Leon pls close ur mouth I beg of you


you that will tomorrow selectively hand pick a fair lady cos of her skin colour as gf and wife....

Leave all those Instagram and twitter writeups. people most at times do opposite of what they write

My guess was right...I knew she will win...she got the aura of a beauty queen...Congrat dear...keep shining

SkinnyNigga:
ok girlfriend

Uwc friend

cyborg123:

May your healing grow and become permanent. What you have achieved so far is impressive.
I pray you continue to have people around you that can help you heal and may you be shielded from the abundance of morons that exists all around especially on several online fora.

May God help us all.

Thanks I am positive...It is just a way to reach out to others going through depression, low self esteem or psychological trauma

SkinnyNigga:
you are foolish.. what isn't fair? Gayism should be 28 years sef

Thank you @you are foolish cos I know I am not...
you can actually pass ur messages without being rude...That is called being Courteous

Homosexuality does not directly and psychological affect others, it is a personal choice...I am totally against it...Provided u don't force it on some one if you do It is called rape...but rape is against someone psychologically and other wise....

Fadedvoiced:


I still don't understand why my response to you was deleted by the mods because I can remember it wasn't insultive .

Maybe in your reply to that response ,you were insultive and uncivilized that's why your own response and mine got deleted.

I don't really know...I have only responded once and it is to this you already quoted

Fadedvoiced:



There'll be penalty for it the day there'll be penalty for women who falsely accuse men of rape

And I don't think any one will have problem with that....Sex is a mutual agreement. That you gave a girl everything doesn't make her a sex machine....If she says no, respect the no....

izzou:


I don't get it Why do women cry when they are being proposed to?

Weren't they expecting it?

Cos it is so emotional... and seconded by cry of joy

PTSD....is so real...

Depression is also real...
Those saying why are u saying it now....
and you know the funny part u keep done day and night...while the perpetuator is living happily....

Some never get to say theirs and get to the grace cos of this inner guilt within u....
it saps you of ur self worth and makes you feel less of ur self...

I had an experience and since after then I have been traumatized that I developed memory loss...I saw it as an altar ego to forget all although it does work just a little....
so if u haven't fit into someone's shoes pls do not judge...

Boys are raped daily, girls are rapes daily but no one to listen cos everyone feels that it is their fault..That they should have speak up...How easy is it to speak ur guilts and insecurities or ur secrets to others...

I wonder why rape had never had a penalty sentence attached to it but homosexuality has 14 yrs to it...Is it fair?


So if you are going through any form of depression...I don't care what caused it...I just want you to know it is possible to conquer it....Books didn't help, forgiveness on my own accord didn't help, finding other things that gives me joy didn't help...You know what helped me...Knowing God better, loving him better and submitting to him...He took away the pain gave me inner peace and joy, removed bitterness from my life and I forgave. Friends this is the 1 week and a day I have accepted him and within this week I had no depression...It is a continual renewal process...it is possible... I am positive I will count years to this in Christ Jesus

No 7 has the aura of a queen/princess
She was the only one that struck that pose gracefully like a beauty queen

More reasons to keep your virginity till you meet ur husband/wife...Keep ur self for the Lord. be not deceived by the tongue/action of men/women...

I am.just imagining all the sweet things and promises he made to her before he finally took it away....

Nne move on shaa it is not the end of life but rather determine to make amend by trying so hard to keep ur self for the Lord and wait for the right man...God looks at ur changed and sincere heart and not ur hymen...Go and ask Mary Magdalene, she has something to say about it

are u sure it wasn't planned? why are they putting on the same colour of cloth @ ash

SoNature:


Some of you learn the hard way
Besides, if you had some good eyes, you'd see a clause in brackets
That said, I won't dignify you with a response again

u don't have to....

and u think someone will just wakes up and bam! I want to divorce this man...which divorce had not been because of a life threatening issue?

and you even made it one sided "that divorce should not be an option for a woman"
when has marriage been a one-man affair?

SoNature:
Women always feel used and dumped whenever a relationship ends

While the reasonable ones understand that a man has an upper hand in relationships, they respect their husbands, thus they live happily ever after

But for slay queens like Tonto, they can never respect the man in their lives because they feel without them, the man can do nothing.

Now, when the man sees that his wife doesn't respect him, he will quietly seek divorce. In the end, the woman will realize she has made a terrible mistake as she has become a baby mama (fairly used).

On the other hand, the man will keep living his life like a sharp bad guy with many ladies flocking around him.

The essence of my message is, ladies, regardless of what your man does to you (as long as it's not life-threatening), divorce should never be an option.

Divorce should never be an option even in domestic violence, even when the husband is a gay, even when the husband told u so many lies for u to discover the moment you marry him, even when he abuses and sleeps with ur daughters, even in infidelity. I just nod my head in shame for you....

biko sorry to ask was this not the lady that had one of the biggest elaborate wedding last year that the husband even gifted a car...The wedding even won the most expensive wedding that time

Pls I need a reply...Thanks

biko sorry to ask was this not the lady that had one of the biggest elaborate wedding last year that the husband even gifted a car...The wedding even won the most expensive wedding that te

Pls I need a reply...Thanks

I think she was the lady that acted the daughter in my wife and I

No need for all this essay. From my OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE the answer is simple:

1. Apply Jamaican Black Castor Oil to your edges everyday

2. Cover your hair/edges with a silky scarf or bonnet each time you go to bed.

See tremendous results within 3 weeks and thank me later!

My results after 4 weeks below:

I have heard of this Jamaican black Castor oil how do I get it in South East Nigeria?

[quote author=Rubbiish post=72596381]Why is this supposed married woman always on shorts?
Can't she dress decently for once? She is Always dressing like someone going for Olympic sports or night club...Nonsense!
[/quote

I guess because she knows she has beautiful laps. I thought of this same question even when she and the husband did their 18th wedding anniversary.

Liliyann:
The way some guys handle boobs is one of the reasons I can never let a guy touch my boobs!!!
See as Khloe boobs don flat like slippers!!

and who told you that touching boobs that makes your breast flat?

Why are we making a big deal out of nothing?
we all talking were once someone's Ex at some point... because it involved a celeb shd not give us room to run our mouth...

Why are we making a big deal out of nothing?
we all talking were once someone's Ex at some point... because it involved a celeb shd not give us room to run our mouth...

Pilate2016:
Nice one Doc.

Thanks Dear

generationz:



please stop telling anybody everything about yourself. its dangerous.



aren't we told to marry our Best friends?



I see this as a result of your immaturity (no offense dear) you are still in the university , by the time you graduate and date more guys you'll realize that not all that glitters is gold.


There's a difference between an Hollywood movie script/ mills and boons novels and reality

this. my dear is reality


when a person becomes too available and ' too there' for us they become undesirable

The guy made a mistake in the art of seduction 101


Right now because of the love he has shown you and his over availability there's nothing left to the imagination again instead of seeing him as Romeo you see him as the elder brother you never had.

if a man can know all your trash and nonsense, good and bad , and after four years still say girl I love you then that man truly loves you.



tell me dear


his he ugly, perhaps you are attracted to handsome guys

his he short? perhaps you are attracted to tall guys

his he poor ? perhaps you are attracted to rich guys

his he soft ? perhaps you are attracted to bad guys.


during those four years has he had a girlfriend? because I know we ladies love guys who many
girls want for one reason or the other. its not our fault but a thing of genetics and desirability.




I know your dilemma . He doesn't fulfil your desire in a man.

Seriously how couldn't you see a guy likes you withing four years of knowing him. if its me within a few days of knowing someone I'll know if he likes me,is a players or doesn't even like me.


its in the words, the extra care, the eyes ,the body language etc.



please don't date anyone out of pity


with the time you are taking to think about it , change your thinking pattern . Ask for more time off if its possible. Tell him the time off is for you to make a sound judgement devoid of emotions.



maybe it will even be all through his exams and his final year project so he can focus on that.


not seeing him can make you desire him more.

now reconfigure your brain. start seeing him as a man you can spend your life with . think of how good he has been to you and compare him to your exes in each aspect. see him as desirable too.


If you both were lost on an island and he was the only man there for you to procreate with will you do it? your first reaction to this (in your brain) will tell if there's even a slim chance of being with him.

love isn't a mushy feeling o


love is in action. The mushy feeling you have for someone you just met is infatuations.

eg we love our parents a lot and appreciate them. that doesn't mean every time we see them we have butterflies in our bellies.


so to help yourself you must reconfigure your brain.


it would be a shame if after rejecting him you realize after many years that you should have accepted him and it's too late. I've heard too many stories like this.


trust me attraction is secondary when it comes to choosing a life partner.

the important things include

His spiritual life ( if you are spiritual)

can he take care of you (not only materially ,but emotionally and maybe spiritually ,)

his genotype

his family background . this is very important because if at the end of it all both families don't approve then relationship don scatter be dat. you must know if his family is one you can be married into.


If he ticks all these buttons please hold on to him o finding someone that meets everything like this is rare.

You just got urself a follower...Such great wisdom ma, you must be a voracious reader or Can it be experience?

CAPSLOCKED:
THE THING IS MOST LADIES ENJOY THE ATTENTION, COMPANY AND PROTECTION THEY GET FROM THEIR MALE BESTIES. SOME EVEN GET MONEY AND OTHER GOODIES WITHOUT ADDING NOTHING TO THE YOUNG BROTHER'S LIFE.

THE PRESENCE OF SOME FEMALE FRIENDS ENSURES THAT YOU AS A GUY ENDS UP NOT CLICKING A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE OF THE ENERGY AND ATTENTION YOU INVEST INTO MAKING THIS FEMALE BESTIE FEEL COMFORTABLE (MEANWHILE SHE CAN HAVE AS MANY RELATIONSHIPS AS SHE WANTS, SEEKS RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM YOU.. BUT FEELS JEALOUS WHEN YOU TALK TO OTHER GIRLS).

THIS MAKES BRO FEEL ENTITLED TO SOMETHING CONSIDERING HOW MUCH HE'S BEEN LOSING IN THEIR 3-YEAR DIRECTIONLESS FRIENDSHIP.. SO HE TRIES TO GET THE ONLY THING THAT'S AVAILABLE, AND IF HE'S NOT GOING TO GET IT WITH EASE HE TRIES TO FORCE HIS WAY THROUGH, LEADING TO RÁPE, AND STORIES LIKE THIS.


THERE'S NO WAY IN THIS WHOLE WIDE WORLD THAT TWO PEOPLE OF OPPOSITE GENDER WILL BE TOGETHER FOR A CERTAIN DURATION AND WON'T FEEL THINGS... THEY CAN ONLY KEEP DENYING AND SUPPRESSING THEIR FEELINGS.

GUYS, KEEPING A FEMALE BESTIE IS THE MOST FOOLISH THING..
AFTER ALL THE WAYS YOU LOSE MONEY, CLOTHES, ENERGY, AND TIME DOING CHORES AND RUNNING ERRANDS FOR HER..... WHAT DO YOU GAIN APART FROM THE FEW TIMES SHE COOKS BADLY TASTING INDOMIE FOR YOU?

I was practically reading this and it felt so much like me...
we, the lady should free this male Besties they also deserve a life.
They care so much for you and it can be draining on their part...

Pilate2016:
Nice one Doc.

Thanks dear

I think I like this girl...
such a simple lifestyle for a celebrity. We need to see more of this face ooo in movies... But they won't nah
Trust nollywood they look at faces and body shapes to give you roles

highqueen:
Exposing your body,for admiration is triggered by low self esteem.cover your body sis, you will still be beautiful.

one gbosa for you!


as if she doesn't know it is erotic for a sister in the Lord.

These are the kind of people suffering in marriage but are making the unmarried feel like they have lost it all...

Ma, go and sit down you are pointless...


Social media has made everyone turn into advisers even those that cannot fix their tents

In one sentence

all for gram!!!

Sir u must be kiddingly joking ... after all these 7yrs sweats
why dont I go straight and do the farming?

This was looking like bobrisky dancing no offence

she kinda looks like bobrisky