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Fahvvy:
And this one thought he made sense ...
Lemme address your pints sir...

1. That a woman has money doesn't absolve her from being a gold digger sir ...

If she wasn't a gold digger, let her go with her money and leave the young man with his money, why want half his assets? ...

2. A woman's intelligence doesn't stop her from being a woman ...

And as you can see, with all her intelligence and ability to speak multiple languages, she still acted like EVERY OTHER WOMAN acts in the course of a divorce, so what are we saying ...

3. Whether or not she contributed to his rise isn't certain, I mean just because a woman is with a man who is just starting up doesn't mean she contributed to his rising ...

She could just be there hoping he rises and then cash out from it in future ...

But however, that she contributed to his rising doesn't make her entitled to half his stuff ...

If a woman who has known him for just 5years wants half his stuff, how about a woman who has sacrificed her all for his entire life?

What percentage is she entitled to? ...

4. That's your wahala...

5. That's an allegation sir and unless proven otherwise, he is INNOCENT ...

virginboy1:
Serious distraction

GreatAchiever1:
Simple, focus on God not yourselves, anyone or anything

Tonnyray:
If we live a self-directed, self-motivated, self-centered life, always needing to get our own way, then we’re going to be miserable. In fact, many times we believe it’s our problems that are making us unhappy when, in reality, it’s because we’re focused on ourselves!
– Joyce Meyer

dhiqson:
Update!!

PatientofYabale:
I'm now a man city fan. I have finally leave this club. Oloriburuku club wey go never make someone happy. Since last year I have ever have any happy week!!! Just dey lament everyday. I'm now a man city fan!!! I'm done with this useless team. My friend and my girlfriend just dey use me joke. Dey don troll the hell out of me. I'm now a man city fan. Man city for life.

KnownUnknown:
I forgot to add this particular animal and his group who are swimming in hundreds of million if not a few billions.
They also have the most absurd story and scam imaginable. Lol

KnownUnknown:
Conmen

Formatz01:
How do I reply a girl that said she doesn't want my girlfriend to beat her oo.

KennethIbe59:
My naighbour dey bleep people wife almost everyday and the guy no get shishi..
If not that I don't do married women na every day I go dey bleep..

Eric247:
Let's stop decieving ourselves, this alphaness na scam, most men are not enjoying unlimited access to unlimited sexuality except they patronize prostitutes, even married men aren't getting the sex like dat, sex hard my brother, sex scarce, only a small amount of men are getting this thing.

polite2:
Bello has failed totally,,he thinks the IGALAs are foolish ? He should try it

Wotowotoman:
Please how old are you? This is such a dumb question….

CaveAdullam:
Become a strong man.

Ourtruth247:
Why were the conditions of their roads so poor?

If these clearly primitive people had the skills and dedication to build all these structures, then why are the conditions of their roads so poor?

You can't leave your roads all muddy, yet invest time and resources in constructing these wonderful edifices. How do you transport blocks of limestone weighing in millions of pounds through mud, when you could just pave the roads...

Karlifate:
But when a man says: his money & other resources are not meant for one woman, a broke one at that, they go bonkers.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

heartofcity12:
Rants of an evening newspaper. Always blaming men.. Zero accountability..

Pukkalolo:
I was recently ask about how to pass a woman's shit test...I said, I'll post it here so everyone will see it.

I have talked about female shit test before on this thread, if you go through my previous posts, you'll find it.

But, let me throw more light on it.

Many guys are obsessed over passing a woman's shit test...but what they don't realized is that they shouldn't even be getting shit test in the first place.

I read some where they said, "getting shit test is a sign that she perceive you as high value." But that's crap.

I watched on YouTube where there were interviewing 3 beautiful black American ladies about their experience with two rappers at the club: Drake and Future.

These ladies say they had to quickly corporate with the rappers and act very submissive and feminine... because they know that high status rappers of such don't have time to keep up with any bullshit(shit test).

If we choose look at it from a certain angle, this goes to show that getting shit test from a woman is even a sign that she perceive you as low value... basically, she assumes you are someone who's willing to put up with her bullshit because of you want to get the pussy.


Ok, let's play with an hypothetical scenario:

Imagine you are walking on the road and a hoodlum from know where whistle at you, when you turn to look at him, he give you the middle finger... basically, he tells you, "Bleep you!"

How do you respond to that?

There are 3 possible way you can respond to that situation, and this depends on who you are.

Let say you're Mr fearful.... “I'm sorry dude. I'm sorry if I offended you??...” then you apologize to him for no reason, then quickly run away with your tails in between your legs.

Let's say you are Mr tough alpha wannabe... You quickly approach him, “how dare you give me the middle finger...Who do you think you are? Do you know who I am?”... The hoodlum then verbally tells you, Bleep you. Then out of anger... you throw the first punch, then the hoodlum retaliate, then it get heated. The hoodlum goes get his boys... of course you also go get your niggas... Things escalated badly... Blood everywhere.

Let say say you are Mr high quality guy who values his time.....You quickly realized that this hoodlum isn't worth your time. So you just ignore him and go about your business and focus on more important things.

On a low key, this high guy guy is probably the real alpha..... because A true “alpha male” doesn’t need to assert his “alphaness” at every time.


Let's compare this with an interaction with a woman.

Ok..let say you are in festive gathering, and you try chatting with this girl but she shit test you...she tells you,, "You are not my type" and "you look old”

Let say you're Mr fearful nice guy----->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...”

You: "it's not about me not being your type.

Her: "it's about what?"

You: "It's about the fact that I truly love you"

Her: *laughs* "you are looking too old for me"

You: "i know I'm old but you know I've feelings for you, and I will take care of you"

Her: "Ok, I need to change my hair and wardrobe..."

You: "how much do you need?"

Her: *The game continues...*

She exploit you for weeks and months until she get bored with you and dump your sorry ass. Yes, you failed her shit test.


Ok, what if you've learn "the game"...so you've learn how to pass her shit test.

Now, you are Mr tough alpha wannabe ---->

You: "I'm attracted to you"

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *smirk* "well, I guess you don't have good taste.."

Her: "you say I don't have good taste.. oh, please give me a break! You look old "

You: "I look old? Are you insecure about your age or does my big appearance scares you?" *sly grin*

Her: *laughs* scares me? you are not even up to guys I roll with.

Him: The game continues...



This might continues for days, weeks, months..
Reading that might seem cool to you, but in reality that is just pathetic.

This is what you get when you believe in "passing a woman's shit test"... You’re basically entering into a verbal match and unnecessary power play with her...

All I see is two insecure people trying to outwit themselves and trying to be “more dominant” against the other person. I see this all the time between a guy and lady...the guy would be spitting games on an entitled bitch (who probably doesn't even any interest in him to begin with). They are both time wasters.

Ok, but what if you've become more mature, experienced and you now place high value on your attention. You are very busy with your time.

You are now Mr high quality guy who values his time------>

You: I'm attracted to you.

Her: "You are not my type...you look old”

You: *Walks out even be she completes her statement*

You quickly realized that this woman is not worth your attention. You quickly dumps her and move on. You demonstration to her and to yourself that you have low tolerance for crap and you highly value your time and effort and you only spend it on a woman who is worth it.

This actually more powerful than the Mr tough alpha wannabe who's busy trying to tease her and outwit her in order to pass her shit test.

Or think of it... At club, when a random Iady drops a shit test, do you think Drake, Kendrick or Future would start spitting games, go in to power play and trying to pass her shit test.

Of course, No... Those dudes are high quality guys who values their time. They'll just ignore her and quickly move on with another shawty.

You might naturally think,
“Oh, but I'm not a high status rapper like Drake and Future, so these won't work for me"

Understand this simple truth:

Most times, women judge a man by his behavior. From the way he behaves, she can guess if he's a quality guy or not. Even if she meet Drake at the bar but doesn't know who he is...from his behavior she'd assume he might be an high status guy, then she'll pick interest in him.

When you are Mr high quality guy who demonstrate that you highly values your time, she picks interest in you and be curious to know more about you.

Again...

Women are attracted to successful guys....but women are also attracted to guys who have the potential to be successful.. This is why this broke upcoming musician in my neighborhood is fucking sexy girls... Although he's broke but these ladies believe that one day he might blow and make it.

Same way, when you demonstration to her that you have low tolerance for bullshit and you highly value time, she assumes are you have more important things to spend your time and effort on... She assumes that guys like you have the potential to become successful.

Over time, you start noticing that women will start paying more attention to you... they'll be intrigued. They think, "He has low tolerance for my bullshit...that means he must have more importantly things going on for him...let me find out!"

luminouz:
Good take from his post but never cower from stating your own opinions. Don't force it on anyone or act like you are superior. Just be cool and calm and state your opinions.

heartofcity12:
⬆️
A hoe that doesn’t like condom or can’t abstain from premarital sex .. These are the same Igbo girls they pay heavy bride price for, they can’t even give y’all virginity 😂

joeeee240:
You sef don experience am?

joeeee240:
Keke men and okada drivers be knacking people gfs steady🤣😭🤣

Haydens:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.

advanceDNA:
1M

advanceDNA:
How true.??..na bank investment i dey follow u talk ooo ..No be ponzi or all this funny investment oooo..

You dont even need to go to the bank....i did it on the mobile app....but u need to open account with FCMB ...... started since last year

SmartPolician:
How can a train collide with a bus? Truly, there are so many sick people in this country.

In fact, Lagos State has a lot of mad people, but those people don't even know they are mad.