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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:28am On Jan 08, 2020
NoSidonLook:


Like the bastard that inserted his cursed sperm in your whoring mother
Useless slowpoke

You mean your father who banged the whoring life out of your mother simply because he picked her up from the gutters?

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:26am On Jan 08, 2020
NoSidonLook:


You're just an idiot
Trying to form diplomatic...but no, you making yourself sound so dumb

No, read what you typed again and take your time. You're clearly the daft one here. Who brought you up like this by the way? Your dad?
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:19am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

No, your brain was deceiving you or you clearly do not comprehend the language you type so well. You are actually the one with a dead brain. And you would agree with me because everyone thinks you give dumb advice but by the way, it’s not you, it’s your lack of comprehension of the language. You meant something entirely different from all you’ve been typing.
Good night Lady.

This one is suffering from hallucination. Sorry lav, I don't know how to help you anymore. Now consider yourself ignored.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:11am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

The only sensible comment you’ve made ever since. No no one was saying the sister was right, in fact, most have moved past that. Now everyone is talking about how the Op hasn’t seen reason why should be in icharge of her life and stop revolving her life round her boyfriend. Yes he’s the father of her child but she’s a person of her own. What if anything happens tomorrow? Won’t she move on or she wants her sister to keep feeding her for life? This is all we have been telling her but you were hell bent on misleading her into thinking her life has to revolve round her boyfriend because she has a child for him.

It's the other way around actually. Clearly, something woke your dead brain up.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:09am On Jan 08, 2020
OgbeniOja1:
Bro if I'm d guy I won't do again. Who want to come into a family where siblings have such bitterness for each other

My point exactly! I don't understand people's way of thinking. Quick to judge without taking an objective view of both sides. Op's foundation is clearly faulty. They both need counselling.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:04am On Jan 08, 2020
PerseDew:


She is insulting him because he should have known better than chasing and getting her 15 yr old sis not even 18 yr old pregnant and then sharing responsibilities with her for years while he continues to have sex with her all these years without anything like a business or even personal abode. What if she if gets pregnant again without knowing untill it is too late?? Pls how will all these and more be going through her mind and she will be smiling anytime she sees him around her?

She might be a mean person but he visited knowing he was not welcomed, insults started, OP slapped and she called police. Pls my point is she was provoked.

But they're sisters now? You get? Ok let me ask you this, is there any provocation that can lead you to call the police on your sibling? Come to think of it. Didn't the elder sister think about their parents? Now I'm not saying op was right, just saying as much as we're calling out the op, her sister too should be blamed.

And trust me, if op's bf had absconded when he got her pregnant, it's this same sinister elder sister that would remind op everyday that "you see, you gave birth to a bastard". She would have reminded op everyday that her child is a bastard without a moment's hesitation.

The thing about most of us is that, we've not yet fully grasped the concept of unconditional love. Unconditional love looks beyond past mistakes, forgives, and helps the other person grow. It guides them for as long as they need guidance and support. This is what I expect of the sister. If you must reprimand, do it once and move past it, not rip the other person of what's left of their self-confidence.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:42am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

Please run along, you should be the one to check the meaning of ‘sulk’ and while at it, do well to check ‘Aloofness also.” You are the one with the low intelligence level, exactly why you couldn’t comprehend what I wrote when I quoted you earlier.
Sulk(display of sullen aloofness or withdrawal)
Aloofness(a disposition to be distant and unsympathetic in manner)
Now that I’ve helped a little, read what I wrote again. Have a nice night rest.

Good. Now that you've helped yourself, you can go back to read my comment. To sulk at something is to be silent and not do anything! Olodo.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:39am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

Madam, go and read where I quoted you. He’s useless if he has no plans and ambitions and if he doesn’t take step towards achieving them. If he only depend on when people give him money to take care of you and your child and does not plan on how to make his life and yours better, doesn’t have a short and long term goal, doesn’t take steps towards achieving his goal,
He’s useless. If he doesn’t encourage you to build yourself and become a woman of substance, doesn’t ask your what your goals and plans are and the steps you are taking towards achieving them, he’s useless

Lady keep quiet. You keep repeating the same balderdash. Ahn ahn. She doesn't need any bf to build, grow and become the best version of herself. She doesn't need the support of anyone but her parents. Whether or not her bf gives her pep talks is inconsequential as she doesn't need it! Seriously, if it's your bf that made you YOU, then you may have other problems.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:27am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

She did sulk and that’s what led to this, got aloof(unsympathetic) exactly why she did what she did and felt it was the right thing, was very unsympathetic and sees no wrong in it till her sister started getting depressed.

Clearly your intelligence level is low. Check the meaning of 'sulk' and write me a report on your findings.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:18am On Jan 08, 2020
Youthleader22:


Please get out!

Go to hell and die!!!
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:17am On Jan 08, 2020
BREYZ:


Why quote me? Just drop your comment and pass madam. I made a statement I understood very well, dont come here to comment over a statement I made without proper understanding. Please be properly guided.

Why quote me? Couldn't you have dropped your comment and pass? You see, you're not wise.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:13am On Jan 08, 2020
queenitee:

No one said he’s useless but he’s really useless. The only thing the lady keeps saying is how he loves her. She never hinted at the fact that he has a goal or he’s trying in one way or the other to build his life or hers. He has no goal, no ambition, no plans. e.


If it's one bf somewhere that gave you all that you've achieved in life today, then I do not only feel sorry for you, I'm embarrassed for you.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:12am On Jan 08, 2020
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No one said he’s useless but he’s really useless. The only thing the lady keeps saying is how he loves her. She never hinted at the fact that he has a goal or he’s trying in one way or
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:07am On Jan 08, 2020
KingNom:
@ ifyjos: it is very very painful you had to go through the insults because of your errors.

Pst. Chris Oyakhilome says 'hurting people (most times) hurt others, BE DIFFERENT; don't allow your hurt make you hurt others'

What you need do is make amends. Use the same guys and girls to call your sister's fiance ANONYMOUSLY and apologize for lying about your sister. I pray he changes his mind and make amends with your sister.

If you come out and tell them, it'll further tear your entire family apart.

Do that for now and when things are restored you may with wisdom later confess to your sister.

You have a good heart, it's only that your were seriously hurt over the years and wrongly advised. Be strong and do the right thing dear

Kindly send me a PM let's help you and your fiance stand financially

This is the only person that has advised you right. Follow it @ifyjos

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:04am On Jan 08, 2020
spayor:
have you taken your medicine today?

Because I'm female doesn't mean I'm your mum.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 12:03am On Jan 08, 2020
PerseDew:


Her elder sis saw the guy in their family house and started abusing the guy not her o and then OP slapped her elder sis because of what?? Elder sis at this point had sense not to retaliate cos OP and her bf could have beaten and even killed her there with the unjust slapping action she has displayed and hate in their hearts at this point.

No parent was at home and even if her elder sis did may be faulted, what OP did was just plain stupid and evil. She started it all and when she got served on another level she has mind to be claiming oppressed victim.

Why the heck was she insulting the guy? That's so unfair. Because he doesn't have money, he's not human too? He doesn't have feelings? The guy got her pregnant, despite being broke he still tries to cater for his child. Isn't that good enough? They're still together after 5 years, doesn't that count for something? Some relationships don't even last up to 6 months. My point is, both op and her sister are mean people. And if her bf's influence on her is bad, so is her elder sister's fiance's influence on her sister. I say this because, the fiance can't say he didn't know his wife-to-be arranged for her sister to be locked up.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:50pm On Jan 07, 2020
Youthleader22:


You both questioning what the elder sister did... who sits and watch a guy impregnates her younger sister at just 15 and destroy her future. The girl couldn’t even continue school. She’s warning her about the so called useless guy that should have been spending his years in jail if we were living in a sane society, for impregnating a minor and you all here trying to quantity what happened.

So because she got impregnated at a younger age now her life is completely useless? If the said bf had money, you all wouldn't be talking like this. Is the guy the first man to drink, smoke or impregnate outside of marriage? The fact that he's penniless doesn't mean he's entirely useless. What about the part where he acknowledges the child? Doesn't that count for something?

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:39pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


Hypocrisy my ass!
I am putting the blame on the op
She is sick!

Then you're no different from the sister.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:38pm On Jan 07, 2020
queenitee:

You are wrong, she went about sulking. If she didn’t go about sulking, she wouldn’t do what she did.

She didn't. If she did she wouldn't have done what she did. She would have just sulked!!!
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:36pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


You sure deserve to be there now
Something you can’t do to a stranger..
How can you do it to your own very blood sister..

Tufiakwa!

What kind of hypocrisy is this! How can you get your own sibling locked up??!! It's abnormal. They're both sick. Stop putting the blame on the op alone. They're both culpable.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:32pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


Because wrongs have grade, for what she did to her sister, her sister’s sin is acquitted
Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder!

Continue being the victim if you want people to listen to you. Don’t go and plot someone’s murder

Like this quote, makes a lot of sense. However, to each her own. The elder sister too should have "made herself the victim so that people can listen to her". Just because the op didn't go about sulking on what her sister did to her doesn't mean she isn't traumatized by the prison experience too.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:23pm On Jan 07, 2020
Sarang:


Why would she hit her elder sister?
If I as much as think of hitting my “immediate” elder sister, I am a sorry ass!

I already reprimanded her for raising her hand at her sister. She's a very disrespectful girl. However, there are other ways to punish a rude younger one. Getting them arrested is psychotic. Op must come from a very bad home. They both need help.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:19pm On Jan 07, 2020
Am I the only one that sees the wrong her elder sister did her by locking her up in the cell? How come nobody is talking about this?

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:11pm On Jan 07, 2020
BREYZ:
This OP, i just don't know what to say honestly. But God will help you for destroying your sisters life due to your stupidity. When that guy leaves you finally, your eyes go clear.

Her life isn't destroyed because her fiance dumped her. And her life can't be destroyed because she lost her job. People get dumped and fired everyday but life goes on.

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:06pm On Jan 07, 2020
thatigboman:
so u gave birth when u were 15

So what if she gave birth at 15? Some people can't have children till this day?

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Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 11:02pm On Jan 07, 2020
dominique:
What I can deduce here is a wicked, envious sister who's out to destroy her sister who's doing better than her. Only when she succeeds that she realizes that she has bitten off the finger that feeds her. Who is goin to pay your daughters school fees now huh? Your irresponsible babydaddy?



Her sister got her locked up in a cell too! What are you people saying sef? What kind of sister does that? Can you order the arrest of your own family? Look, the both of them are culpable in this. The elder sister is every bit as sinister as the op. I hope they can forgive each other.
Family / Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 10:53pm On Jan 07, 2020
ifyjos you're a very disrespectful girl for raising your hand at your elder sister. Then you're evil. You're not only to blame in this, your sister too. She's just as sinister as you are. I hope you both can forgive each other.

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Romance / Re: My 5 Year Old Relationship Ended Just Like That by Meliian(f): 9:28am On Nov 04, 2019
LolaO:


I have called countless times, sent messages on Whatsapp, no response, no replies.

My dad called, he picked, told him he’d call back, but never did.

He is not ill, neither is he dead, I know this because his mum still talks to me, and at this point I’m cutting her off.

I wish I knew what the problem is or what I did wrong, he is not a bad person, loved me while he was in Lagos, his family adores me, and mine adores him as well.

I wish I knew what I did wrong, but it is what it is.


I really feel for you. Don't worry, someone better will come for you. I just wish he gave you closure.

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Romance / Re: Man Returns Home To Meet His Friend In Boxers With Only His Girlfriend Around by Meliian(f): 9:12am On Nov 04, 2019
MANNABBQGRILLS:
Could this be a coincidence?!
This is the song playing on our 'machine' on 3rd Mainland bridge at the moment we opened this thread...
(watch how some slow imbe.... shout na lie)

PSQAURE : OMOGE MI...

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Just had to say this. You talk too much.

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Celebrities / Re: Throwback Photo Of Little Teni The Entertainer by Meliian(f): 8:32pm On Nov 03, 2019
BravoDe:


This picture brings memory, who remember those times during Xmas and Easter wen our parent ll buy glasses and wristwatch for us

As in ehn. Plastic glasses and wristwatch was a thing then.

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NYSC / Re: Graduate Goes To The Farm To Show Her Father Her NYSC Discharged Certificate by Meliian(f): 5:14pm On Nov 03, 2019
micflo28:
Even in your mannerless and uncout reply, I dare you to shred your NYSC certificate, make a video of it and post it here on Nairaland for all to see how your NYSC certificate is not an achievement. You are by this reply warned to desist from addressing people you don't know as fools.

Still you're foolish. If nysc cert is an achievement for you, then you may have bigger problems.

Look, nysc can never be and will never be an achievement. Stop being sentimental about petty things. But If you want to insist, then honestly I'm sorry for you.

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