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Can you Imagine.
Women are very funny creatures, your gaslighting someone that helped you with 20k that you don't have , give him back his money, Ur belittling 20k but you don't have.
How is she even blaming d guy for something she clearly doesn't have God forbid I jam these kind babes , every time their app isn't working that's their slogan , avoid broke girls by all means o.
Nigga better sue her ass. It's not even about the money ,she's very very stupid to pull this kinda rubbish.

Welcome to the club OP ...
If you like cheat on her make your eyes peel.

starpower:
the smarter the crazier, enjoy craziness with smart people if judging by qualifications and early life achievements than those lazy ass that talk more than action. You need energy for all things to materialise.

Most of the intelligent women I've met aren't crazy at all they mostly nerds and highly introverted. It's u that know where u see intelligent women that are crazy o.

Dtruthspeaker:
Why did you not clearly say that you are not afraid of death? You cannot because you know that all the guilts you are guilty for, follow you through your life till the point of death. But you are living in denial.

You think you are the first and those who died did not live in denial?

You are joking. Your power of denial vanishes when death is near. Go and check any dying person and see whether they have any power to deny Truth.

I can't argue with you , When you become more spiritually aware you can let me know.

That's why I love intelligent women like mad , we would talk about politics , capitalism , culture and traditions, business ideas and philosophy, great and interesting topics , deep conversations about life.
Intelligence in women is so sexy likeee , teach me something I don't know , discuss greek mythology.

It's sad that most Nigerian girls these days has nothing to offer other than sex ,all they can offer is sex sex sex , sex this sex that , I pity for the next generation.

If you find you an intelligent woman better hold her tight. So Ur offsprings can be smart and make you proud.

Dtruthspeaker:
So the fear and great chill that occurs when people are about to die does not exist abi?

Well people fear because it registered in their belief system that there's heaven and hell and they most likely feel like they are gonna go to hell , but someone like me cannot be afraid cause I understand that there's no heaven or hell it's all tales by moonlight to keep certain people well behaved and mannered.

I'm spiritual awakened. Bye

Well For the Christian religious folks it either heaven or hell , for others I don't know.
Everyone has a belief system subconsciously governing them, for the Christians the fear of hell frightens them to behave morally upright.
But there's no prove that heaven or hell exists , because if the body dies , then the spirit departs from the body , making the body an empty vessel. A spirit outside a body flows up air, it doesn't follow the laws of gravity , a spirit is similar to air precisely , it cannot hold it cannot feel , it cannot touch like a active human body can , so if hell was real how then do you explain fire burning a spirit , since the body is left back on earth , it doesn't make any sense.


In the other the concept of wether heaven or hell is real is purely theoretical , there's also no prove that heaven exists , some brainwashed Christian folks would say heaven is in the sky or above the earth , that's gibberish, backed up with no scientific accuracy or data.

But to answer your question , I don't think anyone fully understands the concept of death but I do to an extent , you see death just like time is an illusion, it's not real , there are traditional ways you can communicate with the dead which leaves you with only more curiosity that if death was actually real why then can we communicate with the dead.

Death is like a trance , leaving one experience ( physical ) to another experience ( spiritual )
I for one think when one dies , there's a switch between 2 worlds which are the ( physical and spiritual world)

so when one dies , he/she goes into the spirits world , now the spirits world is complex unlike the physical world , no one can describe what the spirit world looks like , even people that have died and came back , they didn't enter into the spirit world , you can't return once Ur in the spirit world.
Whatever happens in the spirit world stays in the spirit world but then there's reincarnation so can come back to earth as a human , animal or any living thing. The circle continues until God get bored and pulls the plug I guess.

Rip to the keke man.

Living in Nigeria isnt for the weak , I've seen someone come into the office, slumped and died on the spot , young man in his early forties o. But what do you expect from a country that the life expectancy is from like 45 to 50

Only in this Nigeria , High rate of insecurity, high rate of unemployment, high rate of inflation, cost of living wants to kill the living , fake drugs , fake alcohol , fake everything , bad roads , crazy government, crazy civilians , crazy military and crazy forces , evil people , village people , to mention a few.

Persin go hustle , hustle ,hustle like say tomorrow no dey and u still can't enjoy yourself.

See As your making small small change , my broda , enjoy yourself o , buy bush meats and chilled palmwine , chop better fish , chop fish 100k yes , enjoy o. Don't die in vain.

Simply just leave her alone ,there's plenty more of her type even better.

20 minutes pre-intimacy , 10 minutes tatatata.
Repeat X 3

lordwoz:
What does celibacy do

Improves mental and spiritual clarity , clears brain fog , improves your hair and nails , improves bedroom performance and so many more

1. Being Tribalistic despite having a degree ,your degree is a waste o.
2. Praising and supporting APC.
3. Spending your hard earned money to impress Nigerian girls.
4. Thinking Hell fire is real. Lol
5. Thinking blood money ritual works.
6. Thinking having plenty children brings blessings , poverty go nearly kill you ,nor worry.
7. Spending hours on tiktok wasting data rather than learning a soft skill on YouTube.
8. Being overly religious , carrying religion on your head.
9. Thinking celibacy brings money or blessings.
10. Thinking Nigeria would get better one day.

There are so many signs of low IQ people , in this Nigeria ehn.

Congratulations OP , happy married life!!
Are there fine sexy women in the Gambia ?
Asking for a friend

Samantha125:
So people actually migrate to Gambia? Is there a country you Nigerians don't migrate to?

Just say congratulations to the OP , why do u have to attack Nigerians ?

Probz:
Whenever it is that you’re ready, not when aunties and uncles think you should be ready.

Sure

May1st:
I got married at 30. I didn't wait for any family member to pressure me into getting married cos as a man you should plan your life ahead.
You are almost 30 and you are enjoying bachelorhood which is fine. But do a simple maths.
At 50 years of age, how old would you want your first child be? What about the second? and maybe a third?
At 70 yrs of age, if your children haven't attained legal adulthood then you planned poorly.

My case, Now I am 40 and my last child is 2yrs old. When I am 60, she's 22 by God's grace while her older ones are more mature.
Please plan adequately while you enjoy single life. Good luck

Nice one sir....
I've planned my life ahead , you know sometimes plans falter. Doing good financially, currently I earn in two currencies , plus Nigerian naira as well. I have liquid assets , stocks ,bonds. Ntb
Asides from the pressures I've always been very mindful of the maths too , I don't want to have teenage kids in my 60s.

placeofallure:
This way you are ready to fly and be gone with the wind is one sure way to not get a reasonable lady to marry.

Patience, not foolishness, is one ingredient you need to have. We all slip up at one point or the other. When you are patient, it doesn't mean you are stupid. To study or research on anything, you have to be patient. That's why you don't get university degrees in one day.

Don't let girls have any idea about the depth of your pocket. Let her imagine you are both struggling. Good girls are fast going into extinction now but there are still a few good ones who'd love genuinely without ulterior motives.
I wish you good luck in your search but no matter what, don't be pressured. It will be at your detriment if the unfortunate happens. Let your mum know you are taking your time so you can pick the best.

Finally, like from a big sister now, stop philandering around. For a man too, it doesn't make sense!

Thank you Big sis..
I'm not playing around with girls on purpose , it's a coping mechanism for the pressures I face , but i would reduce it to the lowest minimum probably find one active sexaul partner while I look for my future wife.

Definitely those days , less hookup culture , no chat gpt no Google. Things were better then ,life felt very peaceful then , unlike this era where kids are killing themselves cus of low likes and social media engagements.

10thTenthMan:
At any age that you can

-PICK A REASONABLE WOMAN(. THEY ARE SCARCE)
- WISE, BOLD AND STRONG ENOUGH TO PROTECT
- EARN, PROVIDE & FINANCIALLY STABLE
- SUPPORT & BE A GOOD COMPANION
- EMOTIONALLY GROUNDED AND REGULATED
- POSSESS WISDOM TO LEAD THE FAMILY UNIT
ETC
ETC

I have all these attributes here except for picking a reasonable woman , all the ones I've met are far from reasonable...
And my type of person , I don't believe in patience with women , one little slip up , one little mistake and I'm gone like the wind.

Cum4me:
na wen you text HIV positive you go understand what it means to be taking drugs everyday for the rest of your life. Just dey play you go understand soon. Toto na life and death sedrum u think say u dey enjoy Solomon time HIV no dey

I dey use protection, no shaking. Plus I only do clean girls.

ibechris:
30 is good to settle down.

But don't date a liability in preparation for marriage.

If u do,u might be setting yourself for a great financial down fall.

A terrible one at that.

I have been married for 10years...my greatest luck was that I married a wife who sees marriage as a team ensuring that we win all the time.

She was my school mate and we married when I was 32.
Today,I will say with certainty I have no regret in being married.

Finally,if u are not financially argute pls avoid marriage...

Nice one sir .........
I'm thinking 30 or 35 , well for finances , I'm okay in that aspect , I have a few successful businesses. I can comfortably take care of 2 to 3 people so it's not a Biggie.
I'm just low-key scared of marriage ,I've seen many marriages go bad , my parents , my uncles and aunts , even my broda too , it scares me a lot.

I just pray I find a good Nigerian woman.

Hhh4444:
it's also very lonely at the bottom. Money contributes to people's happiness. How can a man that barely feeds be happy?

Well after the man has had enough money to take care of his stomach , what next ??

its just like post nut clarity when your Hot all you think about is sex but after you nut , you become disgusted or tired and suddenly the sex might no longer appeal to you anymore. That's the same way money works. When you don't have it , you want it badly but after you have it you suddenly realise that it doesn't give that happiness you thought it would give you when you didn't have it. Most especially after you've settled all your money problems.

The truth...
Money doesn't entirely bring happiness , if you feel otherwise it's because your broke and when your broke you see or think of money as a god but then when you have enough of it , it becomes boring , Ur brain is now looking for something new that's challenging cause apparently your money problem has been conquered already.

Even the things that once use to shark you before doesn't shark you again , that's exactly the same way money is.
I pray you have enough money too sha so you can experience and realise that money doesn't necessarily equates to a happy life. It's very lonely at the top.

Funny thing is most of them where very active against protesters within those years of their service. Peaceful protesters back then that were protesting for a reformed govt , Una fire them tear gas e dey sweet Una , now see Una life , ohh my dear karma how sweet you are hahahaha

Y'all what's the best age to get married and why ?
Me I'm really enjoying my single life but my family is pressuring tf outta me to get married. It has gotten to the point that I no even dey pick my Momsy calls again cus I know what she wants to say is about marriage.
Next year I would be turning 30 so I'm just trying to figure out from other men like what age did you get married and how as the experience been like so far. Good or bad
Make I know cause.....

Left to me I wanna continue this single life and have many baby mamas lol.... ( King Solomon 2.0)
Single life too sweet , especially if you get OT to scope babes and you still get money again.
I don chop Christian girls ,Muslim girls , traditionalist girls , cele girls , ogbanje girls , Ibo girls , yoruba girls , Hausa , Benue , edo , Togo , Cameroon girls etc
Tell me why tf should I settle down nau , I dey plan to chop SA girls next followed by Kenya girls lmaoooo.

Thought Provoking question from the OP.

Well I believe in life everything is predestined to happen , God has written the scripts of everyone and we are just acting out various roles that has been written.
There's no freewill , we are thought to believe that theres a free will but there's no such thing as a free will , if there were free wills the world wouldn't be what the world is today. It would be filled with more greed and evil than ever cause everyone would wants to show that they have power.

Everything is presdistned to happen , every human has a role to play , everything happens for a reason and nothing is random , and that's why I don't believe in coincidences. Everything is connected to a purpose like a book that's starts in a very good way can end badly, but when you start reading it you can't tell yet.
People that commit suicide has been predestined to commit suicide , it's written , if it wasn't written then that person wouldn't commit suicide. Every action we take or we don't take is written already and we are just acting out our roles.

I believe God has created every human for a purpose , God is a master designer and has created every human with a purpose In mind , remember nothing is random. Blind , deaf , dumb people are created by God for a purpose , and everyone of them acts their purpose. Some would be rich not because they understand the principles of money but because it's written that they would be rich.

Once upon a time I had a very loyal ,gentle and loving girlfriend, she was the best thing that has happened to me but I broke her heart and when I asked myself why I did that , I couldn't find a answer , then something whispered to me that exactly how it was written , no matter how I felt bad for breaking her heart it had to happen because it was connected to the script that has been written. It doesn't necessarily makes me a bad person.
It doesn't have to make sense to you but it's written.


Ask yourself this question , why can't I get everything that I want exactly the way I want ??
Reflect deep on this question and you would realise it's simply because you don't have any freewill. People are good and people are bad not because they decide to but because it's written.

The Yoruba Divination of IFA , how do you think IFA is able to give a 90 percent correct prediction about something?
It's simple. it's because your story has already been written, and IFA is able to read your story and tell you a chapter youve not gotten to. Simply because everything and everyones story has been written.

we don't have a freewill , we don't.
And just like I said God is a designer and poet , he writes according to his own understanding and will , the ways of God are not understandble to mankind and you can't understand his ways.
He is very unpredictable.

This is my belief , everyone is entitled to theirs.

There so many foolish Nigerians and it's a shame and disgrace , Pres D. Trump issued a statement , he stated that the Nigerian govt should take actions to putting an end to the innocent killings of mostly Nigerian Christians , and some very dumb Nigerians are saying ehn the US has ulterior motives , the US is after our oil and so many other gibberish.

All these just from a statement oh , not even a threat , just a statement. It's not news that the Nig govt and the Nigerian Military has been sponsoring and sending vital informations to the terrorists allegedly. They even killed Tolulope Arotile , that female pilot combatant , they killed her cause she was killing those terrorists mercilessly, so they took her out and every other officer that stood in their way. Abacha said and I quote " If terrorists lasts for more than 48 hours , the govt has a hand in it"

If you support the Nigerian govt saying things like the US are after our resources, then your really sick , sick and have no human sympathy, the killings in Yelwata , are there a joke to you Karma is real , y'all supporting evil , karma would find you.

people advising the op to leave marriage , hope u know time isn't on his side any more , 41 years isn't a joke.
OP start a small medium business , do ur research they are lots of profitable business with at least 2 million and you can make good profits from if ur not lazy , look for a decent girl that's is hardworking preferably from the village and settle down , start with a one bedroom in low cost housing area , forget about having children for now.
When ur business is successful, start another business , make sure ur wife too is working. once you have at least 3 stable sources of income, u can start having children.

BlackAdam65:
You can be skeptical if you want, but don’t gaslight my experience. What I shared is real, and I’ve come to realize many others have gone through similar things too. Everyone’s path to awareness is different, so if you don’t understand mine, at least respect it.

You have a very long way to go.
peace.

nice one OP but next time carry ur squad or call ur squad to join you , 4 against 1 , them fit forget plank for ur head harm u pass like dis and its only sorry the girl would say. be careful.

listen young man your 100 percent responsible for ur life and the way it turns out.

Your problem is your mind , you think everyone hates you , you think things aren't working in your favour , as a man thinketh so he his. All the negative things happening in your life isn't due to mastubation it's you, ur attracting negative energy into ur life because of ur negative thoughts. pple are busy with life , but u must think that everyone is thinking about u 24/7 abi ? cus ur who ? everyone has their own challenges in life too. thinking people hates you or not is an energy and that energy would flow back directly into your reality. the universe operates on vibrations and frequencies , if u think ur not good enuf pple would behave that way towards you, ifvu think ur worthy ,people would also behave that way towards you. start practicing self love.

lastly a good thing becomes bad if it's done too much , why tf are you nutting 3~4 times a day , its harmful to ur health and ur organs.
take a break for 3 months and use that energy within the 3 months to attract a girlfriend that u can be having sex and companionship with rather than masturbating.

if you need me to coach you more, send a mail. I love helping pple grow , that's how I grow as well.

Sometimes dreams are a fragment of your subconscious mind coming in to play in ur dreams. Other times dreams could be symbolical , symbolism and warning depending on the context of the dream.
I think urs is something from ur subconscious mind and if it's a warning becareful of enemies acting like friends.