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stanliwise:
You’re right if you are dealing with a lady that balls(game players). Don’t apply this same ideology to a lady that does the same on her part. It is called the mirror strategy.

Fidelismaria:
Is it because I care ?

Is it because I love you?

Is it because I care ? Owa fi mi GBA star

Babi mi o de dakun

It's you that l like

2cul2care:
The honest truth is most naija girls, when they see a guy that cares, loves them unconditionally, spends on them, they start taking such for granted, some will even call him a maga, all because his a gentleman.

When such a guy now changes for the worse, you'll Start hearing things like "all men are the same" forgetting the fact that they caused that man to change.

What I've learnt now from dating naija ladies is

1) Never spend on them in the begging of a relationship, the one that truly loves you will stay regardless.

2) Never show too much attention or affection, most of them will interprete it as you being weak, and ultimately want to turn you to their maga.


That being said guys at saints either, we just have some devils dressed in trousers.

Nevertheless shout out to some exceptional ladies out there, who refuse to buy into the typical naija girls mentality, I have met quite a few, keep being exceptional. I love u ladies.

Zita55:
Op your matter tire person

brainfordetails:
Nice post.

This content will make me write my recent experience with a lady am dating.

She doesn't respect me in approach and scolds me on any little mistake.

MyOpinion1:
Same go for some men
When you show them love and care they take it for granted and take you for a fool.

purpinkx:
Imagine water having a say or setting the standard for what real fire should be like or vice versa.

You all need to pause, breathe, and realise that nobody owes you anything for being good to them.

I have a personal rule:

I treat people the way they treat me, and I treat myself the way I want

“Go where you are appreciated, not where you are tolerated.”

For instance, the other day, I went to the market to buy a water bottle to use when I go out to play lawn tennis.

The first shop I entered, I saw two water bottles that I admired. One was sky-blue and the other was stainless steel.

I asked the guy for his opinion, because the blue one had designs that made it look like something a nursery School student would use, but he was focused on a sports newspaper. I asked the second time, he said “hmm hmm”, eyes still on the paper.

I left the shop like it was an explosion scene, didn't look back. I entered the next shop and bought the flask.

I really don't care if the previous guy was from a certain region or not, neither did I try to school him in how a real trader should treat customers. Screw that, he lost my business!

If you're selling to me, at least RESPECT my money.

In summary, you are carrying love in a large tray on your head to hawk around someone, they are not responding ... Suck it up and look for another buyer.



Move what to front page?

Omar09:
With all these lamentations I have come to deduce that dating, having a girlfriend or getting married is not for everyone.

And until you understand what you want and go for it, you should not be in any relationship whatsoever. It is people who don't know what they want and their value that gets ridiculed by women in life.

deewhydoski:
It is better we start showing love to our male friends and family because if anything goes wrong in ur life, they are the one to stand by you. Hustle because of yourself not because of anyone.

Meeyankee:
This Coro reason you get time take write all these plenty things ?? May God help you.
So Na today you know say oloshow na Dey on rain now?

MrBrownJay1:
bro what you wrote made very little sense...



are you claiming that ALL MEN/WOMEN should be treated with respect (when many have no respect for their own damn self)?!



pls care to enlighten us as to what it is that you show that girl AND how exactly she takes it for granted?



it can be really annoying for someone to call all the time, "maybe" her not answering is a HINT that you maybe should stop calling her that often....especially if you have nothing important to tell her.



why didnt you keep your damn money you fool?! if she indeed did the above you mentioned then she does NOT deserve a gift!



are you saying that because you show her to the world, it is a NECESSITY that she does the same?! why would you want to show such foul awful woman to anyone?!



MUMU #1...better wake up o!!!!



na!!! thats because you are a damn fool, and thats how damn fools are treated. if a woman insult you then you shouldnt even waste life on that wild beast.



let me E-slap you, you MUMU!!!!!!! why dont you go and date these other girls, since that beast you are dating is not giving you tha attention you require/desire?!



as long as there are MUMUs like you, there will always be slayqueens out there who take advantage of donkeys out there.

here is a simple clue: whats so special about this girl that you are acting like a damn fool to please her. she is no better than the devil!



says the MUMU #1 who is buying gifts, calling all day long and making these slayqueen feel fly.... bro you are the reason there ar e slayqueens in this world...BLAME YOUR DAMN SELF FOR THAT!



its obvious you like bad girls, if you didnt then you wouldnt do all the above rubbish you mentioned!

Reality11:
Many are making it in business, Many are quitting the business and many more are venturing into it.

But believe me even if the former happened to you. When someone asked you this same question you asked me. You'll still tell them its lucrative, because that's the truth.

I advice you to start it. You'll be thrilled.

Reality11:
Not how much, but how well did you understand the business before you start investing.

Go and read from the first page

or reach the creator of the thread, enroll in his class and know the basics.

Then start the business gradually.

From there start doing your independent research to gain knowledge while you register names.

AccessME:
The 25 dollar has expired. Just use my number to chat me up on WhatsApp let me share an app giving 3k and a site giving $14 too

RoyalBlak007:
Sent

RoyalBlak007:
Sent

RoyalBlak007:
Account details

RoyalBlak007:
5k to 1 person who genuinely needs

Or 1k to 5 persons....


Please do not quote me with account numbers

AccessME:
Greetings y'all pls I need someone to help me with a temporary place to lay my head for a short time in Abuja or Lagos will really make me happy this Christmas and my life will be really worth it if I live where I currently reside even if u don't allow me for free, take me let's b paying the house rent together or get someone for me we can jointly rent and apartment not too costs.


If u are interested in making $25, mention me and I will teach u how to do and the app to use. My own give away will be on Christmas day.

tommyken:
You are simply a melancholic personality temperament. Am also one but immediately I entered the university I just got this confidence from no where. Now if you see me you may mistaken that i was born a lively person but the truth is I develop that boldness and inner straight by myself.

The first step to your problem is to stop playing life save. Stop getting afraid of critism, rejection or peoples face. Make moves in life and enjoy people insult or critice you. See, if you dont break out of that mental cage you will be limited in life. IMAGINE YOURSELF A KING AND FORTUNE WILL FIND YOU WORTHY OF IT.

machiavelli95:
And also inject enough demons into his life. No thanks. OP don't follow this advice

gentleibraheem:
an exact reflection of my life.
though I'm a kinda monitored.

iLegendd:
He should read this first to understand the power of belief and positive affirmation https://www.nairaland.com/5645115/