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Well, if u ask me...
A fruit hardly falls far from it's tree.
I guess his parents are somehow suppressing this part of them while he's amplifying their opinions.
If not, Y haven't they (publicly) called him to order as this isn't his first.

BluntCrazeMan:
This is something that true communication would solve.
Let them put heads together and solve the family’s financial mathematics.
With that, they would know how much each would be contributing,, or the amount the man would be dropping.
Simple.

But wait Y must there be a round table meeting before sm women can support their families, even while they earn reasonably?
I just don't get

Cardealer2021:
I will surely do that bro
Although I hate single Parenthood, but it's surely Bette than getting married due to infidelity of our Nigeria ladies

With whom do they practice d said infidelity if I may ask?
Doesn't it take 2 to tango?

degamonn:
The other parts are not really my concern here neither do have advice in that respect.
My concern is somebody who is working and she requires 1k every day as transportation cost of which proceeds are not used to the benefit of your immediate family is what baffles me.
You do that for love right? clap for yourself

Well, d lady is jst an ingrate (going by d story). My husband many times fuels d car I drive to work but I'm nt slack either. Many things he wldnt even realise I settled until much later. I jst wonder if women as such weren't married, wldnt they pay their own bills?

BluntNigerian:
Inost African families, the men usually tend to bear the whole burden without communicating with the wife, until he is just about to break down.
Then he would start seeking for help outside the family, even without letting the wife know.

Well, she wldnt knw d status of her husband's business if only they don't communicate at all.
However, must a man's business dwindle or d man complain bf a good wife decides to be prudent with or sensitive enof to her family needs. In fact, Y can't she just take up sm responsibilities since she works?
Isn't it honourable for d husband to come home in certain days to meet either a bag of rice, new 25kg cylinder+cooker, etc & when he asks, tell him "paid in full".
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Kobojunkie:
Husband and wife no be master and slave relationship. The man ought to sit together with his wife at the table, with paper and pencil in hand to plot out exactly how much it costs to feed the family regularly, and this should take place every month so they are in sync. Apart from feeding, the man should make certain his wife is aware of how much he pays each month for light bill, gas etc.

Also, he claims his wife works as well but how much did they both agree would be her contribution as far as upkeep of what is after all her own family?

Brother, u may be right but a wise woman builds her home. Must she&her husband go to d round table bf she can augment her very own family finances if need be? We're also family women&as high as prices of goods are, 50k for just feeding &nt all other bulk purchases is more than enof for a prudent woman. The man even claims to give her 1k t.fare or wateva every day- extra 20-22k. Haba! Make she fear God na. Abegi, d lady in question is a 'thorn in d flesh' if this guy is telling d whole truth.

Na today?
How many times have they been given such orders?
What measures are put in place to checkmate them?
It's innocent drivers that will suffer it.

ASUU seems to be d only body dt fights &stands. Labour unions have failed; every other should just stay focused once&for all. If not, we'd only be pushing forward d evil days cos Nigeria will eventually shut down, even if it's for a while.

It's gradually spreading to the seemingly unaffected regions.
Maybe Nigerians can now wake up&rise in cooperation to fight for d so much needed freedom without deceit and ethnicity bias.

NwaNimo1:
Are any trailers roadworthy in Nigeria?

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.....plus they're always overloaded - once overloaded the brakes cant perform as designed!


('F' = 'M 'x 'A')

They normally shdnt be as many as they're on d roads. If they av to however, they shd av time of movement&mostly special routes like weigh bridges in cases where heavy weighing vehicles were nt considered while d road were being built.Most of d items they convey shd be done thru cargo trains&transported maybe only short distances in heavy vehicles. In small Republic of Benin jst by us, u wldnt see any big vehicle on ur way to/fro work/schl. but our wicked leaders&their rich allies like Dangote no go allow since na frm Nigeria death dem dey chop.
But their days are numbered by d special grace of God!

WhizdomXX:
Oath for what?

That they wldnt disclose all they will go thru, asked to do&never refuse any orders of their "slave masters".

vibre:
Triple trouble, triple liabilities and triple headache for this man.

For a man ready to take responsibilities

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Make them give am automatic employment

Our useless/shallow-minded wealthy ppl, esp politicians won't see this one to sponsor a corrective surgery if possible. They'll only give peanuts to d ones dt will make them demigods.

dierich:
I read about someone that think he/she has heart disease yesterday.
I was in the same situation.
3 years ago, I was having some issues with my health.
Though I felt I was fine but the issue I had is I don't urinate well. No matter the amount of water I drank (5litres daily), I will only pass a very concentrated and little urine (less than half litres daily). T

The first 3 pictures are my kidney function test result 3 years ago
The 4th picture is the step I took 2 days ago

I don't know which part of the country u are bt do ur findings on a plant called "kidney cleanser". It's quite common. I wish u well.

axone:
Le Bénin, Le C I..

D'accord. T'es béninois? Moi aussi, j'étais au Bénin à Cotonou en 2010.

axone:
lol Village Français.. on dit qu'on maîtrise bien la langue française là.. Mais moi j'ai fais le pays francophone...

Ah bon!
Lequel des pays?

OkikiOluwa1:
When ll the gov finish Adigbe-Obada rd, Elega rd, Akute-Ajuwon rd, Sango ota rds etc?
Can't buhari commission via zoom

I tire oooo...

axone:
lol ton nom, et ta signature... sont tous en français... comment tu l'en as appris?

Oooh la la...
Je suis allé au Village Français à Badagry.
Et toi?

axone:
parles-tu français?

Un peu, pourquoi tu demandes?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Big woman I do know..the so called"pastor"is wrong and he shouldn't have done that..
Still big woman violence is not the way forward..ignore him and leave the church goes a long way..

My brother, I get but u know dt feeling when u suddenly realise dt u've been oppressed for so long&ur oppressor is right there...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Unfortunately violence is not supported from myself..there are many ways they could have handled the issue.. beating is not the solution..

They should be apprehended and prosecuted immediately..

I don't support it either bt oppression makes a wise man mad , u knw.

I love this story I Pet 4:17. Congregants should start holding their leaders accountable. I am a christian but most of these so-called men of God aren't Christ like at all.

To what end?
He&his colleagues should first retrace their steps to finding lost values&stop being puppets to politicians. This way, traditional royalty will regain its honour&we'll have a saner society.

Xilsbridalhouse:
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Good, she is obviously a good girl hopefully.

I and my hubby didn’t even hug as well not to talk of sex and we courted for a long time. If we can do it, you can also do it with God’s help.

Remember, time flies really fast and before you know it, it is your wedding night. The wait would be worth it.

God bless u&ur marriage sis. Same here; twas a strictly Christian courtship &I ddnt even know what his house looked like. To God's glory, we're waxing stronger X d day.
The devil has really eaten deep into this generation that 'everyone' believes dt courting is synonymous to marriage wch gives d liberty to have sex.

LokoH:
Not financially healthy and married at age 25 ? Ndi yoruba sef

Don't mind them. He never married her, he only impregnated her. See ow she was referred to as Ms in d article.

neonly:
If he was suffering from depression can't d wife give me support or encourage him why wait for his family not an excuse pls d wife would have gone a long way to help him in dealing with depression except she was part of d guy been depressed

How mature is the said wife? 21! What does she do for a living as a house wife? Were they really married or he only impregnated her?

[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=108562359][/quote]The site is a scam! They do not reckon with online applications since it would yield nothing for them.
Better you visit a less crowded state office like Akure, Osogbo, etc. in person.

And yet another I guess Sylvester's case triggered this propagation.
More schools & parents/guardians will have their hands on deck henceforth.
May God comfort d bereaved and rid our land of evil.

Na today? Talk is cheap. Implementation is key but how possible is all these in Nigeria of today where d land grabbers share d loot, even to d so-called traditional rulers&politicians.

Lexusgs430:
Tinubu records as a governor, should be his benchmark....... By drawing up contracts, to suit his bank accounts, taking over choice properties and lands in Lagos state etc etc........


Tinubu would be more dangerous than atiku + buhari (combined).......

I wonder how ppl av refused to foresee this.

Simplythebest:
My question is that didn't Tinubu be on 14 days or 7 days isolation before coming out juat asking. Or no Covid-19 protocol again in Lagos state

Aren't nigerian laws for poor people?
Which of those going upandan to see him before his return ever isolated either on getting there or on their return bk here?
God is d only poor man's hope in this country.