RIP DR Myles Munroe hope u make
heaven...Life Goes On..The lesson is to take time out on reflecting about ur life, make necessary amends, seek to do good and Live everyday like its Ur last.

-MenGoingThereWay

Information and knowledge is key if u need a big booty rather than go doing risky implants and getting dangerous butt injections why can't you just do weighted squats, bouncing on medicine ball and mule leg raises...U will Surely have a well rounded big and firm booty doing the above exercises...Girls who want booty I hope that helps.

-MenGoingThereWay

I have always known that most normal every day girls are more beautiful than our celebs its just that d celebs are seen to be the standard for beauty becos of there celeb status and fame...U should see the white celebs without make up u will puke....I know many naija babes that are more beautiful than kim kardashian and beyonce without make up but the irony is that some normal babes who are more beautiful than the celebs look up to these celebs as more beautiful and wish to b like them.

This is a Lesson to the females, from my observation the more u use make up especially heavy foundations, concealers etc the more ur likely to appear sick, depressed and dejected the day u don't use ur make up.

-MenGoingThereWay.

it is only a woman that is problematic that can come up with such a question... This question just shows d kind of trouble u are physically.

Not to worry u will carry an igbo man's child.



-MenGoingThereWay

Why should I be afraid of wooing a gurl...how many head do these babes have or Are they the ones that pay my bills.

They fart and poo just like me so what is so special about them that will b making a guy scared of them.

Ironically the babes sef want to b wooed so why b Scared off doing something somebody(babes) actually want.

The problem is that most guyz don't know how to hunt they pick d wrong place and time to approach them gals. A lion hunts at d right place and at d right time.

-MenGoingThereWay

Elantracey:
What do you need a virgin for? Instead of you to pray for a good wife you are here screaming virgin

Free the guy virgin gurls need husband too after all there men out there that prefer non virgins like U.


-MenGoingThereWay.

This is an advice lounge for Men's Relationship Challenges...U bring ur wahala, heart ache or whatever to the table and we try our best possible to give u advice from a manly perspective and also telling u the TRUTH the way it is.

Advice and solutions from other guyz are welcomed too as 2 heads are better than one.

The door is open.

This a very good thread...we have to start speaking up against evil...Most employers have taken advantage of the unemployment situation in the country to torture nigerians pshycologically and strip pple of there self esteem.

Aside from salary delay, owing employees and slandering employees let's not forget to include workplace bullying and bad working conditions like the factories operated by chinese, indians, lebaneSe and nigerian managers where they don't consider employee health and safety, employees lose arms, limbs and even die and no one says anything and the company continueS to operate.

Can this chinese, indians and lebanese go to other countries and subject the citizens to poor/dangerous working conditions plus bad pay like the way they do to nigerians.

OP nice one...let the exposure continue.

-MenGoingThereWay.

TheSe are the three types of girls,babeS or women a man will come across in life and poSsibly end up marrying.


Some babes looking at the picture below already no where they fall into.

Most Men wiSh to marry a particular one but feel comfortable dating the other 2.

Some men luckily may end up marrying that particular one BUT Some inevitably will end up marrying the dreaded ONE.

-MenGoingThereWay.

Even after all this commandments women will still end up being side chicks, women will continue to live off and depend on men, women will continue to love up men that treat them like shit and beat them and women will continue to give up the cookie on the alter of roasted fish and sharwama.

-MenGoingThereWay

I can bet that along the line those girls would have sensed that the guy didn't mean well for them BUT as usual gals are known never to come to terms with reality until reality lands them a dirty slap...They see the truth and would turn blind to it and rather believe the lies he tells them even when they know he is lying.

This story goes to prove d fact that d more unserious u are with a gal the more she stupidly likes U.

Karma Isn't catching up with any one because the gals let themselves to be decieved.


some gals on this thread after reading this will still fall victim or are about to fall victim sef and as usual blame d guy.

D guy is not an a s s hole or is he to be blamed he was just fortunate to find gals who wanted to be deceived and he deceived them good.

-MenGoingThereWay

I wonder if they force these girls to date broke guyz...Gurls if u don't like broke guyz don't date them rather than date them and state complaining.

If its rich dudes u gurls like go for the rich dudes and if the rich dudes aren't stable u can opt to be there side chicks or better still become a ruinz gal with that u will meet enough rich dudes that can take care of u and make ur frdS proud of U and them.

Life is that eaSy

-MenGoingThereWay.

BoboYekini: I did a bit of Capoiera back in school. Looking to pick up Muay Thai now, but I don't know if I can get decent instructors in Lagos. I hear there's a muay Thai club at the National stadium

Boboyekini I also train capoeira to where did u train ur capoeira..capoeira is a good art form.

Yes there is a muay thai at stadium go check it out

Axe camara

-MenGoingThereWay

jeflexy: oga weldone oh.. He might be slow, bt his 1 blow might be x100 of urs.. #use ur head

Mind you it is not everyone that knows how to punch or can land a knock out punch...Yes I will use my head when fighting him.

just because u feel u can't take such a guy out doesn't mean there are no guyz around that can take him out.

I have a frd who beat the shit out of one of the bouncers at silver bird...My frd a trained boxer/ kick boxer worked on this bouncer with all his muscles like a child.

Go study a combat system and ur mentality will change.

-MenGoingThereWay

Guyz like the one OP posted are usually the easiest to beat for they are slow, mechanical and lack mobility.

If he tries my wife I will beat him his not the first of his kind that I have beaten.

That's why I encourage men to pick up a combat form either boxing, krav maga, muaythai or mixed martial arts

-MenGoingThereWay

majekdom2: bro , if you are helping the less privileged , you wont be on here calling Nigeria useless . thats the truth.... its just like you giving and then you are nagging about the giving you doing. you don't need to keep complaining about a situation you feel you dont have any power to change cause it makes no difference.you wanna go experience what it is to be living , you complain about the situation in Nigeria but does it change anything. you dont get it that the government is used to the same noise .... lets learn to do somethings differently

My brother if you know or understand the situation of an average Nigerian u won't b here trying to paint words.

And speaking about changing situation well most Nigerians are already trying in changing the situation for example we buy generator to change our power situation, we make boreholes for our water situation, we pay OPC for our security situation, we contribute money in neighbourhoods to solve our bad road and no street light situation

And speaking of doing things differently our youths are going abroad to study, they do so well in school that there host country values there minds and decides to keep them...On d news our Naija bro did so differently that they made him VC in the Usa.

The question is does the Nigerian environment support the common youths who dare to do things differently...NOPE? WHY? because of useless godfatherism most bright youths have no sponsors and there voice can't b heard and to make matters worse they are in a country that don't give a damn about the youths with example from d last immigration exam.

Most successful pple u mentioned on this thread are from well to do homes where there parents must have left them a fortune or have necessary connections...Hope u know banks even find it difficult to give loans to youths hence if u don't hv a source for start up capital OYO to U.

Dude don't let ur good life make u blind to the fact that Nigerians are suffering and if migrating can ease the personS situation then u don't have to discourage him or her.

Captin Nigeria the first step to changing Nigeria or doing things differently is to acknowledge the fact that Naija get as e be and our pple dey suffer.

-MenGoingThereWay

majekdom2: is Nigeria the only useless country ..... Ok , nigeria is wack ... what are you doing to help the other countries trying to develop. if billgates or the prince thinks the way you are thinking now , I don't think clinton's health initiative would be here in africa or the prince would be conserving nature in africa.if the white man thinks like you are thinking am sure you will not be there. if UK or wherever you are is offering you something good ... what are you doing to better the lives of the less privilege. there are so many foreign nationals abroad who help nigerians living in nigeria but you will never hear them say or complain about the situation. I see on BET how you can donate to better the lives of children in africa by donating .... how many NIGERIANS abroad donate. after all , that money is managed by UN . We need to check ourselves really. Nigeria is bad , so what do you want the citizens living there to do .... keep running.... how about those that have got no means to run . is it not the running that led to stiffer work laws in the UK.now its canada and america . soon there will be stiffers laws there too .... can't you see its just going to be moving round a circle. am starting to think you are one of those that come to nigeria once a while to make the lower class feel like lesser beings.

People are affecting the life of the leSs privilege in there own various way and just because pple don't make noise about there contributions doesn't mean they are not doing it after all ur help to the leSs privileged shouldn't b something to brag about.

We are talking about pple who want a better life, people who want to live not just survive like the way Nigeria has cursed its citizens too.

Mr if truely u care about the less privilege, then u will come to d fact that naija is Useless because it takes one with a heart for d less privilege to see that naija is screwed and that Nigerians at home directly or indirectly are less privileged..including urself for ur child can be kidnapped or u can b assaulted by foreigners and just because ur a common man ur cased will b closed u don't get justice and ur child not found.

Mr man I think u should lift both hands up to God and thank him for ur life or better still stop talking until u get to understand the pain of that jobleSs youth, that man in pains in d hospital been neglected as a result of medical strike or cos he doesn't have money to give nurses so he can be catered for, the man who lost a leg due to bad roads, employees who get abused by foreign bosses, hungry old men and women because of pension embezzlement and many more.

ITs IN UR FACE.

-MenGoingThereWay

What is sexy about skinny women?

-MenGoingThereWay

When the Nigeria Government decides to take education seriously then the plight of teachers would change for good.

In developed countries or countries that want to develop take education and teachers seriously.

I think one of the major set back in Nigeria development is the attitude of our leaders towardS education and teachers.

-MenGoingThereWay.

Let's face the truth staring us in the face...,,Nigeria is messed up...if we can all come to terms with the fact that Nigeria is messed up that will be d first step to correcting the Nigerian state rather than try to paint the truth.

Tell me if there is any act of terrorism that is worse than negligence of government towards its people. The negligence of the Nigerian govt has claimed more lives and ruined destined compared to boko haram...In Nigeria people die of illness that wouldn't hv killed them if we had a functioning health system.

People talking here of how one can make it in naija and how its only lazy pple that can't mke it here are all talking because u can afford 3 square meals, u hv ur generator, live in a very conducive environment and went to good school and have got jobs....if u want to be sincere about the country and to yourself then u will view Naija thru the eyes of the millions wallowing in abject poverty.

People say we shouldn't compare Nigeria to UsA or Uk but I say why can't we after all can us or uk boast of the resources naijA has? If we had reasonable leaders max it may take to make naija a country to reckon with is say 15yr.

Its just so sad for the youths of Naija...cos of the pshycological torment frm naija most hve seen it As normal to earn 25k with a bsc. so why won't youths seek to travel out where they get value for there certificate in terms of pay and employment.

Naija doesn't know what is about to hit it..with the influx of Nigerian youths into foreign school and the country retaining the best of Nigerian minds because they value what naija doesn't value (intellectual resources) Naija will soon start suffering from human capital which is going to be very terrible because the world is gradually moving from ur natural resources to Intellectual resources.

You wonder how Nigerians will reason well when there is no basic amenities...if there are basic amenities pple will be in d right frame of mind to fight for any cause and it seems the leaders are purposely making life in naija so hard tha citizens will hv no chioce but to focus
On survive.

I thAnk God for his favour in my life but that doesn't make me blind to the fact that my Nigerian brothers and sisters are suffering and if anyone has d means to go abroad pls do GO.

-MenGoingThereWay.

jossi994: em.. Bros, i gotta ask a few questions.

1. Do you live in naija or saudi arabia?

2. Are you a graduate?

3. If the answer to number 2 is yes, do you have a job?

4. If the answer to number 3 is yes, what was your first pay packet like as a fresh graduate?

Truthful answers please. No bashing or else Amadioha eye go enter the matter. Peace

Yes am a Graduate and my first pay wasn't up to 250k but was more than a 100k and just because mine wasn't up to 250k that doesn't mean there no fresh graduates that got jobs worth 250k and even above 250k infact 2 of my frds did. one went to the marine time academy oron and scored a job with LNG another got a job as a fresh graduate with Bournbon and I even know of a frd whose younger brother presently got a job without experience and has been flown to paris for further training.

People are getting this big good jobs even as fresh graduates...There is nothing wrong in wanting such jobs and working towards getting them and just because one isn't fortunate to get them doesn't mean some graduates are not getting them.

In nigeria people use connections, I even hear pple pay for jobs sef BUT I believe there are pple out there still getting this good paying jobs without connections or pay.

The key is information, network, tell people, keep applying, believe, remain positive and pray.

I rest my case.

-MenGoingThereWay

tomiobj: . Which intellectual labour. That is why our country is going down. Its only in nigeria they will pay someone without experience 250k

May be u don't appreciate the labour u put in before u acquired ur degree hence ur statement "which intellectual labour"...Well out side Nigeria ur 30k, 50k, 60k jobs are internship pay....Outside the country they pay graduates without experience money they can use to cope with the living standards of d society like a female frd of mine who is fresh graduate in dubai recently got a good paying job not 60k, 30k kind without experience BUT in Nigeria Lagos, Abuja and Portharcourt precisely those peanut jobs will just make u survive and not live...some companies pay graduates without experience 250k, 300k and even 800k depending on d coy and d course of study...It is possible to get such paying jobs without experience people are getting it on a daily basis...

I just feel bad for this country and what it is making the graduates go through...the other time on TV some one was lamenting that Nigeria is the only place he knows in the world where it is okay for graduates to earn 30k.

If u find urself earning 30k now please continue to struggle to earn better...u went to school, starved urself off sleep, read, went on field trips, did internship and paid school fees..U deserve better than 30k...IT IS NOT NORMAL AS A GRADUATE TO EARN 30k, 25k etc. Don't make society wreck ur mind into believing its normal.

If at all ur earning amount like 30k, 25k or lower please make sure its something u have passion for and that u can build upon with experience acquired.

Finally, Its possible to get 250k job as a fresh graduate remain positive, keep applying, network, don't be to proud to beg or ask questions, add more value to urself, open ur mouth and tell pple about ur job search and PRAY...God answers prayers.

-MenGoingThereWay

The situation of Nigeria has so tormented the psychology of the graduates that they feel a job of 250k isn't meant for them...I wonder why its so okay in Nigeria for graduates to earn peanuts after all the years of intellectual labour at school.

The truth is that every day people are getting this jobs of 250k, 500k and above..Those pple don't have 2 heads...If u want the 250k job u can get it, all u have to do is work towards it and pray...U will get.

People what d OP is trying to say is that what's wrong is wrong or Sin is Sin regardless of who committed it, the religion involved, how it was committed, where it waS committed and the types of sin/wrong doing being committed.

Rather than turn blind eyes to wrong doingS just because of our religion, mentors or believes let uS learn to condemn wrong regardless of who is involved and religion

-MenGoingThereWay

rokiatu: I mean why is it so difficult to have a decent normal conversation without it been interpreted? You start talking with them and been all nice and they start flirting a if you are interested... hitting on them. I mean it has just become difficult to have a decent convo without them talking it differently.

Why u giving urself wahala like this, it easy nah. Just simply stop talking to men, free men, infact don't even answer any man that calls U.

Like u stated that u started talking to them...its not like they begged u to talk to them u went over to talk and if at all it were d guyz who started to talk to u first..he didnt force u to reply him.

Funny enough there is the likelihood that u where even enjoying the flirtatious talks and yet u come here to complain.

If u gals can't handle with what comes with relating with men then free men rather than talk to us or we talk to u and ur reply and still complain.

-MenGoingThereWay.

severee:

you are looking at the bad things what about the good things
-variety of yansh just for mark
-cash stash from extorting the f*ck outta students in the name of selling "handout"
-3 month holidays every year (strike)
- no stress of thinking of changing lecturing techniques just carry your 1960 something student note to class and use it to teach
-license to fail any student you like when you feel like and not get tackled for it






always look on the bright side of life

B U L L S H I T

-MenGoingThereWay

I think the galS benefit more becauSe they are emotional and like care and security..when a man wrapS his hand around a woman what registers in her mind is : I am loved, cared for and protected..Hugging affects the whole being of a woman physical, pshycologically and Spiritually even relieveS women of streSs when hugged by man.

While for we men only thing hugging does most timeS iS to tickle our sexual urges and fantasies and that's it nothing more...itS not like the hugging lingers in our minds like girls that will go ahead to describe the hug like this " I was enveloped by hiS strong arms and his manly Smell oohhh"

I didn't know d extent to which women benefited from hugs until I hugged one babe in a gathering and after like Some hours She came back with a Smile, jokingly telling me She waS Hot I knew she meant what she said but u know d way galS paSs meSsages jokingly So it doesn't hurt much if they are rejected...The gal had been on the effect of d hug.

-MenGoingThereWay

doctorgold: Nigerians making waves. Congrats Prof. However, we need people like you back home to help this ailing country of ours.

Come back to Nigeria where they will owe him salary and won't value his intellectual resources. He should Stay back in the place where they value him at least he can be making Nigeria proud from there.

Foreign Countries will continue to brain drain Nigeria off its intellectuals because they support and provide a conducive environment. When they See u have something to offer they value U and abSorb u into there system.

-MenGoingThereOwnWay

Any woman who Says She tired of attention iS lying.

Hmmm..women that are self centered beings who believe the world Should revolve around them..with women is all about her, herself and her world..They believe iS compulsory u give them that attention, sacrifices for them and even possible diSpleaSe urSelf to pleaSe them.

That's why u See them Snapping picS all the time because they believe life iS alls about them and believe something is wrong when they don't get attention.

There luv for attention starts from when there even small example...I was at a frds place when hiS little daughter all dreSsed in her princess gown waS pacing about around me, at a point she made some sound expecting me to notice her gown and I just purposely ignored her watching to see what she do next and then she came up and tapped me made the normal feminine pose and Said " Uncle my dreSS iS fine ooh" and I just laughed and Said yes ooh ur dress is fine ooh and ur fine like a princess...u should see d Smile on her face when she finally got my attention and compliment.

-MenGoingThereWay

I see Men open up threads lamenting about how bad and heart broken they feel because they got dumped, cheated on by there gf, there gf decides to follow some other dude perceived to be "better" or what ever the case may be.

Ironically these girl men open a thread for or cry for are not really worth all the pain and tears men make themselves go through

Well Men sit tight and see reasons why u should be happy when ur gf decides to take a walk.

1. A parasite has just left ur life..its a known fact that some gurls if not most operate a parasitic relationship...they just keep taking from d guy without reciprocation highest they do is boxers and singlet.

2. You can now save up ur hard earned money, by that land and invest...Most guyz would have been millionaires if not cause of the gf or girls they keep around. Men in the process of wanting to please a gal and keep her find themselves spending unnecessarily ..some gurls even have landed properties on there head for example peruvian and brazilian hair worth 250,000 some buy like 2 rolls making it 500k hmmm..there are places where plots of land is 500k and also certification that can better ur career for that amount.

3. You have time to face ur life and career squarely u can gladly accept transfers and travels without having to consider what distance can do to ur relationship...No one tells u things like "u prefer ur job to me" "must u go" hence hindering ur climb in ur career ladder and opportunities to make more money and business connections.

4. You can have as much sex with various ladies now that ur gf is gone....I mean these single ladies around needs to get laid...u have all the time now to explore ur sexual fantasies...Get hold of that hot gal that was giving u green light but u couldn't do anything cos of ur "relationship" u can even bang ur ex's frds that u lusted after secretly; if u want to b that reckless.

5. You get to meet different pple without having to explain anything to anyone.

6. You get to take care of yourself more and look better... U can get good clothes, shoes, gadgets without having to think about the money u have to give ur gf.

7. You get closer to your family, loved ones and those that really matter because all those times u spend calling ur gf..U now use it to call family and buddies.

8. You have room to think, improve on yourself and make plans for ur future without having to compromise because of that gf.

9.You become emotionally stronger and mature in the process and no drama or act from any girl shakes u again...after all u have been there and done that.

10. You have an opportunity to meet the right person no more hindrances from that gf of urs.

11. God will always be happy with you because U don't give path of ur tithe money to ur gf again, and the money u use to by recharge card vouchers for that ur gf who will probably flash u with it u are now smart enough to put it in d offering box and give to the less privilege.

I hope Men who read this won't have to open threads on girl frd walking away rather they did be happy she did and look to the brighter side of Life.

-MenGoingThereWay.

Guyz are very sexual but what makes guys seem to hold on till they get married is because guyz are not frequently approached like gurls and a guy if he needs to get sex he would have to go woo a girl, take her on a date and all and isn't even sure of getting the sex at end or else he patronizes a prostitute.

BUT girls on the other hand they are pressurized and are frequently approached and as a result of there indecisive and blame nature they would have had sex with like 10 guyz before marriage.

-MenGoingThereWay