Romanoff:
We place a high premium on Marriage and shame a woman from 30-40yrs for not being married. This is leading to men getting away with randy, abusive and intolerant behaviour because las las, them go marry any woman wey them want and women will manage them like that just so they won't face the stigmatization of being unmarried.

The ones going through abuse in their marriage can't leave cause of the stigma attached to divorcees.

We need to change our mentality.

The same reason why when you are making your view about a situations known they will say remember you will enter a man's house ooo

ainas247:
lols.. why you no go for project fame or the voice to show your real talent
instead of BBN?

Goodluck anyway...

Dominate Google page one with your
business see profile

She was one of the finalists in project fame 7 yrs ago...browse about her

Iceking1:



No rash, no sore throat, fever is the only thing he got and u said it's an early sign of hiv... For ur information and due to my years of research mostly whenever am scared or just had a risky sex, the top 3 symptoms of early hiv are :
Fever
Red raised rash
And finally a sore throat
Those are the 3 most top early symptoms of hiv

there was no rashes, cough, headache, whitish tongue, weight loss or appetite lost, it was mainly fever...
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I didn't see the "no"
But some people only present with persistent fever and chronic diarrhea...

Go back in the next 3 month

Those signs you mentioned are some tell tale signs of early stage of HIV
But other diseases can still present like that

Davash222:
The guy still got his complexion.. But, the girl..

Study shows that fucking a woman can make their skin glow due to the nourishment from the semen

For all those asking she did project fame 7 years ago...go to YouTube and type her name and project fame

Dupalmer:

Gbam!

You can what ever you want but condoning teenage marriage is a big no for me...you can think more than this write-up nah

Mrsabuh1:


honestly you are right about everything , what u said is painful but that is the actual truth, now my father blamed me ,he doesnt even want to listen to anything ,he said I shldnt bring my three children to him .while I was away I wasn't allowed to see my kids ,traditionally they said the kids belongs to my husband and I can only take the female child away but even at that he didnt even allow me take my daughter. he knew if he purnish me with the kids I ll come running back and he won .my father still blame me for everything and said I didn't give them enough time to investigate his family before marriage ,I was 22 and trust me I didnt really know much,I dont even know what the word RED Flag means , the signs were there and obvious but I was too dumb to notice that ..now its late and I dont know what to do ,business isnt even growing that much as the proceed from it I use in providing food .. I feel so down,wish I can turn back the hands of time

Every new morning we wake up is another day and opportunities to right our wrongs. You can't change yesterday but you can do something today to effect your tomorrow...

You know what you should do just, Follow your instincts that's the answers you need...
Don't doubt it, seek the courage from God to do that...

maiahsaiah:
Nowadays, you’ll see men advising each other to stop chasing ladies and make money.

Ladies, my advice to you is to stop dating men and focus on building yourself. Learn a skill and start making money.

Remain good friends with a guy, because boyfriend is equal to sex friend. Once you accept to be their girl friend, it’s like it’s their right to have sex with you. How many will you have before getting married?

Then another ish with girlfriend and boyfriend thing is that you don’t even have to right to court other prospects. That’s how you’ll become girlfriend to a guy for ten years when your mates are married with two, three kids.

If you decide to go ahead and consider other prospect so you don’t grow old as a girlfriend, they’ll call you all manner of unprintable names. Save yourself the stress and be JUST FRIENDS.

Learn a skill, make money for yourself. Money is one of the reasons girls accept intimate relationships. So make it for yourself and retain your pride. It will help even in marriage. So that you don’t create a thread on how your husband doesn’t give you money.

Don’t go into an intimate relationship, only keep friends. Don’t let time and destiny wasters tie you down under the guise of boyfriend.

Enough said!

Sister loud it....Thank you
I get pissed when girls feels entitled to guy's money...The man will be spewing rubbish from his mouth ooo

Even some lady don't want to work, they just want man to be giving them

DonBenny77:
At least you acknowledged it's his song.
Tu face is some talented singer but a selfish basterd though.
All the suffer and death for benue nothing come out.
Music talent development in benue zero.
Hospital/school zero.
Foundation for IDPs zero
Infact charity zero.......fugazy

The money belongs to him...you don't tell people how to spend their money. It is your government you should disturb it is their responsibility not individuals...

Ariza:
I read a thread here sometimes ago where Men were advised to marry and learn to love those who love them and only use and dump those they love.I asked how does one learn to love but my question was left unanswered, the ones who tried to answer only danced around it. No procedure or How to was provided and I laughed. How men bask judiciously in so much ignorance amuse me! They believe women learn to love so they can do it too.But only the wise one would ask how women easily divert this so called love on their children as soon as they are born neglecting the fathers. Was the love ever there?


The truth is you can never learn to love, you can only learn to appreciate.Love is not something you can create but Gratitude, you can. The misconception comes when people mix up love and gratitude. Contrary to what we see movies like a man learning to love the woman he was force to marry, No! he only learned to appreciate and live with the woman after his brain has been reconfigured by a terrible situation that might have caused him to lose the Good woman.

Op, you can't learn to love. You can only learn to appreciate, learn to be with and learn to accept your Man. In this case, look at the positive sides of things, compare his good qualities to what others do not have and accept him. I wish you luck.

I never believed in love because it was absurd that you will live only one person all through your life...so.may be I didn't understand what true live was...

A friend taught me what true love was. Not with words but his actions...

So I learnt one thing about how to love "it is sacrificial, and unconditional"
If you ask yourself can I be able to do this for this person and the answer is no...

Although I didn't understand what love was...I tot he had his ulterior motive...But I was wrong...

Uchechi20:
I just created a new account for this post, please i need mature advice. My husband has been so broke for years now, he never ever gets money if we have any emergency for my kids sickness, school fees, etc. He likes hallucinating about how he will be rich by getting one juicy political appointment cause he is into politics. Sometimes he hustles to just get food and it ends there(this does not come often), no basic needs like school fees etc. Before you judge me as not being supportive, i am not employed at the moment but i struggle and hustle the little way i can to assist in the house upkeep. I paid school fees, i even gave him a large some to add to our ongoing project but the money unfortunately didn't complete it.

Now our room window net spoit and there is a big bush just around the window. He is not doing anything about fixing the window net as usual, i didn't nag him. I just closed the windows permanently, but i noticed this morning that he opened the windows through out last night, same as the night before. My two children sleep on the same bed. He had to put us at risk like that just for ventilation sake without considering what could creep into our room.

Please i need serious advice on how to handle this, he collected all my savings to add to the project.
NOTE: He leaves the house everyday to come back very late, cause he still serves this political big guys yet there is nothing to show for it.

As regards the net, you can get a mosquito net from any health centre/hospital and use it as nets on your window...Do this till you can get the main window net...

jawalis:


You are a derailed being. I won't get myself up just for you. I wonder how it got to you

Hmm

jawalis:

pls do stay on your lane. I pity the unlucky ones who call her mothers.

It is what you say in faceless platform that tell more about you...How you address the people you don't even know speak volumes of you
How can you say that her children are unlucky
Watch your mouth..
If you value your mum a lot, you should also learn to value others mothers

I am on my lane

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
it's your mother that's a dirty slùt idiot

Pls don't use vulgar words on people's parents... They deserve the greatest cheering

jawalis:

pls never mention that woman in your wretched life else you'll see the worse nightmare of your life. btw, are you the lady in question? why take it personally. fool with brain full of custard. you fell for a 12yrs old boy, you'll later form independence. cocotte like you.

Why call someone a H*e...She will be someone's mother and learn to address one well if you don't know them
When people use vulgar words on ppl we love it pains...She is loved by someone
Use your word rightly

cococandy:
you are a feminist because you don’t agree to the suffering of women.

Add when you also stand up to your right regardless of your gender

Ginaz:
I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

Did you miss the verse that we are all equal in the sight of God
No one seek equality does not mean one should be treated as trash or any how because they are female...
Need I tell you we are to complement each other and not one-sided complement
You were also deceived with that "women have hidden powers"

You are too high...interact with women (married) and also those in rural areas you will understand that a lot a suffering because they are women..Did they create themselves?

Even when Mary Magdalene was caught fornicating, she was about to be stoned... Do only one person fornicate..where was the man she was fornicating with??

We will fight for a better tomorrow not for us but for our daughters

kazyhm:


What actually let you to his office is helpless help.........lecturers don't manufacture admissions and marks


If you're incapacitated in any form, let your parent seek for help on your behalf......


I for one won't pretend It doesn't exist but when you offered/present yourself as a bargaining chip and later claimed victim show the level of your intellectual capability

I have gone to my lecturer's office to ask questions regarding topics not clear to me
I have gone to my lecturer to clarify why my marks are what they are even when I know what I wrote in the exams
I have gone to my lecturer office to understand some concept he said in class
I have gone to my lecturers to make an observation as regards the lectures he gave that does not tally with the textbook information


So if at any of this point he made an advance towards me, you will still type this
Let's stop being an enabler of crime
Even if the female students made an initial advance are they dogs that go for any bone thrown to them.
They are an adult and still act like one

Women are not talking because they are afraid of the so-called lecturers
How easy is it to talk abt sexual harassment in Nigeria??
Someone will say what led you to his office??

baby124:
Useless leaders. It takes BBC to shame you people on a world stage before you start making statements. All those girls in the past who spoke up but were hanged up against by these lecturers. None of you spoke for them. Please shut up as the world sees your useless and stinking yansh outside. Now the world knows Nigerian students probably didn’t earn their degrees and the lecturers probably did not earn their PhD and are therefore unemployable or research worthy!

You dey listen to them when a girl came out previously on lecturer demanding for sex from her did they react like this Clout chasers because it is British they are forming spoke men

munarule:
I am a kind of person that don't believe in voodoo or jazz but with what is happening in my family now, jazz dey o. my only sibling (we were 3 in family though but our last born of 15yrs died last year) that was doing well in minna suddenly returned to village in Enugu and don't want to go back again.

My mum and some kindred took him to federal neuropsychiatric hospital Enugu where he spent one week and ran back to village. Though I spent over 60,000 during the period he was admitted there. We were thinking he will get better but he wasn't. A lot told us it is something spiritual. my parent visited some prayer house and they told them my brother is afflicted because they want to inherit my father's lands.

They went to a church today at Enugu and the pastor told them to bring 100,000 before he can do anything. is salvation not free again? my daddy has no amount of money and he already called me to send it which I won't send because that pastor sound so dubious. Giving him the money is not even the problem but what if he just collect the money and nothing changes?

If you know anywhere I can take my brother to in Enugu or Enugu axis please do let me know. He's my only sibling and I love him so much

An adoration with the blessed sacrament will make a difference...Also if you can book masses for him it will go a long way to help
May God see him through this predicament
Any pastor that is collecting Money is FAKE

alBHAGDADI:
This is a pure rubbish teaching coming from a Catholic Bishop of gay kingdom.

Where did God order that we should do what this preacher said with our tithe? Nowhere. What God said in Malachai 3:10 is that we should bring the tithe to his house. He didn't say we should branch somewhere else with it.

Yes, the pastor's idea seems like a reasonably brilliant and kind one, but that doesn't make it right in God's eyes. Remember that the way man thinks is different from the way God thinks.

Man thinks it is a good thing to give the tithe to someone in need of it. But where did God say such about tithe? Nowhere. He only said to bring it to his house and from there it is distributed to the needy.

Think of it this way: You are on your way to the hospital with 100k to pay for your child's medical bills. Suddenly you found a needy man. Be honest with yourself, will you give the money to the needy man to the detriment of your child in the hospital?

I can bet you won't. So why do you now think it is right to give your tithe to the needy man? Remember, it is God's money and you have no right to decide how to help God spend it, especially when he gave you no such order.

Look, don't let people bamboozle you weird scenarios like the one given by the preacher. Always stand by God's command. The tithe is his, and the only thing you can do with it is to take it to his house, nowhere else.

They may even use your child as an example, saying what if your child is sick and the money needed for treatment is equivalent to the tithe money you have, which is your last dime.

What will I say in this case? Give that money to God because it is his. At this point many will be kicking against me. Little do they know that they are kicking against Jesus who said...


Mathew 10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Why do you think Abraham is referred to as a friend of God today? Because he obeyed God by proceeding to sacrifice his son Isaac as commanded by God. He didn't think twice. But people who are not worthy of Jesus are the ones who will disobey him by doing the thoughts of their heart instead of his word.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Tithe of those days were food to be kept in storehouse for fullness of the members and not of the pastor

JJOF:
King of Boys is better than this movie.

You just read my mind

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Are you sexual with does boys??

muzically:
If you cannot get along with majority of people, there's something wrong with you.
Those supporting Tacha, if you live with Tacha for a week, you'll not support her again. Why would everyone just hate somebody without a reason?

She lived with khafi for 1 week and there was no para

Bukasint:
Rejoicing over someone's downfall won't make anyone better neither will it take one far. She reacted in a way everybody will react to. I know most girls will do same as she did. I watched the video and I know how it can be especially when argument is very hot. But Nigerians took it far. Some wished her death and other are saying so many nasty things about here and body odour.
Sure it's something anyone can be a victim of.

Nobody is perfect
Nobody is better and we all strive to become a better person and learn from our mistakes. But here are other ladies condemning her without looking back.
Ladies condemning have done worse things than her yet they are not anyway better.
Some even made a video with her body odour as Zaltan did.
Some went ahead to crop videos to mock her laughing over someone's downfall.
Tomorrow this set of people will enter church and ask God for blessing and forgiveness of sins.
Real celebrity are silent on this incidence some don't even comment and others came attacking without using wisdom.
In life learn not to hate someone who you haven't met before.

Thank you for taking those words out of my minds and writing them...

No one is interested in how do we help her. The world has gone to the level where no one cares about the other...She may be a victim of early child abuse and this is her form of alter ego...Even the so called "celebrities"
How ppl do rejoice over others failure is funny
Seriously

Hobbsandshaw:


Even doctors are suprised.We have been doing skin to skin for over 6yrs now.From what I gathered, she discovered her status sometime in 2014.

Taking your drugs regularly can reduce the viral load and not transmit it to another

She addressed an important issue but we are too quick to be savagery than handle the problem at hand

2shure:
The question is
Are you a virgin

So she must be a virgin to turn down sex requests?

Answer that question before asking another

donstan18:
Most Nigerian actresses are prostitutes, the only reason this one is angry is hecause they wanted to give her lower role after multiple fvcking.

Did you even think before typing those nonsense or you just typed it because you can type anything