The poor die, the rich also die.
I pray oh Lord that we live every day of our lives in the consciousness of your existence bearing in mind that we are pilgrims here on on earth and that there is more after here!

RIP to the dead!

The poor die, the rich also die.
I pray oh Lord that we live every day of our lives in the consciousness of your existence bearing in mind that we are pilgrims here on on earth and that there is more after here!

RIP to the dead!

Tirukkural by Tiruvalluvar ( a Tamil poet/writer) was written more than 5000 yrs ago. It’s one of the ancient science on Human behaviour, which has not changed inspite of modern education & technology !
SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS OF THIRUKKURAL

1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour.

2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you’ve lost them.

3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.


4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.

5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don’t let them chose what they want.

6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.

7. If your child does not respect other people’s feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them.

8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.

9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don’t successfully complete it.

10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.

11. If your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don’t follow through.

12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don’t trust that you won’t blow things out of proportion.

13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour.

14. If your child doesn’t listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to jump to conclusions

15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right

Hmmm

Wow!

Love your neighbour as your self.
Your neighbours include your workers.
Treat them the way you would love to be treated were you in their shoes.

It's satans fault!
He has phobia for anything God has interest in and would do anything to counter it including manipulating us humans using our needs, wants and weaknesses etc to achieve his goal!

The solution to this problem is living a spirit filled life!

Its disheartening that a lot of young people would model after her.

Everything is possible in America!

She obviously has health issues.

agabaI23:
You saw the caption, tempting photos, curiosity brought you here and you are now praying for their souls. Watch yours closely my sister.

Thanks for the advice!
Yes I was curious to know what ladies like I am are up to these days but definately not tempted.

The problem is as a result of lack of common sense/ the inability to reason.

Most of these parents just have these children so that they can change their destinies and take care of them even when they have clearly failed in their responsibilities as parents.
My God bless us with wisdom.

Its important to have the number of children you can effectively Carter for, why bring too many children into the world and be unable to give them a good life. They are not animals you just acquire without full time and individual dedication.

Children should not be seen as tools or objects of security. Your responsibility increases as the number of children you have increases and God will hold you accountable.

It's a pity that most parents bring children into the world to be parented by the children they should parent!

I will forgive him and pray that God enables him to change his ways.

I will engage him a discussion and bring to his awareness the implications of his actions on his spiritual life, health, family , myself etc.

I will asked that he opens up to me on areas he think I have come short so that I can improve on them.

The secret of my Joy is in my constant fellowship and intimacy with the Lord!

To be honest, nothing satisfys me more than this!

Wishing her all of Gods blessings in her marriage. May the Lord bless her union and grant her heart desires in accordance to his will and purpose for her life. Amen!

Nice one!

I pray the salvation of the Lord on their souls.
Amen!

Lordave:
Shut up and stop spewing rubbish!

Anybody that wants to prove the Osu practice is still in existence in Igboland tells this your lame marriage story.
Are you from Imo state? If you're not shut up and stop spreading hearsays as facts.

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I'm sorry to have annoyed you!
And yes my mum is from imo state and I grew up there.
She's from Owerri west, Nekede to be presise.
And the story I just told isn't hear say, it something I witnessed, the man was my mums relative and I know the lady he once dated personally.
You do not have to insult people to disagree with them or get your point across!

Thank you!

I think its still exist in some part of imo state.
I used to have a relative ( Christian )who dated this lady for close to a decade, she was with him when he had nothing and things eventually improved for him ,alas when he wanted to get married, he suddenly remembered she was osu and Married someone else.

So it's still in practice.

dinachi:
Submit to your husband in obedience to Gods word and enjoy heaven on earth in your marriage or suffer!

What then can you say of a woman who has submitted to a point that she became a doormat in obedience to the word of God. Yet she's not appreciated and her submission was taken for granted and used to maltreat her to the extent that psychotherapists got involved as she was apparently going insane due to all soughts of mind games and manipulation?

Tell me, is this Gods intention for any of his daughters in marriage?

Some men will cherish a submissive and selfless woman but others will not!

Men should treat their wives the way Jesus treats/ would treat the church.

dinachi:
Are you smarter than God? Wisdom of the world says submit only if he treats you nice but wisdom of God says submit whether he treats you nice or not. Remember while we were yet sinners Christ died for us. The genuine true Christian will not wait to be treated nice before obeying God. That is what you keep missing.

Do you think it's Gods plan for a woman to continue to suffer in the hands of her spouse and his family indefinitely to a point where she becomes suicidal or apparently going crazy?
Do you think that's Gods plan for her-- his precious daughter whom he bought with a price?
Does that kind of marriage model the Union of Christ and the church( his bride)?

It's unfortunate that we Christians twist the scriptures to suit our personal gain at the expense of others,in the last days people will be lovers on themselves-- Christ will never treat us bad! He layed his life for us befor we even knew him- this amazing love of Christ is the reason we all have hope and an eternal future with him!

The scriputures should never be used to support bad behaviour.

Never do to anyone what you will not like be done to you.-love your neighbour( wife ) as yourself!

It takes two to make a marriage work.
hmmm.. If only a lot of people know what women go through..some men are simply insatiable!!
Inlaws are a different chapter all together.
Yes! Women should be submissive to their spouses but she should never be dehumanised, humiliated, used and abused.

The men and their families( inlaws ) claim they love their children / grand children- how can you really love the children when you don't love or respect their mother and care about how your actions are affecting her emotionally and other wise?

What kind of children is she expected to raise in these condition?

Why is it that when the woman gets fed up and flees for dear life or files for divorce, someone then accuses the woman of being the reason the marriage broke down?
Must a woman die in the hands of another or end up Raving mad to prove she is loyal and submissive?-


Men.. God did not give you authority to abuse your wife or treat her like a piece of trash so that you can test her level of submission to you or assure yourself you are the man in charge, real men don't do that, boys do!

Bear in mind, that woman is Gods child, made in his very image and bought by the Lord with a price. it's not Gods plan for her life to suffer.
God feels her pain and he will hold you accountable.
Treat that woman with love,consideration and kindness.

I have a lot to say but will have to stop here for now.

Highway to hell.

LeoFish92: thanks flourish....that's a nice one

You are welcome.
Stay blessed.

I honestly will recommend that you follow your heart as God deals with each and everyone of us differently.
Do what gives you peace of mind because peace of heart is an indication that you are in his will regarding this subject.

We should avoid trying to prove ourselves.