₦airaland Forum

Zonefree:
The odour from that wig can power about 6 local governments in Kano state.

placeofallure:
I'm a woman and I'll be candid with you. It's nonsensical if a woman wants you to apologise always even if she's the one at fault.

If she's somebody you want to share your future with, theń don't condone that rubbish. We take care that people we care for turn out well. If you envision her as your children's mum, you'd want to ensure her morality is top notch. You can still school her if she's willing to learn and change. My husband did that for me when we were still dating, he had more experience about life issues and he passed it down.

However, if she's not anything important to you, you know the code already. Let her have her way if you are still interested in shinning her Congo. That's not nice anyway, if you won't eat it, don't smell it. So, let her go.

bentenny:
She nor rate u at all and you made her entitled by your actions towards her!
Start prepping for an exit!

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

ayenale1:
All I know is that ,virgin or no virgin no lady or girl will look at me in the eyes and say no knacking before marriage....

Stephaniegold:
Yes

Sonnobax15:

Every Nigha has his own choice.....

Back then ,I didn't see it as a MUST............

But, something really changed me...

Then again,I just remembered how I kept my cool with my ex for over 7 years, maintaining the NO-SEX type of relationship.... But las las,na another guyman help me deflower the banny for free of charge.....

So these days,once you cross my path as a banny,you should expect steady wiping and banging

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Stephaniegold:
Poison him

tosyne2much:
My brother, I also did not propose.. I'm a man of action, I no get time for all those proposal drama that people do

I told her I would be coming to visit her people and the first visit would be a normal visit while the second one would be to collect list and start the marriage plans.. She was shocked and thought it was a joke. Like a said, I'm a man of action not a man of drama

There was a time she said that I didn't even propose to her and I told her that maybe we should pend the marriage plans so that I can propose first

She say she no want any proposal say make we proceed

Kay25:
whats the english name

extol1:
The concept of witchcraft is wide and can be understood by those who practice it

WeirdAlien:
Certain trees.

Some kind of trees may have their own resident spirit, and witches won't go near those. But some others are easy coven targets.
Someone mentioned Banana trees - pay attention to those.

jimmyolasun:
Yes, behind my apartment my neighbor planted lots of banana trees in his garden and luckily abi unluckily the garden falls at the back of his compound where we both share same fence. So witches likes banana trees and I believe that's where our whole community witches use as coven because na wetin everyone believe. But I like them been there infact I protested when he wanted to cut down few because my apartment dey always cold enh!! I no need fan abi AC. And the air in my apartment always pure. So whenever people ask how I cope with such trees close to me, I just smile and tell them "I and the witches understand one another" infact when they start meeting and their noise dey plenty, I do warn them to keep it low. Most especially when I carry babe come house..🤗🤗

tuzle:
there are some ex that are not bad and u can still keep contact with, maybe condition made u guys go ur separate ways.

Fiscus105:
To complete it.......they are also the one you can call at any given time wen tank is full to the brink.

alpharoyalty:
Real men propose with pregnancy.

Ara21:
Fresh Catfish stew with rice.
But things are expensive now.

kokoBoii:
Ok, since you decided to post this, see my own

Dexy4yah:
I dated this lady for few years... doing our courtship we had unprotected sex.
I later relocated to another state because of my studies....that's how the relationship died.

She later got married

After about 13years of not hearing from eachother....one day my phone rang and behold she was the one...she called to tell me a secret...she said her first child is mine and not her husband's.
That doing our courtship she took in, she tried to abort it but it didn't work out for her, she didn't tell me about it because she knew that i was not ready to father a child at that time.

It was at that moment that she met this guy who is now her husband...the guy hasten everything and got married to her...she made him believe that the pregnancy is his own whereas that's was not the true...the boy is 8years old now.
She said her conscience has been disturbing her that's why she opened up to me.

I told her never to let the husband know about it and let the child be the husband's own....let her just forget everything about me being the father of the child so that her marriage won't crumble.
She has a loving husband and she is blessed with three kids aside the boy.


But she made one comment that when the boy reach 22years she will tell him who his real father is....she insisted. But am against it, i told her not to try it because if she end up telling the boy about it there is every possibility that the husband will end up knowing about it and i wonder how he is going to react towards it.

(Women can keep secret sha)
Please i hope i did the right thing??

LexNuel:
For a married man, sometimes its not about sleeping with the single lady. Sometimes its just about companionship and having someone who makes you feel good or feel like a man.

When you've been married for a while with multiple kids, marriage begins to lose meaning if care is not taken.

If conscious effort is not made by both parties to make the marriage interesting, then either party will look for something outside to make him/ her happy or feel good. It could be working extra hours, flexing outside with friends, or getting a side chick or sugar boy.

The most important thing is, you're doing that because you're trying to fill a hole in your marriage which could be emotional, sexual, social, mental, physical, etc.

To stop cheating, find out what hole you're trying to fix, and communicate with your partner, so he/she can fill that hole for you instead of looking for a third party.

Note: Your spouse might not probably meet all your needs especially as the marriage progresses. Know this and know peace.

AmotekunSW:
As a young guy, dress nice and notice the number of stares you will get from ladies.
Now, dress nice and add a wedding ring (even if fake) and see how ladies will be swarming around you.

Ladies are like fish, They are attracted to things that other ladies desire. Once they say that they can't have you, they become attracted to you.
To them, a wedding ring is a sign of financial stability, emotional maturity and desire from other women.

The greatest magnet of single ladies is that wedding ring.

ahnie:

Candidlady:
Why are married men so comfortable dating single ladies