₦airaland Forum

olexy4real:
Lwkmd4h. One of the dumbest things I ever heard. Dis guy must be super dumb..... Lolzzzz

I dislike pple here cos it's very easy to insult others.
If you don't buy it, u can civilly express your opposing views.

rman:
Nairaland romance section is full of hypocrites.

I have noticed everyone just seems to be perfect. They don't cheat and seems to have partners that do not cheat.

Cheating should not be condoned and it is how you handle the situation when it pops up in your relationship that will define how successful your relationship will be.

Reality is men and women cheat, A LOT! Unless, people on nairaland are not a representation of what is out there.

I also want to assume many of the dump him, he is the devil are either not in a serious relationship or they are actually dating the perfect cheat.

My brother, that's what I said and some wants to crucify me.

Etruth:
is that true?

Why change the original comment?

Etruth:
PLS EXPLAIN

Some use it to masturbate. Don't be surprised, it's real.

seseannie:
Tnx for your responses bt I was nt snopping on him. I came back n he complained of hunger I went inside the kitchen to cook n I saw the condoms. I knw some men cheat bt at least they respect their partners throwing away the condoms would have been a better idea

My dear, don't listen to all those telling you to walk away. Confront him in a matured way, see how he reacts to it. Find out if he has respect for a woman, not just you. If he does, you are secured. But if he doesn't, you can consider the next option.

cococandy:
who's exchanging words with you?

Those are simply questions you should be able to answer yes to if you really believe men have no self control.
But then you can't because it will just show you how undeniably you're portraying manhood in a bad light if that's what you think all men are like.

Go and read my first post again . I never supported cheating though alot do it but she can handle with precision. Walking away is not the best option. It takes courage for men not to cheat. If you want,you believe, if u don't want, you leave it. I'm telling you the truth .

ireneidiva:
Please do not follow this advise. There are a lot of wonderful men that are not polygamous out there.

Because you have not caught them.

It takes courage dear. Not all men cheat but a handful of men do. Many go as any length to hide it. They provide everything for the family. They will shower love like tomorrow no dey but still, the cheat. Forget all these online pretense. Many do.

Sunshinelady:
useless comment. Wonder where d 'likes' are coming from & why. So in dis era, in dis day & age of so much exposure, not to talk of so many deadly veneral diseases u want women to open their arms to promiscuous men, u are actually encouraging men to keep being dogs, dat there's nothing wrong wit it. Wat a useless post! How will u feel if its ur woman sleeping around? Nonsense

Nigerians, quick to insult others.

Online feminist will support her to walk out. But real women will advice her to handle it in a matured way.
Your insult huh!!!

speed99:
Hahaha. nice one man. You made me remember so many Tinz.

Well, @ OP. You can use the situation to your advantage. Dispose the package from the kitchen. Bring up a lil talk on something like ...wrapped in a nylon. Though you left it sha. watch his reaction, don't discuss it further. if you can wait a couple of weeks, wake him up gently at night, tell him of the content. you have him by his balls. and don't push the discussion further.

Matured lady will handle it carefully but NL online feminist will advice her to walk out.

bolafez:
u must b a unaabite and u must have attended Dr. Adebambo class ...ABG501
op I'm right

That's d secret of marriage.

cococandy:
What does being a man mean?
Inability to control oneself?
Sleeping around like a dog?

When a man insults himself, He shouldn't be offended when others insult him by repeating his own words back to him.

You're talking as yourself. Not talking as a man Since all men don't share the same perspective as you.

I don't exchange words here.

Peace!!!

Krest3d:
You, the author of this and everyone else liking this ill-adviced post should all bury your heads in shame. Lets imagine the OP was your blood sister, tell me, would you still give this same advice to her?

Please be honest and kindly answer the question I just asked. Mind you, i'm a fellow man like you. Thank you as I await your reply.

When women stop sniffing around, then, their hypertension will go.
If she is my sister, I will tell her the exact thing.

cococandy:

Messed up in the head?.

Talking as a man. Forget all these pretentious comments.

pwerrymansion:
this is the most stupid post I've come across in decades! My dear run as fast as your leg can carry you.

That you don't buy into my comment doesn't warrant you to address my comment as silly.


It's my opinion. No apologies.

You should have asked her for the reason. There must be a reason but you are yet to figure it out.



That reason could spur you.



Figure it out bro.

Don't waste time.

Condom might be used for so many reasons. So you don't just conclude.

Moreover, he's a man. Though I don't support cheating but sincerely I think a man is polygamous in nature, but what matter is that the man in question respects you as a woman.



For your own good, stop sniffing around. If you leave him, how sure are you that your next man wouldn't be worst.

You can confront him in a matured way but have it at the back of your mind that many men cheat even though their wife might be more beautiful than their cheating partner.

Though it takes courage for a man to remain faithful.

Are these private secondary school or university?


Funny names and promoters.
Michael and Cecilia ibru university, so funny.


Though I'm a product of foremost private university but I think FG shouldn't abuse this by giving all tom n Jerry this prestigious license.

It will be abused soon that we can't even Remember names of private universities in Nigeria.

Greed!


She must have been promised something.
Before you are dumped, your greedy consent must be there.

She wants to be like her Madame.

DrLee:

omo ibo,dem don spoil market for you abi.

just kidding o

Onye Yoruba, it's not my business oo.
Just thinking out loud why his points and his specifications should be regarded as original.

It doesn't confirm to your specifications, doesn't mean it's fake.

Hh

Stale to me .

No offense plz

Sunymoore:
Bro.. We need those looters to win elections.. If not they will rig us out,! But after wining, they can bring back the loot and invest in the economy. And it will not be business as usual!

I wish and pray that they will allow him to work against their interest.

chibas:
never mind,buhari was a general, he surely knows how to deal with them.

My fear is his age , so that the same people will not manipulate him or use his age to return us to Egypt.
I wish Nigerians saw this change in 2011, when he was very strong.


Anyway, my own is that we need to tell any political party that if u don't do well, we will remove you after 4 years.

I can commit murder if this man is in my front. Stu.pid old fool.



I lost my respect for gej for associating with this slowpoke n Im.becile.

God will punish him forever.

May God rule this OP and the Mod (that got this at FB ) life the way the way this man rules Abia. AMEN.

Sincerely, I'm losing my love for GMB cos of the way those that destroyed Nigeria are hijacking the change that the ordinary masses are clamoring for.

I wish they will be in their respective enclaves so that the masses will take Gmb into aso rock with out their support.

Look at obj that has the opportunity of building Nigeria like mandela did in SA but he wanted a third term, he imposed GEj on us, now , he has seen the handwriting on the wall, he has deserted his godson.

Anyway, I pray gmb send all of them on political retirement then build a new Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria.

Abuba eke. I have not heard about it. But be careful, u don't know either.

Circumcision is called ibi ugwu in igbo language, female genital mutilation .... hmmmm... I don't know that one oooo. I have not seen it or heard it from mom or married siblings or married friends.

chinae:
Scam! na GNLD pple

Lol

I don't know your location. But if you can check your data of schools still using chalk board, if it's still high , then I suggest you go and learn how to produce chalk. It's a good business for starters, from there you can proceed to manufacture nonuseable cups or any other smaller production unit. It fetches money.

Very interesting.

@op, it's like I know you.
My colleague was telling me this thing yesterday, that a girl she wants to date n marry eventually told him that she left with his brother. The guy was asking me what I think. I told him if he can afford to look aside when his brother visit his home if he marry d gal, then , he should go on but if he can't afford to leave his wife in d company of his brother, then , he should stay back.
I still give you this advice.