If ur shy to walk into a store and buy a pack of condoms then ur not matured enough to have sex.

-MenGoingThereWay

I wonder why men keep complaining about sex in relationship...Its very easy to solve, simply look for the gal who is comfortable with giving u sex while u spend on her...if that's difficult to find just simply get a booty call then u know its just strictly sex for money.

-MenGoingThereWay.

With all the above geStures we still have breakupS, gf dumping bf and cheatingS.

I advice men to juSt do what they can do for their women and love their gf in there own way.

Irony iS give moSt women the Said gestureS and they will come up with reaSonS why they can't love U.

A woman who loveS u loveS u and a woman who doesn't love u doesn't love U.


-MenGoingThereWay

teeo:

Lmao, and fake dudes be building mansions on the internet. What you don't know won't hurt you, so run along. Ugly goat

Boy, u throwing e-inSults at me won't change anything about ur live or Say won't make u more handsome.

-MenGoingThereWay.

teeo:

Ugly dudes be talking nonsense

The truth Stings boy...Deal with it

I advice u do something profitable with ur life rather than stand all day looking at d mirror.

Men are recognized by achievements and not looks..Ur looks just makeS up a little percentage of a man


-MenGoingThereWay

Hmmmm...its only wuSsies that waste time thinking about there looks..A real man knows not to dwell on or make noise about his looks.

A real man doesn't make his looks his selling point rather his selling points are the grounds he has covered in trying to meet up with his vision, goals or career objectives.

Its even a shame if all that getS a woman attracted to U are ur looks.

As a man it should be ur sense of ambition, intelligence, spirituality, discipline and integrity that gets women attracted to U and not Something vain known as "goodlookS"

-MenGoingThereWay.

I Like it..Beautiful face and beautiful body its a good hips the kind that are attracted to me.



-MenGoingThereWay

This should be an eye opener to some guyz on this thread especially those that cry when there gf free them.. meanwhile other men have girls fighting and killing themselves over them..

Some girls here can so lair..They say they can't fight with some other gurl for there man..I hear.....U just wait until u See a more bootylicious babe rock ur man's world.

Some girls here say they can't cope with cheats..The question is do u know if ur present man has been cheating on u for the past months or yrs Since u been dating?..hehe...chances are that u might have been coping with a cheat for some yrs or months u can't tell.

The reality is that there will always be a more beautiful and seductive babe out there that may lure ur man..

Women will always fight over men and this is d logic behind it..men u could learn from this

-Women need the admiration of men for them to admire themselves..so why won't high heels and handbags be thrown if a womans man takes d admiration meant for her and is giving to another women.

- Women thrive on the compliments/attention of men..the compliments/attention from men I what is keeping most alive..so a woman will rather pull the hair from another womans scalp than watch her man give attention to d other woman

- Women are curious and envious that's while some desire to enjoy what another woman is enjoying from her man..some women can't stand seeing another woman have it all..They will have to scavange on that love ur man gives U.

- Women like good things...hehehe..some don't appreciate it until they see some other woman in d picture that's when they realize there man most have something..so they have to fight to keep that man.

- Men eg eligible bachelors and good men are a rare commodity...

-MenGoingThereWay

I wonder why gals complain that they get emails from guyz..its just so dumb of them..This is a social network u should expect u get mails from guyz..if u don't want mails from guyz then don't join social networks..

The sad part that exposes there stupidity is the fact that they answer names like erotic, big booty, sweet booty and they get pissed when guyz make advances..I wonder why u get pissed when u have such names up on a social network..

-MenGoingThereWay.

Bro thread with caution, this could be a trap some men have been deceived by this "I am a virgin" epistle.

I think if u like to have sex before marriage then fall in love or go for a girl that shares that same idea.

-MenGoingThereWay

Man just relax..its normal for some men to have erections with there mistresses and then when it comes to there wife they don't have that erection..Its a mind thing..That can be resolved.

- If there is any tension btw u and ur wife I will advice u address it.

- Is u kind of work stressful mentally or physically or do u over work urself Find ways to manage stress and keep ur mind free from stress before every action.

- Does ur wife touch u or do those things ur mistresses do that turn u on? If not then tell ur wife and teach her how u like it done.

- Reduce ur self servicing

- Love ur wife MORE.

- Exercise and eat right.

It could be spiritual too probably one of ur mistresses jinxed her pu.na.ni..so that ur erections won't come on for ur wife..U know how desperate these mistresses can be..muahahahahha..Booh.

Reduce the number of mistresses and if possible stop having them because soon u will notice u won't be having erections for them just like ur not having for ur wife and then u will have to go for new mistresses..Its a thing with men when we get use to it we are likely to go looking for a new one..That's why I will emphasis u love ur Wife More, focus all ur attention on making ur wife happy.

-MenGoingThereWay

Young lady the problem is with your attitude towards him..Ur still acting and talking to him just like friends..switch it and start acting and talking to him in ways that will make him know that u want more than friendship from him.

-MenGoingThereWay

Ladies we men are not mind readers or spirits that u give us green light and expect us to act on that with out u voicing out or at least starting a convo...Just like u ladies scream gender equality I believe u ladies can start ur equality by gathering confidence and damning the fact that rejection is real and walk up to we guyz and tell us how u feel or start a convo at least..rather than decieving urselves making funny gestures and expecting the guy to pick up the meaning cos we men should be "charles xaveir from xmen"..any one can make funny gestures...infact my 10 months old niece smiles and batts her eyelashes doesn't mean she is giving green light or wants a relationship.

The fact still remains that if u ladies keep relaying on ur green light u keep losing guyz that u "like" and we guyz will continue to miSs d green lights often and continue to go for other gals if we feel she is worth it.


-MenGoingThereWay

Edykul: The OP is so right.It takes a well principled man not to hit back at the woman when he finds himself in such situation.

It also takes a well principled woman to know that she isn't suppose to hit a man.

-MenGoingThereWay

I don't know why u guyz should be taking girls seriously we all know they at times end up with the opposite of what they say they "like"..its poSsible u see most of the gals saying fair guyz are turn offs end up loving up with a fair guy and those saying dark guyz aren't there thing still ending up with a dark guy.

Whether a man be fair or dark wouldn't stop him from having women, u need to see whAt these gals go thru to get our attention....the irony is some gals saying ur complexion is a turn off to them aren't as beautiful or as pretty as the babe who ur complexion sweeps of d ground.

I think guyz shouldn't be bothered about how gals feel about there complexion or even bothered about any gals opinion..for them gurls are so indecisive and don't know what they want....Many of them know within them that they rather go for a fair guy who lives in a mansion than squat with a dark guy who lives in a hut and vice versa...No gurl will ever like a guy without conditions so if ur dark or fair just know u still hv other conditions to meet after all u don't complexion doesn't pay the bills.

As for the dick colour iSsue as long as ur both parents are black africans the dick will always be black whether d dude be fair or dark..

And for u gals that are bleaching and still have the guts to speak about how a guyz complexion turn U off..Dia ris God ooh

-MenGoingThereWay

Most beautiful girls think there beauty will get them what they want and with a snap of a finger they can hv any guy..Some just focus only on there looks and forget to develop themselves in other areas...

BUT

The Beautiful girls seem to forget that as men mature in mind and life, men want more than just beauty, men begin to look for virtues in the woman that can complement him and also help him achieve his mandate. That is when men begin to ask reasonable questions like can she play the role of a helper, can I live my home and travel on busineSs and hv rest of mind where ever I am, what are her values.

Beautiful gals may move a man when he is still in his teens or if he just wants to keep d beautiful gal as a trophy girl friend..its common to see men bang beautiful gals and never Settle down with them and during the man's wedding when u see his wife u wonder why he didn't settle down with any of those beautiful gals he was dating.

LeSson, as a woman if ur beauty is ur selling point and not ur brains just have it in mind that men will continue to screw and won't marry U but of cause u may be luck to meet a man who just likes u for ur beauty; Show me a man who just likes a woman for her beauty then I show u a man who has nothing Serious to offer.

-MenGoingThereWay

It is true that they are humans and can fall and they are MEN too..we like boobs, booty and pussy so so so MUCH.

BUT

The annoying thing is that they don't confess, ask for forgivenesS and change there ways rather they still glitter proudly in sin, they still advice and preach against fornication and adultery and still advice people on how marriage should BE.

Even solomon,david and samson confessed and asked for forgiveness.

I want to believe that if christ hadn't come to die or we where still in the days of d old testament most pastors and god of men would have been struck with leprosy or dead on daily basis or every sunday as they try to mount the pulpit and preach in SIN.

-MenGoingThereWay

It is guys like the OP that gives the ladies reason to insult men..

Why will the OP spend time stalking a gal, getting her pic and then opening a thread for her.

How many times do u see gals open thread just for a guy or will that gal ever open a thread for U and admire u / publicize u d way ur doing her..NO she won't...infact she will run so far away from U and rather screw a guy who doesn't neceSsarily give her d attention ur giving her.

Please OP u can do better and remember ur a MAN and act like one

-MenGoingThereWay

Its so clear that the girl likes Amefrica....Gals expreSs there likeneSs in various ways and one way is always seeking to counter d guyz opinion which often leads to arguments and quarrels..She is indirectly trying to reach out to U Amefrica.

From Amefrica's story I now see why most nigerian girls in d diaspora hardly get married or get "old" before finally settling down..I think it boils down to there attitude.

People complain that most naija guyz when they go out are likely to end up with a white gal, why won't it be so when d white gals try to b nice in every way..who would like to end up with a nice person.

Naija guyz in canny please free women and face ur work and make ur parents proud and black men proud. Naija gurls it doesn't pay to be rude...Remember the foot u stepped on might become to aSs u will have to kiss on ur way up.

-MenGoingThereWay

Some silly things girls should stop doing

- Telling a guy ur a Virgin, or u don't want sex till after marriage while u serve it hot to some other guy.

- Being fake from hair to toe eg eyelash, nails, peruvian hair, butt pads, boob pads and bleached skin and still complain that there Are no real guyz.

- Coming up with all formats of lies just to extort money from U..The truth pays.

- Always telling every new guy that they are the third guy they have ever slept with.

- Always tell every new guy " this is my first time of giving B.J"

- Form unnecessarily like they don't shit or fart.

- Wear cloths that don't fit them at all.

- Some can't walk on high heels and still go on to wear it there by make them walk like imebciles.

- Dress up exposing there boobs and round butt and still get angry at u for looking or approaching them.

- Friend zone the right guyz and go out with men that don't give shit about them and still have to guts to cry "men are wicked" "men are lairs"..seriously..Like u had down syndrome when u friendzoned d right guyz and where deaf when d men lied to U.

- Always scream out gender equality BUT can never spend dime on a man..highest ur getting for a gift is boxer,singlet or belt..If u want to be equal with d men then u should be ready and HAPPY to SPEND like the men.

- MenGoingThereWay.

If a man decides to ignore the woman and b silent..They will say the man is abusing them emotionally.

If a man decides to live the house and go cool of..They will say he isn't responsible to handle issues.

If a man decides to keep late nights or may travel just to avoid trouble..They will say he is cheating.

If a man decides to shout back at her and in the heat of d issue call her names...They will say the man abused them and for shouting has a tendency to become violent...Forgetting the fact thAt they Shout too nd call d man names too during arguments at times well men have mouth too and hv d right to shout and call u names just like d way u do too..Women fail to understand that during heated arguments people say "things"

If a man decides to talk gently..That's when they will start shouting and throwing tantrums.

What is It U women want from Us men..we try to make u women happy BUT u pple must always find a fAult.

Its not right for a man to hit a woman BUT on the flip side I think that women being conscious to the fact that a man can hit them have made them respect themselves when dealing with a man..

Some because of the term " any man that beats a woman is a coward or animal" have decided to disrepect and be rude to men after all society makes us understand that any man that hits me (woman) is an animal or will go to jail So I can insult, be rude and talk trash and still get away with it...well some men won't hesitate to slap u back to factory reset...while some men deal with the issue by living girls single or as single mothers.

There is a saying that goes thus- If they don't train a child at home he or she will be trained on d streets..If ur not trained as a woman to respect the men and feel raising ur voice on a man, being rude and insulting would do then don't be prepared to be paid in kind.

-MenGoingThereWay.

Every Man has a potentials in him...Its just that Some men are busy giving priority to the wrong things and giving this said wrong things opportunity to direct there life's sail

No man has any limitation except the one he set for himself.

A man who has potentials is a man who has discovered himself and purpose in God, found his paSsion and has the energy, Hardwork, diScipline and driving force necessary to bring his passion to Life which in turn will make him a success.

A man would reach his full potential when he is capable of playing the role of Leader, protector and provider simultaneously.

its only passion and hardwork that differentiates a profeSsional from a mediocre...There are thousands of engineers, tailors and technicians but its passion And hardwork that mkes some stand out.

The truth is that most girls see money as potential, most girls don't want to be with a guy at d foundational stage, they don't want to build with U(men)..that's d sad truth that some men haven't realize...and this brings me to this..do u need a woman when pursuing ur passion as a man? NO,....do u need love as a man when making ur dreams a reality? NO..What u need during ur building stage as a man is motivation and believe( someone who believes in ur passion and hardwork)...if any lady doesn't believe in ur hrdwork and paSsion then discard her, if any lady tries to b all lovey and mushy during building stage, discard her U don't need love at that time, ask whether naah love u go chop..U need motivation, encouragement and prayers...Love is a beautiful thing but it shouldn't be ur priority as a man...

How will u accomplish ur plans, goals and vision if u constantly let heart breaks from a gal continue to dampen ur spirit, time which u suppose to use to better urself u use it brooding over babe...some men are where they are today becos of the way they get themselves senselessly involved with women plus d heart breaks.


Remember as a man u should be willing to make necessary sacrifices to mAke ur dream a reality and it mAy include breaking up relationsips nd severing friendships.

I will end with some mantras for d men in the house

- Hard work beats talent when talent fails to prepare.

- Those who re driven by passion do better than those who are driven by survival

-Work at ur dream and goals until your idols become ur rivals

For D Men
MenGoingThereWay.