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Poleski:
I know a few nurses today who are owed many arrears in salary and are poor. If you really trust your uncle, then take his offer, but make sure he'll not give you an ordinary visa.

Make sure it's a permanent residence visa (green card). This will help you find your way comfortably (and not be deported) if he fails to fulfill his promise.

You guys are funny with your statements . How do you expect the uncle to "give" her the Green card? You can't file for just anyone you want, most especially if the person is not a direct relative. Green cards are not handed to you just on the basis of "he's my uncle, she's my niece" situations.

Besides, let's say he's even able to, green cards processing takes time, especially since she's an adult. It's not a "you apply today and get it tomorrow" thing. It sometimes takes up to five years. The only way she can get a quick green card(timeline up to 2 years) is if she gets an employer who will file for her, or if she can prove that she has extraordinary ability in certain fields.

timio:
I doubt if your uncle is truly a doctor in USA he claims to be and even owns a clinic/hospital there cos at that status he's definitely rich and getting a nanny shouldn't be a problem. I'll truly advice you do background checks on him very well before you jump on the offer while you must have started your nursing school.

Doctors make mad bank in the US yes. It's one of the professions that earn the top dollars. He can afford a nanny easily. Why he would need OP to come babysit for two years is really suspicious.

Blissbath:
I have not seen him before

That's one of the reasons to be very careful. Pls check your PM.

This is a very dicey situation and many points have to be answered before you make your final decision.

1. Your uncle wants you to come to take care of his children. In America today, people really need childcare especially in this COVID era. That's his primary concern, not your education. How sure are you that he will sponsor your education as he said when the time comes? Childcare here in the US is EXPENSIVE.

2. How are you going to come? Like someone said, are you coming as a visitor? I hear getting visas other than student is a daunting task now and that interviews are backed up until 2024,, and there's even no assurance you will be granted a visa. Are you willing to hold your education on the premise that he will "sponsor" your education after two years?

If I were you, rather than wait, I will enroll in Nursing school. Getting into the US these days is not as easy as it was before. Don't build your future based on mere promises. Get your qualifications first, then write your NCLEX exams. You will have a better chance that way than to come empty handed. Nurses are in high demand here in the US. I know that cos my mum is an RN here and i know how much she makes. Your uncle's priority is his children, not you.

In the case of 22 year old Jeffrey Atkins Jr, Ja rule you...ARE THE FATHER!!!!

**cue bellowing from studio crowd as they go wild**

This Shatta guy has always felt inferior since Ghanaian "artists" are not recognized like Nigerians. Mumu.

Anyways he should kindly share his kaikai and weed seller's contacts...the guy surely has the good stuff.

Sadly, a day is coming when citizens are going to start fighting back against these hoodlums in uniform.

3million naira Benz? What old model is the car sef?

The guy still dey learn work.

Explorers:
1. Crying too long after being beaten.

2. Not crying after being beaten.

3. Crying without being beaten.

4. Standing where elders are sitting.

5. Sitting while elders are standing.

6. Walking around aimlessly where elders are seated.

7. Eating food prepared for visitors.

8. Refusing to eat.

9. Coming back home after sunset.

10. Eating at the neighbour's home.

11. Generally being too moody.

12. Generally being too excited.

13. Losing a fight with older age mate.

14. Winning a fight with your age mate.

15. Eating too slowly.

16. Eating too quickly.

17. Eating too much.

18. Not finishing your food.

19. Finishing your food and Scraping your plate.

20. Eating and talking.

21. Eating your meat before finishing the food.

22. Dropping oil on your clothes while eating.

23. When you eat your launch before 2:00pm.

24. Sleeping while the elders in the house have already woken up.

25. Dragging your feet while walking.

26. Stumbling and falling while walking

27. Looking at the visitors while they are eating.

28. Looking at an elder eye ball to eye ball.

29. When an elder is talking to you and you blink.

30. When an elder is talking to you and you stare and not blink.

31. When you look at an elder through the corner of your eye.

32. When your mates are playing street football and you join them.

33. When your mates are playing and you don’t join them.

34. When you don't wash your dish after eating.

35. When you wash your dish improperly.

36. When you almost break your dish.

37. When you break your dish.

38. When you bite your nails.

39. When you don't bathe.

40. When you bathe too quickly.

41. When you take too long to bathe.

42. When you take too much toothpaste on your brush.

43. When you’re beaten in school for misbehaving.

44. When a car almost knocks you down.

45. When a car knocks you down and you don’t die.

46. For not answering when spoken to.

47. For answering back when spoken to.

48. Beaten for going to Church or Mosque late.

49. Beaten for borrowing shoe/wears from friends.

50. Greeting/prostrating with only one hand or hands not touching the ground. Ladies going on one knee.

51. Misplacing your pencil, biro, erazer, sharpener or mathematical set in school.

52. Misplacing your Songs of Praise(SOP).

53. Misplacing your Brighter Grammer.

54. Writing on your textbook or coming home with torn textbooks or notebooks.

55. Coming back home with dirty, rough uniform/socks and damaged sandals.

56. Sending you on errands and you stay too long.

57. Sending you on errands and you forgot what you're asked to buy, or you bought something different, or you broke the egg or poured the grind pepper away on the way.

58. Going to neighbors room&parlour to watch TV.

59. Going to a girl's house to ask after her from her Dad/mum sitting outside in the evening. You've killed her.

60. Sleeping in the Living room.

Guy let's meet for an elders meeting in the village square.