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Kimo21:
Youth is really an opportunity. Bad habits should be replaced with good ones. My mindset and overall health really changed when I started gyming. I will advise my fellow youth to do the same too. Most importantly don’t let anyone put you under pressure. You’re not a failure just because you can’t buy your broke girlfriend an iPhone for instance

How do have time to gym when your work takes almost all your time ? I wake by 4 am hit the road by 5 am , except Sunday , there's really no time tbh.
If only I had a high paying job with lot of time for myself I would be visiting the gym often.

Honestly I can't lie , life of a man between the ages of 25 to 36 is quite a lot of heavy task. Recently I've been working so hard that I've even forgotten what it's like to sit back and watch a movie or do something worthwhile fun , I barely even have time for myself , it's wake up go to work , come back from work prepare for work the next day and it goes on like that , same repetitive routine every single day.


I wouldn't lie sometimes I just ask myself what is the essence of all these hard work ? Cause its not like you have plenty amount of money to just say u know what , I wanna take a trip to Ibiza this weekend and enjoy myself but ofcourse i pay my bills and rents with these hard works so it kinda still pays ,just little tho.

Whenever I think of getting older and certain things aren't even in place yet I get really frustrated, cause the clock isn't slowing down and I know death is inevitable it's definitely gonna come knocking some day , living a life just to pay your bills and survive isn't a fulfilling lifestyle tbh , I've read about people leaving their high paying jobs to relocate and live peacefully on a farm with their romantic partners, i used to think they were crazy but now i understand why.

Society has even made it worse for men within these age brackets and now the pressure we mount on ourselves is scary , cause when we get to a certain age and we haven't achieved certain things we tend to go really hard on ourselves. To top it all the country Nigeria is a failed system, designed for citizens to remain poor and when you try to make it out of this taunting challenge,it feels like everything comes at you so fast ,but hang in there and you would be just fine , this is what i tell myself Everytime.
Men within the age bracket or even above pls feel free to share your thoughts , thank you.

Mhen Lagos is overrated ,I'm leaving Lagos soon cause I can't come and go and kill myself with all the stress involved with Lagos, I might move to ibadan or osogbo , man gas survive in this life. No be by force to live in Lagos.

Mercisharelove:
Hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah CHRIST JESUS

Show us your own private part , u dis bloody HYPOCRITE.

You see women are emotional beings ,they act purely based on their emotions ,this is why the love of a woman is as fickle as their hate. Make no mistakes as a man trying to get back a woman who has transitioned from love to hate , you are only making matters worse.

A woman's love for you is attached to certain attributes you possess as a man , if these attributes bites the dust, then a woman's love starts to dwindle. These attributes could be finances aka your pocket , attractive features , emotional maturity, words of affirmation etc in some cases these attributes you possess as man might not even fade away but a woman's emotion might just be at play.

Have you noticed most women are confused , yes very confused and its all because of their fickle emotions. Personally I've dated women who I thought could die for me with the way they loved me but I was wrong all along ,it becomes clearer every day that those times my attributes contributed to them commiting to me and when those attributes began to fade away slowly due to certain circumstances I saw their true colours.

No woman I repeat no woman has the capacity to give out unconditional love , except to their children ofcourse. Their love is as fickle as their hate. A woman can love you today and become your worst nightmare tomorrow. Very fickle beings. Most of Them aren't logical in their reasoning, they act based on emotions anytime and Everytime.
Why do you think most women return to their ex for a quick match when they are about to get married ? Emotions ofcourse.

Now this lecture wasn't created to downplay women or any sorts of that , after all we all need women in our lives as men. Women are just so emotional that sometimes you can't live with them but at the same time you can't live without them. Bear all this in mind as man looking for a woman , so when they start acting up you can understand it's just their emotions at play and that can save you a whole lot rather arguing unnecessary with them.

Most men would say marry a virgin to avoid problems bla bla bla o pls spare me all that bull crap, virgin women are the worst when it comes to emotions and they also masters of manipulation. Listen a virgin woman thinks she has lots of value just because virgins are scarce in today's society,so the few virgins feel like they deserve the world , I laugh in Chinese hahaha. Back in the days they were so many virgins and that was a norm , so they were no advantage monopoly, all virgin women acted and played their respective roles perfectly well, unlike today's virgins who demands heaven and earth, for what ??

This is just a clue of what it's like to be in a romantic relationship with a virgin woman , she would manipulate the hell out of you, so you better be wise as a man in these regards.
I once dated a virgin woman and day and night I was being manipulated, gaslighted , without even realizing. Everything she wanted me to do was for her own image , if she wanted me to get new clothes it because she needs me to look good so she can brag to her friends , if she wanted me to be emotionally available it was so she could use the relationship to her own satisfaction, everything she wanted me to do for myself was indirectly for her own self image.....
To be continued.

FRANCISTOWN:
Exactly! What's the title?

Say whatever u want , everyone has their experiences in life ,your personal convictions doesn't mean shit to me so as mine to you.

Truth is you don't sleep with just any type of woman , life is more spiritual than most of you think , my grand father of blessed memory made 3 types of ring for me to wear, as I've grown older I wear the 3rd one now cause the other 2 wouldn't size me again.

Once I touch a lady with that ring ,it gives me signal of wether to have sex with her or not. I've had girls seduce me and I won't still sleep with them wic pisses them TF out but I don't care , I can't destroy my life cus of pussy.

If u like call it Nollywood , this life is deep is I know. Voodoo dey o

I feel like the Nigerian government has heard a certain negative information about the upcoming protest due At August 1st , cause if the Nigerian government are deploying security forces everywhere then there's something fishy , for sure the protest will hold and it might turn bloody if care isn't taken.

This is meant to be a peaceful protest so why are the NG being anxious about it , if Tinubu was a smart man he would have addressed the nAtion And find a temporary relief to the fuel Wahala we are facing but no he is busy doing meetings with security forces and traditional rulers.

I pray this protest doesnt turn out bloody cause I smell war in nigeria , I think the NG too can testify to dat hence why they are so scared.

As for me I'm not backing out of this protest even it turns bloody enough is enough !!!!

NO Go warm Eba chop

Pls anyone using 9mobile here ? Has ur sim been working lately ? cus mine is just showing 3g I can't call , I can't receive calls , it's frustrating , I've linked it to my nin countless times.

Who go follow me make we go mount 9 mobile too , make we beat one of their staffs maybe their brain go reset , very useless network

Simps would never learn , even after she dumps his dumb ass again and comes back for forgiveness he would gladly accept her back with full arms , chaii simps no see this world come sha.

I can't remember the last time I toasted a girl but If you see my contact list it's filled with plenty girls both the ones I know and the ones I don't , na dem dey chase me.

I'm too busy putting my life together to be chasing Toto , that's just absurd.

Someone mistakenly sent me 26k ,I've been trying to return but it seems the person doesn't need it cause it's been 3 months now.
Well sha I'm not touching it , till the person comes forward with d right evidence.

[quote author=skultrick post=131165039]Only jobless people will protest. In all my life I have never joined any protest in Nigeria. The reason is because we are not a nation. We are not one people. The igbo man has no business being in same country with the yoruba man. Likewise, the yoruba man has no business being in the same country with the hausa man. The worse of it all is the igbo sharing same country with a fulani man.

I mean we are people of different ideologies.

Look at Europe, every tiny ethnic group have their country.

No protest can genuinely work I'm Nigeria.

BTW, the yeye northerners did protest during buhari tenure, it is tinubu tenure they want to protest.

Even the yeye endsars where many died for nothing they didn't protest. Instead they were looting people's business.

If this rubbish protest ever holds, many businesses will cry because all these hungry thieves will use that as an opportunity to steal people's hard earned money, of which the Igbo man will suffer the biggest casualty.

I urge every igbo man to arm themselves with cutlass and guns if possible.

To all the yeye obedients urging igbo people to join the protest, respect yourself and have Sense for once.

Any igbo man that joins this the northerners to protest is the BIGGEST F**L ON EARTH.

The northerners obviously want to destroy tinubus government. They hate to be out of power.

Again, I repeat, any stu**pid Igbo man leaving in the east or anywhere that joins this protest is an id**ot.

The fact is that no amount of protest will change the current reality Nigeria is facing. What we are facing now is the after effect of too many corruption, nepotism and every other rubbish.

From August, just like during endsars, I will Watch and read from my phone as zombi**es get killed.

All these your write up only justifies one thing and that is YOU ARE A COWARD, u keep making stupid excuses. I guess it probably because u have a job and u can manage to afford 3 square meals , well what about the other hard working Nigerians that work harder than you but still can't afford 3 square meals ?

We also all know that the endsars protest was hijacked ,not by the people protesting but people who joined the protest for ulterior motives like stealing and could you blame them ? if there were enough jobs and the Nigerian system was functioning properly,u think pple would stoop so low to loot other people's businesses ? Pls have a rethink B4 u point fingers.

This protest regardless of what tribe anyone belongs to is what we need , hunger and afflictions doesn't know only one tribe it collectively affects everyone. So if you won't protest, fine but at least shut your mouth up.

For the past few days the Nigerian government hasn't been having any peace of mind due to the nationwide protest set to hold on the 1st of August 2024.

I honestly think Nigerians have had enough , we've been toyed with , we've been humiliated and intimidated a lot, I think its now time for Nigerians to demonstrate through a protest how government should represent her citizens and not turn deaf ears to her pleads, enough is enough.

My only prayer is that, this protest doesnt get hijacked; reference to what happened during the end Sars protest where people's businesses were being looted. There's enough hunger and anger in the land , lets show this government that we the people are the real power and They are just mere representatives.

Let's protest in unity and solidarity , The problems of Nigeria are too numerous in this 21st century where issues of power supply shouldn't even still be a problem but yet it's one of our major problems , what about inflation, insecurity ? You can't even travel on road as freely as you would back in the days , these days kidnappers would kidnap a poor member and lets the family go and squeeze their already poor selves for money , bandits too , common , who did we offend , what sins did we commit to be facing all these undue hardships , haba mana !!!!!!

fuckJones:
Obi sued Hon Onanuga hastily 😂😂😂
Help me ask when will he sue People’s Gazette
So let’s conclude “YES DADDY” audio is 💯 l

Ignorance is a deadly disease , there's what they call settlements , it doesnt has to be public.
I believe a settlement was offered to Mr Peter Obi by people's Gazette legal reps , cus if he had taking them to trial , without evidences it would have damaged their reputation badly and pls the yes daddy voice was Ai ,if it was brought in court a professional would have been brought forward to tell if it was an actual voice or AI , Why do you think the people's Gazette hasn't brought up the issue ever since then ?

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It's still baffles me how men would see fire and still enter it all in the name of romantic relationship.

Listen as a man you are the prize , start acting like one.

She shout at every slight argument and uses plenty curse words too. Said her body count is zero but she has 2 sugar daddies in lekki , said if we got married she can't cook or do laundry that it's me that gonna do that or I hire a house help lol.

Every time I didn't bend to her will , she would say i'm toxic. Said I'm confused and I don't know what I want cus I didn't do what she asked me to do. She is a master of manipulation and deception but when u correct her she would turn d table around and come for your head.

Said she's a virgin but then when I asked her to moan on phone she was moaning like a pro trust me I know a pro. She lies like mad , using church activities to cover her dirty lifestyle cus her Dad is a pastor lol , fooling her parents but not me , if she's having a bad day rather than talking about it she would be transferring aggression to everyone. Thank God I left. She was a death trap.

Focusing on business and uni at the same time isn't so easy , except it's a part time Uni.
So give ur self at least one more year to hustle hard and then go to Uni for full time, u can just be doing side hustles on weekends to earn little extra income.
And since u have ur ond it's 200 level ur gonna start from , So time is still on ur side.

There's also a church here in Nigeria that when the GO arrives all members of the church are to kneel down.

Sometimes I wake up from my sleep at 3am and ask myself who swore for Africa ?? cus the colonizers did a great job in brainwashing against or true traditions and even a greater job in leaving us with enslaved mentality of religion. Only a few of us has seen the true light and we are liberated from the slaved mentality of religion.

The only true religion is humanity but sadly it's the opposite in Africa , have u thought about that ? How we despise and hate ourselves in Africa , even the black Americans aren't left out , I mean look at all the gun violence happening over there, why do we Africans hate ourselves so much ?

You see Nigerians ass licking religious leaders everyday , praying against poverty everyday , sleeping in churches , meanwhile the simple solution to their poverty might just be developing d right skill in accordance to their talents and being good at it. But no , they must go to church spend hours upon hours there fooling themselves . Begging Pastors to extorts them of their hard earned money.
But once they travel abroad they begin to see the light.
They become exposed to the truth on a larger platter.

It's even more painful that when you tell these religious miscreants the truth they label you as an atheist or a sinner or pagan , I just laugh. We have a very long way to go as Africans fr.

All these evening news papers and their biased opinions.

Damn nigga , u must be a real nigha!!!!

Church girls pussy are the sweetest , especially the sistas in prayer warrior groups , chaii. If dem ride ur preek ehnnn. And dem sabi moan diee , soft moan.

God pls forgive a brother.

Letter to my future wife.
My future wife I can't wait to bang you. I don't know how our paths are gonna cross but I do know for a fact that the day I meet you ,i would be liberated from the questions of whether true love exists or not, I would stare deep into your eyes and find solitude in your presence ,your aura shall elevates my confidence and together we shall soar like the birds in the sky free and wild.

To my future wife I can't wait to kiss your lips and caress your hips , I can't wait to shift your lingerie panties to the side and insert my rod which the great gods bestowed upon me and you shall moan with the ecstasy of bittersweet tone , our spark would ignite and probably burn down the roof down.

To my future wife , we would go on trips to foreign lands and explore their cultures, we would sip wine from the bottle of wisdom .
Your enemies shall I inherit and mine shall you despair.

She's good girl but that doesn't mean your gonna enjoy ur relationship with her , good luck tho.

Dis man lol , well first of thank ur stars that u know ur girl is portraying these attitudes , u see at age 19 most girls are serial pretenders and manipulators. Ur girl too is one of them tbh , she doesn't want to lose u no doubt at d same time she doesn't wanna lose her youth , I bet she still wants to date all kinds of guys, sleep around and party to her outermost satisfaction , u can't tame her, let her fly.

My advice is that you ghost her and move on to someone else more serious and if u still love then u have to wait till she's at least 23 at dat age she would have either advanced or slowed down depending on her mindset.

As a man if you can't control your sexual urges , u are finished as in ur life is completely destroyed . Imagine ur own daughter ,ur not thinking of the trauma she would face as she grows older , d daughter would probably hate all the men when she grows.
Cus of few minutes enjoyment , very stupid man. I pray dey kill am for prison Bastard!!!

Women are always single depending on who asks. If she don't like u she has a boyfriend but if she does like you she's very single.
Confused gender.

One week after sex she reached out and was blaming me for not calling her , "she said cause I have gotten what I want abi". This girl been the one throwing herself at me o. Truth is B4 me and dis girl had sex I never called her ,na she dey always call me , tf was she now expecting me to start calling her cus we had sex lol.

After sex Nigerian girls won't let u rest ,if they are not asking what are we , then they would put themselves in d girlfriend position Automatically and assume u guys are dating already and hell would break loose if you don't comply with her walai , u would start hearing som like dis :
After I gave you my body ,says a bitch whose body count is like meter number.
You have gotten what you want na dat why u are behaving like dis, bitch stfu, we both had sex ,me to I gave u my body.
Or they would just Start billing you outta d blues because they've assumed girlfriend position without ur consent.

Nigerians are getting ready , Tinubu wouldn't believe his eyes by the time Nigerians hits the streets . It won't be funny at all.

I think there's more to his death , cus in the Nigerian defence academy there's the crocodile , airborne and ranger courses, regardless of what arm force u belong ,u must do these courses B4 pop. So with that being said this man must have gone through basic swimming test which is the crocodile course. So how come in drowned ?
They killed this young man. There's no way he drowned.
The Nigerian Armed forces and competition na 5 and 6 , that's how they killed Tolulope too and said it was accident .