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We4all:
We already know this. But are you sure you are not one of those men that use money to impress a lady, then come online to form alpha male?

First of all I'm not an alpha male , i'm a very principled person. Second of all , yes I've spent money on ladies that were worth it cause they've spent money on me too. For example
One of my ex girlfriend back then once bought a whole full tank for me on my birth day with 50k cash too. Now thats the type of women i can spend on.

But I've never and i will never use my money to impress a woman on first impression.

dhiqson:
Congrats fam
Make men taste out of the cake too na.. lol

All that money dey inside different investment o. I don't joke with investment. I dey try get up to at least 30 streams of passive income , then I fit run giveaway then.

gentility411:
Baba, dey calm down abeg. U just set give us Bobo, na lie jooor!!!!!!

If you think I'm lying your correct.
If you think I'm saying the truth your also correct, peace .

Send me her contact , i like girls like that.

I won 47 million naira in 2023. I put it in Nigerian treasury bills. My money has doubled now ,it's still there.
Since then I've not won any game on betting, so I quit , I just play for fun now.

All those things hardly work , money is principled , if you follow the right principles of money , u would make more than enough. It's simple.
Tip : if any of these things online worked nobody would expose them tbh.

All those things hardly work , money is principled , if you follow the right principles of money , I would make more than enough. It's simple.
Tip : if any of these things online worked nobody would expose them tbh.

I've said it in my previous threads , it's men with low self esteem that are causing all these nonsense billing epidemic, all those baby send me Ur account let me appreciate Ur beauty type of men.
If you can't toast a woman without flashing Ur wallet or trying to impress her with Ur money , then u have serious low self esteem. Argue with Ur fore fathers.

They don't go to schools , uneducated , xenophobic bastards. They only know about sharing hiv.

Is it my eyes or she looks like one nairaland bitter feminist here? ??

U know who I'm talking about , don't you 😂😂

From your writeup , I can honestly tell that your looking for justifiable means to get rid of your girl , I don't think this is about BG checks ,though BG checks are very important. It's very important but let's be honest that sorta the least of your concerns here right ?
I mean it's not like you would help her family all the days of their lives na?? A little help here and there is okay to be honest but let's face the brutal truth here.
I think you don't really like her cus she's a Doctor ( if I read your epistle correctly) , and judging by the hypocritical nature of Doctors in general , you think she might turn out to be some sort of disillusion ,your probably apprehensive about the whole "shes a doctor stereotype thing" given by your accuracy In predicting outcomes.

And if you think I'm wrong ,well I'm very much looking forward to your refutation about my writeup. That being said I think you should look for the girls you said you like maybe a lawyer or a secondary school English teacher or something, lifes too short , so just do whatever gives you peace ✌️

Gym is a lowkey spot for hookup culture.
Not surprising, the number of babes I've entered from the gym alone is crazy , both married and engaged , funny thing is u wouldn't even know they are engaged untill you have slept with them. It's crazy

Problem with black man mentality, we believe in suffering so much , in fact we feel like nobody is truly worthy of success if they haven't suffered before , may God help us.
Cus tell me why your destroying a great project cus u feel like it was too perfect to be done by him , like how

Why What sort of animal does that ??

Jennyclay:
A mentally disturbed man

All Nigerian men need to go for mental evaluation

What did Nigerian men do to you ?? Why you Generalising ?

This how madness start , small small like dis.

Notice how every story here is about a man helping a woman not the other way around.

These eve creatures, Everything is about them. if they even manage to buy boxers for you , the whole world would hear about it.

Clearly you don't attract girls. If you attract girls , it's you that would get tired of sex.

Op
You married a lady that doesn't like sex at all , what do you expect? Your wife obviously thinks sex is for procreation and since she has gotten pregnant,then there's probably no point again. The truth is she doesn't like sex , no wonder you guys went on two years courtship without sex.

But your wife is good ,in the sense that you don't have to worry about her cheating on you , cus she doesn't like sex , so that's still a win.

I would advice you to find a side chick , have sex with your side chick. You can't eat your cake and have it bro. E no really go far like dat.

Listen y'all simps !!! I don't care if you've paid the bride price of a woman or not , she's still not truly yours. A woman would never ever be yours, whether your married or not , it's just your turn , enjoy the ride so you don't die having a heart attack.

You see Most Men love emotionally while most women love logically, it's calculated, that's why most romantic relationships in naija today are mostly transactional. ( The girls wants stuffs their Dads cannot afford for them in exchange for ordinary sex and the stupid guy would still end up doing all the work in the oza room , most naija babes are boring sexually , they would just lie down like a log of wood , Omo the struggle chai !!! )

You see women are actually smart creatures and most men very much underestimate the smartness of women often times , a woman might marry you without having the slightest inch of love for you , it's all calculated. Very calculated.

I'm saying all these in reference to the young man in the Nigerian army that died bcus he or his wife set him ablaze according to what I heard ( Allegedly). M

My advice to young men is that
Don't kill yourselves over women. Don't !!!!!

They are not hiding na , you just have to observe well , I met one here few years ago , very pretty girl , we had a great connection and all.

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Bro maybe she's just a private person , nothing serious pls don't break up with her , marry her if u can , she's your dream come true.

The problem with Nigerians is that we adapt a lot , now adaptation is supposed to be a temporary solution to a problem , not longevity, Nigerians has turned adaptation into longevity, we've turned it into survival , we've abused adaptation to the point that the government use it against us over and over again.
Adaptation is our weakness but we think it's our strength, cause there's only a point to which we can adapt to. Trust me life expectancy in Nigeria would soon be 20somtin , maybe that's when we would even adapt more

Samantha125:
Then do us a favour and keep focusing on reforming your country so that your people could stop coming to a country with the highest unemployment and crime rate.

You don't see us coming to Nigeria to complain with our issues, do you? We'll deal with them our own way and for a country that has been under libration since 1960, you guys sure are still in shambles.

It's funny how you're blaming us for the deeds of your two blockheads when your villages get massacred all the time in your country, is that also our fault?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

Hey !! why you picking offences ? the op simply narrated his odeal that SA isn't all that , so he had to come back to start over , your country wouldn't even stand a chance at any level with Nigeria if it wasn't for our failed governmental system , so stop all these noise your making.

A fool at 65 is a fool forever.
Anyways happy birthday Nigeria !!!!!

Bia op if your not catching cruise with all these Ur topics , then u sure need serious deliverance, strong one oh
Cause mhen wtf