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chaircover: I think its high time that a law is passed that no one lives with a married couple for the first 3 years of marriage.

Childish. VERY CHILDISH.

Ivynwa: He knows that his mum has never been nice to his wife for the 4 years of their marriage and he had the two living together that long. It looks to me like a case whereby the MIL was being eaten up daily by jealousy over the presence of another woman in her son's life. I mean she is so attached to him that for 4 years she couldn't let him leave her apron and live with his wife.

There seems to be more to the story than met the eyes, all that "she took her pictures and he asked wifey to ignore her" are not making sense. What is he doing with her DIL's pictures? She must have been boiling up in that home until whatever ugly feeling that made her do that tipped her over the edge. It's so ugly.

Funny thing was: what i was clamoring for was more investigation before some nairaland eediots start pronouncing judgement on the Ghana player that stabbed his wife (she's still very much alive and healthy btw). For this reason, some fish-brained girls started saying i was justifying the man's actions. Now, thank God for this similar story. Look, I WONT QUIT UNTIL YOU THESE BLOODY FEMINISTS STOP PLACING ALL THE BLAME AT THE DOORSTEP OF MEN.

greatgod2012: This is what we are saying, when you sense physical abuse, report d abuser and run for your life,.........life is always better than marriage, when there is life, there is hope, now that there is no life nko........i detest divorce, but when it comes to abuse, im 100% supportive of it, because, even me, im allegic to abuse and i cant advise anybody to endure abuse........had it been d woman had refused to live with this woman now, she would probably still be alive.....what a wicked MIL, what an height of jealousy, because, i believe, she was jealous of her DIL.
To d hubby, hes a very weak man, he knew they have not been knowing peace since his mum has been living with them, yet, refused to do something drastic about d matter until his mum kill his wife.........."boda ode"
well, may d dead rest in peace and her spirit torment d perpetrator (if possible).

May God punish your mouth there. HOW DARE YOU BLAME THE MAN AGAIN. All you these foolish NL girls (except Sisi_kills, Jidegirl and a few others) wont give up this man hating business huh? AGAIN I SAY, WOMEN ARE DEVILS. Simple!

StateOfMind: So many wives and girlfriends have suffered this month

What a wicked mother-inlaw.

What a weak husband..

Weak man eh? Dude i think you're too stup!dly confused to be refered to as sane. Was it not on the Ghana story that you were blaming the man to pieces? Shouting men are devils because he stabbed his aggresively nagging wife? (N.B. I detest all forms of violence on fellow humans o) Now all you can say is wicked mother in-law abi? Lets say it as it is: WOMEN ARE DEVILS.

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aawww...First it was reading and now barca. Sorry bro. This kind of days do come once in a while. There was a day i lost about 70% of my total betslip for a single day. Mehn, that day was terrible for me. Anyways, tomorrow is fast approaching. Lets hope for the best.

Yes! barca is winning. Thank goodness.

somadila: Reading ,Reading, Reading, if i curse una eh ... the curse go affect una wella oh. even a quater or semi quater goal u guys failed to muster . infact no weekly wages for una

Sorry bro. Although you already said it is a dangerous combo, i still prayed that it came through. I feel sad for Bukahands aswell. Chei, that useless Valencia. I suspected but that's a long thing rightnow. Anyways, as Bukahands has said, tomorrow is another day. The bookies were only lucky today. They'll pay tomorrow. Certainly.

Xpset: WON

Lol. You had to do the report on my behalf today. Please Xpset, when i lose, abeg no quote am o. Lol. Have you noticed my winning rate recently? hehehehe. I don talk say if i catch those bookies eh, them go beg me for mercy. Lets hope we keep winning sha.

Xpset: make Barcelona no spoil my combo of 30k ooh. na only dem remain to win o

Na wa for that team o. They are even losing at home. Lets hope they come back the way madrid did tonight.

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Bro, are you now offering prediction service? If this post of yours was any kind of advert, then please remember the rules. However, i suspect that you're only trying to connect with other bb users. If am right, then no problem with your post. Just remember not to advertise o. How was your punting day by the way?

hollandis: it doesnt make sense .It already has a physical keyboard .Doesnt make sense

Unless the screen is going to be detachable from the keyboard anytime i want to. Its not everytime that i'll want to sit up to use the laptop. Hence, it'll be an I-pad and laptop combined.

ItsModella: Oh shut the hell up. No offense but you really sound stupϊd. If you read the story well, nothing suggests that the woman did something really crazy or incredible. So think like a human being and not a beast. Daughters of Jezebel ko? hope you're including all the females in your lineage and generations to come.

With the way you're justifying the man in question, one can only question your character. I really pity for the woman that decides to stay with you...nonsense!!

You said nothing should warrant what the guy did abi? I have given you one such conditions that could warrant it (in my previous post) and you're here screaming like a fish out of water instead of responding to my point. SMH. And now, your poopoo head is saying the woman didnt do anything wrong according to news reports. Chei, this girl na kunk olodo o. Obviously, you sure have not been listening to what we've been saying all these while. Ok, since you're reading with your ugly nose, i'll do a recap for you. D.O.J., What we have been saying is, we need to hear from the man's angle aswell in order to make a fair analysis of the situation. Plus, we really have no word-for-word account of what ensued before the fight. However poohead, i wont expect you to be able to comprehend my post due to the amount of poo stuck in your weave-on at the moment. Exchanging words with you will be a waste of my precious time. So, have a nice day D.O.J.

Over 0.5 HT

Barcelona 1.28
Porto 1.32

Double Chance

Valencia/draw 1.30

babyphaze07: Painstil had been released on bail. Report said he did not stab his wife and there was no unconciousness whatsoever in anyone. He was arrested due to a neighbour's call. The wife is pressing no charge and they will settle out of police station.

Finish!

ba7man: You're just exposing your cowardice for the World to see. If its to attack a Woman, people like you are always first but when you meet a man that's your match, you run under your mother's wrapper. There's nothing you can say that will paint you as anything other than a coward....no insult, no brash talk...You're simply a "COWARD". Defending the act of beating and stabbing a Woman. You're reeetarded.

I wonder if you'll be able to say all this poo in my presence. We'll know who the coward is by then. Back to topic. Now let me educate you a little. You see, being human means you're either strong or weak. When two people engage in a physical conflict (whether man to man or man to woman or woman to woman), the strong mostly prevails over the weak (except on very rare occasions). Now, fact remains that if i realize that am not as strong as my opponent, i will be smart not start any trouble in the first place. But you this ugly mor0n cannot understand this simple concept. You already know women are mosttimes the weaker of the two. Is it then wise to continue running that dirty hole in your face any how? Is it wise to challenge me by saying "i cant do nada?!" Is it wise to attempt to return a punch even after i slap you first?! No! No one is encouraging any form of violence but in this unfair world, not everybody will be able to take all your tantrums. Is this too hard for your fish brain to understand?!

jasper7: Man Utd vs Qpr both teams to scor doesn't look good in this game o. if you look at QPR's previous games. you see scorelines like 1:0, 0:0, 2:0. especially against the top teams. goodluck tho

Seconded.

StateOfMind: You dey mind these cowards? I keep saying if women have as much physical strength as these women beaters, they would think twice before raising their hands on women.

Am very certain that this is the same mentality that got the wife hospitalized today. If you were stronger shey? You too will soon get the hospital treatment deserving of you real soon. Its a guarantee.

BigBenoski: u r unbelievably! No offense bro but, u sound like a pathetic misogynist. IMO, aggressive chauvinism is not a prerequisite for being a 'real man'

Guy, all dat one na grammer joor. Just sharrap dia.

mydi: So stabbin her is a matured way 2 answer her? Pls u dnt av 2 let d whole NL kno u re an abusive ass.hole

Stup!d girl. My point is simple. Dont ever start trouble that you cant finish. Not every man would be able to restrain himself during conflict like you expect. It only takes a wise woman to know this. Fish brained souls like you and that wife that got beat, would rather continue to run that smelly hole in your face till you get stabbed in the eye likewise. Dont worry, with this your attitude, you too will soon definately make the news. The only difference would be that both your eyes plus your smelly mouth would be stabbed for good. I pity your life.

searay: Many comments here are blaming the man for everything which is wrong IMO, so I beg to differ.
PANTsil is not insane to just start beating his wife in a time he really needs her the most because the wife should be the only person he can run to at this time for love. Asking the man this same question again and again is totally out of place. Besides, another media report has it that, the wife "stole" his $20000, may be what really spark the man.
Where I blame the guy is that he attacked the eyes and not the mouth which is their major weapon. Attacking the mouth would have lessen the problem.
My sympathy goes to PANTsil family.

Abeg make Nigerian stars no join this trend oooooo!

Lol @ attack the mouth. Cant stop laughing. Good post all the same. Those of us that made similar post (not blaming the man) are the only few wise nairalanders remaining. It is well.

ba7man: Yes!!!!....Exactly!!!...You are supposed to beat, kick, drag and stomp annoying women on the floor before shooting or stabbing them in the eye....Don't forget to do the same thing to annoying muscular guys too. Eeeeediot.

Foo! Its no longer news that men fight using bottles, knifes etc. Whether you're fighting a man or woman, as long as you fight back or simply challenge the other, you're definately asking for trouble. If the lady didnt challenge him in any way and just stayed away, it wont have gone this far.

ItsModella: Duh!! I already know that...but calling all women 'daughters of jezebel' is just a baseless and disgusting assumption to make.

If you like, type heaven and earth, nothing justifies the man stabbing the woman in the eye, whether the woman was right or wrong, there is absolutely nothing that justifies the man's action...shikena!!

Nothing justifies stabbing a woman in the eye abi? Well let me give you one recent story: A mistress strangles all four children (12, 8, 4 & 2) of her lover. She even waited for the parents of the kids to come to meet here there afterwards. Now, this would warrant me to stab her two eyes blind immediately sef! You foo!s always want to make the world believe you're the weaker vessels while claiming that men are beasts. You forget that y'all are the beasts. The daughters of jezebel. When you start your trouble, we dont make noise. But when we start ours, you'l start screaming your lungs out. Sad.

metti:
So the wrath of a real man is to stab His wife? You are not matured at all. Must you comment?

Moderator! See now o. Na jeje i dey wey this monkey come find trouble o. If i start now, una go begin say i be bully. Ok now. As for you dog, watch it. Not everyone on Nl is your mate.

Liberal2020: Now she wants to back out hah? She must finish what she started. A lot of women like to start trouble with their husbands, when they see what they started has escalated and might threaten their marriage, they will start backing down as she is obviously doing now....Its a private matter. If it were a private matter, why did you run to the neighbor? Why didn't you stay and have him beat the shit out of you in private? Questioning your husband solely on allegation, an allegation that you know he already is aware of as it in the public domain and has denied it publicly prior to you asking him further. Don't you think he would think you don't trust him to further broach on the issue and ask him? What do you expect will happen to you? Stupid woman and as with many with chicken size brain.

I didnt even see this post before posting mine but we said the same thing. Bro, i don tire for these chicken headed girls o.

Br3nd4: Na wa o! Wats wrong wit all dis males molestin their galfrnds?

This is another sick head. Man is this, man is that, is what this illiterate knows.

MicroBox: One should be very careful with the kinda women udate esp those that can and always trigger your anger. Beside he is a sportman wetin dey wory d woman sef. Pristorious neva comot for im own ooo

Well said.

ItsModella: I can't believe the stupidity behind this comment, I just can't. I hope these daughters of jezebel include your mother and sisters. Why not blame the men for being so stupϊd? There is no justifiable reason as to why he stabbed her eye? She questioned him, so what? is that now a crime? is that why he had to flare up like that and stab her in the eye? abeg jor, spare us this your melodrama.

Another thoughtless post blaming the man for everything and forgeting that no smoke can exist without fire. We cant really be certain that the only cause of the violence was questions. She probably insulted him inbetween. Besides, it is hard to find a man who would beat a woman to this extent, if she hadnt challenged him or even attempted to fight back in the first place. Think girl!!

binger: A man lost his temper and sanity for a moment,and stabbed the wife. Why blame the woman 4 questioning her hubby?thereby absolving the irresponsible guy of every blame

No one is saying its wrong that the woman asks questions. Point is: questioning him 2ice is more than enough. Anything more than this is clearly asking for the wrath of a real man. Btw, what was she trying to gain by the tortorous questioning. Afterall what has happened has happen in SA already. Abi no be so? Come to think of it eh, OP said his prostitute accusation was all over the news, which he was still trying to clear his name from. Just imagine the shame and anger that he must have been experiencing at that time. Now, what should a loving wife have done at the time when the husband was recieving no love from outside? Nag? Nah. She should have showed him more love that would have seen him through. Lets not forget that her husband was being accused of single handedly spoiling the chances of the entire team o (not also forgeting how aggressive the fans can be towards such person. KAITA IS A GOOD EXAMPLE).

dallyemmy: Actually, the way he reacted was bad. Ladies equally need wisdom to know when to raise sensitive issues like this and when to call it quit. In real sense, it has been scientifically proven that most men cannot handle arguements like women, just because they are wired that way. More nerves connect the vocal part of women's brains to the emotional part of their brains while in men more nerves connect the emotional part to the action part. So, during an arguement he either goes physical or runs away. If you love your man, bring up sensitive issues in when he won't go violent. It calls for emotional intelligence. Sport men are naturally agressive in nature. Guys don't forget their nature and don't marry a nag!

Well said bro. Your last line was fantastic (dont marry a nag). Sad thing is most women nag. To improve upon your good advice, i'd say: guys, dont marry an aggressive nag. Some women want to have things their way by all means (alot of them are even on NL). Pity. Another sad thing is that MEN are fast becoming extinct. The number of senseless posts by nl boys on the first page of this thread re-affirms it.

ZUBY77: hmm. I dont wanna be a hypo here. These women should know when to let go and shut up. Serves her right

Exactly!

[quote author=huni_naija]I'm getting tired of all these stories...

Please someone should help me define love?

Is it now a crime in marriages/relationships to discuss problems like mature adults?.

Must someones tongue get bitten off, or someone's eyes stabbed before the matter can be resolved?

He needs to be kicked into a pit and the key thrown into the lagoon![/quote]Foo! If she had approached the guy maturedly, the matter wont have gotten out of hand. That's for sure. As we see in Op's post, she brought up the matter many times. Do you think a woman that wants peace would do that?

brokoto: Pls guys I just saw this thread. Can anybody tell me how its done? I can't go through all 58 pages. What websites are you guys using?
Help someone out. Thanks.

Dude, no time o. Its better you read the previous season to gain the necessary experience. If you cant, then look for a coach but get ready to pay good money o. If you are not prepared to do either, then you're not ready for this business. No time.