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RomanceRe: Why Nigerian Girls Always Use Every Opportunity To Collect Money From Men by MikeofKd(m): 8:58pm On Aug 03, 2025
In this big 2025 if your still attracting or toasting girls that bill you before they can date you ,then your head is not correct.
RomanceRe: What Things Will A Man Do That Feels Gayish? by MikeofKd(m): 10:24am On Aug 02, 2025
Eating banana in front of Ur fellow man and looking in his eyes
Wearing skinny jeans
Watching big brother naija
polishing your nails and toes all the time
Being afraid to die
Lmaooo
RomanceClassism In Nigeria by MikeofKd(op): 12:32pm On Jul 27, 2025
The classism in Nigeria is quite funny , I've had quite a few experiences and honestly we have a whole lot of work to do as a nation.

First of all , what's the foolish obsession with the west ? We want to be them so bad and it's very annoying. Obsessions with iPhones , obsession with drugs and all sorts of wrong vices ; which I believe they call being woke lol.
Even some of your friends would cut you off if you don't have money these days.

Lol funny story I don't use an iPhone , but I once had to teach someone how to use an airdrop I also taught her how to use iMessage , so many people aren't even productive with their iPhones , just using it as a medium of class lol.

Now cause I don't use an iPhone , suddenly your already assuming that I don't have money or because I don't wear luxury designers you think I'm broke lol . Some Nigerians would act accordingly to whatever assumptions they have of you in their heads , and it's simply them judging by how you dress , the kind of phone you use , the kind of car you drive , countries you've visited , where you stay , d list goes on and on.
It's pretty easy to swindle people in Nigeria with fake life , so easy.

The most annoying ones are the ones that think you can't be on a certain table , cause what ? They don't know me , they think I don't belong there lol so they hate me for being there , complain and nag all they want but I'm on the table nau , what you gonna do about it
huh Ehn ?? you classist bastard. I'm tired.
FamilyRe: Man Shares His Ungrateful Friend's Response After Sending Him ₦20k For His Baby by MikeofKd(m): 8:05pm On Jul 24, 2025
Entitlement mentality is a serious disease , can you imagine ?
RomanceRe: Ever Randomly Think About Someone... Then This Happened? by MikeofKd(m): 6:16pm On Jul 17, 2025
It's called telepathy, your minds are connected that's why. It's not a coincidence.
Apparently in most cases when you think of someone too much out of the blues that person is also thinking about you.
RomanceRe: Simping Should Be A Crime....it should be illegal to be this stupíd by MikeofKd(m): 8:12pm On Jul 06, 2025
Imagine simping this hard for a girl that doesn't even know how to use I'm and am , is this even real huh What level of simping is this ??
That man is a walking dead !!!!!!
The girl even told you she doesn't feel the vibe and cheated but your dumb ass is still saying you want it to work , Kai!!!!!!
RomanceRe: A Female Colleague Of Mine Says She Likes Me by MikeofKd(m): 8:02pm On Jul 06, 2025
My guy tryput body asap , no dulling. As long as say she like you and she no go bill you unnecessarily. But dating a colleague isnt advisable sha so try go anoda branch and make the ship work out well.
RomanceRe: Why Do Girls Keep Rejecting Me? I Really Need Honest Advice by MikeofKd(m): 8:11pm On Jul 05, 2025
You don't approach women , you attract them. Once they are attracted to you then everything becomes easy from there. Learn how to attract women. It's not about how much you make , how good you look or how well you dress.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Men And Low Self Esteem..... by MikeofKd(op): 7:33am On Jun 23, 2025
kakaaa77:
Your blessings will be unlimited.
You’ve just expressed every thought in my mind.
Your understanding is truly remarkable.
Your brain operates on an Einstein level when it comes to relationships.
You have a rare gift for putting feelings into words.
Thank you for sharing such deep wisdom.
Amen brother.
And thank you for your kind words, it's an issue I've always wanted to express tbvh. I'm glad that you understand the message.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Men And Low Self Esteem..... by MikeofKd(op): 7:49pm On Jun 21, 2025
Lionessza6:
They'll start blaming Nigerian women for something they're known for globally; renting the affections of ol*shos grin grin. If you need quick cash just simply look for some Nigerian with a bit of cash and talk badly about your men and praise Nigerian men and you'll get cash Sametime; the easiest men to fool and put under your control with lies and cheap ego stroking grin.
After spending lavishly on girls , and the girls finally dump their ass , they would now come here and be crying useless tears.
As if they weren't the ones that started attracting them with money in the first place.
Lmaooooooo
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Men And Low Self Esteem..... by MikeofKd(op): 7:46pm On Jun 21, 2025
helinues:
Would you blame the ladies. You are actually right about the low self esteem. Some people can't impress ladies without money which got some of them spoilt and when they are broke, that's the end
Honestly, that's the only reason the dating pool is a mess rn ,naija low self esteemed men has ruined the dating scene fr.
RomanceRe: Most Nigerian Men And Low Self Esteem..... by MikeofKd(op): 7:26pm On Jun 21, 2025
goran3310:
How do you say you're a bum without actually saying you're a bum?

I'm against any kind of simping, but at the same time, I'm also against someone pretending to be a player when he can't even afford ice cream.
Cry me a river and when your done send me your account details for a lil ice cream.
Fr tho
RomanceMost Nigerian Men And Low Self Esteem..... by MikeofKd(op): 2:27pm On Jun 21, 2025
Lately I've been seeing a lot videos of women being interviewed and the sort of audacity these women have are somewhat disturbing. A woman saying she can't date a man earning 500k per month , another one said if a man doesn't have up to ten million in his account he has no business with dating a woman , different takes , Why huhhuh

Well its cause of low self esteem men that don't have any game. These sorts of men are very terrible at approaching women , they don't think they can attract a woman without giving her money or gifts. You would hear things like "Baby send me your account number let me appreciate your beauty" lmaoo. Your just a fool with money.

Now most Nigerian girls are playing along , they understand the game now , some are so shockingly entitled cause they think every man has low self esteem. A friend of mine asked a lady out the other day and she demanded for money to get a dress , Uber money as well. Lmaooo and the fool gave her money for those things. Tell me why she wouldn't see him as just another ATM card huh
Low self esteem, zero self respect , no sense of reasoning at all. Why should a romantic relationship be transactional huh??

I have dated girls that never asked a dime from me and I still didn't find them perfect or worthy enough to be with. So why are most Nigerian Men filled with so much low self esteem or no sense of self worth huh

You can't toast a woman with confidence and persuade her with your words or charm , all you know how to do is toast her with money and then when she starts billing you back to back you starts complaining that Nigerian girls too like money...
Funny thing is ,some guys would even go and buy a car just to impress a girl that's still jumping okada up and down lmaooo , no self worth at all . Whyyy huhhuh?

The dating pool in Nigeria is a big mess rn , thanks to the Nigerian Men with low self esteem and zero sense of self worth. You want to date a girl now , you would hear advice such as just make money bros , just make money yen yen yen , then after you finish making the money girls would start to chase you , lol it's gold diggers chasing you , you dimwit.

You too as man think about it nau , don't you want a woman that can spend on you ? Don't you want a woman that buys gifts for you even without any special occasion involved?? , don't you want those kind of womenhuh The kind of women that loves you for you , not your money , Don't you want that huh? No Its gold diggers you want instead, women that only care about your money , they don't even care if your dying , sha be giving them money....... And you call that love lmaoooo.

A man cannot even give his fellow man money or render help but if it's a woman they would go to the moon and back for her. I see the other tribe sending girls to school hoping they would marry her eventually lmaoooo. (Laughs in disappointment). Zero self esteem.

If this thread teaches you anything today it's for you to start having a sense of self worth again , approach women without trying to impress them with money or gifts. Approach women like a real man should and stop making the dating pool a mess.

Thank you.
RomanceRe: Whose Side Is God On In This Current War? by MikeofKd(m): 3:33pm On Jun 17, 2025
God doesn't interfere in the affairs of men.
TravelRe: Why We Don’t Regret Moving Abroad – Nigerians by MikeofKd(m): 6:58am On Jun 16, 2025
Nigerians justifying that staying in Nigeria Is better than Japa dey always kpai me.
Nigeria is third world country ffs , an underdeveloped nation.
Imagine in big 2025 people are still shouting up nepa like fooooolsss , imagine the foolery.
Some foolish fools would also come and say ehnn u can get solar , why are you so daft thinking that it's everybody that can afford solar ??
Kidnappers in Nigeria these days don't even target wealthy victims anymore , they just kidnap random people and asks for ransom.

Check out the unemployment , involuntary unemployment is crazy , millions of graduate year in year out , no job , no nothing. Some would say they should go and learn skills , skills acquisition is free abi ??

You get sick and they tell you to drop a deposit before treatment, meanwhile patient is slowly dying but they don't care , everyone is all about their money , everything here is money , money ,money. Too foolish to realize that money is just figures it's not even real.

Seriously anybody that compares this shit hole Nigeria to abroad is seriously sick in the brain and needs urgent treatment. Smh
PhonesRe: Is It Advisable To Buy The Airtel Pocket Mifi? by MikeofKd(m): 7:18pm On Jun 15, 2025
I'm currently using the Airtel pocket Mifi , it's a good buy , long lasting battery and I usually get up to 90 mbps , I think the network coverage depends on your area sha.
If ur area has good airtel network, go ahead.

Mtn is great but the battery life is annoying
plus their data finishes very fast.
RomanceRe: I'm Tired Of Nigerian Women by MikeofKd(op): 9:16pm On Jun 11, 2025
janetbassey:
Good things take time and patience.

If you want what you deserve, you must be willing to work for it and also be the best you want to see in others.

For staters, don't be too quick to write people off. Most people, especially females show you the side they think you deserve.
.....
RomanceRe: I'm Tired Of Nigerian Women by MikeofKd(op): 9:16pm On Jun 11, 2025
janetbassey:
Good things take time and patience.

If you want what you deserve, you must be willing to work for it and also be the best you want to see in others.

For staters, don't be too quick to write people off. Most people, especially females show you the side they think you deserve.
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m):
janetbassey:
Hi, I was offline. Had some things to handle.

Yes, I will send you an email right now so we can email each other and keep it private.

It is wrong to keep displaying our personal information or details about our lives online.

How is your day going?
Just sent u an email now.
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 5:27pm On Jun 10, 2025
janetbassey:
Good thing you have learned how to balance work and relationship now.

Why do you want to get married?

A month ago, I moved from Abuja to Lagos.
I am still adjusting to Lagos life.

My Sallah was boring but some parents and students in the school I teach, came around and gave me Sallah meat (raw and fried).

I have been watching movies and sleeping a lot. I miss Abuja. Where do you reside?
Why do I want to get married ? Well you get a companion, kids ( a lovely family ) I also feel like if I dont get married any sonner , I might just giv up on that journey entirely. So it's kinda a time factor thing for me , but I'd rather still chill and find a decent woman than get married to the wrong one (that's going to be brutal) i hate divorces ( they are so messy).

Wow I used to stay in Abuja few years back ( stress free city btw ) now I'm currently working in Jos but I actually reside in Lagos. Would be back by August

Can u pls send me an email.
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 3:57pm On Jun 10, 2025
janetbassey:
Thanks for sympathy. I appreciate your kind words. 😊

I agree, honesty and keeping it real goes a long way with relationships.

What makes me happy? Doing things I like to do when I feel like doing them with someone I am into and hopefully, that person is also into me. I am currently single.

My last relationship was a big mess but I survived.

Lately, I have realized so many people aren't even worth it. For me, the connection (attraction and mutual chemistry) is the most basic part of every relationship.

Everything depends on how we get along.

How was your Sallah?
Your very much welcome.

Hmmm sounds nice , doing things with someone that has a mutual romantic chemistry is quite a lot of fun.

My last relationship was also a mess , most of it my fault tho , I would admit ngl( i didnt really have time I was mostly carried away with work) I'm currently single to stupor , been trynna find a girl to get married to but it's like I've not really had any luck with that so far.
I've kinda learnt how to balance work and relationships now tho.

My sallah was low-key boring , was indoor , slept like a baby , ate , saw 1 or 2 movies.
How did your sallah go ?
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 1:18pm On Jun 10, 2025
janetbassey:
As for the manners, my mother did a great job in raising me the right way. I am forever thankful to her. I wish she was alive so I can take good care of her and keep her happy.
She is in heaven so I am still happy.

What does keeping you happy entail? Last time I checked, relationship is a two way thing.
So sorry about your moms , she's in a better place now. Wish I could thank her for raising you the right way.

Tbh I guess keeping me happy entails truth and honesty, I don't like the faking it energy , keep it real with me and I'd be happy for life.

Yeah I agree , romantic relationships are always a two way thing. What keeps you happy ?
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 7:01pm On Jun 09, 2025
janetbassey:
Hmm okay. If you say so.

I hope you find a nice well mannered girl to keep you happy. Take care. 😊
You seem to fit the description of a nice well mannered girl , so come and keep me happy , I would take care (of you).
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 3:15pm On Jun 09, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Nonsense claim! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Being an arsehole to others is not logical but pure arseholery that stems from having terrible social and emotional intelligence. Stop going around lying that you possess the gift of logic when you don't. 🥱🥱🥱🥱
I'm more emotional intelligent than you tho.
I'm also quite logical than you , you seem not to understand the difference between logic and emotions , your emotional that's why you are spitting all these curse words in the first place , I'm logical that's why I'm giving u a reply without any curse words.
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 3:11pm On Jun 09, 2025
janetbassey:
How are you so sure you are a good person?
It's usually people outside of yourself that can attest to that after engaging with you.
Well I know I'm a good person cause I've helped a lot of people in need , coulda just minded my business but I helped anyways.

And I don't go around telling stories of pple I helped , I'm only saying this here cus it's a faceless forum.
FamilyRe: Is There A Personality Trait You Inherited From Your Parents That You Struggle W by MikeofKd(m): 7:28am On Jun 09, 2025
Yeah from my Dad actually, he is a cold hearted bastard , I do not have a soft heart but I'm a good person and I'm very logical too but I hate it so much.
My heart is cold as Russia , I can't fall in love like a proper human being, all the girls that truly loved me I broke their hearts to pieces , my heart is too cold for stuffs like love. It makes me feel weak. But I honestly wish Im not like that.
RomanceRe: I Dey Vex by MikeofKd(m): 8:36pm On Jun 07, 2025
Sometimes life can be a very tough nut to crack but it can always be cracked. Be true to yourself , leave other pple achievements, focus on your own growth. Be close to God but closer to the gods , be wise , read good books , empower yourself with knowledge , learn stuffs , invest in your talents and see how money comes rushing down. Peace and Godspeed
RomanceRe: Guys, Hit Me With An Interesting Truth That People Think Is A Lie. by MikeofKd(m): 3:46pm On Jun 02, 2025
I have this crazy theory that every knowledge we consume or have consumed in this world is false , history is false , religion is false , everything somehow has been manipulated in other to keep us blind , controlled. Life is deeper than deeper life.
RomanceRe: A Month Later I Still Can't get her Off My Head. by MikeofKd(m): 9:05pm On May 28, 2025
Serious confusion lol

Your ancestors had plenty wives and ur here getting confused over 1 , ya funny

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