₦airaland Forum

cococandy:
yimu.

You're alphas and you can't even govern yourselves successfully. All those beta men have managed to fix their countries to an acceptable standard at least. While y'all alpha dudes keep leading yours to ruin. Proliferating the entire landmass with offspring you can't cater for. You're either running to their countries or waiting in yours for the so called beta men to come save your sorry asses and help you make a future for your children.

Shamelessness.

point to a beta in government
Clinton
Romney
Kerry
Hilary
Trump
Alphas lead betas follow
It's betas that get pushed around by their women
We're talking domestic matters
Don't change goalpost

hahn:
How people with such a rich culture believe that an illiterate carpenter in impoverished Israel deserves their worship eludes me

culture of poverty and backwardness ba

Henrolla:
The ever-increasing lack of self-discipline in our beloved country is seriously alarming. this counry will get better if citizens can act better even in the absence of the law enforcement agencies.



Meanwhile, HAPPY SUNDAY TO EVERYONE!

no country has self discipline
You need law enforcement

NextGovernor:
Nigerians are set of people that are very difficult to control. Just imagine the same way that was suppose to be implored to Goat is now extended to Humans... Some Nigerians and their barbaric nature.

very easy to control
Govt just lazy

TonyeBarcanista:
Governance has been reduced to caricature

is it their fault that the voters are ignorant

If dem rape dis wan na
Na cry she go de cry upandan

ItsQuinn:
There's love in sharing .....although I disagree in the terms that; my partner get to know the truth of my earnings because it can lead to some disadvantages like my partner avoiding most of his responsibilities, both of us having one account is a no no, him deciding what and what not to do with my money ( I earned and work hard for that money, it's my money so I get to decide not him), and lastly; Nothing will ever make me to surrender my whole salary to my partner when I'm still in my right state of mind, only slaves do that

why will you marry a lazy bones

WinningSun:
maybe I should show my uncle who lost his all during one their crisis how friendly they are.

my dad lost everything in his village. Should we run away from there too.
Crisis is crisis anywhere

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#2ecc71]A divorce is too simple
1st I'ma take him to court for the emotional damage the public shaming he gave caused me.
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Then I'll divorce him and collect a fat alimony payout.
I wanna hit his wallet, were it hurts most
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in Nigeria?
Are you high?
Hahahah
It's in Yankee you can do all that one
That's why there are so many pussywhipped gay gays upandan trying to get away from you feminists
Enjoy the loneliness or the beta males you're breeding

samsam2019:
oponu ayirada, I used to support your dulkard president a D i voted for him but I stopped when I realised he's brainless


I don't support politicians blindly. They are all dirtypigs including your president buhari

shows you're the oponu
You voted without thinking
Do you hear us complainin
You want to lose weight you go to the gym
Nobody said it was easy
Just that it was worth it
Dullard like you
Who told you politicians need your vote
There are millions out there so hold your vote till 2019

cococandy:
There's no way someone with 2k monthly income can sponsor another person's college education in America. child support
Feeding money
Not school fees
Besides, no marriage no green card
No American free or loan education

Not with rent/mortgage to pay, kids school fees, feeding etc. to name a few.
you have all forgotten conveniently when it was that 2k that was carrying the disloyal bitches and the childre
because money Don come na
To hell with the guy
Is not their fault
Is the eediot that didn't marry them in the village and bring only his children abroad
Rent alone for a family of seven people if they are managing will consume 1000-1500 a month (very tight squeeze). Very.
You obviously know nothing about what you're speaking.

They tell y'all lies garnished with half truths and you're jubilant all over the place eager to condemn the woman because that's what gives you people joy.
where is the joy in death jail and orphans
We're just saying we understand why they snapped
But you women just want to carry the dentist torch
Is it good to deceive ppl
Is it good to take 20 years of their life
Their children
Their freedom
Their dignity
Their manhood
Is that what you're planning for your husband if you have one?
Haba think am na
He didn't cheat
He didn't abuse you
You could have left
You could have sold the house and given him half
When a person has nothin to lose
They become very dangerous
Just common sense
No joy No one wonders or even pauses to think how possible some of the stories are.
He won't tell you she worked full time to support the family while in school full time with heavy course load, while also keeping home plus pregnancies and series of childbirth stress (of course she had to or she will be labeled the evil woman who doesn't want to have a child for her husband).
is she the first woman to do it
Our mothers did it and we appreciate them for it and so do our fathers
When she's done, he wants to have total control over how she spends the last dime and if she's not happy with that, then the forged stories start emanating from left and right.
was he carrying women or doing big boy
Or was he stopping her from buying frivolous things when there are more important things to cater for
Mind you he is minding the kids so cannot get second job
The Nigerian nurses in USA probably make up less than 10 percent of all the total nurse population. We wonder why men of other nations don't have the same problems y'all seem to have with your nurse wives. Figures.

cos other men are betas
We're alphas
Why do you think other women will soon collect us from you

Amelian:
Back to sender.
U go tey dia without a wife or even girlfriend.. No woman will look your way. Amen.

And better go and freeze your sperm... Goat

I'm a guy
My sperm is good till whenever
But you my dear have limited time to dig gold

armadeo:
Chop knuckle jaare.

N.a. dem want n.a. dem suppose dey write down our demands.

We suppose dey talk.

Finish


Lol. Dude you made me laugh like a mad hyena.

abi na

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff] I'm American. And if he talk 2 me like this in public as a so called punishment, i'ma show him just how crazy American can be [/color]

you ready for the divorce

Ymain:
broke nigga wat is 30,000 naira forget it. pocket change

Abeg I need 30k

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#2ecc71]then that's an entirely different matter
But er....he need 1 learn 2 phrase things better.
It sounds so chauvinistic[/color]

what if like our president he gives you all he can afford and has never tried to clip your wings and only said this rough phrase cos you embarrassed him in public

dfrost:
Of course he's not losing. So he won't complain.

Toh so which recession are you talking about when clearly he is hammering

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#00cccc] I'd ask him if he lost his dog gone mind am i his wife!!!!![/color]

what if he has ringed you

dfrost:
Yes, I know but will he be confident to say that about his own economy when it faces downhill?

It's easier to tell someone sorry about the loss of something than accept the same sorry over your own loss.

he is not losing now. He just said so. Those that lost ran

Ibb

They are the ones that need our oyel. They are the ones that need paper.

dfrost:
Will they say this about their economy of it faces recession?

smart investors make money in both bear and bull markets

kodded:
may you bury your children

m
Shebi na you de push for anoda man's wife to tackle him on international TV abi you're a victim that is looking for other beta makes to join you in the suffering that is spousal abuse

cococandy:
Why does he have 5 children with an annual income of 24k dollars? Who does that? Except mor0ns who think the world owes them and will cover for them when they eff up.
ah maybe him born for naija besides that's why he invested in the nursing wife but now she want to buy Brazilian hair and when he says no she says he is controlling her
Am I the one that will pay for the children's upkeep and education? no be you (her) de drag custody?
He should get a second job and supplement his income because Even if he wasn't divorced and paying child support to his wife, his income is low and that means most of the financial burden is on the wife. With or without the divorce. Even worse now. Her burden is greatly increased and he's in one corner whining like a B.
second job yes
Leave the chudren with no baby sitter
Na social services una de play with
This mugu with 2k monthly income will still lie to any retardd who will believe him, that he's trained his wife in school meanwhile most people go to school with student loans and pay off when they start working. Someone that can't even support himself is lying that he trained someone in college in America as if it's beans to pay college fees here. touche
Beht no green card no student loan so same Noni

Y'all tell these foolish stories to those who don't know how things really are.

how are they?
Is it by force to marry for green card (smart girl)
Then strip the guy of 20 years of hard labour (stupidity of the highest order cos now he has nothing to lose)
Why not do contract marriage like Russian mail order brides instead of pulling the tigers tail

Jarizod:
[color=#679267] hard

Gns 101.. [/color]

SMH
Had to grab at straws
Primary school English

cococandy:
1500 dollars a month for five children.

That's 300 per child. Is that school fees or feeding/clothing or hospital or general maintenance money etc?

I have one child and I know how much it cost to keep her even though she's still a baby. Imagine how much it cost for one school age child how much more five. Five o.

So he's complaining about child support money that really goes nowhere when it comes to what his kids need. Does he realize his wife is carrying the brunt of the financial load of those kids?

Figures. We only always hear about what the man did. Sensationalism won't get you liars anywhere.

1500 from 2k salary o
Abi you no see dat wan
You're this kind of women

Nobleking2000:
Do you have any proof that they never loved each other that the girl was just pretending, do you?

Dat he went to the village to marry her does not necessarily mean that they never knew each other very well.
Knowing each other very well does not necessarily translate to a long lasting and happy marriage. We have heard of people who have dated for five to eight years but later divorced. also couples that once loved and cared for each other divorcing.

What do you mean dat DE man lacked the maturity to handle the fact that her husband now earns more than him whereas he was the person brought her to the United States trained her.

Do you mean dat he was not aware that if he trains his wife to become a registered nurse that she will earn more than him

how can you know somebody in 3 weeks max

FortuneTeller:
You have made my point. You want a woman to be remain "submissive" which means giving a man all of her earnings. Most Nigerian men making $31/hr will not give their wife unrestricted access to their earnings. When the tables are turned and a woman is placed in her new role, you should expect that she will act as a human being in her new role. No one is saying they won't share money. However the high earner is already paying the majority of the bills and family expenses. The high earner is going to expect the low earner to use a portion of their own earnings for things they would like to do. When a Nigerian man builds a house, it is his house and not his wife's home. Now do you expect a Nigerian woman to give a man all of her money without building a home or providing something for her family? Do you expect her to have nothing if the man leaves or becomes unbearable? I'm sure you do because it is the Naija way. For people with an unyielding Nigerian mindset, it's best they remain in Nigeria.

this is why you should marry with sense instead of marrying beauty or wallet or green card but clearly the girls knew the guys wanted submission
That's fraud

dealslip:
Why do you act as if the women give their husband's nothing in return. Why are our parent not insisting that we must take care of them or submit orur salaries to them because they laboured and sponsored our education. The dichotomy between men and women is biology and physiology. Stop thinking, women must respect you. Respect is earned not forced. If a man is in control of himself, he won't need anybody to respect him to make himself look in control. Women are human beings too with emotions, feelings and dreams.

women must not respect us, our wives however, must

dealslip:
I hope you aren't a woman. You seems not to understand. There is a common denominator in all the cases. The men would not allow their wives to fly because they are insecured about their wives higher earning power. You can not control another being, you can only control yourself. Most of you think that because you facilitated that your family leave together in the same location abroad with you, then your wives must submit their dreams and aspirations to you.

why didn't you show power in Nigeria so that he can decide to look for submitter jejely?

dealslip:
Shame on men like you who think women are inferior to you and that they are your slaves. Many Nigerian men are still in their man child stages. Most of them have matured biologically but not mentally and spiritually. In a system that recognises the right of women such men can never survive.

we don't think they are inferior or our slaves but if you chop moni there is a price to play.
If you don't like then don't chop, simple
How will you like it if an impotent guy deceiver you into marriage

FortuneTeller:
Please read what you have said. Pack your things and leave? Ignore him or divorce him? Do you think a Naija man will accept such "disrespect" from his wife? This is what has led to the murders. Due to the Nigerian mentality, there are no favorable options for the woman to have peace or leave a difficult marriage under such circumstances. She will be presented as the bad person. Please understand I am not encouraging anyone to leave a marriage based on a difference in payscle. The problem arises when some Nigerian men do not have absolute control over their wives. They immediately brand it as disrespect and resort to violent behaviors. why did the women pretend if they knew they couldn't go the whole 9 yards As I said before, Nigerian men must adjust because they put their wives in new roles once they take them abroad. agreed but that's not the ''contract '' they ''signed ''
Unfortunately many do not make the adjustment and the family is destroyed.

the girls deceived the guys hence the family got destroyed