letters of the words for your password.
17. Never click remember my password on your system
18. Use password that can be quickly typed
19. Use passwords you can easily remember
20. When answering password security questions online always give out wrong answers, for
instance : what is your mother’s maiden name ? – answer could be 2+3B
21. What is your favourite color? – Answer could be Ikeja so that people close to you
cannot make educated guesses and reset your password
22. Use lengthy smart passwords
23. Use non dictionary passwords
24. Configure password- aging feature
25. Never share  your passwords with  your girlfriend/wife, You can give  them  password  to your  heart but not  any  other  password.

visit  www.lulu.com/spotlight/onlysose  for more

thanks for this nice info, it serves are a guidelines for everyone

FSTRANGER, : Are you talking to me? ohhh sorry,I was busy looking at Traditional wedding ceremonies lol, I am enjoying it! hehhehee, and oh,by the way,You are invited to my WEDDING ok?though now I really pity you,I guess you are a desperate man,better be GOOD so you can find someone, Who will love you ok?

( bad comments , IGNORES) , good comments, Thanks , loving Nigeria

Thanks, and I have already reported you to the OWNER of this site as he ordered to do so?

YES,i love everything about Nigeria, so I prefer NL bczI am trying to know about your culture,the place and the people.Above all,I wanna learn IGBO language but why do some people here aren't friendly  

Nairaland is for Nigeria and friends of Nigeria.
Correct! She is neither a Nigerian nor a friend of Nigeria
. She is screwing a Nigerian, which makes her an enemy of Nigeria.

FSTRANGER:
DEAR,i AM NOT SCREWING NIGERIANS,NOT AT ALL AND never, How can I do it to my second HOME?, FOR YOUR INFORMATION: I have a lot of Nigerian friends ,they are wonderful and nice people UNLIKE YOU!, and you know what? I AM ENGAGED to be married to a NIGERIAN, now what is my purpose here? READ BETWEEN THE LINES OK?

fstranger:
If you don't LEAVE PEACEFULLY, then you will be FORCED to LEAVE, with the aid of voodoo ofcourse!

GOOD ones shall STAY and BAD ones are FREE TO LEAVE, I am not violating any rules nor INSULTING anyone here even though I am not a Nigerian, I WILL STAY,

FSTRANGER:

What have I done to you or to this site that you want me to leave

FSTRANGER:

AS long as the owner won't hate non-nigerians to post I will not leave here lol, ARE YOU JEALOUS OF ME?

:-x :-x :-x

ahhahhaha, guilty as charge right?

exactly

juzt kidding lol, See me and you will judge

Huh , 10 out 10 hahahha

[quote][/quote]FROM THE SEEKER:


In spite of the streaks of sickness and the unhealthy environments in The Philippines, you'll be surprised at how many Nigerians are there.


WOW!!! This quite insulting huh .I AM A FILIPINO, how many timeS you have been to Philippines? How can you judge and insult my country like this? Man,discover first by yourself so that you will know what you are talking about!!!! ,

hi,I AM ALSO NEW IN THIS SITE and I am enjoying it a lot.I am ASIAN(The Philippines)

I am going to share some of our Culture and wedding ceremonies.


Filipinos still adhere to numerous widely-held folk beliefs that have no scientific or logical basis but maybe backed-up by some past experiences (yet can be dismissed as mere coincidence). Below are just a few that concerns weddings. Some are still practiced to this day primarily because of 'there's nothing to lose if we comply' attitude while the others are totally ignored for it seemed downright ridiculous. Read on,
Brides shouldn't try on her wedding dress before the wedding day or the wedding will not push through.

Knives and other sharp and pointed objects are said to be a bad choice for wedding gifts for this will lead to a broken marriage.

Giving arinola (chamberpot) as wedding gift is believed to bring good luck to newlyweds.

Altar-bound couples are accident-prone and therefore must avoid long drives or traveling before their wedding day for safety.

The groom who sits ahead of his bride during the wedding ceremony will be a henpecked husband.

If it rains during the wedding, it means prosperity and happiness for the newlyweds.

- A flame extinguished on one of the wedding candles means the one on which side has the unlit candle, will die ahead of the other.

Throwing rice confetti at the newlyweds will bring them prosperity all their life.

The groom must arrive before the bride at the church to avoid bad luck.

It is considered bad luck for two siblings to marry on the same year.

Breaking something during the reception brings good luck to the newlyweds.

The bride should step on the groom's foot while walking towards the altar if she wants him to agree to her every whim.

A bride who wears pearls on her wedding will be an unhappy wife experiencing many heartaches and tears.

An unmarried woman who follows the footsteps (literally) of the newlyweds will marry soon.

Dropping the wedding ring, the veil or the arrhae during the ceremony spells unhappiness for the couple.

In early Filipino custom, the groom-to-be threw his spear at the front steps of his intended's home, a sign that she has been spoken for. These days, a ring suffices as the symbol of engagement.


The Engagement

After the couple has decided to marry, the first order of business is the pamanhikan, where the groom and his parents visit the bride's family to ask for her hand in marriage. Wedding plans are often made at this time, including a discussion of the budget and guest list. Don't be surprised if the groom-to-be is expected to run some errands or help out around the bride's house. This tradition is called paninilbihan, where the suitor renders service to his future wife's family to gain their approval.


The Wedding Outfits

The white wedding dress has become popular in the last hundred years or so with America's influence in the Philippines. Before that, brides wore their best dress, in a festive color or even stylish black, to celebrate a wedding. Orange blossom bouquets and adornments were a must during the turn of the last century. For men, the barong tagalog is the traditional Filipino formal wear. It is a cool, almost transparent, embroidered shirt, made from silky pina or jusi, two native ecru fabrics. It is worn untucked, over black pants, with a white t-shirt underneath. These days, a Filipino American groom might wear the conventional black tux, but Filipino male wedding guests will usually show up in their finest barongs.


The Ceremony

In pre-colonial days, a wedding ceremony lasted three days. On the first day, the bride and groom were brought to the house of a priest or babaylan, who joined their hands over a plate of raw rice and blessed the couple. On the third day, the priest pricked the chests of both bride and groom and drew a little blood. Joining their hands, they declared their love for each other three times. The priest then fed them cooked rice from the same plate and gave them a drink of some of their blood mixed with water. Binding their hands and necks with a cord, he declared them married. The majority of Filipino weddings are now Catholic weddings, but some native traditions remain. Most have special "sponsors" who act as witnesses to the marriage. The principal sponsors could be godparents, counselors, a favorite uncle and aunt, even a parent. Secondary sponsors handle special parts of the ceremony, such as the candle, cord and veil ceremonies. Candle sponsors light two candles, which the bride and groom use to light a single candle to symbolize the joining of the two families and to invoke the light of Christ in their married life. Veil sponsors place a white veil over the bride's head and the groom's shoulders, a symbol of two people clothed as one. Cord sponsors drape the yugal (a decorative silk cord) in a figure-eight shape--to symbolize everlasting fidelity--over the shoulders of the bride and groom. The groom gives the bride 13 coins, or arrhae, blessed by the priest, as a sign of his dedication to his wife's well-being and the welfare of their future children.


The Food

The Filipino wedding feast is elaborate. One feast celebrated at the turn of the last century involved these foods: First was served cold vermicelli soup. The soup was followed by meats of unlimited quantity--stewed goat, chicken minced with garlic, boiled ham, stuffed capon, roast pork and several kinds of fish. There were no salads, but plenty of relishes, including red peppers, olives, green mango pickles and crystallized fruits. For dessert, there were meringues, baked custard flan, coconut macaroons and sweetened seeds of the nipa plant.

Re: Does Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder, Or Absence Makes The Heart Wander?
« #38 on: Yesterday at 05:29:12 PM »
To be candid, I dont advise anyone to go into long distance r/ship esp when there is no definite time space to be together again. Am in one and damn it, I ve gone 4rm fonder to wander, I am tired of talking to her on phone, kinda boring and monotonous, there is hardly anything of interest to say to eachother besides boring tales of what we did that day plus some funny @$s lies to liven up the conversation. In fact, lately, I ve noticed that the two us of have lost enthusiasm when we speak, we ve even somehow agreed on tacit terms to reduce the number of times we call eachother coz we are fast becoming a bore to eachother. . . 4ck all those fairy tales of if U love and communicate shyit! Shyit is over! Infact, I see it as the beging of the ending, period. Already, I ve adjusted and begining to make myself available again, am sure she too has thought about doing thesame or is even doing thesame, come on, it is human nature jare!
[quote][/quote]RHYMZ
I understand how you feel because you have been a victim of distance relationship and an unfaithful lover.It's reality,it happens many times not only you because temptations are everywhere and some people tend to forget everything and can't fight this temptations in their way, but move on , life must go on.Someday you will find someone true to you no matter how far you may be to each other.Good luck!

Nope,190 is 3 months pregnant with OMOLOLA online hihihi

, What a tragic incident is this?too much Love is like a poison that can kill someone,it will make you go crazy as if no more solution to it.This is very sad news .Perhaps,there is a big problem between them that ended up this way.May the guy rest in peace and I pray for the woman to survived, and get well soon.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm BRB

OMG 190, you are getting on my nerves .I need to go to bed now, it's been past midnight here, night night Nairalanders,

hmmmm poetic standard words, no password, big NO NO AND BY THE WAY, WHo is the "mother" of your on line pregnancy?or should I say "mothers' ? lol

yes, Ma'am

yes, indeed!!

190

HAHAHHA well said, I don't have any idea about that, Then why not try to run for candidacy and you can help build your state into a better place to live?BE THE 190 BEST GOVERNOR OF NIGERIA, if I can get married now and become a citizen of Nigeria, i will vote for you ooo, count me 1 vote hahahha

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

OMOLOLA:

190 wanted to get the password to my heart  anD other accounts hahhaha, so funny because the password has been LOCKED and TAKEN by your own brother(a nigerian) , sorry bro, try to be good and gentle here,you will surely find one , a WOMAN THAT IS WILLING TO GIVE YOU THE PASSWORD TO HEAVEN :-*