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Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

Its not a red flag. Please love that man, he is a very cautious person and he doesnt want you guys to go begging in the middle of the month.
I do it with my girlfriend, only she hasnt found out and probably wont find out. The idea for him doing that is this: He wants to be able to call the shots when the money finishes. No man wants to be in that situation where his woman and himself are stranded without any help. He also has to do it because he's noticed that she's not as conservative as he would want her to be, especially considering his income, so he still wants to have some money left when she thinks its finished. That helps the situation.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
This is so embarrassing to say, I would never advise a man to be so sluggish in life. It pains my heart having to experience this several times but since he is an elderly bro that senior me very far I can't put my mouth in his family affair because of this.

I went to visit my brother yesterday, was surprised while we were seated in the parlour... the wife told her husband to go check if the woman selling provision is back.

This wasn't the first time, my brother stood up and went.. I was looking at her the whole time, she was looking at me. The anger was so deep but there is nothing I can do.

They are different instances I can give but no need for that...All I just want to say it's not good to be that calm type of guy.

This is not about being the bread winner of the house, my elder brother is doing very well for himself so is his wife.

As a man, it's just not good to be quite always or be quiet all the time.. gentlemanly. I just don't know how to say it.

Guys what do you think?

I'm not in support of men who are clueless and weak...they allow the woman be the man of the house, but i want to point out that there could be more to the story.

I say this because i have seen different families and how they could differ due to the personalities of the couples involved.

On this note, imagine if in this story, both husband (his elder brother) and wife are career people and they have 1 or 2 small kids and they don't have a house help. Maybe wife just got pregnant. Wife comes back from work, does her house-keeping and kitchen stuff...many wives in her circumstance need assistance. Maybe she cooking and wants to buy stuff from the provision shop, which is just a few steps from their house and the husband isnt doing anything at the time...she might have also asked politely...why can't he help out? i'm just telling you how it may have happened and how the OP may not have gotten all the details.

I do also think that African civilized society has gotten past that point where the men heaps all the house work on the woman. Some assistance is needed.

RepoMan007:
The rrot of this problem is the demonic structure that is built around sharing resources of minorities to another region. Once those favoured by this structure ha e interest in an issue, God help the logical reasoning prevail.

Why is Dangote building refinery from scratch but none of four comatose refinery cannot be repaired? Why is Dangote getting forex ahead of small businesses. After giving him billions in forex, they cut out the small business man looking to buy electrical component or medical reusables of 50 USD. Is that fair?
They gave tax waivers of 16 trillion Naira out but could deny about 2 trillion of that to varnish ASUU strike for eternity.

How can i like your post twice?

The economic policies of Nigeria are just appalling. Oil is the reason why the Government has refused to restructure. Restructuring wouldve solved theses economic issues. I think that the northern elites are oil-crazy, and this is reflected in the thinking of the average northerner. They are the reason why Nigeria has been solely dependent on oil. Their idea i think is that if we restructure, they will be the losers. Restructuring instead helps the states or regions look inwards, manage their resources efficiently and contribute to the center. The solution to Nigeria's economic problems is not rocket science, but some people have decided to hold the entire nation down, preventing others from progressing.

MondayOsunbor:
hausa knows politics of Nigeria Well

I don't agree with this.

The political structure simply favors them. They have more options to choose from. This is why they will kill to maintain status quo. They love the central system of government we practice and are against the regional system which is closely related to true federalism.

The north have the population and they have one voice due to their religion, this gives them the political edge, not necessarily their wisdom.
The question is, why would someone in another region decide who would rule another person in another region? We have had people become president because the north voted in mass for them. My point is simple, we should not be practicing a central system of government because it doesn't suit Nigeria and the people of Nigeria didn't choose it, it was imposed on us. People in Kano for example should not be selecting a President for people in Bayelsa and vice versa. This way, we have more people who will be interested in voting and satisfied with the administration.

Nigeria is a federation, but what are the federating units and what powers do they have? Federating units (regions) can develop if they are given all the power. We have not only been stagnant, but we are now neck-deep in murky waters because the power of the people to bring about change for themselves and their brothers have been short-changed because their voices have been drowned due to louder voices from the neighborhood, but for a change, give them gates and doors and the keys to these and let them lock themselves away and decide for themselves and see if they will not become unconquerable giants. - J. F Middleborn

I used to have this girl, sexy ass girl. We stayed together sometimes. She sleeps really deep and naked nearly always. Sometimes, i come back from work and she's asleep. I take my clothes off, get the oil and oil her up. Gently slip in my preeq until it all goes in. she wakes up at some point and starts moaning....it always becomes really intense and shes happy afterwards. What would you call that? first it was rape and then when she woke up and consented to it with her soft moans, then its mutual?

This is crazy. This is the very reason why so many men are still single and have no intention of settling down.

I'm a firm believer of a woman letting a man a little loose if they cannot satisfy him and vice versa. Apparently, the man has a higher libido than his wife, but doesnt want to cheat because he loves her. She probably is a sexy ass woman and have all the curves in the right places. Perhaps she lies on the bed naked or half naked. Then a man, legally married and truly loves his wife has to nurse his boner by thinking of Jesus and his kingdom because his sexy wife doesnt want to fvck.
When he decides to get his bitches for days like these, she will cry foul. Women should be emotionally intelligent enough to understand that their man can feel strong urges for sex many more times than they will, so if you're not gonna satisfy him everytime you feel not in the mood, then you might as well not feel destroyed when he fvcks a bitch. He still loves you, you can't satisfy him.

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/FG-slams-ASUU-insists-on-no-work-no-pay

My question to the FG and whoever supports the FG in this persecution of Lecturers is, who is going to complete the backlog of work that has stockpiled since February 14?

The nature of work done by academic lecturers puts them in a position where there is a lot of work to be done in every semester from the class room to the lab to the office dealing with scripts and documents etc. In most cases, Universities are under staffed, hence the workload. If the lecturers don't do their work for 6 months, that job will be there waiting for them because unlike other kinds of jobs where you can just resume and start from current activities, the lecturers have to start from where they stopped. The students cannot for example move to the next level if they have not been taught, if they don't take their exam and have their scripts marked.

So if the FG can contract the backlog of work stockpiled since February 14 till date to someone else, then their no work no pay policy will be upheld. In fact the FG should be helping the lecturers to resolve this backlog of work that have resulted due to the striking process, this would show their commitment to education. But you see, the FG doesn't give a fvck whether the work is done or not. not paying the lecturers the six months salary would mean that they can resume and abandon the work on the table. The fact that the FG know this and has decided not to do anything about it is what should disturb the students and Nigeria as a whole.

Please anybody here who can help me...I will appreciate that person.

Heathrow44:
Bro, did u get the HCA job, to be a carer in d UK

No, not yet. I'm still earnestly searching. I have all the job requirements but haven't found an employer offering visa sponsorship. If you can help me, I will appreciate.

mystery22:
Are you an RN

No I'm not. I'm a community health extension worker. Also have working experience of 3 years. I have the care certificate too

Someone please help.
I've just gotten

1. IELTS
2. Police clearance
3. TB test
4. Drivers license
5. Care certificate

Been applying for the care assistant role but haven't been contacted for interview.
Where do you guys apply and get called for interview? Please help me

pagimo:
Are u currently in uk or naija?

Naija

Somebody please Help me.

For the past 4 months I've been applying as a care assistant to UK care home offering visa sponsorship....i've not been contacted for interview. i worked on my CV and all but to no avail.

Can anyone direct me to a care home that is recruiting currently. if i can just be interviewed.

Somebody please Help me.

For the past 4 months I've been applying as a care assistant to UK care home offering visa sponsorship....i've not been contacted for interview.
Can anyone direct me to a care home that is recruiting currently. Please help

Somebody please Help me.

For the past 4 months I've been applying as a care assistant to UK care home offering visa sponsorship....i've not been contacted for interview.
Can anyone direct me to a care home that is recruiting currently. Please help

Met this really gorgeous and hot girl...she looks like Doyin from BBN 2022...So intelligent you can have deep conversations with her.

Fast forward to two weeks later, after giving ourselves green light, i decided to talk dirty and naughty with her and this was her response.

i think its game tonight.

What do you guys think?

So i applied to a care home in the UK a few days ago and a friend advised that i send them a follow-up message on Saturday last week.

Toady, i got a response from them.

Thing is, i don't exactly know what to respond. i feel like there's something they want to know by asking this question and i don't quite know it.

Please, I've attached a screenshot of their message. Someone please tell me why they're asking this question, and how i should respond to it.


PS: I'm ready to relocate to the UK like right now, even yesterday.


Please Mods, if you can push this to front page so i can get the best comments possible...appreciate.
Thank you

So i applied to a care home in the UK a few days ago and a friend advised that i send them a follow-up message on Saturday last week.

Toady, i got a response from them.

Thing is, i don't exactly know what to respond. i feel like there's something they want to know by asking this question and i don't quite know it.

Please, I've attached a screenshot of their message. Someone please tell me why they're asking this question.


PS: I'm ready to relocate to the UK like right now, even yesterday.

sinkhole:
That is about 31yrs ago, right?
Keep your own today and let your children/grand-children also comment on it in the next 30 years, I am sure that your children/grand children will then claim that you enjoyed during your own time too

There will not be a country called Nigeria in 30 years.

Quote me anywhere.

Bruh, you are careless sha. Maybe you have some money for repairs or to get a new one. Probably you are tired with your lappy.

You shouldve known when the rain increased beyond the level your bag pack can handle. you shouldve taken cover.

Wike is a man of unpredictable actions.

However, i do think that he has already seen a clear route to the Presidency. He firmly believes that if given the PDP ticket, he is more than capable of wrestling and winning the APC. I really believe him because he doesn't just talk...

DarkJeddi:
Na lie..
Big fat lie..
Ndidi was a deep lying midfielder throughout and did his job exceptionally well..
The very reason Aribo was able to go forward and be more involved with the attack..
That didn't make him the better player..
Unless you only judge football by attempts at goal..
With the exception of Moses Simon,no other player was better..

The thing is, what Ndidi does is not easily noticed. He reads the game and intercepts passes and connects with the attack. He is an intelligent player who give a lot of cover to the defence. He will be sorely missed.

No problem sha, there are plenty replacements. They may not be up to Ndidi's level, but they sure can do the job.

Straff the lady, man.

Then tell her how pleasant it is to not think conventionally. convince her how much fun it is to have her sexual urges satisfied without having to think about marriage.

Again if Morocco scores two in the first half and Gabon loses,the average probability of Ghana qualifying is 0.9 .But using P(n,r)/n!(n-r)where n is the number of goals scored by COMOROS and r=4,the rate of differing tendency goals.
Pythagoras theoretically and integration ally,If Morocco wears green on the final day and the refree wears indigo..Ghana will qualify.

A civilization drowned in Egypt...and the west are suppressing the history about this civilization.

We are all sinners as a result of being offsprings of Adam. We have inherited sin.

What that means is that we die. Inherited sin has brought death to us. Death is the price we pay because of inherited sin.

Sometimes, what a 25 years old man can see sitting down in his backyard, a 65 years old man on top mount Everest cannot see.
We have to be guided by love for our own people and our lands rather than a temporary selfish gain of the present. I've had a personal chat with Prof. Pat Utomi on matters relating to the subject here. I'm still surprised how a man of his age, education and knowledge (with due respect to him) would still believe that in Nigeria, issues could be straightened out through public conversations and discussions. I think many persons like him seldom consider what is happening on ground, they stick to their knowledge in politics. Nigeria is on the threshold of collapse and anarchy not just because of bad government (we've gone past that era) but because of a slave-master relationship imposed by the 1999 constitution.

Our senators and house of reps members don't represent the people but their pockets. If a new constitution should be developed for the people, there has to be a formal door-to-door consultation of people. Our leaders have failed us.

I have a savings account with Stanbic IBTC Bank, i opened this account in their Yenagoa Branch in November 2019. The bank used my details (Name, BVN and account number) to apply for a loan, received 750,000 payment, which i didn't get the alert and transferred the money to another account. Now its time to pay back the loan and i just discovered what had happened. I went to the Bank to complain on Friday the 29th of October. I spoke with the Manager who couldn't feign ignorance as the case was not the first. He explained that one of their staff who has been long transferred was involved in these scam. He wants me to lodge a complain, he says they will address it.

I think this is a criminal act to impersonate me in order to obtain a loan...i would like the lawyers in the house to advice me. can i sue this bank and possibly fine them for this criminal act? What are my chances if i sue?
What should i do, please give me suggestion because i have to act fast, as i have to start paying back this loan by February 2022.

Admin Please Push this to Front page, i need help. Thank you.

DubaiLandLord2:
Even though GMB is underperforming, he is still one of Nigeria best president to ever rule.

And he is the best we don have since 1999.

Any community that is unsafe after community police is fully functional should have their self to be blame.

Make i catch you first.

Take the wool over your eyes VP Osinbajo. The Nigeria Project has been a smoke and mirror exercise. Don't be a Pharaoh, allow the regions to be independent or let them break away as a country. We are on the threshold of the red sea and you still chasing after us. Learn from history please. Nothing can stop the various ethnic nationalities in the country called Nigeria from disintegrating. i say this because anything less will not be a solution.

themanderon:
Nigeria's problems have defied all known rational solutions. Solutions that have been proven to work in other climes usually fails here and I wonder why it is so.

It's the foundation of Nigeria that's the problem. In other words, it's the way Nigeria started that stifles its progress.

Nigeria started as a business venture. Following the revoking of its charter in 1899, the Royal Niger Company sold its holdings to the British government for £865,000 (£108 million today). That amount, £46,407,250 (NGN 50,386,455,032,400, at today’s exchange rate) was effectively the price Britain paid, to buy the territory which was to become known as Nigeria.

Their purpose was to exploit the oil resources for their benefit. BTW they discovered the oil 50 years before they announced it. It was used to fight the first and second World Wars. Moving up north, the Brits met the Fulani jihadists somewhere between Benue and Illorin who were on a conquest coming down south. They brokered a deal and the jihadists agreed to wait until after independence to continue their conquest. They had vowed to conquer the entire south until they dip their quaran in the Atlantic.

So Nigeria started as a business venture and it still is...the Brits put the northerner in charge of Nigeria, so they can sit in Buckenham Palace and have control over the resources in the south without having to face the resistance of the southerners. The fraudulent 1999 constitution was put in place to encourage the further looting of the resources with impunity. A country cannot have such foundations and still succeed. It is destined to fall apart because of the injustice and corruption.