Kdon2:


This one is definitely ibo wishing to be yoruba 😂😜

DUNKA:
na dem Garfield work but thank God we don show them wotowoto. APC officially dead and buried in Plateau State

slivertongue:
The EO's of Jos North and the SPO's are always involved in criminal conduct.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Tinubucocainesn:


How can it be your business

Ronu 11 razor face

ECASH120:


You be fool and you didn't even watch the video. It didn't show their faces

JASONjnr:
Fintiri should just shut up, he's one of the governors with no major project attached to his name......


He has no reason to return to the office.....


APC made a mistake to fill up a woman in their space. If it was a good contender, Fintiri would've been a goner.....

Legitisreal:
Obi don lu le again

Failed to get his gov candidate elected in osun, Plataue, rivers, Delta where he personally went to solicit votes

Na only igboland dey listen to his top to bottom foolery

ogoloray:


Tah, 1500

yemclef:
LP will still win the state

Moventist:
Plateau is PDP. We voted LP in presidential but Guber is PDP. We don't tolerate nonsense from the slave of the jihadish (Lalong). That's why we ensure he failed his senatorial seats and his LGA was won by LP

Yorubalandlord:
LP from top to bottom

All obedient are you readyyyyyy!!!!

Saturday is here already, make your vote count.

There is dignity in labour.
We are 100% sure lagos, abia, Delta, enugu and plateau is going to labour party.i'm in plateau also an obidient but PDP is taking plateau no two ways about it

Whereas our principal will recover his stolen mandate soon.

Brace up

babyfaceafrica:
One of the greatest Men of God alive

He doesn't make fake predictions, doesn't engage in Partisan politics, a father of all nations. A detrialise Nigerian!! Happy birthday sir!

Urbanchampion:
I honestly would have loved an Igbo to be President, at least for equity and fairness, but Asiwaju has been around for too long to be denied this lifetime opportunity.
Igbos' time (not peter Obi) shall come, make them calm down and allow City boy lead us to prosperity.

burp18:
I don't care who wins so long as that Obi fraudster loses.

ENGINEERG:
If anyone tells you Peter obi can not win again, tell them he is now sure to win 14 states plus FCT from the 36 states. The states are:
Abia
Ebonyi
Enugu
Imo
Anambra
Edo
Rivers
Cross River
Delta
Akwa ibom
Bayelsa
Benue
Plateau
Taraba
Fct.

The core North that obi won't do well, will be majorly divided by 3 candidates( Tinubu, Atiku and kwanswaso) and obi Will get something too.
South West will still be divided too, whereas South east and South south won't be so divided,and obi will get landslide victory there.

so let no person tell you it's not possible again, its so POssible

nairalee:


If Tinubu win I will kuku leave NIgeria for una

nairalee:
Oshiomole has been singlehandedly coordinating and stagemanaging Tinubu throughout his rallies. if not for Oshiomole, Tinubu's gaffes would have been worse, sometimes he literally dictates to Tinubu what to say.

Dont be surprised after election he'll be given one of the juiciest positions.