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[quote author=mr.drizzy]No offence bt the thread is really looking odd than its usual state,won yesterday and also helped someone to win.so i guess yesterday was perfect..if i had posted the pics here there would be many critics..high odds etc...same as today..abi mk i post am?[/quote]I really dont understand why we should be afraid of criticism. Afterall i criticised Xpset yesterday but he won and didnt complain. Abeg drop am joor. I dey follow you.

David Mark was very wrong. Nigeria enjoyed overwhelming support from most quarters. How? Now listen carefully. Mali defeated South Africa (the host team) in the quater finals. In the semis, Southees wanted a revenge. We did them that favor by whipping Mali and the Southees trooped out on the final day to say thank you to Nigeria. Next, Chelsea fc enjoys a lot of fan base in Africa. Hence, most chelsea fans were on our side because Mikel and Moses were present. Drogba, in the dressing room, met with our players after the match to compel us to win the trophy. Many people love drogba, hence, more support for eagles. Except for Ghana o. Even on tv, most africans at the stadium were rooting for Nija. Nigeria enjoyed great support. Mark was wrong.

jidegirl12: Michky I take God beg you please let it go, sebi I don talk am how this thread will end, I guess that's what OP likes( conflict) I just don't get it! If you have a plastic bone get a maid period! God never ordained any chore to anybody talk-less of you delegating chore for anybody, who be you? Like @byvan( I hope I got it right) said let everybody do their part and leave the rest for another day or again pay to do it ( like Michky said)

... And as for you @ jallow , please let it go please, I really don't know what you're gaining from this, I know you'll claim it's nothing but admit it's physiologically draining ( and trust me Michky will NEVER back down for you) ,or don't you have a whinny toddler around like mine sticking her hands in my shirt here ?

Alrite. I'll melow down for a while. Wow, you're really understanding o. Your partner must definitely be the luckiest man alive rigntow believe me. Already, you know backing down is not in any of my traits. I wish all women were like you. Women that would understand their husbands well enough to keep them happy. It is well.

I have heard you.

lat4real: My wife is not a slave, but I can't do house chores(cooking, washing...) either. So we need househelp. Chikena!!

Bros, this is exactly what i have been clamoring since o. Like i said before, they are saying that we must compulsorily do the chores ourselves and not get house help for them. I believe this is another subtle act aimed at subdueing men. We should oppose this with everything we can.

nikkyshyne: Michky, can you go and sleep now. Your rant is affecting me here. Please grow up!

JallowBah, can you please stop responding to him?!.

I hold you? Ah ah. See this one o. If am disturbing you, don't you know what to do? Guy, park well joor!

SELFWORTH: Who let this DOG out? He is barking at any and everything.

He wants to express himself but cannot tolerate others right to express themselves freely.

He thinks a man who support his wife in all areas is a 'punny' and has been moulded by society.

He thinks he is a better husband becos he can use his mouth to insult others unnecessarily .

He thinks he knows me and the whole society becos of his access to NL via a smart phone.

He thinks he is Gods gift to some poor woman suffering in silence.

You are not accountable to me but to God so I don't care what you think or who you are or even what you will ever be.

I am expressing myself freely like everyone else but if you don't like my comment or stance, please disappear. You claim to be a man yet your comments is full of bitterness like a palm wine seller.

Selfish and mannerless git!

No creativity whatsoever. Obviously, you don't have what to say. Therefore you copy and paste. If i start doing same now, i'll just be wasting the space. Guy, we have a big argument here. Bring forward your points and lets tackle hard. If you have nothing to say, go back to your mama for more milk. Obviously, you've not had enough.

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[quote author=prince_onx]Am already a veteran in most of the house chaos na how to help her carry pregnancy I dey target now![/quote]LMAO. Mehn, na wetin i dey follow wait for now o.

[quote author=[CHocolaTE]]
You know what? Talk to your wife and find out which of the house work she would like you to do. I am not stating any chores specifically. I just want men to stop zeroing their minds to doing any housework at all.
Doing housework does not make one less of a man like some men think. There is no scientific finding supporting that theory


Now I see where the problem is coming from.
It seems you have heard a lot of bad things about women or you have had a lot of bad experiences with women. If the latter is the case then I offer my condolences on whatever happened between you and the lady(s).
But you are wrong about that statement in bold. There are good women and they should be respected, not all women are bad. And women don't steal or kill or lie like men do. Ok, maybe they lie like men do, but they don't steal and kill like men. Come on, let's be realistic.
Was ALUU4 carried out by women?
Majority of the news you read on this site about armed robbers and rapists and pedophilles do not say that women are the perpetrators of the crime. These things are mostly done by men.
Let's be realistic man,
Come on.[/quote]It is clear that the poo in your head hasn't been completely removed. Check out this story nah.

https://www.nairaland.com/1168747/mistress-strangles-lover-4-children/2

JallowBah: Of course our daughter have both of our names, why not? That was actually not even my idea My surname is not very much used in my country, so we put them together. Why is that an issue?
We call her by her african names, but she can later on choose for her self. She should be euqally proud of both families, names, and history.

Why do you continue to think I force him? Why is it so hard for you to see that not all people think like you?
And if my husband won the lottery, we would move back to Africa. I would open a small shop, and not worry if I did not make enough money that day or not. We even lived there with his sister and his brothers, and the brothers still cleaned their own clothes, my husband still cooked, and he and his brother all still cleaned the compound. Imagine that..you think I forced them all? Really?

And I dont know why you talk about Sweden so much. I am not swedish.



I am sorry for you being so ignorant.

This girl don enter that thread wey cameroon drop. Check am. She's a big error. Disgrace is an understatement.

[quote author=[CHocolaTE]]
Gisting is not assistance.
But why do you men think it is an abomination to do the work? Why not just assist instead of hiring a maid?[/quote]Look you're on your own. You wanna know why? You really wanna know why? My dear ask google. Olodo oshi. We don talk talk talk. E come be like say we dey negotiate price for market. This one na stubborn goat o. Odabo!

dayokanu: Maybe your household is unique where you are the more tech savvy, the stronger physically, the more knowledgeable in everything but in 70% of households its not like that

Dayo, leave that mumu alone. We've used up about 13 pages on a different thread just yesterday on this same topic. I think this is what has brought her to nairaland. She's poor and she's married to a nigerian. According to her, the law in her country mandates husbands to babysit the child for 3months during which the mother will continue working. Now tell me, which kind of law would encourage man to be weaklings. Theirs is. Now she comes here bragging about it.

Look, she won't stop o. She's one big virus here and i don't think i'd stay here too long. Madrid match is about to start.
Check this out:
https://www.nairaland.com/1186740/what-exactly-mans-duty-home/13#1186740.432

JallowBah: A real man have respect for other human beings.
A real man helps his wife when she need it, without her even having to ask.
A real man treats his wife like a queen, not like a slave or a servant.
A real man knows how to take care of himself and his house, and does not need to pay someone to do so.

And from what I have seen in here, you are none of these.

I think you just perfectly dropped the definition of "A POOR MAN". Now, except for the first one, replace the A real man with A poor man rightnow!

By the way, who is saying you should treat your wife like a slave. slowpoke, don't you know the meaning of househelp? We say get a househelp and you say we must work. Its clear that you have comprehension problems.

A real man would get his wife the needed help.
A real man would work hard
A real man would pay the bills
A real man would ensure that his wife is comfortable. etc.

JallowBah:
..and you feel they should not be respected, or am I misunderstanding you?



That is not how it is everywhere. My husband learned the "man-things" growing up as well as how to clean and cook with his mother.
I know how to cut grass, fix a car ( oil, change of tires, changing small spareparts, lights, checking oil, gas, air, etc etc ), change the floor in a house, build up furniture, etc.
I also know how to cook and clean, and fix a clogged up toilet, change a diaper, put down a fire, change a window for that matter.

I love the fact that my parents taught me all, so I could survive on my own. But then again, in my country it is normal to move out on your own before meeting a spouse, some go to live alone because of school at the age of 16. Who was supposed to go and check noises in the apartment when I was living alone? Who was supposed to cook and clean for my hubby when he was living alone?
Why should all of that be forgotten, just because we got married..?

This ignoramus keeps trying to put words into my mouth. You this girl, you better find something better to do before i vex. Everyone could deduce that i meant women should not be treated specially because they do terrible things aswell. Hey, don't get me to insult you o. Take time.

SELFWORTH: Who let this DOG out? He is barking at any and everything.

He wants to express himself but cannot tolerate others right to express themselves freely.

He thinks a man who support his wife in all areas is a 'punny' and has been moulded by society.

He thinks he is a better husband becos he can use his mouth to insult others unnecessarily .

He thinks he knows me and the whole society becos of his access to NL via a smart phone.

He thinks he is Gods gift to some poor woman suffering in silence.

You are not accountable to me but to God so I don't care what you are or what you do or what you think.

I am expressing myself freely but if you don't like my comment or stance. Please swallow your bitterness and vanish into space somewhere.

selfish git!

hahahahahahahahah. I laugh in swahili. So, these are your interpretations of my posts abi? Mature goat. It is clear that you grew in the midst of women. Most of your teachers till later secondary were women. You think opening that dirty hole in your face and spitting poo is equal to expression abi.
Look poo, that pencil between your legs doesn't make you a man o. Being a man is in the mind and clearly you're not one.