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Realboygenius:
Hmmmn
The Pouvoir 2 camera isn't that bad.
Can you drop an image sample?

the phone is trash I know what I'm talking about,if I see 25k buyer I will sale it off.

GistMore:
Lalasticlala

the guy will finally get sense.

my child hood days, my father will assemble my sis and myself inside his own bathroom, bath us before going ahead to take his own bath, though with his short on.

unless they are both naked, then nothing wrong.

today's banker


Z57QGLDM.........utilize it.

majority of women wants guys that are in control in the helm of their own affairs, while at it, they still want the same guy to be under her control only. they want the guys that can conquer the world,at the same time be under her control.

one guy drop 3 draws screen shot that contain eche vs Zaragoza ft draw. the games is going fine.

Nbote:
He wasn't brushing his teeth regularly before... Yellow teeth before, white teeth now... Meaning afta a while dey'll turn yellow again

apart from the yellow teeth, can't you see the way it was properly arranged, unlike before?

Ineedyouradvise:
If you read through my initial post, there was never a time I painted myself to be a saint, there's no perfect human. of course, no one gets married to become separated or divorced later.
When issues arises in marriage, it is imperative that both couples find ways to resolve them, when issues can't be resolved, it's just a time bomb waiting to blow.

Let me ask you a question;
If you had an issue with your wife, would it be enough reason to deny her conjugal rights? Or hit her till she lay in a pool of her own blood? Or refuse to provide for your own home?

I perfectly understand there's no perfect home, every marriages experiences one issue or the other, and your ability to work on it makes you matured. but when you keep making your other half feel like you are doing them a favor by being married to them, probably cause you feel they have a soft heart then that's frustrating.

ma'am your inquisitive mind would have directed you, on what to do initially,before the issues escalated to the extent of him using his hands on you.

first I believe before things gone these bad, you must have been seeing the signs but you chooses to ignore it, when you first notice his strange behaviour, did you care to address the issues lovingly or you chooses to ignore it?

i must tell you different men has their own way of settling their issues, some chooses a life of solitude for the time being, whereas some might start doing some other funny things till they are able to get their minds together.

for him not care about his conjugal right anymore says a lot about the whole scenario, that man might be going through some difficult moments apart from finance,that you didn't care to know. the problem might be partly comes from you, you might not know,his people not calling you till these moment, says a lot about you and the issues, which I don't want to go into details about it. women needs to understand that men are humans after all, they have their emotional moments.

you would have dug deep, and know the root cause of his sudden change in attitude, before leaving the house in the first place.

try and do some recollections, you will definitely see where things went wrong, please for no just cause never use abusive words on your partner, whether jokingly or in a heated arguments.

anyways you knows him better than I do, I wish you good luck in whatever ways you decide to settle the issues.

bukatyne:
@Bold, are you insuiating that it is ok for the husband to be verbally abusive to prove his husbandship?

And we wonder why this issue will never be resolved?

It is ok for the husband to be obnoxious because he is breadwinner, when women learn same attitude, you start to complain.

You can't eat your cake and have it.

I think you are exacerbating the issues at hand, let's not digress from the issues, though I told the story for clarity purposes, probably you didn't get the much intended lesson from it, but let me put it straight to us.

from what I garnered from the OP story she make's it look like she married a devil, whilst she exonerated her self as a saint, who does that? anybody that is coming to the equity,must come with a clean hands, I know the husband might not be what she expected,
but still I believe he possess some other goodies, that attracted her to him in the first place.

in a relationship one person must tolerate more than the other for the family to blossom, two locker heads must always be a torn on each others fresh, trying to prove a point.
i have not seen where a man will go ahead and marry a woman, with the intention of maltreating her latter.

even if they later divorce, life will still continue the man will still marry another woman, and he will go ahead and enjoy the new marriage. secondary no marriages are the same, you don't allow the opinions of other people to have effect in your marriage.

there are some persons that can live with a devil, you won't even notice the devil's side anymore. please let us stop encouraging separation in marriages is not good, the union is for better for worse, if you abide on that concept before marrying, you will shine you eye's and do so many investigations before saying I do, today's marriages fails, because,we no longer hold the institution at a high extreme, we believe that we can go in and out of it at will, hence rush in......rush out.hence the children involved end up suffering the aftermath.

Dhinmmar:
Oshey!! Is that how your relatives treat their wives?

I grow up from a lovely home,my both parents are still alive, but I can tell you, during my stay in Lagos I have one neighbour like that, a young couple I must say,if you see the way and manner the woman is using insulting word's on her husband, you will have pity on the young man,she capitalize on her husband easy going nature, just because maybe she has money,more than the man. in fact to cut the story short, she is the husband, while the man is the wife, what if tomorrow the man say enough is enough, and muster the courage and start beating the woman after every insults and abuse, or better still start behaving otherwise will you still blame the man? I personal don't like the way the op paint the husband all black, one will think that she is infallible.

mysticgal:
Lol, so because I talk you want to beat me, laugh in the highest heaven. That man, dem never born am.

By the way, I can’t, would not settle for scumbags, don’t bother

a good woman think before talking, using abusive/insulting words to your partner can never be justify, same with using violence on your partner. if you think that you can insult your partner at will, then you should as well be prepared to received flogging....(belt things)

mysticgal:
You sound really dumb bro. There is no excuse for violence.

If he really wants to beat someone, he should do it with a man like himself

these your comment have finally confirmed and solidifies my points about some women, they think that they can insult anyone at Will,including their so called husband without anything happening to them, so you can't make your own points without using insulting word's?

n.b women use their mouth to fight,
men use their fist......case settled.

Magnoliaa:
Stop trying to justify abuse.

There is nothing right about it. Because it happened in the past doesn't mean it's normal.

ma'am then avoid any form of quarrels that might lead to abuse, period.

let the matter rest.

sammymarvin:
Pls pals i funded my bet9ja acount thru d Atm for about 2hr now but my bet acount has not bn credit and my bank has debited me pls whats d problem o

relay the problem now to their customers care via msg,they will resolve the issue by the end of the day, same thing happen to me a day before yesterday.

Successdude:
have you see this kind of thing happening in Nigeria,somewhere else ?

still no concrete evidence yet, I'm still skeptical about the whole impostor saga,only time shall tell.

[quote author=asatemple post=81707790]I envy her flat tommy[/quote nice picture, my type.

Successdude:
my broad, see eh, right now my head dey pain me cos of this things.. As in its not a case where someone says I'm tired and he was only saying it for saying sake but really means tired. That's d state I am. I have headache.... This whole thing is like making me forget myself as it provoked wild imaginations .... I'm leaving this thread make dem no make person faint.... My head really feeling hurt now...

what exactly is making you feel these way? which wild imagination are you talking about?

live by the gun........die by the gun.

I don't have RIP to give shaaa.

liberalchick:
So what kind of quality of life is that? Your home is supposed to be your sanctuary and your safe space. How can you be in your house and you can’t talk? You risk hot slap if you open your mouth? Is that one life?

Couples quarrel every time, a marriage is broken if you can’t have healthy arguments without the fear of being physically battered.

everything have limit. how can you be having that kind of quarrel,knowing the type of man you married to? there are so many ways to iron issues, apart from quarrelling all the time.

Crieff:
Quite unfortunate that you're surrounded by such poor examples, I'm surrounded by couples who enjoy their marriages without ever resorting to physical violence. Your outlook on OP's post is very very unwholesome.

even the op feels like she made some form of mistakes by leaving her home,maybe her conscience is pricking her, telling her what she would have done. forget all those marriage's you think that are so rosy,just because you have not seen them quarrel each other. let me tell you, majority of good marriage s is solely dependent on the women. a good woman make her home,but the other way round tear it apart. you might not agree with me,but it is a fact.

SirVintageCock:
Must we always ask the women? How about asking our fathers how they treated their wives? A question most of them would be too ashamed to answer.
Glorying in abuse as if it is a trophy always jarr my brain to a convulsive state. So abusers should be encouraged because our mothers were abused too and they endured?? What is the point of ......... .

I'm not advocating violence in a marriage, my points is that some women can push their men to the wall,to the point of you laying hands on them. I have some of them around.

Dhinmmar:
I'm tired of NL
Endure maybe till she dies and he'll marry another.
Nawa

stop been too emotional jooor, so the husband will just come out from no where and start beating his wife?though i'm not justifying his action, but it take's two to tango (fight).

theButterfly:
You did the right thing for yourself and your children, OP. I commend you for leaving. Many women stay and "endure" abuse at the hands of their husbands and unfortunately by the time they leave it is too late b/c they end up doing so in a body bag.



The fact that there are children involved, witnessing their mother being beaten daily by their father to the extent of leaving her in a pool of blood is even more reason for her to leave. Even if there were no kids in the picture, no woman should tolerate physical violence and continue enduring such treatment.

you're talking as if you have not been with a woman, some of them their mouth is so sharp like a razor blade, at least she didn't say that her husband is a drunk, because is majority of them that doesn't behave rational especially when they are intoxicated. I keep saying these,marriage is not easy,it takes so much of patience, endurance and forgiveness to make a successful marriage. you can go and ask your mom what she past through at some points in her own marriage.

funmisticqueen:
you want the man to kill somebody's daughter abi? That man is a threat to her and the children. The man beat the woman till she was i n a pool of her own blood. Haha! What if this was your child.

are you trying to tell me that, the woman will be on her own and the man will just come and start beating her for no just reason? is it not from series of quarrels and arguments that results in fighting? why can't she try as much as she could to avoid that kind of situation, at least for the sake of her children, she knows her husband better, maybe he is a wife beater. in that case she should avoid any serious quarrels and arguments with her husband. imaging a situation where the husband throws an insulting word's at her, and she replied.... God bless you..... at least for peace to reign.


n.b it take's two to quarrel and vice vasa.

you shouldn't have left in that manner, considering the fact that children is now involve, marriage is not a bed of roses, I know of a woman that has issues with her husband to the extent that, they no longer sleep in the same room, in fact they live like neighbours, for some months till they decided to resolve their issues for the sake of the children, she didn't leave her home,rather she gave the husband some distance, she cooks,take care of the children and concentrate on her work only, while praying for her husband to turn a new leaf, I know about it because the woman confided with me, people should not always be in a haste to leave their homes when the going get sour, marriage is for better for worse. if he is beating you at will, then try as much as you could to avoid a situation like that, I believe you didn't get married to the devil, he still has his good sides.

these thing is getting interesting day by day, thank God for nnamdi KANU.

GLYCOLYSISS:
All women like fuvk !
Every single one of them .
When a lady is comfortable with you,most ladies,you go know say you're a learner in naughtiness & sex.
The funny thing is that most guys can't even handle a woman when she decide to explore sexually with them .
Most can't
Woman are very very more "sexual" than men.

you really get my point, don't mind all these Guy's, that are new into sex,they always feel like a king that has conquered a kingdom whenever they have a sex with a woman. I agree totally to your point.

she didn't mention eating right.

Iamgrey5:
Mr Photoshop expert "for years" the video is also fake?

Video shoped?

is obviously a doctored video, you are an amateur, maybe you won't understand, so many things are happening behind the scene, time shall definitely tell.

seriously this is not how democracy work in other parts of the world, the citizens demands to the way about of their President, why are they showing us manipulated pictures? seriously majority of us are very gullible, blinded by ethnic differences and are full of tribalism, that we fails to ask the necessary questions.

is a pity.

I have to say these, I love these girl fashion sense,she is always decently dressed, secondary she is not among the bleaching gang, I admire her because of that.