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Business › Re: CAC New Website Issues by Mide3367(m): 10:12am On Jan 07, 2021
naijadrivablog:
So, the one wey I pay don losshuh
no it isn't... But how much sef? 600#... Over look am biko
Business › Re: NIN Holders May Be Charged N15,000 – NIMC Official by Mide3367(m): 6:00am On Jan 07, 2021
Why would u people react to fake news posted by the op? Cant u see that he said u should read more? What if u click the link, na something else u see?
Business › Re: Banks Not Doing Enough To Protect POS Users by Mide3367(m): 5:58am On Jan 07, 2021
Banks generally don't help victim of fraud catch the culprits at all.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: PART TIME EMPLOYMENT FOR STUDENTS IN HIGHER INSTITUTIONS (2.5K – 5K PER WEEK) by Mide3367(m): 5:56am On Jan 07, 2021
Thief
Business › Re: CAC New Website Issues by Mide3367(m): 5:54am On Jan 07, 2021
Redo the payment
Business › Re: Mine Owners by Mide3367(m): 9:49pm On Jan 06, 2021
I havs in Drcongo but not in Nigeria. Interested? My contact is on my signature
Business › Re: 1 Dead, 3 Injured As Ibadan Cocoa House Elevator Collapses by Mide3367(m): 8:47pm On Jan 06, 2021
New year don dey bad smal smal o. God airpus
Romance › Re: Shoot Your Shot And Meet Your Dream LOVE by Mide3367(m): 3:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
RubiesBanking:
grin

Keep wasting your time looking for dream love, dey never show you pepper yet Mr. Ola
mad o grin. Love na scam
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mide3367(m): 9:38am On Jan 06, 2021
Mide3367:
see these selfish women

4 Nigerian Women Share Why They Regret Having Kids

After asking some Nigerian women to share why they do not want children, we asked some that do have children if they regret the decision. These four Nigerian women share why they regret having kids.

Abimbola, 44
Maybe regret might be a strong word because I absolutely adore my children, but since I turned forty, I had found myself asking a lot of “what ifs”. I got married when I was 23. By 25, I had my first child. 28, I had my second. 30, I had my third, and 32, I had my fourth. I spent over a decade of my life birthing and raising infants and toddlers. People say that the twenties are the best time of your life, but I spent mine changing diapers, birthing children, and breastfeeding.

My thirties weren’t any better. I had to deal with those small children, school runs, teething, all the other things. Now, I am in my forties and I am dealing with rebellious teenagers. I wonder if I will ever be free from being a mother, and just be an individual. I wish I had forged a career path, done more than go to the University in terms of my education. and just lived. All I really wish, is that I got the chance to live. If I never had any children, I would have probably been able to do more things for me.

Fadeke, 37
I have just one child, and she almost killed me. I got pregnant three years after marriage, at the age of 30. The entire period through the pregnancy up until the birth of my daughter was hell. My husband tried his best, but he could not take the pain away. Nobody could. I had gestational diabetes while pregnant with her. Now? I have type two diabetes. I wonder what my life would be like if I never had her. Being sick for the rest of my life is not something I envisioned for myself. Sometimes when I see my daughter, I feel a type of resentment towards her. I know it is not her fault, but I just get angry and cry. I feel like she stole something from me.

Elizabeth, 30
I had my son when I was 22 years old, as an undergraduate in a school in Nigeria. It was a one night stand, and I forgot to use morning after pills. A month after, I found out I was pregnant. Till now, his dad is nowhere to be found and I’m honestly not bothered. I love my child, but I often wish I didn’t have him. It’s been tough raising him alone with little help from my parents. I often have to split my income into two, with him getting the larger portion. I also haven’t been able to be in a successful relationship for a while now, as most men do not want to be associated with a single mom. Having children in my opinion isn’t really necessary. I can’t make plans without considering him and it’s tiring, exhausting, and painful. I’m at a point in my life where I’m not sure if I’d want to have more kids. Sometimes, I just want him out of my sight and very far away from me. I cry most times and I snap at my son a lot. I often regret doing it, but I can’t help it.

Chidera, 32
When I got married, all the women in my family spoke about how children are a blessing and I thought so too. What they don’t tell you is how children rob you of your dreams. I did not even realise until my seven-year-old asked me what I wanted to be, and then it dawned on me that I was not even close to achieving that dream. When I was in my 20s, I wanted to be an Economics professor. I never got to do my Masters because I became pregnant, then I had to wait for two years to reapply because of breast feeding and nursing. By the time she started school, I got pregnant again. I love my children, but I realised I sacrificed everything for them and that made me resent them just a little bit. I keep wondering what life would have been like without them, and that life sounds more like the dream I had when I was younger. Talking to my husband about it was useless because he could not understand it. He did not have to drop everything in his life to raise children. I did, and I really wish I didn’t.
isn't the bolded great guys? she wanna give another man a bastard to train. Imagine.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mide3367(m): 9:36am On Jan 06, 2021
see these selfish women

4 Nigerian Women Share Why They Regret Having Kids

After asking some Nigerian women to share why they do not want children, we asked some that do have children if they regret the decision. These four Nigerian women share why they regret having kids.

Abimbola, 44
Maybe regret might be a strong word because I absolutely adore my children, but since I turned forty, I had found myself asking a lot of “what ifs”. I got married when I was 23. By 25, I had my first child. 28, I had my second. 30, I had my third, and 32, I had my fourth. I spent over a decade of my life birthing and raising infants and toddlers. People say that the twenties are the best time of your life, but I spent mine changing diapers, birthing children, and breastfeeding.

My thirties weren’t any better. I had to deal with those small children, school runs, teething, all the other things. Now, I am in my forties and I am dealing with rebellious teenagers. I wonder if I will ever be free from being a mother, and just be an individual. I wish I had forged a career path, done more than go to the University in terms of my education. and just lived. All I really wish, is that I got the chance to live. If I never had any children, I would have probably been able to do more things for me.

Fadeke, 37
I have just one child, and she almost killed me. I got pregnant three years after marriage, at the age of 30. The entire period through the pregnancy up until the birth of my daughter was hell. My husband tried his best, but he could not take the pain away. Nobody could. I had gestational diabetes while pregnant with her. Now? I have type two diabetes. I wonder what my life would be like if I never had her. Being sick for the rest of my life is not something I envisioned for myself. Sometimes when I see my daughter, I feel a type of resentment towards her. I know it is not her fault, but I just get angry and cry. I feel like she stole something from me.

Elizabeth, 30
I had my son when I was 22 years old, as an undergraduate in a school in Nigeria. It was a one night stand, and I forgot to use morning after pills. A month after, I found out I was pregnant. Till now, his dad is nowhere to be found and I’m honestly not bothered. I love my child, but I often wish I didn’t have him. It’s been tough raising him alone with little help from my parents. I often have to split my income into two, with him getting the larger portion. I also haven’t been able to be in a successful relationship for a while now, as most men do not want to be associated with a single mom. Having children in my opinion isn’t really necessary. I can’t make plans without considering him and it’s tiring, exhausting, and painful. I’m at a point in my life where I’m not sure if I’d want to have more kids. Sometimes, I just want him out of my sight and very far away from me. I cry most times and I snap at my son a lot. I often regret doing it, but I can’t help it.

Chidera, 32
When I got married, all the women in my family spoke about how children are a blessing and I thought so too. What they don’t tell you is how children rob you of your dreams. I did not even realise until my seven-year-old asked me what I wanted to be, and then it dawned on me that I was not even close to achieving that dream. When I was in my 20s, I wanted to be an Economics professor. I never got to do my Masters because I became pregnant, then I had to wait for two years to reapply because of breast feeding and nursing. By the time she started school, I got pregnant again. I love my children, but I realised I sacrificed everything for them and that made me resent them just a little bit. I keep wondering what life would have been like without them, and that life sounds more like the dream I had when I was younger. Talking to my husband about it was useless because he could not understand it. He did not have to drop everything in his life to raise children. I did, and I really wish I didn’t.
Family › Re: Irony Of Life... See Reasons You Shouldn't Marry... by Mide3367(op): 9:28am On Jan 06, 2021
Elizabeth, 30
I had my son when I was 22 years old, as an undergraduate in a school in Nigeria. It was a one night stand, and I forgot to use morning after pills. A month after, I found out I was pregnant. Till now, his dad is nowhere to be found and I’m honestly not bothered. I love my child, but I often wish I didn’t have him. It’s been tough raising him alone with little help from my parents. I often have to split my income into two, with him getting the larger portion. I also haven’t been able to be in a successful relationship for a while now, as most men do not want to be associated with a single mom. Having children in my opinion isn’t really necessary. I can’t make plans without considering him and it’s tiring, exhausting, and painful. I’m at a point in my life where I’m not sure if I’d want to have more kids. Sometimes, I just want him out of my sight and very far away from me. I cry most times and I snap at my son a lot. I often regret doing it, but I can’t help it.

Chidera, 32
When I got married, all the women in my family spoke about how children are a blessing and I thought so too. What they don’t tell you is how children rob you of your dreams. I did not even realise until my seven-year-old asked me what I wanted to be, and then it dawned on me that I was not even close to achieving that dream. When I was in my 20s, I wanted to be an Economics professor. I never got to do my Masters because I became pregnant, then I had to wait for two years to reapply because of breast feeding and nursing. By the time she started school, I got pregnant again. I love my children, but I realised I sacrificed everything for them and that made me resent them just a little bit. I keep wondering what life would have been like without them, and that life sounds more like the dream I had when I was younger. Talking to my husband about it was useless because he could not understand it. He did not have to drop everything in his life to raise children. I did, and I really wish I didn’t.




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Family › Re: Irony Of Life... See Reasons You Shouldn't Marry... by Mide3367(op): 9:27am On Jan 06, 2021
After asking some Nigerian women to share why they do not want children, we asked some that do have children if they regret the decision. These four Nigerian women share why they regret having kids.

Abimbola, 44
Maybe regret might be a strong word because I absolutely adore my children, but since I turned forty, I had found myself asking a lot of “what ifs”. I got married when I was 23. By 25, I had my first child. 28, I had my second. 30, I had my third, and 32, I had my fourth. I spent over a decade of my life birthing and raising infants and toddlers. People say that the twenties are the best time of your life, but I spent mine changing diapers, birthing children, and breastfeeding.

My thirties weren’t any better. I had to deal with those small children, school runs, teething, all the other things. Now, I am in my forties and I am dealing with rebellious teenagers. I wonder if I will ever be free from being a mother, and just be an individual. I wish I had forged a career path, done more than go to the University in terms of my education. and just lived. All I really wish, is that I got the chance to live. If I never had any children, I would have probably been able to do more things for me.

Fadeke, 37
I have just one child, and she almost killed me. I got pregnant three years after marriage, at the age of 30. The entire period through the pregnancy up until the birth of my daughter was hell. My husband tried his best, but he could not take the pain away. Nobody could. I had gestational diabetes while pregnant with her. Now? I have type two diabetes. I wonder what my life would be like if I never had her. Being sick for the rest of my life is not something I envisioned for myself. Sometimes when I see my daughter, I feel a type of resentment towards her. I know it is not her fault, but I just get angry and cry. I feel like she stole something from me.

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Family › Irony Of Life... See Reasons You Shouldn't Marry... by Mide3367(op): 9:26am On Jan 06, 2021
I came across a post on zikoko via my email and I read it. I was like wetin we come do for this life sef? see the link to the post and the messages of people who regret giving birth...
https://www.zikoko.com/her/4-nigerian-women-share-why-they-regret-having-kids/?utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email
Agriculture › Re: How To Make Millions From Onion Farming: The Complete Guide by Mide3367(m): 8:55am On Jan 06, 2021
thanks for this
Agriculture › Re: Nairaland Farmers Contact Details by Mide3367(m): 10:13am On Jan 04, 2021
Don't wait for rain before u can farm effectively this year
Irrigate ur farms
We have irrigation kits for sale
Ranging from drips tapes
Drip accessories
Spray tubes
Also we sell all kinds of farm materials and seeds
Chemicals
And many more
Contact me for full consultancy services on any kind of farming
We also set up farms in excellent way
Contact me on whatsapp https:///2347015585967

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mide3367(m): 9:08am On Jan 04, 2021
Guys, I came across a popular guy on facebook called hooman. He does this video weekly called gold digger. Ha I wan cry Wetin vagina dey do men because of just fine car. As in he will approach them randomly and try woo them vagina people but they go snub am with stories like I have a boyfriend blah blah. Guess what? He will then go change his cloth and drive his fine car back to same please these vagina person dey and the next is oh I love ur car. I don't mind going on a date with you. Common are going on a date with me or my car. I copied links for u guys to watch and u can also search for him hooman. Any guy that say not all women are like that is just joking big time. What these vagina people do at ur back ehn?. Chai huh huh

https://www.facebook.com/1553926271511448/posts/2625467614357303/?app=fbl

https://www.facebook.com/1553926271511448/posts/2717957745108289/?app=fbl
Properties › Re: FG Commences 300,000 Social Housing Scheme by Mide3367(m): 5:18am On Jan 04, 2021
Link to apply for the house biko someone share it
Agriculture › Re: Flowers Seedlings Needed In Ibadan by Mide3367(m): 12:53am On Jan 04, 2021
Check around u Bro, u will see some road side florist u can buy from. They are everywhere
Agriculture › Re: Hybrid Seeds Needed For 2021 Planting Season by Mide3367(m): 12:52am On Jan 04, 2021
pdf90:
Can someone please point me in the direction of a source of good hybrid seeds here in Nigeria?
I have some or even alot sef... Reach me on whatsapp 07015585967.

Agriculture › Re: Doctors Help Snake Just Bite Mom by Mide3367(m): 12:50am On Jan 04, 2021
Oh my God shocked
Business › Re: A Case Of Fraud By Fxchange Esuga Escrow And Mdbrand by Mide3367(m): 6:39pm On Jan 03, 2021
Na wa o. All these people scamming people of their hard earn money will surely not end well and funny enough, they will say that maga don pay. Like WTF?
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mide3367(m):
And here we go again. Simpsons are daft huh

Romance › Re: Man Reveals How His fiancee Cheated On Him With A Sugar Daddy by Mide3367(m): 5:51pm On Jan 03, 2021
bob55dave:
If you're guy reading this...
Never take girl seriously

I repeat never take girls seriously

I would have showed you guys something worse than this...
But it will be revealing tou many info, d shit is going to happen on the 27th...


Like I said never take girls seriously.
Even if its your wedded wife...
Hard to believe sha... I wish I could share what I know

All na wash!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Free yourself from that slavery and be free. You go still get d pussy no fear...
today na 3rd of January o Bro. Oya reveal am biko
Investment › Re: N16 Million For A Duplex In My Village. by Mide3367(m): 4:42pm On Jan 03, 2021
16m for house u no go stay?
Business › Re: I Need An Old Fiverr (buyer) Account by Mide3367(m): 2:47pm On Jan 03, 2021
How much will u pay?
Christianity Etc › Re: Femi Aribisala: How I Stopped The Rain At My Niece's Wedding by Mide3367(m): 2:44pm On Jan 03, 2021
This man na string juju man. An antichrist
Business › Re: My Horrible Experience With Blessed Friyo Motors Jibowu by Mide3367(m): 2:23pm On Jan 03, 2021
southniyikaye:
Go there often.
One day, person wey lost and person wey die go jam each other
exactly
Agriculture › Re: See The Proceeds From My Family's Yam Investment (Photos) by Mide3367(m): 2:17pm On Jan 03, 2021
Agriculture is the best jare wink

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