bittyend: The first sex is the "tie-breaker," that should be your aim.

"Can I be your bf/lover?" is so lame and old school before sexing the girl, do that when she has no other option than to say yes.

Thank me later!

Guy, gone are d days when men do that, Trust me!
When I say "Just friends" pls let it be that n take my word. If u insist n kip thinking sex will break it, then be ready for the worst.
This ur post just made me remember when a friend asked me "So you just used me and dumped me?" Abegi make i hear word jooo, once a girl dnt have feelings for u other than friendship, she never will.... Sex or not and u will even see behave like ntn happened btw u 2!

this whole writeup only remindf me of an ex but lets get this straight first, ur fiance is a male LovePeddler... He CHEATS on you!
That being said, ur situation will only get worse and heres d routine. He has already turned to a Monitoring spirit, he has already started shouting, then expect the slap, then more slaps, then it gets more physical, then d house wnt contain d shame any more n u guys will go public. Then the phone saga era, u wnt pick ur calls without him listening, he reads ur msgs before u do and finally u are left phoneless cos he will take it frm u and txt all ur contacts to txt u instead of calling u and they will cos they will think it was u who sent it. Then and only then will u realise dat u had time to walk away b4 now.
I learnt my lesson oo and since then, any man who as much as exhibits 1% of that attitude is a goner cos even cheetah no go see my break light.

freecocoa: Ah no no, not my patty please.
Chei this one pain me.
*crying while singing*

Onye kwere ekwe anwugi anwu o
Ohiga ura mgbe onuru opi ike oga ebilite
Oga ebili na enweghi ure obula
Onye ekwere ekwe anwughi anwu.
Ma ogbabiru nwuo ma oriariara nwuo
O doro anya na onye kwere nwere olile anya ila ni igwe
Jesus nke noo ni ime'm ya bu olile anya
Olile anya mbilite na onwu na ebube
Hicha anya mmiri onwu abughi ogwugwu
Mkpuru oka na ereghi ure adighi efulite
Onwu bu ihe ona mee
Onye kere ndu ya kere onwu
Onye si na obu ya kariri onwu?
Oburu go di onye tara amosu oga nwuriri
Onyiri onwu adighi na uwa
Ma onye kwere ekwe nwere olile anya.
Well may his soul rest in perfect peace and his loved once take solace in the song above, he said it all there.

Gosh, this song brings back memories with so much tears cos it was played at my Dad's lying-in-state over 10yrs ago.
I love his songs so so much, am shocked by this news...i never heard he was sick!

Anyi ekwerewo n'oge Chukwu
anyi gbacha nikanika, uche Chukwu g'eme
onye n'eri awo nya rikwa nke Chi goziri agozi,
rikwa nke Chi nyere, rikwa nke Chi kwuru!

Dika nwa ele n'acho mmiri,
k'obim n'acho gi Onyewem,
Nani gi ka obim na achó,
achoro m ikpere gi.

Kai, je nkeoma nnwanne mmadu, ka Chukwu nara ma nabata mkpuru obi gi na ndokwa... Amen!

No probs, i will only change my 2 BBs(and counting) when WIFI gets to everywhere in naija. Then i can use all d iphone and android gadgets cos they are still very much useless without working wifi signals. So till that happens, ama kip changing bb models and showing it off with ma pretty manicured nails....go get a life like moi...hahahaha

we once cooked as a family despite living in diff flats, my dad n his brother that is. My mum n aunt rotated turns each week to cook. Once it got our turn i felt for my mum and if we had to use chicken, we killed 2. And in dat big pot of "Ofe akwu" filled with 2 whole chicken parts, she must find the 2 gizzards n the 2 chicken azz to serve my Dad n his brother and notn else happens till she finds it. If d chicken happens to have those lil eggs in it, she reserves that part for me the last born....lol, how time flies. Now dad is late, we dnt cook wt my uncles family anymore, she either takes those parts or offers it to my elder brother.

Matured minded friends only, just wanna socialize, would prefer age range 35yrs and above... Male & female (2A0D24CD)

mimi13: I'd go to the grave before i be a bitch nigga
Better behave ur dealing with some rich niggas.... Rozayýyyy (Free Mason)

NL UNA TRY ØOO... Wetin be Naughty woman nigga Una try, doooh, i dey hail ooo

I'd go to the grave before i be a bitch nigga
Better behave ur dealing with some rich niggas.... Rozayýyyy (Free Mason)

Mine has even MR before his full name which includes his surname... Not worth all d love jones... Girls r NOT smiling

idowu or whateva dat dirty name of urs is, u knw most times u do strike me like a transgendered, u sad personality issues bothers me a whole lot and u seem like a very unhappy person to me, were u raised in a foster home? U need love badly, cos u just bash into ppls thread, spew trash n meaningless tns and ppl just ignore u, and for what? Pls carry ur touty behaviour somewhere else and mark my name very well cos dis will be d last time u ever leave a comment on a thread opened by me. U need to grow up madam/sir, ppl change wt yrs bt u just get worse.
And u @No wisdom, did u see any part i wrote i BEGGED for the money, apparently cos u got no wisdow of understandn a common write up. I do biz and anytn can happen at all times, money needs investing and i dnt have to wait for 30days to get money or decide what to do wt it. Go treat ur mad cow disease, i aint got d vaccines no more.
And why did i post this? The stupid friend tot it wasnt necessary for me to tell my friend all that happened, that i wud cause a rift between them, then tomorrow he will go behind me and talk nonsense. So to make hay while d sun still shines, i had to say it as it is and preserve my dignity even if it meant causing him trouble. And also for women to know its nt always about the money, but to stand ur ground and make ppl trust u next time.

yeah right @ms pookie, i had sex and still told my friend what happened? I had d money i went for, am not dating d one in london so i may still have had it if i wanted bt am not dat stupid, i dnt have one stands n i do respect ppl a whole lot.
@ it is well, yeah it was risky but i had to do what i had to do, life is all abt risk but with d physical features God blessed me with, dnt think one can pull a stunt on me so fast and i dnt take edibles from strangers no matter who u are esp in hotel rooms.

I had an emergency and needed cash urgently to settle custom duties so i could retrieve my package. Called up debtors but none cud raise it within that time frame. A friend of mine who is based in london who happens to love me read my pm on bb and asked me why i sounded low. Told him no problem bt he insisted and I spilled it all to him. Told me to give him time to make a call, and he called me back within mins, gave me a number to call up a friend and go get the cash from him. I did that and we fixed a meeting, got to the eatery and waited over and our b4 he showed up. Said i shud follow him back to his hotel room to get the cash cos he has bn at d mechanic all day n wtout dough on him. Getting there he brought out the cash surprisingly from his pocket and said he wud have given it to me there bt was overwhelmed by my charm and beauty and just had to have a chat with me. He told me dat my friend in london told him am a relative and since dats d case he wants to have a relationship wt me. He was all over me bt i remained calm but withdrew at every advance made. I told him i will think abt it but had to rush back home. Even d guy in london called and he told him i have gotten d money at d restaurant and ive gone home. I insisted on leaving, picked my bag n walked out wt d promise of calln him when i get home n also think abt his proposal. I Never Did!
My friend called and i told hin exactly what went down yesterday and he was furious and said when d friend calls i shud tell him that i have told him everything dat happened and i did just that. Immediately i sensed fear n shock in his voice, said i shudnt have done dat and shud have handled it maturedly, dat am trying to cause trouble. I said theres no need to be disturbed except theres something hes not saying to me. If indeed my friend told u that am his relative, then maybe u didnt do ntn wrong admiring his relative who he cnt date and u claim to be single BUT if he told u am his GirlFRIEND and u still hit on me after that and told me sumtn else to think am cheap and vulnerable, then u apparently summoned the trouble to come. And from it all, it was certain my friend told him i was his Girlfriend and even if we aint dating yet, he said that to hasten d transaction and also make d man respect me and not hit on me.
Ive had issues in d past with friends friend saying trash and when i started saying things as they were, ive said my relationships in d process cos some men are hell bent on having what belongs to their friends. My friend called him and he immediately began begging b4 he even said a word. I think i handled it matured enough... What do u think?

and u guys are talking and spewing trash about having an nl get-together party... Yeah party my ass, with all these hatred and malice. Let the bitter truth be known dat nigeria can NEVER be one and d better its broken, d peaceful it becomes. Where's d post of the YORUBA BOYS WHO KILLED AND MUTILATED THEIR OWN BLOOD BROTHER FOR MONEY? Why didnt it make front page? U think i blame d moderators? When all of them are yorubas including its owner, what do u expect? If comments start being demeaning n way too tribalistic, i suggest all other tribes shud leave their forum for them, LET THEM CHOP IT! Nonsense