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Darablog:
This thing called sugar mummy needs to be put into consideration, i'm sorry for the time you took to read this, but what do you think can be done to prevent scam on this sugar mummy issue in Nigeria and some part in Africa

**** This is a short story about me on my sugar mummy search****

I travelled from Abuja to Port harcourt to visit my bros and to also search for jobs since abj was not in my favour. After two months of steady job search to no avail, except d same 15 to 20k hotel, I got tired of it and decided to still try d sugar mummy thing since, from d site port mummy tend to pay more and they are more there.
I contacted one who told me to pay agent fee, which I foolishely paid to d account with a promise of connecting me to a mummy but till date no connection, he kept posting me that she has been taken by another client dat paid. A higher agent fee and dat I should be patient.
I did not give up I still continued searching but dis time I had no money so I usually plead for them to connect me and I promise to pay them as soon as I am paid but that was usually the end of the bargain wenever I broght that up.
I am now wondering if the sugar mummy are real as they said y will dey want to collect 5 thousand and 10k for agent fee, is she not suppose to pay dem? And I still know dat the sugar mummy are out there but they are not online.
I know you are wondering y I want a sugar mummy instead of focusing on geting a job, well poo happens and this was my poo. I have a high sex Libido so I thought to put it to financial use, since d market was showing forth but. Its over now.
Well right now am in Benin am studying for Msc, and have been doing fine...

I want your Views on this sugar mummy issue becoming rampant in nigeria, your advice and believes

ImaIma1:
Is it wrong for a man to do house chores?

dingbang:
My.d44 rule 2

Swizbank:
To cut long story short.
I met her few weeks back.she is in law, am in medicine. AM NOT BOUYANT WEN IT COMES TO CASH. But the truth is that i need a gf cos my body is telling me so. I have taken her to an eatery within school, we ate rice and soft drinks,costing about 1k.

She celebrated her birthday, few days back but she travelled home that day,and that saved me some cost though. Now, I still wish to do something for her in areers, so I told her to meet me in shoprite tomorrow. But I know, I will spend a lot in shoprite...I went to market today and bought a wine ( missionary) of 500, and wrapped it in a foil, bc if I should buy the same wine in shoprite, it will cost more. It looks presentable but relatively cheap, am sure she doesn't know difference in wine quality, so she wont know its just 500. I don't know weda its necessary to still take her to shoprite, cos I will spend , and I don't have much, and moreover, she has not given me any assurance. I don't want after spending, I will start hearing all those " am in a relationship " or " dont want to enter relationship "stuffs...

How do I go about this?

milemimi93:
With the bolded, don't even bother yourself.


Focus on what took you to school.


Nigerian ladies are in relationship for monetary gains...

Amakababe:
if you see any similarities between what I posted and the trash you posted them am sorry I can't help you.

Your frustration stems from deep down and it's best to leave you to them.

Keep shouting prostitute while stylishly telling us what your hogwash piece of trash excuse of a mother does for a living.

Amakababe:
first and most importantly, your mother is the only prostitute around here.

Now
If the young lad wants to keep a gf in school he shud be allowed to but he must simply double his hustle and stop lamenting for us.

Yes ladies need to be cared for. And it's not today that guys started joining education with hustle biko.
He can focus what brought him to school while taking care of the woman he loves.

Amakababe:
if you see any similarities between what I posted and the trash you posted them am sorry I can't help you.

Your frustration stems from deep down and it's best to leave you to them.

Keep shouting prostitute while stylishly telling us what your hogwash piece of trash excuse of a mother does for a living.

LivingDead:
The state i am in now is catastrophic. I've lost touch with reality. I just live as though propelled like a puppet but nothing is meaningful around me. The following are the reasons for my resignation to fate.........

Magichand:
Some official photographs of a 4-year-old Nigerian girl, are currently trending on social media, and have received accolades from virtually everyone who has come across it.

The internet sensation, Baby Jare, is one of the three siblings that lifestyle/portrait photographer, Mofe Bamuyiwa, took an interest in and involved in a professional shoot.

As soon as the beautiful photos emerged online, many social media users who were wowed with the beauty of the child, quickly described her as the 'most beautiful girl in the world'.

Bamuyiwa who took to her Instagram page and shared the latest photos wrote:
*****
"CHILDREN ARE A GIFT FROM HEAVEN.
I’m pretty excited and elated about my new style of child portraiture. Before I thought of Photographing the @the_j3_sisters , I have had frivolous ideas of how I can make artsy portraits of kids And do away from the norm .
The opportunity came and I had to take a bold step to express my ideas of how I want to take portraits of kids.

I want to portray the interception between her childhood and adulthood so both stay timeless. I could have made her smile and make her laugh out loud but I put her in their natural moments for us to see through their eyes.
Posing them as adults ! Was my trick to create it a timeless portrait. J A R E , when you clock 21 remember to do same pose and style."

Gist From Zenithnaija.com

More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/meet-baby-jare-the-4-year-old-nigerian-girl-branded-the-most-beautiful-girl-in-the-world/

lasmile:
Few of the appointees from the south are doing very well..

Where are Buhari's Fulanis and achievement of those of his kinsmen ?

Buhari spent the entire 3 years leading a government of HATE.

Here he's calling for the heads of those who make HATE speech.

VOTE BUHARI out for he lack competency to lead Nigeria beyond the damages of past PDP government.

#Shop4ABetterCandidate
#VoteManNotParty

His government has been tagged CORRUPT already with his Lopsided appointments.

That's my opinion.

Biglittlelois:
Smh!!!

thatNUPEboy:
No matter how true they seem, I don't know why I always find it difficult to believe screen-munched watsapp chats and twitter stories

Lets just give our comments to keep the world moving

Some girls can be funny. After you don deal with them, they weee say they are just testing your patience. You be God?

Very predictable set of people

frankkydee:
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NiklausAkins:
No offense and trouble intended...tho
Don't be tired of trying..

The "right person" is still there.. Just try at the right time and place ..

frankkydee:
But you are married

Oyindidi:
mention me in the thread

Newbreed2018:
Dear family,
I'm a young man of 31, an Introvert,, gainfully employed.
All my life I have always been an indoor person right from childhood to my nursery, primary, secondary, University and even at my place of work. I don't have friends, don't keep any. Even at my place of work my relationship with colleagues ends there. I'm a very loyal person. Loyal to my family, loyal to my wife and loyal to my Boss.
I decided to give a brief background of me so you all can know where I'm coming from.

I have 6 other siblings including my parents who are extroverts, they frequent out a lot apart from me.
My Dad is the chief extrovert of them all. Due to my introverted nature I hardly know people and people hardly know me except few. Most times when we gather for family reunion in the village my dad will want everyone to start going house to house of different people in the village to greet them but I don't. It's just not my thing. Nobody knows me and I dnt know much people in the village but they know of my other siblings. I hate going out, I've tried so hard to see if I can be social outside but it just don't pan out. I was born this way. Even in the flat I live people hardly know when I'm around or not. I hate to visit the village due to so many social activities that go on there and when everyone goes out I alone remain indoors. I don't watch football. Even the just concluded world Cup all my family members will be in the sitting room watching but I'd be indoors.

Is anything wrong with me?

I'm I normal?

People often misconstrue me as arrogant but am not.

Is everything OK with me?

MrBrownJay1:
as much as "some" mother are wonderful, there are a great deal who gladly MURDER/ABUSE/SELL their kids without a care in the world.

just because a woman carries a child for 9months, does NOT automatically makes her a great mother, lets be REAL here!